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By *ensuallover1000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Cast your minds back everyone, to your first time.

Was it what you were hoping for? Was it better?

Was it worse? (Or was it a disaster even?)

If you could go back in time, would you change it?

Over to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it was a week early!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No under 18 stories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=sPGepgWupTw

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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Utter shite. Thank God I’ve got better at it since then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bf broke his banjo string and I was covered in blood. I had no idea what had happened and was mortified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was appalling. Makes me cringe to even think of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was oddly perfect. It was with a friend of mine who was male version of me. We liked the same things and even looked similar. As we were not romantically involved there was no awkwardness or emotional bullshit to deal with. We became friends with benefits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was awful haha. Also last time this came up I ended up with a forum ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a very good experience popping my vag. I mean it only lasted about 30 seconds but it was the kind of sex that was filled with laughter and completely being at ease with each other. I can't complain at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was awful haha. Also last time this came up I ended up with a forum ban "

You can't discuss anything underage so that could be why. It has to be 18+.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a very good experience popping my vag. I mean it only lasted about 30 seconds but it was the kind of sex that was filled with laughter and completely being at ease with each other. I can't complain at all. "

30 seconds of delight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was awful haha. Also last time this came up I ended up with a forum ban

You can't discuss anything underage so that could be why. It has to be 18+. "

Yeah I must have slipped something in by accident (no pun intended)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a very good experience popping my vag. I mean it only lasted about 30 seconds but it was the kind of sex that was filled with laughter and completely being at ease with each other. I can't complain at all.

30 seconds of delight?"

Oh yes! It was the best 30 seconds of my fannys life.

I'm sorry to hear your first time was awful! But as long as it has improved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a very good experience popping my vag. I mean it only lasted about 30 seconds but it was the kind of sex that was filled with laughter and completely being at ease with each other. I can't complain at all.

30 seconds of delight?

Oh yes! It was the best 30 seconds of my fannys life.

I'm sorry to hear your first time was awful! But as long as it has improved. "

has your fanny never had a better 30 seconds?

I’d like to hope it’s improved or I feel like it has, hopefully not the wrong signals lol

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Wish I hadn't and if I could go back and change it I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was behind an old church on a night out but I fancyd him something rotten he was beautiful lol and I was mighty pleased with myself for pulling him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't complain at all and wouldn't change it. I was asked if I was OK several times and he took it slowly and gently so he didn't hurt me too much. Very considerate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than saying I was not the only involved, I'm forbidden from telling you.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It was actually the pinnacle of my sexual career - made a girl cum 4 times. Not that I had a fucking clue what was going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was really sweet. We were both virgins and had been dating for a long time. Sun was streaming through her bedroom window. Bowie was playing on the stereo to mask us from her parents. Happy memories.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It wasn’t great. It was her first time too and she found it painful which wasn’t fun for either of us.

It got better with practice though

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

It was horrendous!!!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Pretty terrible.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I remember feeling quite detached and thinking how ridiculous it seemed. It wasn't awful, it was just underwhelming.

I had no idea sex could be fun until 20 years later.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Mine was with a 6ft 4 guy in the back of a nova! His legs out the window and of course I leaned on the window button part way through, poor sod nearly lost a limb! I got cramp in my leg which was wrapped around the front head rest at one stage and couldn’t move for his lanky limbs being everywhere - all in all a horrendous first experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first experience was underwhelming. Both of us didn't have a clue.

I met my next boyfriend a short while after and I found out just how fantastic sex could be. He encouraged me to explore sex, understand myself, open my mind. I am grateful to him for that at least.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time... wasn't consented to.

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

It was grand, she enjoyed it I enjoyed it. If I could change one thing it'd be where it happened.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I was really gleeful that it had happened but the actual sex itself didn’t last long.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

It was in my own bed, candles, soft lighting and gentle music. We were both willing and alcohol was not involved. She was lovely and I will never forget her or the moment. I would not change a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine was a friend of my mums..i had just got my 1st car and was driving home through the center of town..i saw my mum's pal at the bus stop so i pulled over and offered a lift..5 minutes in the car and she is sucking my cock ..didnt ask or anything just started...i was freaked out a bit ,you know? but no enough to stop her..she had recently divorced so she took me back to hers and she taught me a good few lessons that night..i was red raw in the morning...

so to sum up..i loved my 1st time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awkward and painful

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Mine was a one night stand on New Years Eve, she got up left by the time I’d woken up the next morning. Never saw her face again….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not the best shag not the worst nerves got me and a bit fumbly was over quickly but felt like a boss for days afterwards the day i became a man haha i dont think she will have it in her top 5 of best shags ever to be fair haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was really sweet. We were both virgins and had been dating for a long time. Sun was streaming through her bedroom window. Bowie was playing on the stereo to mask us from her parents. Happy memories."

I should add that this was last Tuesday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, with my gf at the time on her best mate’s sister’s couch.

A little uncomfortable for her at first and whilst it wasn’t highlight reel of exceptional technique from either of us, fun was had and I lasted a lot longer than in hindsight I would have expected to.

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By *oryou47Man
over a year ago

carlow

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"First time... wasn't consented to. "

Hugs; same

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I wondered what all the fuss was about. I wasn't impressed. Took me many years to find out what good sex was! Even now I'm still learning.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It was painful but no I wouldn't change it.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

It was a bit awkward but with a lovely guy. Not uncomfortable or anything, to my recollection. It was in his room while his parents were downstairs

I'm still in touch with him and he's married to one of my friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was with my then bf. It wasn't awkward or painful but he was just bad at it. He even told my sister that the female orgasm is a myth. I stayed with him for 3 years!!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I was essentially taken advantage of, but I didn't complain at all

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry


"My bf broke his banjo string and I was covered in blood. I had no idea what had happened and was mortified "

Not on my first time. But not long after. That happened to my boyfriend. I didn't have a clue either. I thought I'd broken him somehow

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"My bf broke his banjo string and I was covered in blood. I had no idea what had happened and was mortified

Not on my first time. But not long after. That happened to my boyfriend. I didn't have a clue either. I thought I'd broken him somehow"

Happened to Mr KC during car sex, back in our early relationship. It wasn't pretty

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Mine was perfect, just wish I had more confidence to take off my clothes! I fancied him for a couple of years before. Been on a camp, we both had drinks around the campfire and told each other what we thought of the other. Kissed in his tent then a few days later I drove to Birmingham and the magic happened. 16 years later and we still have fun together time to time

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

Would have eaten they chocolate gateau instead. What a waste of gateau!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First time... wasn't consented to. "

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry to hear this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First time... wasn't consented to.

Hugs; same "

Hugs for you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't change my first sex experience...it wasn't planned & we just got bcarried away ony Mommas sofa... He was big & strong & kinda dominated me with my consent of course

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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"My bf broke his banjo string and I was covered in blood. I had no idea what had happened and was mortified "

Omg this happened to me. In fact it’s the weirdest memory I have. We were at my parents crashing on a blow up mini bouncy castle in my moms living room. Neither of us knew what had happened. Had to wake my momma. She was hysterical

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry


"First time... wasn't consented to. "

Me too. Its shit isn't it.

Sorry you've gone through it too.

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

Honest truth here. It was when I was 19 with a prostitute. I decided I didn't want to hit 20 whilst still a virgin. Bought a contact magazine (remember them?) and visited this woman from Manchester who was about 40 years old. Condom on, she sat on and it took about 6 strokes before I ejaculated. Can't remember whether it was £25 or £30 in 1980.

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By *aturegentdurhamMan
over a year ago

Stanley

Wish i had waited. A bit longer.

In a old mine shaft in middle of woods with a fertiliser bag on the floor.

5 mins of a thumbell then got it in on about 10th attempt.

Then 3 strokes in we heard a noise pecked out to see dog sniffing about.

We did a half naked run from there just catching a glimpse of a oldish man looking rather bemused.

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