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By *entlemenpip OP   Man
over a year ago

not far

I'm having a very shit time of things right now the past year has but my buissness on its knees my home life feels like it's not got long to go ( we have spoken and things are being done to fix but feels off) my mental health is all over the place and with all this I feel like I've what appeal to others I once had I just feel like a washed up soon to be 40 year old. So please if you can see anything positive about me say it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I don't know you to give you false advice but I wish you good luck and try to keep your chin up xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude, your a risk taker in starting his own business (many of us don't have the guts) and you're a braver man than many if you are having the discussions needed to sort out your life. Not even 40 is young my friend, and many of the big successes came to thise over 40 (even 50). It's not a young man's face in KFC is it ?

Life is feeling hard, not because you are falling (that's easy) but because you are starting to climb.

You've got this brother.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

You have survived 100% of your worst days ever. You've got this

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *entlemenpip OP   Man
over a year ago

not far

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By *entlemenpip OP   Man
over a year ago

not far


"Dude, your a risk taker in starting his own business (many of us don't have the guts) and you're a braver man than many if you are having the discussions needed to sort out your life. Not even 40 is young my friend, and many of the big successes came to thise over 40 (even 50). It's not a young man's face in KFC is it ?

Life is feeling hard, not because you are falling (that's easy) but because you are starting to climb.

You've got this brother. "

Thank you

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

My world turned to shit during lockdown, business, relationship and health.

It is hard having to start all over again but here I am.

Taking each day as it comes and looking towards the future.

All I can say is don't give up, don't give in, it will get better

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

I don't know you so giving you a boost might be a bit hard. You've air in your lungs and you're aware of the issues in your life. Couple that with a want for improvement and you'll be tip top OP

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

Also you're coffee rather than tea

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Also you're coffee rather than tea "

???

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout


"Also you're coffee rather than tea

???"

Read his profile headline. I prefer coffee to tea

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Also you're coffee rather than tea

???

Read his profile headline. I prefer coffee to tea"

Ahhhh xxx

Get ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm having a very shit time of things right now the past year has but my buissness on its knees my home life feels like it's not got long to go ( we have spoken and things are being done to fix but feels off) my mental health is all over the place and with all this I feel like I've what appeal to others I once had I just feel like a washed up soon to be 40 year old. So please if you can see anything positive about me say it "

You’re still alive and kicking, so you can bring about all the change you need. It may not be the change though you needed or what you may have hoped for, being completely honest, but far better days are absolutely within your reach.

Deal with what you can deal with at this time; you can’t sort it all in one go. Don’t try to and don’t berate yourself because you haven’t. There’s no quick fix, but there’s no eternal problem there unless you allow it to persist….the choice IS yours, as is the power to make things better for yourself.

From someone who tried to keep a business alive when I shouldn’t have, you can pay a dear price. If it’s a limited company and can’t clearly define a future for it, shut it down. Don’t become a martyr to it. Trust me on that one.

Mental health….talk to someone. ASAP. I held of for years and simply shouldn’t have. Find a certified counsellor or get a GP referral and get the noise out of your head along with that invisible fist that feels like it’s squeezing everything in your chest. No um’s or ah’s….do it.

It’s darkest before dawn, but you have to make sure you open your eyes to see the sunrise.

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