FabSwingers.com forum: Very first thing you check..

By *un C OP Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

What is the very first thing you check on someone's profile when they message or view yours?

Certain pics, verified etc etc.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Tv/ts.

If it doesn't have this then I would never message first and will often not bother looking past it if it's not there.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're looking for single men and I'm in their age bracket. If those are a negative then there's no point

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Age.

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By *un C OP Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Yes that is so important. Although had so many where I have been sent fake pictures straight from the Internet. Ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How far away they are

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By *un C OP Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"How far away they are"

Nothing worse than seeing someone who looks amazing..... 150 miles away lol

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By *oaming doggerMan
over a year ago

manchester

I read the text first, look at interests and the photos

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Height

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By *ittlesub4uWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"I read the text first, look at interests and the photos"

Exactly the same for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location. Then age and height. Then photos. Then text. Then verifications

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

How far away they are and photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location. And then pics. Then profile. I search on verified so take that as a given.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Forum posts. Then text, veris, photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Status

Age

Distance

In that order

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

(Usually) Smoker - we both don’t smoke so wouldn’t want to meet smokers

Then pics

Then if female bi

Then profile

Sometimes forgot to check if smoker and get excited if tick all the other boxes, then realise they smoke and roll eyes

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Length and quality of profile text, then pictures, then verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures

Profile text

Veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text and pics.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Text, age, pics

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

That's me never getting a meet again then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics. Mostly I don't get past this stage

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By *un C OP Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Pics. Mostly I don't get past this stage

Sometimes it's hard.. very hard lol

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

I always look through the pics to see what their taste in decor is like first. If there are any pics of them in socks and sliders it’s always a bonus.

Only then will I look at the text to see if they would be remotely interested in fumbling in my undercrackers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always look through the pics to see what their taste in decor is like first. If there are any pics of them in socks and sliders it’s always a bonus.

Only then will I look at the text to see if they would be remotely interested in fumbling in my undercrackers. "

Lol. I check for toys ... And sometimes for clues it's a fake (eg the wrong type of plug sockets)

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Profile to see if they’re stuck up their own arse or sound like a down to earth person I could get on with. To me that’s more important than pics

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By *un C OP Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I always look through the pics to see what their taste in decor is like first. If there are any pics of them in socks and sliders it’s always a bonus.

Only then will I look at the text to see if they would be remotely interested in fumbling in my undercrackers. "

Haha quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics, then their Bio, and veris. But I’m usually looking fir a face pic as I like to know who I’m

Chatting too. But it’s also something I’d ask to see if the chat starts going really well

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

Normally location, we like regular meets with people if possible so localish is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any cam veris that match my interests too

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

My vision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else get confused by the ones that state people are "professional" ? Seems a bit head stuck up the own arse to me but maybe I'm misreading the status ?

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

Pictures and then age then location

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Looking for , age range. Then profile details. Pics, fab if like.Then wink or message. Depending on wording on profile.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If the guy is bi, straight men appear to have difficulty understanding that I don’t actually fancy them at all.

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Pulse... ie are they genuine

And then it depends why I'm there... general perving

, forum association or if I'm looking properly I'll scan read the text, look at the pics and then reread. Most profiles I'll read the text and the more piqued interest I've got, move on to the veris and double check age etc they're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly photo’s

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By *oldiertronixMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Pics, age, location, text

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

No wonder I’m getting nowhere

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Height (I know I know...it's 'heightist') ... it's a deal breaker though so might as well start there

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Pictures.

Profile text.

Are they photo verified?

I never check age as they either look good or don’t look good, regardless of when they were born.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Their age first and foremost.

Followed by their location, then bio and lastly pics.

If the first 3 don't appeal or aren't consistent I don't even look at the pics.

All before I open their message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the reason they are messaging tbh.

If it’s because they are interested then we check to make sure they’re Bi.

If it’s to do with the forums then no checks necessary.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Location, age preferences, pictures/videos, text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name, age , pics... Rarely click if it's a dick avatar

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By *eardybobMan
over a year ago

the Goldilocks Zone

Bio first - always.

The rest depends on what they said in their bio... I often just back away slowly at that point

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Verification summary

Personal details

Pics

Bio

Verifications

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading

Pictures, bio, varis usually in that order

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By *angria_girlukWoman
over a year ago

LUTON

If they are a smoker. No.

Location next

Pictures, does he always have a beard?

Verifications

Then the profile text .

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

What's written first, then their pics and verifications if they have them

If they've written only minimum ie ask /fill in later, I don't even look at the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the very first thing you check on someone's profile when they message or view yours?

Certain pics, verified etc etc.

Xx"

To see of they have ticked "Anal" on their interests.

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"Location. Then age and height. Then photos. Then text. Then verifications

This

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I vary a bit but notice the personal data, then pics, then recheck the text

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Pics closely followed by height.....

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Height

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Pics closely followed by height..... "

So glad you know me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location and pictures

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Photos

Distance

Age

Veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures

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