FabSwingers.com forum: How do you get physically attractive?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How?! Are there easy things one can do? In general I mean, and not on Fab. It's deeply subjective and impossible to answer, but fun to hear and think about!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

War paint but I like my features

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

One persons attractive is another persons ugly. Yo stand out amongst all the other men all you need to do is be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do yoga

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"One persons attractive is another persons ugly. Yo stand out amongst all the other men all you need to do is be yourself. "

Yo yo

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Smile a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat and ugly?

Join a gym and just be ugly!

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Shave everything. Twice.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"One persons attractive is another persons ugly. Yo stand out amongst all the other men all you need to do is be yourself.

Yo yo"
I meant to say ‘You’

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge

I like humour, cleanliness, curves and nice feet.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts it will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely."

^ that's how you get physically attractive. Oh and have a shower and be clean.

I don't think you need to be a set size, have a particular hair style, rippling muscles or a golden ratio face.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

""A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts it will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely."

^ that's how you get physically attractive. Oh and have a shower and be clean.

I don't think you need to be a set size, have a particular hair style, rippling muscles or a golden ratio face. "

Definitely this

Well said babe xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Yet you can be stunning

And inside really be vile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've got hair, make the most of it. If you haven't, shave it. (-If the grass doesn't grow, get a patio..)

Try and look after your teeth.

Try and do something that gets you out of breath regularly to get your lungs and heart rate going, to keep in in shape.

Make the time to make food from scratch when you can.

Look after your skin/moisturize.

Keep an eye on your clothes, recycle/ give to charity to make space for newer items in your wardrobe.

Also you can't get too much sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is by far the most attractive quality

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"If you've got hair, make the most of it. If you haven't, shave it. (-If the grass doesn't grow, get a patio..)

Try and look after your teeth.

Try and do something that gets you out of breath regularly to get your lungs and heart rate going, to keep in in shape.

Make the time to make food from scratch when you can.

Look after your skin/moisturize.

Keep an eye on your clothes, recycle/ give to charity to make space for newer items in your wardrobe.

Also you can't get too much sleep."

What ya cooking me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^ that's how you get physically attractive. Oh and have a shower and be clean.

I don't think you need to be a set size, have a particular hair style, rippling muscles or a golden ratio face.

Definitely this

Well said babe xx"

Totally this…. Happiness, positivity and personality always shine through xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you've got hair, make the most of it. If you haven't, shave it. (-If the grass doesn't grow, get a patio..)

Try and look after your teeth.

Try and do something that gets you out of breath regularly to get your lungs and heart rate going, to keep in in shape.

Make the time to make food from scratch when you can.

Look after your skin/moisturize.

Keep an eye on your clothes, recycle/ give to charity to make space for newer items in your wardrobe.

Also you can't get too much sleep.

What ya cooking me"

Today i made a big batch of veg soup.

And some tiger bread to go with it.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

^ that's how you get physically attractive. Oh and have a shower and be clean.

I don't think you need to be a set size, have a particular hair style, rippling muscles or a golden ratio face.

Definitely this

Well said babe xx

Totally this…. Happiness, positivity and personality always shine through xx"

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"If you've got hair, make the most of it. If you haven't, shave it. (-If the grass doesn't grow, get a patio..)

Try and look after your teeth.

Try and do something that gets you out of breath regularly to get your lungs and heart rate going, to keep in in shape.

Make the time to make food from scratch when you can.

Look after your skin/moisturize.

Keep an eye on your clothes, recycle/ give to charity to make space for newer items in your wardrobe.

Also you can't get too much sleep.

What ya cooking me

Today i made a big batch of veg soup.

And some tiger bread to go with it.

Mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confidence is by far the most attractive quality"

True

And if someone is hot, confident, and a nice person

Well u hit the jackpot

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Lick your own elbows

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

It's a lottery you just can't win

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By *anityProjectMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"How?! Are there easy things one can do? In general I mean, and not on Fab. It's deeply subjective and impossible to answer, but fun to hear and think about! "

Just, like, be attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you've got hair, make the most of it. If you haven't, shave it. (-If the grass doesn't grow, get a patio..)

Try and look after your teeth.

Try and do something that gets you out of breath regularly to get your lungs and heart rate going, to keep in in shape.

Make the time to make food from scratch when you can.

Look after your skin/moisturize.

Keep an eye on your clothes, recycle/ give to charity to make space for newer items in your wardrobe.

Also you can't get too much sleep."

I like this!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

49.5 years of low self esteem and virtually no confidence before I discovered I wasn't invisible. Once I saw myself through the eyes of others it made me feel more physically attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^ that's how you get physically attractive. Oh and have a shower and be clean.

I don't think you need to be a set size, have a particular hair style, rippling muscles or a golden ratio face. "
said it before, The Twits Philosophy.

Pay attention to yourself. It shows self respect and thats attractive in itself.

Smile. Enjoy your life.

Things like lose weight possibly help but I'd say only so far. And not if it means becoming miserable.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Have style

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

A smile that reaches your eyes

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Stop worrying about being attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you've got hair, make the most of it. If you haven't, shave it. (-If the grass doesn't grow, get a patio..)

Try and look after your teeth.

Try and do something that gets you out of breath regularly to get your lungs and heart rate going, to keep in in shape.

Make the time to make food from scratch when you can.

Look after your skin/moisturize.

Keep an eye on your clothes, recycle/ give to charity to make space for newer items in your wardrobe.

Also you can't get too much sleep.

What ya cooking me

Today i made a big batch of veg soup.

And some tiger bread to go with it.

I’m a regular soup maker.. our veg soup is just called green soup! My kids actually ask for it & crave veg after they have eaten junk!

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By *onyjoCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

That is a beautiful thing to say x

^ that's how you get physically attractive. Oh and have a shower and be clean.

I don't think you need to be a set size, have a particular hair style, rippling muscles or a golden ratio face. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"49.5 years of low self esteem and virtually no confidence before I discovered I wasn't invisible. Once I saw myself through the eyes of others it made me feel more physically attractive.

I've found similar actually!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you've got hair, make the most of it. If you haven't, shave it. (-If the grass doesn't grow, get a patio..)

Try and look after your teeth.

Try and do something that gets you out of breath regularly to get your lungs and heart rate going, to keep in in shape.

Make the time to make food from scratch when you can.

Look after your skin/moisturize.

Keep an eye on your clothes, recycle/ give to charity to make space for newer items in your wardrobe.

Also you can't get too much sleep.

What ya cooking me

Today i made a big batch of veg soup.

And some tiger bread to go with it.

THOUP!

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Choose your parents wisely.

No seriously, good quality bib and tucker to suit the specific occasion; well scrubbed and groomed, clean nails, and most important of all; a lack of entitlement, a genuine interest in the other party, a positive attitude, adaptability to suit the occasion and whatever might follow on; in summation a presentable image and a stimulating conversation, and finally a willingness to improve by learning from the encounter.

Provide a stimulating image first, then a stimulating exchange of opinions and experience, and some physical stulation might follow. Out of sequence, it won't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always aim to be a better person, if your intentions are good and it comes from the heart you will always be attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn the lights down low, and remove their glasses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^ that's how you get physically attractive. Oh and have a shower and be clean.

I don't think you need to be a set size, have a particular hair style, rippling muscles or a golden ratio face. "

Was that Roald Dahl

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Be healthy

Have a style as simple as bald head or your clothing is usually blue.

Let your clothing and style magnify who you think you are. Have an opinion on things based on experience.

Style

Fitness

Body Language

Vocal Tonality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"49.5 years of low self esteem and virtually no confidence before I discovered I wasn't invisible. Once I saw myself through the eyes of others it made me feel more physically attractive.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Big fur coat, pimp stick, purple glittery suit and a gold tooth

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"How?! Are there easy things one can do? In general I mean, and not on Fab. It's deeply subjective and impossible to answer, but fun to hear and think about! "

It’s very subjective as you know op. All any of us can do is what used to be called ‘make the best’ of ourselves.

That could be with regard to weight (imo I look better slimmer than I am now - but not ‘thin’ as I’d look gaunt at my age) - or hair style/colour - makeup - health of skin (ie eating healthily and not smoking) - facial hair for chaps.

Obviously there are limits though - and some people are just naturally annoyingly gorgeous.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

"Big fur coat, pimp stick, purple glittery suit and a gold tooth "

and have a slick nickname.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Wicklow

I am attractive. I just am. Confidence, I suppose.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"Big fur coat, pimp stick, purple glittery suit and a gold tooth

and have a slick nickname."

100% goes without saying

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Confidence…the biggest and single most attractive trait a person can possess, be comfortable with who you are and happy in your own skin, don’t look for validation from others and completely own who you are. To me there is nothing more attractive than a person who accepts themselves warts and all and who’s happiness just radiates from within xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn the lights down low, and remove their glasses. "

I like this

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Shave everything (apart from latter mentioned beard). Get a shit load of tattoos. Grow a big beard. Join a gym and get big and shredded. Wear trousers that are ankle danglers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coconut oil

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I don't "get" physically attractive, I was just born that way

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Shave everything (apart from latter mentioned beard). Get a shit load of tattoos. Grow a big beard. Join a gym and get big and shredded. Wear trousers that are ankle danglers. "

Ummmmmmmmm deeply unsure about all of this

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Confidence…the biggest and single most attractive trait a person can possess, be comfortable with who you are and happy in your own skin, don’t look for validation from others and completely own who you are. To me there is nothing more attractive than a person who accepts themselves warts and all and who’s happiness just radiates from within xx"

This. Similarly thinking how you project yourself. You may have the best personality in the world, but if you don't project it, you will appear less attractive

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Cap during Aug (or Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheff)

"How?! Are there easy things one can do? In general I mean, and not on Fab. It's deeply subjective and impossible to answer, but fun to hear and think about! "

Simple. Take a good look at me. Look at how I look. Look at how I act. Then do the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do yoga"

I do yoga haha it helps with flexibility haha

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By *hostwolfMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Be yourself don't pretend or try to be something you're not be confident in yourself

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

2 percent of people in the world are beautifull the rest are average looking

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Confidence does not manifest out of anywhere, confidence is usually backed by a skill set, knowledge, courage, strength, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love and be comfortable with yourself. Be OK with not everyone finding you attractive.

Have joy in your heart, be kind to others.

Have fun x

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over a year ago

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Be kind, be funny and don’t be a dick

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Wicklow

If you believe you're attractive.. You are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate, just go with it.

The women on here will tell you one thing becuase it's a nice thing to say.

Look at their veris.

Mostly they'll go with slim, athletic or muscle bound guys because that's what they're here for.

Get yourself to a club, meet people in person.

You'll see how attractive you are or aren't.

Don't listen to the rubbish spouted on here...

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