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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Tom read an article in the papers where a woman was on a date with a man and a man sat behind her discreetly passed her a pieced of paper with the words, "Too many red flags, leave and stay safe" or words to that affect.

Essex Tom is a bisexual. So how many men and women see red flags in his behaviours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tom read an article. ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tom read an article. ^"

It's his way, Jim

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Tom read an article in the papers where a woman was on a date with a man and a man sat behind her discreetly passed her a pieced of paper with the words, "Too many red flags, leave and stay safe" or words to that affect.

Essex Tom is a bisexual. So how many men and women see red flags in his behaviours?"

Talking about oneself in the third person is the first!

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Is this an exam question Tom?

If Tom reads 4 articles every 4 minutes

How many articles has Tom read in 45 minutes?

Show your working out!

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

AlbinoGorilla does not understand the question posed in the original post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"AlbinoGorilla does not understand the question posed in the original post"

A Moon Grey Cat finds this post amusing

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"AlbinoGorilla does not understand the question posed in the original post

A Moon Grey Cat finds this post amusing "

A man finds this amusing also.

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

Are we talking red flags on a meet? Some examples I watch for if I’m meeting men include:

Trying to pressure me into bareback or complaining about having to wear a condom. It’s a deal breaker for me.

Agreeing to boundaries and then trying to push them. I had a guy who decided to rim me after I told him I didn’t want him to. End of meet.

Generally not respecting boundaries or pushing for things to progress further than I am comfortable. Not taking “no” for an answer unless it is said two or three times.

There are others, a lot of which are ‘gut instinct’ and hard to explain, but those are the main ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of Tales of the Unexpected. Woman leaves with the safe man with the note, only to find the red flag man washing dishes at his kitchen sink when she arrives at note mans home.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Is this an exam question Tom?

If Tom reads 4 articles every 4 minutes

How many articles has Tom read in 45 minutes?

Show your working out!"

45. Ask me another

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm so confused.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Without knowing the context of the private conversation which was eavesdropped on by the man trying to 'help', it's impossible to know whether there were any red flags at all.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

They obviously weren't socially distancing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont even get the question let alone have the answer

Claire

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By *oncupiscent_dreamMan
over a year ago

City

Man hands her note and leaves, she reads it, excuses herself and leaves. Gets in car and drives home, looks in rear view mirror to see not man sitting behind her in rear seat, he passe her another note, it has "I'm a time traveller" written on it "but my voice is stuck in the future". She slams on the brakes and looks behind her but there is no one behind her.

She gets home and fills lots of cups up with water and leaves them stacked around the house. That night her house starts to shake as a bright light from outside blinds her. She sees the note man again but now he's only half an inch tall, and he's running through the house as the cups of water fall all around him.

It's at this point she notices she's holding a pen in her hand, she writes on a bit of paper "too many red flags" she looks up, she's in a restaurant, she passes the note to a woman sitting behind her. She stands up and leaves goes to her car and gets in the back seat, she looks at the rear view mirror from the back seat and sees a man looking back at her.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Was it a Ladbibble story? They do lots of “horrified woman reads a note and guess what happened next”

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I think the OP was asking if any fabsters see red flags in meeting Essex Tom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP was asking if any fabsters see red flags in meeting Essex Tom"

Anyone that refers to themselves in the third person is a definite red flag.

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Without knowing the context of the private conversation which was eavesdropped on by the man trying to 'help', it's impossible to know whether there were any red flags at all."

Yep, this ^^

No conversation or behaviour revealed to give any sort of informed answer, unfortunately.

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Reminds me of Tales of the Unexpected. Woman leaves with the safe man with the note, only to find the red flag man washing dishes at his kitchen sink when she arrives at note mans home. "

Brrrrrr!

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Man hands her note and leaves, she reads it, excuses herself and leaves. Gets in car and drives home, looks in rear view mirror to see not man sitting behind her in rear seat, he passe her another note, it has "I'm a time traveller" written on it "but my voice is stuck in the future". She slams on the brakes and looks behind her but there is no one behind her.

She gets home and fills lots of cups up with water and leaves them stacked around the house. That night her house starts to shake as a bright light from outside blinds her. She sees the note man again but now he's only half an inch tall, and he's running through the house as the cups of water fall all around him.

It's at this point she notices she's holding a pen in her hand, she writes on a bit of paper "too many red flags" she looks up, she's in a restaurant, she passes the note to a woman sitting behind her. She stands up and leaves goes to her car and gets in the back seat, she looks at the rear view mirror from the back seat and sees a man looking back at her. "

Stop it; you’re twisting my melon, man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a women keep looking up at me when i was getting a drink in costa.

i sat down and she kept doing it, so when the waitress come over with my drink i handed her a note to pass to her.

it read 'findus fish fingers 2 for 1 at iceland' she burst out laughing.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"Man hands her note and leaves, she reads it, excuses herself and leaves. Gets in car and drives home, looks in rear view mirror to see not man sitting behind her in rear seat, he passe her another note, it has "I'm a time traveller" written on it "but my voice is stuck in the future". She slams on the brakes and looks behind her but there is no one behind her.

She gets home and fills lots of cups up with water and leaves them stacked around the house. That night her house starts to shake as a bright light from outside blinds her. She sees the note man again but now he's only half an inch tall, and he's running through the house as the cups of water fall all around him.

It's at this point she notices she's holding a pen in her hand, she writes on a bit of paper "too many red flags" she looks up, she's in a restaurant, she passes the note to a woman sitting behind her. She stands up and leaves goes to her car and gets in the back seat, she looks at the rear view mirror from the back seat and sees a man looking back at her.

Stop it; you’re twisting my melon, man! "

Which one..?

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Is this an exam question Tom?

If Tom reads 4 articles every 4 minutes

How many articles has Tom read in 45 minutes?

Show your working out!

45. Ask me another"

Setting exam questions is not Sigma’s forte!

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"had a women keep looking up at me when i was getting a drink in costa.

i sat down and she kept doing it, so when the waitress come over with my drink i handed her a note to pass to her.

it read 'findus fish fingers 2 for 1 at iceland' she burst out laughing. "

Smooth…

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Man hands her note and leaves, she reads it, excuses herself and leaves. Gets in car and drives home, looks in rear view mirror to see not man sitting behind her in rear seat, he passe her another note, it has "I'm a time traveller" written on it "but my voice is stuck in the future". She slams on the brakes and looks behind her but there is no one behind her.

She gets home and fills lots of cups up with water and leaves them stacked around the house. That night her house starts to shake as a bright light from outside blinds her. She sees the note man again but now he's only half an inch tall, and he's running through the house as the cups of water fall all around him.

It's at this point she notices she's holding a pen in her hand, she writes on a bit of paper "too many red flags" she looks up, she's in a restaurant, she passes the note to a woman sitting behind her. She stands up and leaves goes to her car and gets in the back seat, she looks at the rear view mirror from the back seat and sees a man looking back at her.

Stop it; you’re twisting my melon, man!

Which one..? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Russian spy OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tom read an article in the papers where a woman was on a date with a man and a man sat behind her discreetly passed her a pieced of paper with the words, "Too many red flags, leave and stay safe" or words to that affect.

Essex Tom is a bisexual. So how many men and women see red flags in his behaviours?"

Tom was trying to get rid of the woman to gain access to the man.

That to me is the seeming red flag.

That I believe is why it is stated Tom is a Bisexual.

What you may be looking for from us to determine what is possibly a red flag in Tom's behaviour can only be discerned by one who comes to the thread later after reading through what OP himself has written and what others have contributed.

So some have (unfortunately) had to play fall guy to get to this point.

PS I may be a fall guy too as someone may have got there first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tom read an article in the papers where a woman was on a date with a man and a man sat behind her discreetly passed her a pieced of paper with the words, "Too many red flags, leave and stay safe" or words to that affect.

Essex Tom is a bisexual. So how many men and women see red flags in his behaviours?

Tom was trying to get rid of the woman to gain access to the man.

That to me is the seeming red flag.

That I believe is why it is stated Tom is a Bisexual.

What you may be looking for from us to determine what is possibly a red flag in Tom's behaviour can only be discerned by one who comes to the thread later after reading through what OP himself has written and what others have contributed.

So some have (unfortunately) had to play fall guy to get to this point.

PS I may be a fall guy too as someone may have got there first! "
PPS If it isn't that then it's a load of bullsh*t!

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Russian spy OP"

Could well be a coded dead drop!

Tom’s been rumbled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sparkles is very confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had a women keep looking up at me when i was getting a drink in costa.

i sat down and she kept doing it, so when the waitress come over with my drink i handed her a note to pass to her.

it read 'findus fish fingers 2 for 1 at iceland' she burst out laughing. "

That's made my day Pat

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

MI5 in the making reads articles daily

The world is not enough

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth


"Russian spy OP

Could well be a coded dead drop!

Tom’s been rumbled "

Tom's real name is Sergei. Sergei knew the man when they were at Cambridge together.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Was it you, Tom?

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Shakes his head ...

Thread closed

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Shakes his head ...

Thread closed "

Tom expresses his disapproval

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

This story is now all over the news. Check out the Daily Star online

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Did the bloke passing the note want Tom for himself?

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

For all we know the two men were in cahoots.

More to this story than meets the eye...

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

The red flags are warning of sharks in the water...

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

The question was...

Does Essex Tom display any red flags ?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Essex Tom is a particularly cautious man.

No red flags that I can see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question was...

Does Essex Tom display any red flags ?"

City Jeans quipped the only red flag Essex Tom displays is talking in the third person.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"The question was...

Does Essex Tom display any red flags ?

City Jeans quipped the only red flag Essex Tom displays is talking in the third person. "

That is comic genius city

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By *isandhers691127Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Man hands her note and leaves, she reads it, excuses herself and leaves. Gets in car and drives home, looks in rear view mirror to see not man sitting behind her in rear seat, he passe her another note, it has "I'm a time traveller" written on it "but my voice is stuck in the future". She slams on the brakes and looks behind her but there is no one behind her.

She gets home and fills lots of cups up with water and leaves them stacked around the house. That night her house starts to shake as a bright light from outside blinds her. She sees the note man again but now he's only half an inch tall, and he's running through the house as the cups of water fall all around him.

It's at this point she notices she's holding a pen in her hand, she writes on a bit of paper "too many red flags" she looks up, she's in a restaurant, she passes the note to a woman sitting behind her. She stands up and leaves goes to her car and gets in the back seat, she looks at the rear view mirror from the back seat and sees a man looking back at her.

Stop it; you’re twisting my melon, man!

Which one..?

"

Christopher Nolan's next blockbuster

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