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By *ustyLeRoux OP   Woman
over a year ago

Brecon

Am sure this has been posted a million times but this has annoyed me ! A guy messaged me once and I didn't reply then a 2nd time and the 3rd time I said you messaged but I haven't replied surely you'd get the hint ? Yes it's rude but it was the standard hi how are you. They replied "sorry tubs," short for tubby. Original.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Am sure this has been posted a million times but this has annoyed me ! A guy messaged me once and I didn't reply then a 2nd time and the 3rd time I said you messaged but I haven't replied surely you'd get the hint ? Yes it's rude but it was the standard hi how are you. They replied "sorry tubs," short for tubby. Original."

Roughly translated to "I'm going to insult you to make me feel better as I sit at my desk alone"

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

They need to read the rules as there is one that says no reply is a reply.

Its neither rude nor dismissive of anyone not to reply, especially to thoae who put in almost zero effort and for many it would take hours per day to send out that many replies.

Just ignore them OP and of they come back with crap like that then you already know you dodged a bullet

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By *ustyLeRoux OP   Woman
over a year ago

Brecon

I think so ! I've been called worse

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By *ustyLeRoux OP   Woman
over a year ago

Brecon


"They need to read the rules as there is one that says no reply is a reply.

Its neither rude nor dismissive of anyone not to reply, especially to thoae who put in almost zero effort and for many it would take hours per day to send out that many replies.

Just ignore them OP and of they come back with crap like that then you already know you dodged a bullet "

Yeah I think so just needed to vent

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

Always remember whatever someone says has come from their brain and says a lot about them and diddly squat about you.

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By *ustyLeRoux OP   Woman
over a year ago

Brecon

Yes this is true but makes me ugh!

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

So sorry to hear this.

I think a lot of people will use the Block function early on to avoid this happening.

I'm sure there are lots of other people who you can have a pleasant chat with, particularly those that appreciate your body shape and looks.

Gbat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get hit with spam I hit the block button

Without even replying

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'd send him a dummy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why can't fab disable the message thing ...if you send a message and get no reply you can't send a 2nd message until you get a reply or after a set time frame

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

That's rude,probably defensive because you called him out.

I block if they message a 2nd time when I've not replied or said no thanks to first one.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I just block after the third msg, it's not with the hassle.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

*worth

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"So why can't fab disable the message thing ...if you send a message and get no reply you can't send a 2nd message until you get a reply or after a set time frame"

The Block button will do that.

Your suggestion would prevent me sending a series of messages to a friend just because she hasn't had the time to reply to all of them.

Gbat

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

Don't get the whole getting upset & obnoxious thing if you don't get a reply. No one is owed anything in life & if you don't get anything just accept it with good grace. That's life, move on.

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