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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

'swingers' club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me me me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If not WHY not?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Me. There are none in Northern Ireland and only a couple on the entire island. They are hours away, only open a couple of times a month and are invitation only.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"If not WHY not? "

I’ve been to a few and found the treatment of single guys, both from the establishment and the people there, to be somewhat demeaning.

I’m a fairly meek and timid guy, especially in situations where I might come off as creepy. I’d much prefer to respectfully hang bank until I’m 200% certain I’m accepted.

Despite that I was treated and looked at like a wild animal and left after a short while. I dunno if I’d return to one unless it was as part of a couple

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *C7995XCouple
over a year ago

London


"'swingers' club?"

Us

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If not WHY not?

I’ve been to a few and found the treatment of single guys, both from the establishment and the people there, to be somewhat demeaning.

I’m a fairly meek and timid guy, especially in situations where I might come off as creepy. I’d much prefer to respectfully hang bank until I’m 200% certain I’m accepted.

Despite that I was treated and looked at like a wild animal and left after a short while. I dunno if I’d return to one unless it was as part of a couple "

Awww Mr S that's rubbish, I get what your saying though. It's not for everyone

Claire

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've only been once and it wasn't a pleasant experience.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

I’d love to, but I’d need some sort of “intro” club.

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"If not WHY not?

I’ve been to a few and found the treatment of single guys, both from the establishment and the people there, to be somewhat demeaning.

I’m a fairly meek and timid guy, especially in situations where I might come off as creepy. I’d much prefer to respectfully hang bank until I’m 200% certain I’m accepted.

Despite that I was treated and looked at like a wild animal and left after a short while. I dunno if I’d return to one unless it was as part of a couple "

Damn, sorry to hear that and maybe a little apprehensive now myself I too wouldn't want to be the pushy type and possibly miss out for being unsure.

Have been and enjoyed clubs as a couple though and really want to as a single... if nothing else, I enjoy the atmosphere and feel more comfortable in a swingers club as opposed to a normal night club.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If not WHY not? "

I've not had interest in going to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me don’t feel comfortable going on my own

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Me but I hope to rectify that next weekend

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By *hebfg2020Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

Question is who wants to take me ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and I have no intention of ever going either. Heard too many horror stories and I'm not much of an exhibitionist either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me once the looks I got made me laugh you could see in there faces o no another single zombie was hilarious was only there dropping some stuff off I'd never go to one .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'swingers' club?"
me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'swingers' club?"

I'll wait for your reply, cos you've signed out OP.....

You've got swingers club down as an interest - so have you been or want too?

Would reviews or verifications make your mind up in going or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If not WHY not?

I’ve been to a few and found the treatment of single guys, both from the establishment and the people there, to be somewhat demeaning.

I’m a fairly meek and timid guy, especially in situations where I might come off as creepy. I’d much prefer to respectfully hang bank until I’m 200% certain I’m accepted.

Despite that I was treated and looked at like a wild animal and left after a short while. I dunno if I’d return to one unless it was as part of a couple "

You'd still consider swingers clubs though, seen as it's an interest you've ticked?

Or does that mean something totally different to you.....

I'm here to learn not to have a dig.....

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I haven't. I'm definitely curious but I always manage to talk myself out of it

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Me "

I tried to PM you, but your age filters won’t let me. Not coming on to you, I promise!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I went to one a couple of weeks ago as I’ve always been intrigued. Didn’t think it would be for me and it wasn’t. Had a good laugh though with the people I went with.

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By *hrissycox66TV/TS
over a year ago

watford

Me but on my bucket list

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Me

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Millions of times

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Me. Not yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regulars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me. Not yet."

Take me with you xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Question is who wants to take me ha "

Any 'single' ladies want to take me, nudge, nudge, wink, wink.

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By *irstTime4everythingCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Never been, would like to try going soon though

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Kink and cross over events many times, but not yet to a swinging night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me "
sure your get offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me

I tried to PM you, but your age filters won’t let me. Not coming on to you, I promise!"

Thats what they all say ha ha ha

Lifted the filters now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been once as a single guy and it wasn’t a pleasant experience, felt like an outsider from Mars.

So not not been to one properly, would be nice to go with a +1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I havnt gone yet because as a single guy it would feel like I’m an outsider, also I’m very bad at talking to new people off the bat so going up to people would be a no. So just sitting back awkwardly would be creepy to others. I think for single guys the best bet is to go with someone so it eases the tension.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess I havnt gone yet because as a single guy it would feel like I’m an outsider, also I’m very bad at talking to new people off the bat so going up to people would be a no. So just sitting back awkwardly would be creepy to others. I think for single guys the best bet is to go with someone so it eases the tension."

Would you go to a club with another fella?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"If not WHY not?

I’ve been to a few and found the treatment of single guys, both from the establishment and the people there, to be somewhat demeaning.

I’m a fairly meek and timid guy, especially in situations where I might come off as creepy. I’d much prefer to respectfully hang bank until I’m 200% certain I’m accepted.

Despite that I was treated and looked at like a wild animal and left after a short while. I dunno if I’d return to one unless it was as part of a couple

You'd still consider swingers clubs though, seen as it's an interest you've ticked?

Or does that mean something totally different to you.....

I'm here to learn not to have a dig....."

As my last sentence says, I’d still consider going as part of a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If not WHY not?

I’ve been to a few and found the treatment of single guys, both from the establishment and the people there, to be somewhat demeaning.

I’m a fairly meek and timid guy, especially in situations where I might come off as creepy. I’d much prefer to respectfully hang bank until I’m 200% certain I’m accepted.

Despite that I was treated and looked at like a wild animal and left after a short while. I dunno if I’d return to one unless it was as part of a couple

You'd still consider swingers clubs though, seen as it's an interest you've ticked?

Or does that mean something totally different to you.....

I'm here to learn not to have a dig.....

As my last sentence says, I’d still consider going as part of a couple "

Ahh champion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t because I’m a bit of a wuss.

I’d love to go though. I just can’t find it in me to actually go

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Me

I tried to PM you, but your age filters won’t let me. Not coming on to you, I promise!

Thats what they all say ha ha ha

Lifted the filters now "

Give me 5

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Went (and started going again now) fairly regularly. Initially as a single (not a problem at my local club which is great) and now usually with a fwb or as a chaperone on occasions.

I guess not all clubs have the same vibe for single guys but you’ll never know until you just go for it.

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By *aldyreynoldsMan
over a year ago

Oldbury

When I was in a relationship we were regulars at one club but not been since I was "free", about 5 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me , scared

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Went (and started going again now) fairly regularly. Initially as a single (not a problem at my local club which is great) and now usually with a fwb or as a chaperone on occasions.

I guess not all clubs have the same vibe for single guys but you’ll never know until you just go for it. "

I get what you’re saying, but ‘just going for it’ can be quite an expensive ‘suck it and see’ (excuse the pun ) for single men.

It must take a lot of courage, from what I’ve seen on various threads.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I haven't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't, we'd like to when the time is right but we'd also like to go with someone first time.

-C

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Never been but I'm a relative newbie and wanting to experience being with a lot of like minded people, I am however apprehensive and would hate to have a negative experience, I was wondering if it would be best to find others to at least meet up with who know you are going and at least break the ice and not feel isolated all night. Not sure how I would approach a first time club visit but feel ready for one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess I havnt gone yet because as a single guy it would feel like I’m an outsider, also I’m very bad at talking to new people off the bat so going up to people would be a no. So just sitting back awkwardly would be creepy to others. I think for single guys the best bet is to go with someone so it eases the tension.

Would you go to a club with another fella? "

then it’d be two single males which wouldn’t help I think but I dunno. I’d prefer going with a female as then I’d be more approachable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went to one a couple of weeks ago as I’ve always been intrigued. Didn’t think it would be for me and it wasn’t. Had a good laugh though with the people I went with. "

This sounds like me, I'd probably just go once just to say I tried it but I really don't think it's my kind of thing from what I've heard.

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By *r naughty1Man
over a year ago

Bexley

Not been before but have always wanted to. Although from other comments not sure its a great thing on your own there

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Me! Part of me is interested to see what it would be like, but on a realistic level I don’t think I’d enjoy it if I did go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me! Part of me is interested to see what it would be like, but on a realistic level I don’t think I’d enjoy it if I did go "
tbh I think I wouldn’t too. But I’m still intrigued in how and what goes on in there.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’ve been to quite a few but I always say that’ll be the last time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t been yet as I don’t have anyone to go with.

‘Riding into town solo’ in itself doesn’t bother me too much (a little though), I think I’m more concerned by how I’ll look to everyone else….”Oh FFS, another solo male ”….which judging by some of the comments here seems entirely plausible.

A female, couple or group to go with feels like it would be better option, or meet one of those once inside the venue.

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By *igsy8Man
over a year ago

Accrington

No. But never say never, experience is part of what makes us who we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, concerned over how a reserved single guy is received and its also very expensive

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By *ack and MiriCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Us because we only started discussing trying swinging at the start of lock down now clubs are opening up again it's a case of finding the right one and picking a date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I went to one a couple of weeks ago as I’ve always been intrigued. Didn’t think it would be for me and it wasn’t. Had a good laugh though with the people I went with.

This sounds like me, I'd probably just go once just to say I tried it but I really don't think it's my kind of thing from what I've heard. "

To be fair it wasn’t as bad as I imagined. I thought people would be wondering why I was there if I didn’t want to get involved but it really wasn’t like that at all. People were really nice and it was nothing like I thought it would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah singletons M and F have a difficult time.

If you're thinking you won't be received well, because you're on your own, I wouldn't go, it's not for you.

You have to be quite confident, chatty, vivacious to be able to gain any attention.

A bit like Fab really!

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Us, yet..

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By *igsy8Man
over a year ago

Accrington

I'm curious.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yeah singletons M and F have a difficult time.

If you're thinking you won't be received well, because you're on your own, I wouldn't go, it's not for you.

You have to be quite confident, chatty, vivacious to be able to gain any attention.

A bit like Fab really! "

I didn’t want any attention. I think I was the quietest I’ve ever been on a night out! . I do agree though. I think it’s a totally different experience for couples x

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I haven’t been to one yet but won’t go alone and hubby won’t go with me

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I know 4 people who went to clubs for the first time in the last month. Two single women who had a great time and couldn't wait to go back but the couple didn't enjoy their experience.

The can tick it off their bucket list but won't be back.

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

I haven't just because

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah singletons M and F have a difficult time.

If you're thinking you won't be received well, because you're on your own, I wouldn't go, it's not for you.

You have to be quite confident, chatty, vivacious to be able to gain any attention.

A bit like Fab really!

I didn’t want any attention. I think I was the quietest I’ve ever been on a night out! . I do agree though. I think it’s a totally different experience for couples x"

There's a guy above our posts, who's talking about not being received well if he went....

I'm throwing my post into the mix for those who haven't been....

It's not all great shakes at clubs - it's just I never see any positive, until you came along!

Thank fuck for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Visited one yesterday had a fantastic time

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By *veragecouple321Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

We have never been to a club, mainly because the wife doesn't want to, which is her perogative, and I don't play with others, so very little point really.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Me

As an 81 year old singleton I cannot imagine that I would derive much pleasure from going to a club.

Being quite honest it is not really my thing.

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Me! I've never been.

Very interested! Sad I couldn't have done it earlier....

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yeah singletons M and F have a difficult time.

If you're thinking you won't be received well, because you're on your own, I wouldn't go, it's not for you.

You have to be quite confident, chatty, vivacious to be able to gain any attention.

A bit like Fab really!

I didn’t want any attention. I think I was the quietest I’ve ever been on a night out! . I do agree though. I think it’s a totally different experience for couples x

There's a guy above our posts, who's talking about not being received well if he went....

I'm throwing my post into the mix for those who haven't been....

It's not all great shakes at clubs - it's just I never see any positive, until you came along!

Thank fuck for that "

I can imagine it’s really difficult for single men. There seemed to be a lot sort of hanging around not knowing what to do with themselves. It was apparently a quieter night than normal when I went though. Word must have got round that I was going x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Me. I wouldn't want to go alone and there's nothing really near enough to me on a regular basis.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Kink and cross over events many times, but not yet to a swinging night."

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Went (and started going again now) fairly regularly. Initially as a single (not a problem at my local club which is great) and now usually with a fwb or as a chaperone on occasions.

I guess not all clubs have the same vibe for single guys but you’ll never know until you just go for it.

I get what you’re saying, but ‘just going for it’ can be quite an expensive ‘suck it and see’ (excuse the pun ) for single men.

It must take a lot of courage, from what I’ve seen on various threads. "

God I was nervous the first time but still had a good experience. Over time you build up friendships and get to know the staff too.

Your right - it can be expensive for a single guy but once you know people you can go as a couple (split entry) and the club I go to is byob so there’s a saving there vs a nightclub.

Clubs are not going to suit many. As mentioned you do need to put the effort in to socialise and have some confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't. I'm intrigued but I'm a scaredy. I wouldn't want to do anything in front of anyone either... if I even had the chance.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I haven't. I'm intrigued but I'm a scaredy. I wouldn't want to do anything in front of anyone either... if I even had the chance. "

I'd be your chaperone.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Me. I'd like to visit one specially if it has a Gloryhole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't. I'm intrigued but I'm a scaredy. I wouldn't want to do anything in front of anyone either... if I even had the chance.

I'd be your chaperone. "

You'll have to hold my hand and drag me in when I have 2nd thoughts

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout


"Never been x "

I'll take you and then we can go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, not while most charge single men more !

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I haven't. I'm intrigued but I'm a scaredy. I wouldn't want to do anything in front of anyone either... if I even had the chance.

I'd be your chaperone.

You'll have to hold my hand and drag me in when I have 2nd thoughts "

I'll throw you over my shoulder if I have too. Xx

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Me, yet to go to one

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Me, yet to go to one "

Come on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me.....i think as single guy its just crossing the door then ill be fine......but it feels like a parachute jump when i think about going alone....plus... you hear lots about single guys being a bit creepy and i would hate to be tarred with that brush

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I haven't been yet. Just need to be in the right mood for interacting with large groups of people... Usually only happens once or twice a year lol.

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

I’ve not been to one but I’m hoping to change that soon. I’m a bit nervous though, as I’d be going on my own and while I’m not expecting to be invited to play (to avoid disappointment) I’m still feeling self conscious about being a chunky guy in that environment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been to one. Not yet anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. Not yet

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By *entlemenpipMan
over a year ago

not far

Me been tempted to many a times but didn't want to be the single guy at one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Never been but I'm a relative newbie and wanting to experience being with a lot of like minded people, I am however apprehensive and would hate to have a negative experience, I was wondering if it would be best to find others to at least meet up with who know you are going and at least break the ice and not feel isolated all night. Not sure how I would approach a first time club visit but feel ready for one. "

There’s a Leeds social this weekend and some will go off to a club afterwards so a social event then club could be the way forward as it’ll give you chance to chat to people and get to know them.

Look for organised socials

K

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’ve been to clubs as a single lady and a couple and never had a bad experience yet. In fact my first ever visit to a club I was the only lady there!

Looking forward to visiting Pandora’s for the first time this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to a club as a single female and as a single Male is totally different. It’s a lot harder for guys to go in and make friends etc. I really want to but just see all the single men saying they didn’t feel welcomed puts me off. Sucks it’s like that.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Me and unlikely I will.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Me although it’s in the plans for this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been to Xtasia and Liberty Elite for kink events but not swing events

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I’ve never been to one, mainly because the nearest to me is about 2 1/2 hours drive away, and that’s a long way to go if you’re going solo for your first club experience. Circumstances have meant that I’ve only been able to attend socials recently so I’m going to see how they go and maybe commit to a club in future…

Do they have bring a friend nights where people can bring newbies along?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the reason I haven’t been. The thought of going and what could happen is a big draw. But the thought of not knowing how I’ll be accepted as a single guy and the thought of being left on my own like a lemon and the not knowing the etiquette or what to do puts me off and I why I haven’t been before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planning to in Sept

Decided it was time to pull down my big boy pants and just do it

We shall see what happens

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By *hubster2016Man
over a year ago

T

I’ve not but am interested

But as said above being a single male I like to sit back take in the vibe and get a feel for the club. BUT this would be seen as creepy which I don’t want!

Once I’m happy I’ll chat and joke with anyone

Also well look at me! I’m not what others will want in their club so it would be like I need to leave, great that was a total waste of money and I now feel like shit!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet, for several years we used fab only to meet singles males for mmf but have more recently expanded our horizons and will definitely go, at the first opportunity we get!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going to a club as a single female and as a single Male is totally different. It’s a lot harder for guys to go in and make friends etc. I really want to but just see all the single men saying they didn’t feel welcomed puts me off. Sucks it’s like that. "

Yeah don't go Alex it's not for you. Don't rely upon finding someone to hold your hand, if its difficult to converse on here......

Enjoy fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going to a club as a single female and as a single Male is totally different. It’s a lot harder for guys to go in and make friends etc. I really want to but just see all the single men saying they didn’t feel welcomed puts me off. Sucks it’s like that.

Yeah don't go Alex it's not for you. Don't rely upon finding someone to hold your hand, if its difficult to converse on here......

Enjoy fab!"

Thanks...

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I’ve been about 3 times inmy own and feel like a fish out of water

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Clubs overseas can be less intimidating than ours here as they are more open to the lifestyle anyway ...especially Germany, or try ones in Spain when you can, they have the weather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't yet, on my to do list just wouldn't want to rock up alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is an idea for those who run the clubs Newbie Night to help ease people in, gain confidence and understand the etiquette etc

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've not yet been to one. Maybe at some point I will, maybe not.

It's a confidence thing with me - I enjoy socials so there's every chance I'd enjoy a club but I find the idea daunting.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

My prior self went to a few.

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