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Head (no, not THAT one!) or heart?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

When do you use which?

When do you use both? And what does it depend on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and follow my head...but heart always wins

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I try and follow my head...but heart always wins "

If your heart always wins, why do you still try making decisions with your head? Genuine (not facetious) question.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Ignore the heart for it’s easily fooled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say your head makes logical decisions and your heart makes good ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be rational but I can seem to be unable to follow what I say, like I know it’s wrong I know it’s probably

Gonna Fuck me up, but I do it anyway like a silly girl and yeah. So heart wins over for me… sadly

, sometimes … as I end up being hurt over and over and it’s entirely my fault

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Ignore the heart for it’s easily fooled "

Where would we be as humans if we did not use the heart at times?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try and follow my head...but heart always wins

If your heart always wins, why do you still try making decisions with your head? Genuine (not facetious) question. "

Because my head tells me what is logically right.....but my heart tells me what feels right...

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I would say your head makes logical decisions and your heart makes good ones "
What if they are in conflict with each other?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I can be rational but I can seem to be unable to follow what I say, like I know it’s wrong I know it’s probably

Gonna Fuck me up, but I do it anyway like a silly girl and yeah. So heart wins over for me… sadly

, sometimes … as I end up being hurt over and over and it’s entirely my fault "

In what way would you visualise yourself as a happier person if this were not so?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Ignore the heart for it’s easily fooled

Where would we be as humans if we did not use the heart at times? "

Probably way better off. Use of pure logic and science would see the end of things like racism, sexism, religious wars, all sorts.

The heart acts on emotion, which isn’t always rooted in the because cause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Head...every time

It makes decisions that are mostly good for the heart

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I try and follow my head...but heart always wins

If your heart always wins, why do you still try making decisions with your head? Genuine (not facetious) question.

Because my head tells me what is logically right.....but my heart tells me what feels right..."

And there is a conflict between the two at times, for sure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say your head makes logical decisions and your heart makes good ones What if they are in conflict with each other? "

It means your youre human and have feelings!

Head telling you not to meet that married guy? Heart telling you to do so by any chance?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Ignore the heart for it’s easily fooled

Where would we be as humans if we did not use the heart at times?

Probably way better off. Use of pure logic and science would see the end of things like racism, sexism, religious wars, all sorts.

The heart acts on emotion, which isn’t always rooted in the because cause "

I can see the sense in what you are saying, completely.

And yet, I feel we would miss out on so much beauty, figuratively speaking, so many rewards... if the heart did not play a part? It would be a rather grey world perhaps?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Head...every time

It makes decisions that are mostly good for the heart "

Do you ever experience a doubt.. a sense of conflict when making decisions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can be rational but I can seem to be unable to follow what I say, like I know it’s wrong I know it’s probably

Gonna Fuck me up, but I do it anyway like a silly girl and yeah. So heart wins over for me… sadly

, sometimes … as I end up being hurt over and over and it’s entirely my fault In what way would you visualise yourself as a happier person if this were not so? "

I don’t know I guess with people I tend to follow what makes me feel good at present even if logically, it might not be the case in the long run… when I should have thought logically and I do , I just decide to ignore.

Having said that , if u remove boys out of the equation, I did amazing things following my heart and passion and switching off my head saying : but its silly don’t do it

Anyway heart wins for me x

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Ignore the heart for it’s easily fooled

Where would we be as humans if we did not use the heart at times?

Probably way better off. Use of pure logic and science would see the end of things like racism, sexism, religious wars, all sorts.

The heart acts on emotion, which isn’t always rooted in the because cause

I can see the sense in what you are saying, completely.

And yet, I feel we would miss out on so much beauty, figuratively speaking, so many rewards... if the heart did not play a part? It would be a rather grey world perhaps? "

The head is for making decisions

The heart is for loving

Don’t mix the two up

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I would say your head makes logical decisions and your heart makes good ones What if they are in conflict with each other?

It means your youre human and have feelings!

Head telling you not to meet that married guy? Heart telling you to do so by any chance? "

You touched a nerve there... from many years ago when I was young and very foolish!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Ignore the heart for it’s easily fooled

Where would we be as humans if we did not use the heart at times?

Probably way better off. Use of pure logic and science would see the end of things like racism, sexism, religious wars, all sorts.

The heart acts on emotion, which isn’t always rooted in the because cause

I can see the sense in what you are saying, completely.

And yet, I feel we would miss out on so much beauty, figuratively speaking, so many rewards... if the heart did not play a part? It would be a rather grey world perhaps?

The head is for making decisions

The heart is for loving

Don’t mix the two up "

I sometimes wish it were that easy. Do you think, broadly speaking, men are better at compartmentalising than women?

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