FabSwingers.com forum: Does every meet have too be fully planned

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does every meet have too be fully planned ,wheres the spontaneous people at ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer regular meets with a couple or lovely lady but that can be spontaneous. I like spontaneity.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes. I like to have a carefully thought out schedule for every meet, printed and signed so that all parties know exactly what their duties are and precisely how long they are expected to perform them for.

I always have a stopwatch and any deviance from the timeline incurs a penalty. 2 penalties per person are accepted but 3 strikes and you're quite frankly out.

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"Does every meet have too be fully planned ,wheres the spontaneous people at ...."
a lot peeps put on their profile "cant meet at drop of a hat" peeps have work and families.But single ladies have to be careful who and where they meet so spontaneity maybe gives way to safety concerns... but within the meet it should be full of fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does every meet have too be fully planned ,wheres the spontaneous people at .... a lot peeps put on their profile "cant meet at drop of a hat" peeps have work and families.But single ladies have to be careful who and where they meet so spontaneity maybe gives way to safety

Yes ofcourse,we mean sometimes we are horny and would love too be able too sort a meet randomly,nore exciting sometimes,we have had messers abd time wasters after planning a week or 2 ahead ,it gets boring

concerns... but within the meet it should be full of fun."

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Does every meet have too be fully planned ,wheres the spontaneous people at ...."

Depends on the individuals, our meets were always planned - 1) We were busy people 2) Nice hotel or campsite, meal, plan to either whole evening/night or weekend.

We always found that quick or spontaneous meets were always disappointing and very unfulfilling. Planned meets, say weekend seem to end up with regular and quality meets.

But each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I like to have a carefully thought out schedule for every meet, printed and signed so that all parties know exactly what their duties are and precisely how long they are expected to perform them for.

I always have a stopwatch and any deviance from the timeline incurs a penalty. 2 penalties per person are accepted but 3 strikes and you're quite frankly out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love some spontaneous fun. We would rather be out for a nice walk or out for drinks and meet people and just fuck

Molly Xx

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"We love some spontaneous fun. We would rather be out for a nice walk or out for drinks and meet people and just fuck

Molly Xx"

That kind of spontaneity can be amazing but that is where things just happen, and has quite few times but that was not associated with a meet, just random encounters.

For us there is a big difference between FAF meet spontaneity for us would be a non starter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We love some spontaneous fun. We would rather be out for a nice walk or out for drinks and meet people and just fuck

Molly Xx"

We are excactly the same,dont mind a planned meet ,but spontaneous meets are always more fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like spontaneity with someone I know and trust.

But to meet a total stranger at the drop of a hat, without thinking the safety logistics through and getting to know them? No thanks.

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Spontaneous is good

Though hoping my next meet has a list ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned.

I did a lot of spontaneous hook-ups with men off tinder and pulling in clubs etc when I was younger. It was fun, but when you're that age most people you meet are just looking for some harmless fun. I'm older and wiser now and realise I shouldn't be putting myself in those situations anymore, for my own safety.

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By *dventureSeeker23Man
over a year ago

Leicester

mostly but always open to spare of the moment ones if I have a free day

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Never with strangers. Safety first.

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

Spontaneous with a regular play mate? Absolutely! With a random stranger off the internet? Not a hope in hells chance!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Spontaneous meets with people we know sure, but not with people we haven’t met or discussed anything.

It would likely end up a disappointing meeting for all involved as we need to agree up front what we are going to do.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

The time and place has to be, but what happens, no.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"The time and place has to be, but what happens, no."

This for me too.

I cannot be doing with preplanned sexual expectations. Sex should be spontaneous, and fun for all.

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland

I always have a stopwatch and any deviance from the timeline incurs a penalty. 2 penalties per person are accepted but 3 strikes and you're quite frankly out.

I always time how long the guy is expected to fuck me for, but the second hand on my watch broke

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Heaven forbid people actually have a life, commitments and responsibilities, let alone the sense to try and ensure their own safety.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Time and place need to be planned. A rough idea of likes and dislikes is useful but the rest is mostly go with the flow.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I like spontaneity with someone I know and trust.

But to meet a total stranger at the drop of a hat, without thinking the safety logistics through and getting to know them? No thanks."

This

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I always have a stopwatch and any deviance from the timeline incurs a penalty. 2 penalties per person are accepted but 3 strikes and you're quite frankly out.

I always time how long the guy is expected to fuck me for, but the second hand on my watch broke

Ahh, see.... stopwatch and a back up. That's the key.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've had one spontaneously arranged meet.

The only thing I got from it was being able to write the sentence above.

Time and location always require planning but the content is always spontaneous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like planned… spontaneity is fantastic when it’s with a regular playmate x but planning a first play date then I like to have planned it.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We got dragged into a room with another couple in a club without even speaking to them

that was spontaneous!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The time and place has to be, but what happens, no.

This for me too.

I cannot be doing with preplanned sexual expectations. Sex should be spontaneous, and fun for all. "

Excactly what we think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We got dragged into a room with another couple in a club without even speaking to them

that was spontaneous!"

Hahaha like this

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

A bit of both for us…well actually planned for me but I like to surprise C now and again with a meet she knows nothing about.

But a lot of time, the fun is in the build up and working yourselves up so when you meet it’s electric.

We never plan it to the nth degree and know what position is happening but like to talk about what we want to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, yes, because I have kids. I'd love to just have some spontaneous fun once in a while

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

All my best meets have been planned, a social first then fun after/later date.

I did one quicker meet and it wasn't the same and wasn't that enjoyable.

Each to their own, but I wouldn't meet a stranger spontaneously.

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