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By *istress_L-Captain OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southport

I started dating my boyfriend just over two months. We were drinking alot the other night and I finally decided to tell him how turned on I would be watching him with another woman!

His reaction wasn't what I thought. He said yeah that sounds fun but I don't think i'm man enough to please two women.

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over a year ago

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By *istress_L-Captain OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Forgot to add he did say I could set it up tho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forgot to add he did say I could set it up tho!"
soooooooo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's just managing expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forgot to add he did say I could set it up tho!"

you will have to let us know how you get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's just managing expectations. "
lol +1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started dating my boyfriend just over two months. We were drinking alot the other night and I finally decided to tell him how turned on I would be watching him with another woman!

His reaction wasn't what I thought. He said yeah that sounds fun but I don't think i'm man enough to please two women."

That's man-speak for "fuck yeah, bring it on!"

By saying it the way he did he makes you think even more of him.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not all men are into threesomes or sharing!!

I know, I know, I'm saying the unsayable on a swingers site! Be careful honey, don't destroy what you have.

(and people, would you be so gung ho if this was a single male proposing the same??)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a man (apparently) I'm prepared to wager that the man kept a straight face and pulled off nonchalance very well.

While at the same time he was having a big fuck-off mardi gras in his head, with big banners saying "who's the fucking daddy?" while a marching band plays Happy birthday to you and the crowd cheers "Your girlfriend is the bomb!"

Something like that.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a man (apparently) I'm prepared to wager that the man kept a straight face and pulled off nonchalance very well.

While at the same time he was having a big fuck-off mardi gras in his head, with big banners saying "who's the fucking daddy?" while a marching band plays Happy birthday to you and the crowd cheers "Your girlfriend is the bomb!"

Something like that....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not easy for a man at times having two woman that are both looking for loads of everything in a meet .. why i find if the lady is bi it helps. He can rest and look at two woman and get back to it after . lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine he can't believe his luck but what a great reaction.

Does he play poker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not easy for a man at times having two woman that are both looking for loads of everything in a meet .. why i find if the lady is bi it helps. He can rest and look at two woman and get back to it after . lol "

Exactly. Like a visual can of redbull!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

If this was a man posting this there would be many people asking why the OP has a profile on here and does the OH know etc etc.....but it seems pretty tame up to now and even giving advice.

Funny how a gender makes a difference to what answers people get.

To the OP.....if you arrange, I hope you both enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not easy for a man at times having two woman that are both looking for loads of everything in a meet .. why i find if the lady is bi it helps. He can rest and look at two woman and get back to it after . lol

Exactly. Like a visual can of redbull!

"
sure is , lol and as good as viagra ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started dating my boyfriend just over two months. We were drinking alot the other night and I finally decided to tell him how turned on I would be watching him with another woman!

His reaction wasn't what I thought. He said yeah that sounds fun but I don't think i'm man enough to please two women."

your fella is doing something that I call "under promise....over deliver"

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Its not easy for a man at times having two woman that are both looking for loads of everything in a meet .. why i find if the lady is bi it helps. He can rest and look at two woman and get back to it after . lol "

would tend to agree from a personal perspective..

initially the 'pressure to perform' etc can be a little bit off putting..

what us guys need are more opportunities to allay any such little doubts..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

after only 2 months in aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be over the MOON if that was me, i would certainly step up to the challenge!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

But seriously guys, there are men who this does not appeal to.

If it was a girlfriend we'd be advising to be sure and not to do something you can't take back. Why should the advice be any different because most men would love if their girlfriend suggested this - most!

I have been in a relationship that imploded after my boyfriend persuaded me to try a threesome. I enjoyed it, he did not.

Noone should be persuaded or bullied or steamrollered into something just because so many would love it.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


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Noone should be persuaded or bullied or steamrollered into something just because so many would love it."

agree 100%, therein lies disaster

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"But seriously guys, there are men who this does not appeal to.

If it was a girlfriend we'd be advising to be sure and not to do something you can't take back. Why should the advice be any different because most men would love if their girlfriend suggested this - most!

I have been in a relationship that imploded after my boyfriend persuaded me to try a threesome. I enjoyed it, he did not.

Noone should be persuaded or bullied or steamrollered into something just because so many would love it."

I agree with your points. My thoughts also went to 'and what happens if you find you don't like seeing him playing with another woman?' More open and honest conversation needed and taking it slowly.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I would be over the MOON if that was me, i would certainly step up to the challenge!"

Then all is good if you are the OP's boyfriend. Does she know you are on here too?

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By *istress_L-Captain OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southport

When we first got together I hid my profile but I let him see it etc. There is a reason i'm still on here. I'm spying on a mate's boyfriend I found on here.

My bf is happy for me to keep my profile as long as i'm not meeting. I normally only come on here when he's with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If this was a man posting this there would be many people asking why the OP has a profile on here and does the OH know etc etc.....but it seems pretty tame up to now and even giving advice.

Funny how a gender makes a difference to what answers people get.

To the OP.....if you arrange, I hope you both enjoy "

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"When we first got together I hid my profile but I let him see it etc. There is a reason i'm still on here. I'm spying on a mate's boyfriend I found on here.

My bf is happy for me to keep my profile as long as i'm not meeting. I normally only come on here when he's with me."

You don't have to explain, no one asked you anyway

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden


"When we first got together I hid my profile but I let him see it etc. There is a reason i'm still on here. I'm spying on a mate's boyfriend I found on here.

My bf is happy for me to keep my profile as long as i'm not meeting. I normally only come on here when he's with me."
totally honest. Totally open. The guy knew what he was getting into from the start. Go for it and enjoy. Stay open, stay honest and be prepared to stop half way thru if it's not working for him. Don't see it's an issue.

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