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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was introduced to body shaming pre lockdown and found that I really liked it, although it definitely isn’t for everyone, no kinks are, I do find being called things like fat, droopy, saggy, ugly, old prior to and during sex is a massive turn on. Am I unusual or is this quite common?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In comparison to the general population, it's probably fairly unusual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Degradation is probably more common than most would expect. My wife loves it from the Doms she’s played with.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Verbal degradation isn't that uncommon. I have plenty of vanilla friends who like to be called slut etc.

I'm not aware of any female who likes to be body shamed. But good for you for finding your likes, hope you find suitable partners to enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own kink that doesn't make you unusual. More power to you, I couldn't do it, if someone said anything like that to me during sex they would be ducking not fucking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like degradation in terms of being called slut/whore etc, but I wouldn’t like it like that I don’t think.

Do you know what it is about it that you like?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone has their own kink that doesn't make you unusual. More power to you, I couldn't do it, if someone said anything like that to me during sex they would be ducking not fucking!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like degradation in terms of being called slut/whore etc, but I wouldn’t like it like that I don’t think.

Do you know what it is about it that you like? "

Same here!! High five

But yeah I definitely don’t like being degraded in other ways other than being called names like slut x

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Each to there own OP, we all have kinks there’s no shame in any of them, each of us finds enjoyment in our own way. Whilst this dynamic is not for me I’m happy you have found something you get pleasure from, embrace it x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Do you think that’s linked to your school experience OP?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It's great you've found something that fors it for you OP.

I'd say that the specifics are probably quite unusual, but in no way is that bad.

However, anyone calling me any of those things would find out speedily I'm not a fan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP

It's fantastic when people find a kink which works for them, so I am really happy for you and hope you get a lot of excitement for many years to come.

It's not a kink I share, probably because I am not confident with my body and therefore if I was degraded for my body it would not have the desired effect.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like degradation in terms of being called slut/whore etc, but I wouldn’t like it like that I don’t think.

Do you know what it is about it that you like? "

I’m not sure, I think it’s because I have always been overweight but confident since my mid twenties about my appearance, so when I am called names it takes me back to my younger days and how even though it hurt then it doesn’t anymore, a bit like owning the insults I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you think that’s linked to your school experience OP? "

Now I’ve read comments on here and thought about it I think it’s directly linked yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was introduced to body shaming pre lockdown and found that I really liked it, although it definitely isn’t for everyone, no kinks are, I do find being called things like fat, droopy, saggy, ugly, old prior to and during sex is a massive turn on. Am I unusual or is this quite common? "

As other have said, good on you for finding something you like and embracing it…..and even more power to you for being open about it. xx

I wonder if it is somehow related to having something normally negative effectively disproven or diminished by something positive/enjoyable happening at the same time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was introduced to body shaming pre lockdown and found that I really liked it, although it definitely isn’t for everyone, no kinks are, I do find being called things like fat, droopy, saggy, ugly, old prior to and during sex is a massive turn on. Am I unusual or is this quite common? "

But your a really sexy lady your not far or ugly at all, just a had a quick look at your pics your sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like degradation in terms of being called slut/whore etc, but I wouldn’t like it like that I don’t think.

Do you know what it is about it that you like?

I’m not sure, I think it’s because I have always been overweight but confident since my mid twenties about my appearance, so when I am called names it takes me back to my younger days and how even though it hurt then it doesn’t anymore, a bit like owning the insults I suppose. "

That’s a really positive way through it, and empowering for you

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By *oncupiscent_dreamMan
over a year ago

City

Probably rarer than most. Might be hard to find guys into it, can only imagine the reaction a guy would get if he said he likes droopy fat women on here, women would probably go to town on him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like degradation in terms of being called slut/whore etc, but I wouldn’t like it like that I don’t think.

Do you know what it is about it that you like?

I’m not sure, I think it’s because I have always been overweight but confident since my mid twenties about my appearance, so when I am called names it takes me back to my younger days and how even though it hurt then it doesn’t anymore, a bit like owning the insults I suppose.

That’s a really positive way through it, and empowering for you "

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi OP

It's fantastic when people find a kink which works for them, so I am really happy for you and hope you get a lot of excitement for many years to come.

It's not a kink I share, probably because I am not confident with my body and therefore if I was degraded for my body it would not have the desired effect.

NBVN x"

You should be confident about your body, after looking at your pictures I find it quite attractive and I have no doubt you receive plenty of compliments on here.

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