FabSwingers.com forum: Single men/women

By *jorkish OP Man
over a year ago

Seaforth

A lot of post about single men not being wanted or finding it hard getting meets etc. But what about the single women on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're struggling i think

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is.

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By *jorkish OP Man
over a year ago

Seaforth

"They're struggling i think"

Struggling in relative silence? Single males you see almost daily decrying the lack of meeting anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're struggling i think

Struggling in relative silence? Single males you see almost daily decrying the lack of meeting anyone"

That's just another route they take, attention etc. Maybe it will work for them

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is."

Just what I was going to say

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"They're struggling i think"

We Just don't bleat on about it as much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends

If it’s just sex and not really bothering who it is then that’s easy

But finding someone I connect with this hard

It all depends on how you look at it

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By *jorkish OP Man
over a year ago

Seaforth

"It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is."

Yes I see that, but the female is less prominent in creating threads regarding this, wheeras, there is at least one thread a day from single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the ladies deal with it better than the guys... just saying lol

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By *jorkish OP Man
over a year ago

Seaforth

"They're struggling i think

We Just don't bleat on about it as much

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By *jorkish OP Man
over a year ago

Seaforth

"Maybe the ladies deal with it better than the guys... just saying lol

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

If I was happy to just pick a cock, any cock, I could have far more meets than I do.

Sadly what I want is proving far more elusive.

I suspect the disparity between men complaining and women not complaining is because if a woman complains she can't get a meet then her inbox is immediately full of cock pics attached to "pick me" messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're struggling i think

We Just don't bleat on about it as much

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By *jorkish OP Man
over a year ago

Seaforth

"If I was happy to just pick a cock, any cock, I could have far more meets than I do.

Sadly what I want is proving far more elusive.

I think your right, but I also think men deal with frustration worse

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By *oung GunnerMan
over a year ago

Cleckheaton

You must have to be pretty special to get a meet , I send out really polite messages , either to be deleted or left unread for weeks on end , I get woman are inundated. If my messages get unread I just leave it . I’m not a fully paid member because I don’t want my parents know I’m on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You must have to be pretty special to get a meet , I send out really polite messages , either to be deleted or left unread for weeks on end , I get woman are inundated. If my messages get unread I just leave it . I’m not a fully paid member because I don’t want my parents know I’m on here. "

Keep plodding along mate

i'm sure someone will snap you up! It's a pain for everyone!

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

"It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is.

Yes I see that, but the female is less prominent in creating threads regarding this, wheeras, there is at least one thread a day from single males"

The single men posting threads about not getting meets are probably a big part of the reason why single women struggle to find someone decent… Far too many men thinking they’re entitled to a meet just because they’ve joined.

These guys are bombarding Women and couples with messages, usually far too many for people to get through and full off unimaginative and downright crass wording…

There’s a reason “fancy a fuck” is derided as a message type on here, it’s far too common

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By *agicM53XMan
over a year ago

Orpington

There's a disproportionate number of men ( tens of thousands) to the number of women ( thousands) on this site. A woman wants a specific type of men, and that might not be as easy to find, but at the same time given the large number of men, I doubt that type of man is not amongst us. I think the women that make an effort and actively pursue to find that type of man, have a better chance in finding him, rather then to just expect to find him amongst the hundreds of messages they receive daily. I think (just my opinion!) that's where some women struggle

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By *oung GunnerMan
over a year ago

Cleckheaton

I couldn’t say to a woman fancy a fuck , I say something like Hey I’m ……… i’m .. and I come from ……… I’m looking for a woman for fun and would be interested in chatting at all . I can’t be crude as it’s not who iam .

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

"It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is.

Yes I see that, but the female is less prominent in creating threads regarding this, wheeras, there is at least one thread a day from single males"

If we made a thread there would be even more ‘hi’ messages in our inbox

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Maybe i live on a good area but I've been really lucky here finding some quality guys to have lovely ongoing fwbs

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By *jorkish OP Man
over a year ago

Seaforth

"It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is.

Yes I see that, but the female is less prominent in creating threads regarding this, wheeras, there is at least one thread a day from single males

These guys are bombarding Women and couples with messages, usually far too many for people to get through and full off unimaginative and downright crass wording…

There’s a reason “fancy a fuck” is derided as a message type on here, it’s far too common "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is.

Yes I see that, but the female is less prominent in creating threads regarding this, wheeras, there is at least one thread a day from single males"

What women do is create a thread about some message they have got, or some boring subject but at the same time they will have a new pic up.

Basically they are attention seeking and looking for fabs because they have very little going on in their own lives.

If you plug in your brain you can see this is what they do and most men respond and give then what they seek.

Women will deny this of course but they will start a thread, which will knock a group or about something boring about an experience no one honestly cares about except the weak adoring men wanking in there mums front room telling them how lovely they are.

When in truth they are more desperately lonely than the man who has his life in order.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is.

Yes I see that, but the female is less prominent in creating threads regarding this, wheeras, there is at least one thread a day from single males

What women do is create a thread about some message they have got, or some boring subject but at the same time they will have a new pic up.

Basically they are attention seeking and looking for fabs because they have very little going on in their own lives.

If you plug in your brain you can see this is what they do and most men respond and give then what they seek.

When in truth they are more desperately lonely than the man who has his life in order.

I think there is a grain of truth in your statement but it applies to SOME, not all men and women. I sometimes think when I read a post that it sounds like there is more going on for that person than we see.

I think men and women have their lives in order in different ways. And it is not something absolute - sometimes I have mine in perfect order and harmony... and the next day I am stressed out about something.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I think as a total number we see more threads like this from men, but as a percentage of members of a particular gender there's possibly a higher proportion of threads of this ilk from women...it just seems more because there are a heck of a lot more men than women on here. Plus the menfolk seem to be more straightforward in their lamenting, thereby making it more obvious, whereas the ladies go about it in a more roundabout way..."I can't find anyone who will let me use them as a sperm receptacle" versus "decent men are so hard to find on here, I only have a checklist of 72 things that they need to match perfectly, it's not me being unreasonable".

Personally, I think it's all about attitude and finding a way to use the tools available on the site to make it work how you want it to work. I've certainly never struggled to meet people who fit my criteria, and I rarely get any unpleasant or abusive messages from men.

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

"It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is."

Agree

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I’m not struggling … I just attract the wrong people

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I get more messages off men even though I’m straight and don’t want that

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Maybe it’s a ratio thing. 1% of a new thousand women as apposed to 1% of six million two hundred forty seven thousand five hundred and twelve men.

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