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"I post my opinion on the subject and accept it may not be the same as others, but everyone is entitled to their opinion. " Of course they are. Do you think it's important to be kind and respectful to the people you communicate with on here though, regardless of how you feel about what they're saying? Do you think people often get treated anonymously, as if they don't have feelings, just because we're online? Like I can't see half of the folk here being so bold with their critique if they were face to face with the person they're directing their text at?  | |||
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" no I just say what’s in my head "What's in your head today beautiful? | |||
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"I've started posting thought provoking questions as I like to see how other people answer and process the question. I agree there seems to be a few "I need hugs, validation attention etc" threads latwly which I just by-pass." If you need a hug just tell me  | |||
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"I sometimes argue a point just to see if I can. Almost as a way of seeing if I can understand both sides of a situation. I also think it adds to the discussions to have different views. But I don't seek to troll or wind up. " Debate is brilliant if we're respectful, and it's a learning opportunity. I think too many folk see it as a teaching opportunity though | |||
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"I've started posting thought provoking questions as I like to see how other people answer and process the question. I agree there seems to be a few "I need hugs, validation attention etc" threads latwly which I just by-pass. If you need a hug just tell me "I have a special jacket that let's me do it by myself | |||
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"I try to be mindful of other people's feelings. Mostly I get this right occasionally not. "We're human, right? People can see and give each other the befit of the doubt when things get accidentally heated | |||
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"I post my opinion on the subject and accept it may not be the same as others, but everyone is entitled to their opinion. Of course they are. Do you think it's important to be kind and respectful to the people you communicate with on here though, regardless of how you feel about what they're saying? Do you think people often get treated anonymously, as if they don't have feelings, just because we're online? Like I can't see half of the folk here being so bold with their critique if they were face to face with the person they're directing their text at? "Hopefully I respect everyone's opinion even if I think their wrong and would like people to respect mine. I've had people reply to my opinions rudely, but I try not to rise to the bait. Some seem to take opposing views as a personal attack, but I have a thick skin. | |||
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" no I just say what’s in my head
^^^This."Spill your brains please? | |||
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"I've started posting thought provoking questions as I like to see how other people answer and process the question. I agree there seems to be a few "I need hugs, validation attention etc" threads latwly which I just by-pass. If you need a hug just tell me
I have a special jacket that let's me do it by myself "I need one | |||
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" no I just say what’s in my head
What's in your head today beautiful?"Your arse | |||
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"I've started posting thought provoking questions as I like to see how other people answer and process the question. I agree there seems to be a few "I need hugs, validation attention etc" threads latwly which I just by-pass." You my love are RUDE! You said I talk shit the other day! xxx | |||
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"I've started posting thought provoking questions as I like to see how other people answer and process the question. I agree there seems to be a few "I need hugs, validation attention etc" threads latwly which I just by-pass. If you need a hug just tell me
I have a special jacket that let's me do it by myself
I need one "A hug or a jacket? | |||
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"I've started posting thought provoking questions as I like to see how other people answer and process the question. I agree there seems to be a few "I need hugs, validation attention etc" threads latwly which I just by-pass. If you need a hug just tell me "He gives good hugs (apparently  )^ | |||
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"I've started posting thought provoking questions as I like to see how other people answer and process the question. I agree there seems to be a few "I need hugs, validation attention etc" threads latwly which I just by-pass. If you need a hug just tell me
I have a special jacket that let's me do it by myself
I need one
A hug or a jacket? "A self hugging jacket | |||
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"I've started posting thought provoking questions as I like to see how other people answer and process the question. I agree there seems to be a few "I need hugs, validation attention etc" threads latwly which I just by-pass. You my love are RUDE! You said I talk shit the other day! xxx"Lol, to be fair...you probably were x | |||
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"That's why I stay out of the contentious threads OP. I prefer to flirt & post shite. What I dislike is someone taking offence at a tongue in cheek comment on a happy-go-lucky thread & it immediately nosedives. Just take your fun-sucking comments & go boil your head "I agree with this. People looking for fault and failure, usually to make themselves look super amazing and "sexy", right? | |||
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"I've started posting thought provoking questions as I like to see how other people answer and process the question. I agree there seems to be a few "I need hugs, validation attention etc" threads latwly which I just by-pass. If you need a hug just tell me
I have a special jacket that let's me do it by myself
I need one
A hug or a jacket?
A self hugging jacket "You can borrow mine, sharing is caring after all | |||
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"I post my opinion on the subject and accept it may not be the same as others, but everyone is entitled to their opinion. Of course they are. Do you think it's important to be kind and respectful to the people you communicate with on here though, regardless of how you feel about what they're saying? Do you think people often get treated anonymously, as if they don't have feelings, just because we're online? Like I can't see half of the folk here being so bold with their critique if they were face to face with the person they're directing their text at?
Hopefully I respect everyone's opinion even if I think their wrong and would like people to respect mine. I've had people reply to my opinions rudely, but I try not to rise to the bait.
Some seem to take opposing views as a personal attack, but I have a thick skin.
"Opposition is a learning opportunity. We're not always right either are we? x | |||
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" no I just say what’s in my head
What's in your head today beautiful?
Your arse "Awwww, that's made my day!
If only we could someone arrange touch arses | |||
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"PS I'm often ignored, but don't take it personally xx" Not on this thread | |||
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"That's why I stay out of the contentious threads OP. I prefer to flirt & post shite. What I dislike is someone taking offence at a tongue in cheek comment on a happy-go-lucky thread & it immediately nosedives. Just take your fun-sucking comments & go boil your head
I agree with this. People looking for fault and failure, usually to make themselves look super amazing and "sexy", right? "Too right! People being offended on my behalf pisses me off no end! If anyone offends me (though difficult to do if you're a stranger on t'interweb) I can stand my own ground. I'm a big girl | |||
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"I've started posting thought provoking questions as I like to see how other people answer and process the question. I agree there seems to be a few "I need hugs, validation attention etc" threads latwly which I just by-pass. If you need a hug just tell me
I have a special jacket that let's me do it by myself
I need one
A hug or a jacket?
A self hugging jacket
You can borrow mine, sharing is caring after all "Grand be there in 20min!!! | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. " This 
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult. | |||
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"Typing for me is no different than what I’d say in person, which my opinion on the topic, not everyone will like it, but I’ve never done fluff & unicorns. I give the flirt threads a wide berth as I do any true flirting in private. " But do you see a lot of unvalidated thoughts on the more serious threads? More gut reaction, anger and butthurtedness than a well thought out and researched respectful opinion? Closed off people willing to accept what fits their agenda? That's sort of thing. As with real life I guess at the moment x | |||
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"....think all the things you type on the fab forums? I mean really, when you REALLY think about what you think and hold dear, deep deep down in your hidden heart? Seems a lot more angry, inflammatory, disrespectful and self promotional lately without any need. I don't see much substance or truth visible except for the flirting type threads. Is it just me then? I think I'll stick to flirting for a bit or maybe even shagging. Tell me I'm pretty and send me boobs please, thanks ...Bob "I am not one for supporting generalisations and I do not see any hard evidence for "lot more angry, inflammatory, disrespectful and self promotional lately" as it would suggest a growing trend. To measure that we would need to have a proper analysis. As far as the 2nd statement of your post: "I don't see much substance or truth visible except for the flirting type threads". Yes, there are flirting threads and great for those who enjoy them (genuinely no sarcastic undertone here!) There are also quite a few threads that go a little deeper, Fallen Angel posted one on "integrity" just as an example. The beauty of the forum of course, lies in the fabric of its diversity and the and the fact we can choose where we want to participate. | |||
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"I've started posting thought provoking questions as I like to see how other people answer and process the question. I agree there seems to be a few "I need hugs, validation attention etc" threads latwly which I just by-pass. You my love are RUDE! You said I talk shit the other day! xxx
Lol, to be fair...you probably were x"You'll NEVER stop me! | |||
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"I try not to say anything offensive, but not always successfully. . Bringing laughter to the forums is my main goal. "I think you do that well fella | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. " This all day long | |||
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"I just post what I am thinking and unfiltered " Do you ever worry about how people will take it? How it might make them feel? x | |||
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"I've started posting thought provoking questions as I like to see how other people answer and process the question. I agree there seems to be a few "I need hugs, validation attention etc" threads latwly which I just by-pass. You my love are RUDE! You said I talk shit the other day! xxx
Lol, to be fair...you probably were x
You'll NEVER stop me! "Never...you amuse me | |||
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"I believe it at the time "Totally this - and people can change their minds based on new insights. | |||
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"Typing for me is no different than what I’d say in person, which my opinion on the topic, not everyone will like it, but I’ve never done fluff & unicorns. I give the flirt threads a wide berth as I do any true flirting in private. But do you see a lot of unvalidated thoughts on the more serious threads? More gut reaction, anger and butthurtedness than a well thought out and researched respectful opinion? Closed off people willing to accept what fits their agenda? That's sort of thing. As with real life I guess at the moment x" Is this forum just for well thought out and researched, respectful opinion? That would be elitist wouldn't it? | |||
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"That's why I stay out of the contentious threads OP. I prefer to flirt & post shite. What I dislike is someone taking offence at a tongue in cheek comment on a happy-go-lucky thread & it immediately nosedives. Just take your fun-sucking comments & go boil your head
I agree with this. People looking for fault and failure, usually to make themselves look super amazing and "sexy", right?
Too right!
People being offended on my behalf pisses me off no end!
If anyone offends me (though difficult to do if you're a stranger on t'interweb) I can stand my own ground. I'm a big girl "You haven't sent boobs yet btw, js | |||
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"I believe it at the time
Totally this - and people can change their minds based on new insights. "Yep. I do all the time. | |||
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"No! I just said Crocs were my favourite all time footwear! "Nowt wrong with crocs, until you tread on a thorn! | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. This
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult."Yep, we have no idea who we're talking to or how they're feeling or how what we say will make them feel. | |||
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" no I just say what’s in my head "^^^^^^^ I do this too..."say what's in my head"... But sometimes I should bite my tongue & think before I speak. Also alot of the time I haven't even read the full thread before commenting only the OPs opening post/mail | |||
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"....think all the things you type on the fab forums? I mean really, when you REALLY think about what you think and hold dear, deep deep down in your hidden heart? Seems a lot more angry, inflammatory, disrespectful and self promotional lately without any need. I don't see much substance or truth visible except for the flirting type threads. Is it just me then? I think I'll stick to flirting for a bit or maybe even shagging. Tell me I'm pretty and send me boobs please, thanks ...Bob
I am not one for supporting generalisations and I do not see any hard evidence for "lot more angry, inflammatory, disrespectful and self promotional lately" as it would suggest a growing trend. To measure that we would need to have a proper analysis.
As far as the 2nd statement of your post:
"I don't see much substance or truth visible except for the flirting type threads". Yes, there are flirting threads and great for those who enjoy them (genuinely no sarcastic undertone here!)
There are also quite a few threads that go a little deeper, Fallen Angel posted one on "integrity" just as an example.
The beauty of the forum of course, lies in the fabric of its diversity and the and the fact we can choose where we want to participate.
"Thanks for commenting. I've been here way too long I'm afraid, so I guess my personal experience is what I'm referring to, hence "is it just me". I've done some pretty thoughtful threads myself in my time but I think lots of people want a fight lately and to teach rather than learn from each other, which to me is a little sad. Also it helps no end to have boobs. Just my opinion, not necessarily fact | |||
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"I've started posting thought provoking questions as I like to see how other people answer and process the question. I agree there seems to be a few "I need hugs, validation attention etc" threads latwly which I just by-pass. You my love are RUDE! You said I talk shit the other day! xxx
Lol, to be fair...you probably were x
You'll NEVER stop me!
Never...you amuse me "Amuse/love yeah yeah.... | |||
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"I believe it at the time
Totally this - and people can change their minds based on new insights. "I hope so. I think it always helps to bear that in mind | |||
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"I've started posting thought provoking questions as I like to see how other people answer and process the question. I agree there seems to be a few "I need hugs, validation attention etc" threads latwly which I just by-pass. You my love are RUDE! You said I talk shit the other day! xxx
Lol, to be fair...you probably were x
You'll NEVER stop me!
Never...you amuse me
Amuse/love yeah yeah...." | |||
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"....think all the things you type on the fab forums? I mean really, when you REALLY think about what you think and hold dear, deep deep down in your hidden heart? Seems a lot more angry, inflammatory, disrespectful and self promotional lately without any need. I don't see much substance or truth visible except for the flirting type threads. Is it just me then? I think I'll stick to flirting for a bit or maybe even shagging. Tell me I'm pretty and send me boobs please, thanks ...Bob
I am not one for supporting generalisations and I do not see any hard evidence for "lot more angry, inflammatory, disrespectful and self promotional lately" as it would suggest a growing trend. To measure that we would need to have a proper analysis.
As far as the 2nd statement of your post:
"I don't see much substance or truth visible except for the flirting type threads". Yes, there are flirting threads and great for those who enjoy them (genuinely no sarcastic undertone here!)
There are also quite a few threads that go a little deeper, Fallen Angel posted one on "integrity" just as an example.
The beauty of the forum of course, lies in the fabric of its diversity and the and the fact we can choose where we want to participate.
Thanks for commenting. I've been here way too long I'm afraid, so I guess my personal experience is what I'm referring to, hence "is it just me". I've done some pretty thoughtful threads myself in my time but I think lots of people want a fight lately and to teach rather than learn from each other, which to me is a little sad. Also it helps no end to have boobs. Just my opinion, not necessarily fact "I hear you!
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"Typing for me is no different than what I’d say in person, which my opinion on the topic, not everyone will like it, but I’ve never done fluff & unicorns. I give the flirt threads a wide berth as I do any true flirting in private. But do you see a lot of unvalidated thoughts on the more serious threads? More gut reaction, anger and butthurtedness than a well thought out and researched respectful opinion? Closed off people willing to accept what fits their agenda? That's sort of thing. As with real life I guess at the moment x Is this forum just for well thought out and researched, respectful opinion? That would be elitist wouldn't it?" It's for anyone. I was simply commenting on a perceived change and a lower level of respect and what I'd call decency. I think trump should be able to use Twitter, but it doesn't make him right or nice! | |||
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"I post my opinion on the subject and accept it may not be the same as others, but everyone is entitled to their opinion. " same x | |||
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" no I just say what’s in my head
^^^^^^^ I do this too..."say what's in my head"... But sometimes I should bite my tongue & think before I speak.
Also alot of the time I haven't even read the full thread before commenting only the OPs opening post/mail"It's tricky at times, because to read the whole thread takes so long. I'm always making comments already made | |||
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"....think all the things you type on the fab forums? I mean really, when you REALLY think about what you think and hold dear, deep deep down in your hidden heart? Seems a lot more angry, inflammatory, disrespectful and self promotional lately without any need. I don't see much substance or truth visible except for the flirting type threads. Is it just me then? I think I'll stick to flirting for a bit or maybe even shagging. Tell me I'm pretty and send me boobs please, thanks ...Bob
I am not one for supporting generalisations and I do not see any hard evidence for "lot more angry, inflammatory, disrespectful and self promotional lately" as it would suggest a growing trend. To measure that we would need to have a proper analysis.
As far as the 2nd statement of your post:
"I don't see much substance or truth visible except for the flirting type threads". Yes, there are flirting threads and great for those who enjoy them (genuinely no sarcastic undertone here!)
There are also quite a few threads that go a little deeper, Fallen Angel posted one on "integrity" just as an example.
The beauty of the forum of course, lies in the fabric of its diversity and the and the fact we can choose where we want to participate.
Thanks for commenting. I've been here way too long I'm afraid, so I guess my personal experience is what I'm referring to, hence "is it just me". I've done some pretty thoughtful threads myself in my time but I think lots of people want a fight lately and to teach rather than learn from each other, which to me is a little sad. Also it helps no end to have boobs. Just my opinion, not necessarily fact I hear you!
For what it is worth.... I all ask my boobs to guide me in future debates "I'll let my cock do the talking! | |||
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"I post my opinion on the subject and accept it may not be the same as others, but everyone is entitled to their opinion. same x" Do you always post your opinion, even if everyone else is in disagreement? | |||
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There have been a few more "huggy" threads recently but lots of people are guilty of doing them. And you don't know what someone's going through so if it brings someone comfort I'm all for it. | |||
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"Typing for me is no different than what I’d say in person, which my opinion on the topic, not everyone will like it, but I’ve never done fluff & unicorns. I give the flirt threads a wide berth as I do any true flirting in private. But do you see a lot of unvalidated thoughts on the more serious threads? More gut reaction, anger and butthurtedness than a well thought out and researched respectful opinion? Closed off people willing to accept what fits their agenda? That's sort of thing. As with real life I guess at the moment x Is this forum just for well thought out and researched, respectful opinion? That would be elitist wouldn't it? It's for anyone. I was simply commenting on a perceived change and a lower level of respect and what I'd call decency. I think trump should be able to use Twitter, but it doesn't make him right or nice! "Igy (I just learned that from a young guy ).
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"I've seen a fair amount of truth/perception recently but much like your confirmation bias suggests a lot more anger, mine is seeing the former. I think that people, for a long time, have different posting styles and fall back on the ad hominem fallacy rather than engaging with a post. So you get that bickering. I enjoy reading the diversity of opinions, the exchanges of knowledge without either side getting annoyed. Like the tangents that occur when I learn more about posters because it's fascinating how people operate. I do tend to post a stream of consciousness but filtered so I can carry on posting.
There have been a few more "huggy" threads recently but lots of people are guilty of doing them. And you don't know what someone's going through so if it brings someone comfort I'm all for it."Huggy is fine, I'd love a hug from you Meli (and boobs)! I just meant a few folks seem to have maybe wandered over from the covid forum and seem up tight at not having anyone to argue with and some of the human respect seems to have gone? Otherwise the forum will always be the forum with its regulars, newbies and themes which is good | |||
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"Typing for me is no different than what I’d say in person, which my opinion on the topic, not everyone will like it, but I’ve never done fluff & unicorns. I give the flirt threads a wide berth as I do any true flirting in private. But do you see a lot of unvalidated thoughts on the more serious threads? More gut reaction, anger and butthurtedness than a well thought out and researched respectful opinion? Closed off people willing to accept what fits their agenda? That's sort of thing. As with real life I guess at the moment x" No thought is unvalidated as it is what the individual is thinking. Sometimes things are taken with anger, personal attacks that aren’t there and alike, it’s still that individual’s thought. Does an opinion really need research, maybe in some of the other forums or if someone is asking for advice, ie I wouldn’t accept medical advice from someone on here, however you can ask for their experience if they’ve been through it before. Some will have a very set mindset and no matter what someone else says, they won’t see it any other way but what is in their mind. | |||
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"Typing for me is no different than what I’d say in person, which my opinion on the topic, not everyone will like it, but I’ve never done fluff & unicorns. I give the flirt threads a wide berth as I do any true flirting in private. But do you see a lot of unvalidated thoughts on the more serious threads? More gut reaction, anger and butthurtedness than a well thought out and researched respectful opinion? Closed off people willing to accept what fits their agenda? That's sort of thing. As with real life I guess at the moment x Is this forum just for well thought out and researched, respectful opinion? That would be elitist wouldn't it? It's for anyone. I was simply commenting on a perceived change and a lower level of respect and what I'd call decency. I think trump should be able to use Twitter, but it doesn't make him right or nice!
Igy (I just learned that from a young guy ).
I tend to ask questions to spark debate rather than because I disagree.
I think there's a place for everyone or it would be deadly boring "Igy (I just learned that from an older couple) | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. This
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult.
Yep, we have no idea who we're talking to or how they're feeling or how what we say will make them feel. "We don’t, that’s true.. but you always have a choice.. post or not to post.. I guess we can’t always be responsible for how a person “felt” but we can be for how we make them “feel”. | |||
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"Typing for me is no different than what I’d say in person, which my opinion on the topic, not everyone will like it, but I’ve never done fluff & unicorns. I give the flirt threads a wide berth as I do any true flirting in private. But do you see a lot of unvalidated thoughts on the more serious threads? More gut reaction, anger and butthurtedness than a well thought out and researched respectful opinion? Closed off people willing to accept what fits their agenda? That's sort of thing. As with real life I guess at the moment x No thought is unvalidated as it is what the individual is thinking. Sometimes things are taken with anger, personal attacks that aren’t there and alike, it’s still that individual’s thought. Does an opinion really need research, maybe in some of the other forums or if someone is asking for advice, ie I wouldn’t accept medical advice from someone on here, however you can ask for their experience if they’ve been through it before. Some will have a very set mindset and no matter what someone else says, they won’t see it any other way but what is in their mind. " The last paragraph is what I meant, plus disrespectful and insulting at the same time (not to me I might add, I'm talking of a general observation). So debate and discussion with that type of person is futile, unless or course they're correct about absolutely everything! I think I must be getting old now accusing all the yoof of being disrespectful | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. This
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult.
Yep, we have no idea who we're talking to or how they're feeling or how what we say will make them feel.
We don’t, that’s true.. but you always have a choice.. post or not to post.. I guess we can’t always be responsible for how a person “felt” but we can be for how we make them “feel”. "Too right! I think a genuine thought is great, a malicious one to deliberately try to upset someone isn't. Most people can tell the difference both making and receiving | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. This
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult.
Yep, we have no idea who we're talking to or how they're feeling or how what we say will make them feel.
We don’t, that’s true.. but you always have a choice.. post or not to post.. I guess we can’t always be responsible for how a person “felt” but we can be for how we make them “feel”. "We don’t, that’s true.. but you always have a choice.. post or not to post.. I guess we can’t always be responsible for how a person “felt” but we can be for how we make them “feel”. Absolutely, we are not responsible for that person or their actions or responses. However, that bit of humanity inside us would suggest that a modicum of respect which everybody deserves, would prevent us from posting unfriendly, acidic or bullyish posts? | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. This
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult.
Yep, we have no idea who we're talking to or how they're feeling or how what we say will make them feel.
We don’t, that’s true.. but you always have a choice.. post or not to post.. I guess we can’t always be responsible for how a person “felt” but we can be for how we make them “feel”. "Isn't some of that responsibility also the other person's? Like, if they are seeing insult etc where there is none | |||
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"Bit deep for a swinging site,no??? Everything is acceptable here lol ask the Nice's "I think it is so lovely that we can have a bit deep right next to a bit shallow... there is genuinely something for everybody! | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. This
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult.
Yep, we have no idea who we're talking to or how they're feeling or how what we say will make them feel.
We don’t, that’s true.. but you always have a choice.. post or not to post.. I guess we can’t always be responsible for how a person “felt” but we can be for how we make them “feel”.
Isn't some of that responsibility also the other person's? Like, if they are seeing insult etc where there is none "This is true, as long as there were no insults. People can often be very cute about this, right? "I don't mean to offend but you're a xyz", " my niece suffers from ABC so I'm entitled to say this" etc | |||
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"Bit deep for a swinging site,no??? Everything is acceptable here lol ask the Nice's
I think it is so lovely that we can have a bit deep right next to a bit shallow... there is genuinely something for everybody! "The aim of this thread w6a deep and shallow simultaneously, like an in out motion, but nobody has sent boobs yet? | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. This
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult.
Yep, we have no idea who we're talking to or how they're feeling or how what we say will make them feel.
We don’t, that’s true.. but you always have a choice.. post or not to post.. I guess we can’t always be responsible for how a person “felt” but we can be for how we make them “feel”.
Isn't some of that responsibility also the other person's? Like, if they are seeing insult etc where there is none "I would say so - if I , for whatever reason, decide to be offended or upset that is down to me. And of course, in most situations the offending person does not realise what offense they have caused or even that they have caused it. For me I take responsibility for what I say to other people - full stop. And in doing so, I try my best not to cause problems. ANd when something triggers me, causes a strong emotional response in me, I tend to check why this is so.... usually not immediately but after I calmed down. | |||
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"Yes I do...there are times I read threads and if it were a conversation I’d join in...but the written word is easily misconstrued and so I think carefully before writing. But if I express an opinion or thought here I would have done exactly the same else where...after all I am me "I always read your posts with your wonderful heart stopping voice!  | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. This
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult.
Yep, we have no idea who we're talking to or how they're feeling or how what we say will make them feel.
We don’t, that’s true.. but you always have a choice.. post or not to post.. I guess we can’t always be responsible for how a person “felt” but we can be for how we make them “feel”.
Isn't some of that responsibility also the other person's? Like, if they are seeing insult etc where there is none
This is true, as long as there were no insults. People can often be very cute about this, right? "I don't mean to offend but you're a xyz", " my niece suffers from ABC so I'm entitled to say this" etc"We are talking about "microaggression" here... ? Not pleasant. | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. " Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji) | |||
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Spill your brains please? "Current brain spill is "why the fuck are our IT guys employed. They are numpties"...... | |||
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"I post how i feel my opinion, it may not be to others tastes or veiws. I tend not to get offended by others posts and if i do i don't resort to nastiness via posts nor do i do the sycophantic suking /degending others for a shag! " defending | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. This
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult.
Yep, we have no idea who we're talking to or how they're feeling or how what we say will make them feel.
We don’t, that’s true.. but you always have a choice.. post or not to post.. I guess we can’t always be responsible for how a person “felt” but we can be for how we make them “feel”.
Isn't some of that responsibility also the other person's? Like, if they are seeing insult etc where there is none "You don't see the insult, that's your perception. Others might perceive that differently...That is where the empathy and understanding come into play rather than shooting others down | |||
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"What you didn't mean it when you said I was beautiful OP? Totally aghast and devastated I am. Do I mean all I say on the forum, probably not I mean I flirt or what have you and it's sometimes lightheaded fun. Do I mean when I say something serious, yes but that's not always the whole truth. Like if I gave my total honest opinion all the time I'd live on the naughty step constantly. So it's a balance on a public forum I think. " How can we tell when you're flirting or when you're being serious my beautiful friend? | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. This
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult.
Yep, we have no idea who we're talking to or how they're feeling or how what we say will make them feel.
We don’t, that’s true.. but you always have a choice.. post or not to post.. I guess we can’t always be responsible for how a person “felt” but we can be for how we make them “feel”.
Isn't some of that responsibility also the other person's? Like, if they are seeing insult etc where there is none
You don't see the insult, that's your perception. Others might perceive that differently...That is where the empathy and understanding come into play rather than shooting others down"I think most people know when they're at risk of insulting others in my limited experience. Word choice is everything | |||
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"I post how i feel my opinion, it may not be to others tastes or veiws. I tend not to get offended by others posts and if i do i don't resort to nastiness via posts nor do i do the sycophantic suking /degending others for a shag! " But can you see though that a lot of folk would be using the forum for that exact purpose - to TRY to get a shag. So it explains some behaviours, although there a multitude of different motivations on here. | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. This
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult.
Yep, we have no idea who we're talking to or how they're feeling or how what we say will make them feel.
We don’t, that’s true.. but you always have a choice.. post or not to post.. I guess we can’t always be responsible for how a person “felt” but we can be for how we make them “feel”.
Isn't some of that responsibility also the other person's? Like, if they are seeing insult etc where there is none
You don't see the insult, that's your perception. Others might perceive that differently...That is where the empathy and understanding come into play rather than shooting others down
I think most people know when they're at risk of insulting others in my limited experience. Word choice is everything "Absolutely, but we do interpret the written words differently. You can't dismiss what the other sees because you interpret it differently | |||
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"What you didn't mean it when you said I was beautiful OP? Totally aghast and devastated I am. Do I mean all I say on the forum, probably not I mean I flirt or what have you and it's sometimes lightheaded fun. Do I mean when I say something serious, yes but that's not always the whole truth. Like if I gave my total honest opinion all the time I'd live on the naughty step constantly. So it's a balance on a public forum I think. How can we tell when you're flirting or when you're being serious my beautiful friend? "Who knows and who knows if you are telling the truth? I mean we don't tell the truth 100% of the time. Which kind of reminds me of the Jim Carrey film liar liar. But do we really believe all our own hype? I know I don't. I mean I'm human I fuck up on a regular basis. And often fail to take my own god damn advice. Our own ideals often don't match our realities. In an ideal world I would never loose my temper but I do. Would I advise others not to yes. Doesn't make me a bad person just human. | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. This
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult.
Yep, we have no idea who we're talking to or how they're feeling or how what we say will make them feel.
We don’t, that’s true.. but you always have a choice.. post or not to post.. I guess we can’t always be responsible for how a person “felt” but we can be for how we make them “feel”.
Isn't some of that responsibility also the other person's? Like, if they are seeing insult etc where there is none
You don't see the insult, that's your perception. Others might perceive that differently...That is where the empathy and understanding come into play rather than shooting others down
I think most people know when they're at risk of insulting others in my limited experience. Word choice is everything
Absolutely, but we do interpret the written words differently. You can't dismiss what the other sees because you interpret it differently "Any chance of some stunning boobs my lovely? Everyone else has failed me | |||
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. This
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult.
Yep, we have no idea who we're talking to or how they're feeling or how what we say will make them feel.
We don’t, that’s true.. but you always have a choice.. post or not to post.. I guess we can’t always be responsible for how a person “felt” but we can be for how we make them “feel”.
Isn't some of that responsibility also the other person's? Like, if they are seeing insult etc where there is none
You don't see the insult, that's your perception. Others might perceive that differently...That is where the empathy and understanding come into play rather than shooting others down
I think most people know when they're at risk of insulting others in my limited experience. Word choice is everything
Absolutely, but we do interpret the written words differently. You can't dismiss what the other sees because you interpret it differently
Any chance of some stunning boobs my lovely? Everyone else has failed me "Bloody hell! You never change! I have a public picture of boobs | |||
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"What you didn't mean it when you said I was beautiful OP? Totally aghast and devastated I am. Do I mean all I say on the forum, probably not I mean I flirt or what have you and it's sometimes lightheaded fun. Do I mean when I say something serious, yes but that's not always the whole truth. Like if I gave my total honest opinion all the time I'd live on the naughty step constantly. So it's a balance on a public forum I think. How can we tell when you're flirting or when you're being serious my beautiful friend?
Who knows and who knows if you are telling the truth?
I mean we don't tell the truth 100% of the time. Which kind of reminds me of the Jim Carrey film liar liar.
But do we really believe all our own hype? I know I don't. I mean I'm human I fuck up on a regular basis. And often fail to take my own god damn advice.
Our own ideals often don't match our realities. In an ideal world I would never loose my temper but I do. Would I advise others not to yes. Doesn't make me a bad person just human. "You and I both are great with advice we can't follow ourselves!
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"I think people forget that they are responding to real people who's thoughts feelings and opinions deserve validation. You can debate and offer a differing view without being derogatory and making personal attacks on people. This
I’m an empathetic person by nature, so I’ll always look get the full picture before posting any observation on line, especially taking note of “tone of voice”. Which is either a signal to steer clear of the more controversial topics or to actively participate..
Everyone has different personality traits, being accepting of all is difficult.
Yep, we have no idea who we're talking to or how they're feeling or how what we say will make them feel.
We don’t, that’s true.. but you always have a choice.. post or not to post.. I guess we can’t always be responsible for how a person “felt” but we can be for how we make them “feel”.
Isn't some of that responsibility also the other person's? Like, if they are seeing insult etc where there is none
You don't see the insult, that's your perception. Others might perceive that differently...That is where the empathy and understanding come into play rather than shooting others down
I think most people know when they're at risk of insulting others in my limited experience. Word choice is everything
Absolutely, but we do interpret the written words differently. You can't dismiss what the other sees because you interpret it differently
Any chance of some stunning boobs my lovely? Everyone else has failed me
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"Op, you want to be careful you are starting to sound like a dick-tator!??? Unfortunately we live in a democracy and that means we have to listen to very good/comments/staements as well as bad ones? Is it all happening cos we are returning back to some semblance of normal (with COVID vaccinations & that), and people are back to their normal selves? "Thanks for the masked insult and insight buddy | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)"I did specify "a lot of the time"..... | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
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"....think all the things you type on the fab forums? I mean really, when you REALLY think about what you think and hold dear, deep deep down in your hidden heart? Seems a lot more angry, inflammatory, disrespectful and self promotional lately without any need. I don't see much substance or truth visible except for the flirting type threads. Is it just me then? I think I'll stick to flirting for a bit or maybe even shagging. Tell me I'm pretty and send me boobs please, thanks ...Bob "Generally forum people say one thing in one thread and something, else in another thread and don't actually believe in anything they are saying. It is about popularity and saying what what they think will get their target audience attention. If you say something that touches home or strikes a nerve they can get very vindictive, name calling, underhanded swipes disguised as jest. Occasionally you'll get a thread that is interesting and maybe subjects that may be of value to others. But generally they are self serving, or trying to get exoneration. People don't like their flaws pointed out, like even less other people pointing them out and can be very retalitory. These are the forums how they have been and how they will remain. Shame - the good really does get masked by the bad. | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
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"....think all the things you type on the fab forums? I mean really, when you REALLY think about what you think and hold dear, deep deep down in your hidden heart? Seems a lot more angry, inflammatory, disrespectful and self promotional lately without any need. I don't see much substance or truth visible except for the flirting type threads. Is it just me then? I think I'll stick to flirting for a bit or maybe even shagging. Tell me I'm pretty and send me boobs please, thanks ...Bob
Generally forum people say one thing in one thread and something, else in another thread and don't actually believe in anything they are saying. It is about popularity and saying what what they think will get their target audience attention.
If you say something that touches home or strikes a nerve they can get very vindictive, name calling, underhanded swipes disguised as jest.
Occasionally you'll get a thread that is interesting and maybe subjects that may be of value to others. But generally they are self serving, or trying to get exoneration.
People don't like their flaws pointed out, like even less other people pointing them out and can be very retalitory.
These are the forums how they have been and how they will remain. Shame - the good really does get masked by the bad."Agreed | |||
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"....think all the things you type on the fab forums? I mean really, when you REALLY think about what you think and hold dear, deep deep down in your hidden heart? Seems a lot more angry, inflammatory, disrespectful and self promotional lately without any need. I don't see much substance or truth visible except for the flirting type threads. Is it just me then? I think I'll stick to flirting for a bit or maybe even shagging. Tell me I'm pretty and send me boobs please, thanks ...Bob
Generally forum people say one thing in one thread and something, else in another thread and don't actually believe in anything they are saying. It is about popularity and saying what what they think will get their target audience attention.
If you say something that touches home or strikes a nerve they can get very vindictive, name calling, underhanded swipes disguised as jest.
Occasionally you'll get a thread that is interesting and maybe subjects that may be of value to others. But generally they are self serving, or trying to get exoneration.
People don't like their flaws pointed out, like even less other people pointing them out and can be very retalitory.
These are the forums how they have been and how they will remain. Shame - the good really does get masked by the bad."I'd agree with most of that some of the time. There are still a few nice decent folk here who aren't always out for themselves. I think if people are then it's a thin mask not really worth wearing | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
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"I come on here to not think, so I just post random comments that I think is funny. Doubt many others do "I think you'd be surprised, this place is a little secret escape and playground for a lot of folks. It'd be great if we could all share the swings and play nicely | |||
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"I come on here to not think, so I just post random comments that I think is funny. Doubt many others do
Me too.
Now get ya kit off. "Also what he said, boobs plz | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
You've had boobs!
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
You've had boobs!
Show me some heart baby?
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
You've had boobs!
Show me some heart baby?
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
You've had boobs!
Show me some heart baby?
Pervert
Said the pervert to the other pervert!
I'm the innocent one here!"Is that relatively speaking? | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
You've had boobs!
Show me some heart baby?
Pervert
Said the pervert to the other pervert!
I'm the innocent one here!
Is that relatively speaking? "I'm a damn angel! | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
You've had boobs!
Show me some heart baby?
Pervert
Said the pervert to the other pervert!
I'm the innocent one here!
Is that relatively speaking?
I'm a damn angel!"So was Lucifer, js | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
You've had boobs!
Show me some heart baby?
Pervert
Said the pervert to the other pervert!
I'm the innocent one here!
Is that relatively speaking?
I'm a damn angel!
So was Lucifer, js "Aww.... you read my profile header | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
You've had boobs!
Show me some heart baby?
Pervert
Said the pervert to the other pervert!
I'm the innocent one here!
Is that relatively speaking?
I'm a damn angel!
So was Lucifer, js
Aww.... you read my profile header "Lololol I actually didn't! Great minds I guess
Where are the boobs plz? | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
You've had boobs!
Show me some heart baby?
Pervert
Said the pervert to the other pervert!
I'm the innocent one here!
Is that relatively speaking?
I'm a damn angel!
So was Lucifer, js
Aww.... you read my profile header
Lololol I actually didn't! Great minds I guess
Where are the boobs plz?"That would be in the gallery..... | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
You've had boobs!
Show me some heart baby?
Pervert
Said the pervert to the other pervert!
I'm the innocent one here!
Is that relatively speaking?
I'm a damn angel!
So was Lucifer, js
Aww.... you read my profile header
Lololol I actually didn't! Great minds I guess
Where are the boobs plz?
That would be in the gallery....."Galley schmallery, I want personalised boobs | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
You've had boobs!
Show me some heart baby?
Pervert
Said the pervert to the other pervert!
I'm the innocent one here!
Is that relatively speaking?
I'm a damn angel!
So was Lucifer, js
Aww.... you read my profile header
Lololol I actually didn't! Great minds I guess
Where are the boobs plz?
That would be in the gallery.....
Galley schmallery, I want personalised boobs "Check your box. Pervert | |||
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"Where has the substance gone? "It's all up there Meli^ Where are the boobs? | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
You've had boobs!
Show me some heart baby?
Pervert
Said the pervert to the other pervert!
I'm the innocent one here!
Is that relatively speaking?
I'm a damn angel!
So was Lucifer, js
Aww.... you read my profile header
Lololol I actually didn't! Great minds I guess
Where are the boobs plz?
That would be in the gallery.....
Galley schmallery, I want personalised boobs
Check your box. Pervert "I can't feel anything, is it in yet? | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
You've had boobs!
Show me some heart baby?
Pervert
Said the pervert to the other pervert!
I'm the innocent one here!
Is that relatively speaking?
I'm a damn angel!
So was Lucifer, js
Aww.... you read my profile header
Lololol I actually didn't! Great minds I guess
Where are the boobs plz?
That would be in the gallery.....
Galley schmallery, I want personalised boobs
Check your box. Pervert
I can't feel anything, is it in yet? "That's my line | |||
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"Depends on the thread and what I'm posting. If it's flirting then a lot of the time I don't necessarily genuinely think it, it's fun to flirt as it makes people smile. If I genuinely meant every flirty comment I made then I'd probably be having a lot of sex, and have a lot of restraining orders against me. But in a serious thread, or any time I make a serious point, yes. Completely and genuinely believe what I write. And I've probably overshared at times and given people way too much ammo to use against me. Wait, so all our history together was all fake? (broken heart emoji)
I did specify "a lot of the time".....
Still waiting for boobs
You've had boobs!
Show me some heart baby?
Pervert
Said the pervert to the other pervert!
I'm the innocent one here!
Is that relatively speaking?
I'm a damn angel!
So was Lucifer, js
Aww.... you read my profile header
Lololol I actually didn't! Great minds I guess
Where are the boobs plz?
That would be in the gallery.....
Galley schmallery, I want personalised boobs
Check your box. Pervert
I can't feel anything, is it in yet?
That's my line "Kinky! | |||
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