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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what are your opinions on age ladies? As a you guy who basically prefers an older women .. on a site where you have to be 30+ For women to even consider you haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age preference on here is under 30 but if I like someone age doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just add dick pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My age preference on here is under 30 but if I like someone age doesn't matter."

ahh damn, here in Yorkshire there’s basically zero women who what a younger guy haha so just gotta wait patiently hoping for one to come along ahha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just add dick pics."
I’ve seen that dick pics aren’t something girls wanna see on here lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I don't want to fuck someone young enough to be my son. Keep looking OP, I'm sure there will be some out there who like them young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age preference is direct relation to how far away a person stays

Only meet older guys close to home

Younger guys aren’t out they bragging faze

Don’t get me wrong I love that I know a guys going to brag to has friends and such about how he nailed me this way and that

But just don’t need it around my door step and such for family and stuff to hear about

20-35 I only meet if they from down south 35+ Scotland

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I don't want to fuck someone young enough to be my son. Keep looking OP, I'm sure there will be some out there who like them young."
yeah true, I get that. I shall scout out some cougar haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My opinion on age is that I like maturity in attitude and behaviour. If that comes at 20 or 99 makes no difference to me.

When it comes to sex I prefer a man over 40 and more likely a man over 50.

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

I'm too old now on paper. I think we all have a tendency to focus on what we can't achieve, rather than seeing that there are loads of suitable people out there on fab and maybe a slight adjustment to our approach would make a world of difference rather than asking why we can't have what we want

Also, add bumhole pics!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My opinion on age is that I like maturity in attitude and behaviour. If that comes at 20 or 99 makes no difference to me.

When it comes to sex I prefer a man over 40 and more likely a man over 50. "
igy, but seen as though it’s a site for meeting people even with maturity younger guys have no hope.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My opinion on age is that I like maturity in attitude and behaviour. If that comes at 20 or 99 makes no difference to me.

When it comes to sex I prefer a man over 40 and more likely a man over 50. igy, but seen as though it’s a site for meeting people even with maturity younger guys have no hope. "

Ah but you know older guys with maturity say that they have no hope either .

It's a numbers game. Men outnumber women and couples. Therefore they will get far fewer meets than the women and couples do. Age does come in to it of course but it would probably be less of a consideration if there were fewer men than women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My opinion on age is that I like maturity in attitude and behaviour. If that comes at 20 or 99 makes no difference to me.

When it comes to sex I prefer a man over 40 and more likely a man over 50. igy, but seen as though it’s a site for meeting people even with maturity younger guys have no hope.

Ah but you know older guys with maturity say that they have no hope either .

It's a numbers game. Men outnumber women and couples. Therefore they will get far fewer meets than the women and couples do. Age does come in to it of course but it would probably be less of a consideration if there were fewer men than women. "
yeah true igy. But for a young guy looking for older women on this site, not the best of luck hahaha it’s as if I’m making it harder for my self lolll but appreciate your input. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine every woman is different! For me, I tend to be attracted to men who are a bit younger than myself actually. But not too young. I find 27-35 ish is what I find most attractive, no idea why. It's not a fixed rule though, I'm attracted to people, not criteria.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The ladies on here are looking for different things.

Some are yohnger and seeking older, some are older looking for younger guys.

However, because the members ages generally lean to 40+, a lot of us have adult children and don't want to meet those young enough to be their son.

I don't meet men via Fab but in clubs with my husband I have met men in their 20s. It's a lot easier in person, as people see you as an idividual, not just your age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I imagine every woman is different! For me, I tend to be attracted to men who are a bit younger than myself actually. But not too young. I find 27-35 ish is what I find most attractive, no idea why. It's not a fixed rule though, I'm attracted to people, not criteria."
appreciate the info, but wow that last pic of you has done soemthing to me hehe. Have a great day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The ladies on here are looking for different things.

Some are yohnger and seeking older, some are older looking for younger guys.

However, because the members ages generally lean to 40+, a lot of us have adult children and don't want to meet those young enough to be their son.

I don't meet men via Fab but in clubs with my husband I have met men in their 20s. It's a lot easier in person, as people see you as an idividual, not just your age."

Ahh right I understand, club scene isn’t for me tho but I’ll just have to wait till some nice lady gives me a chance lol appreciate the help ma’am

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By *eWillMakeYouSquirtCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Age is a number if u like each other get on with the fun!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Age is a number if u like each other get on with the fun!!!"
that’s what I say!! But everyone has there preference, just so happens to be most like an older guy.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't go lower that 33 /34 ish.

The reason, I get on better with men around my age or older, give or take a few years.

It wouldn't feel right for me to meet anyone over 20 years younger than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age preference on here is under 30 but if I like someone age doesn't matter."

This ^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I wouldn't go lower that 33 /34 ish.

The reason, I get on better with men around my age or older, give or take a few years.

It wouldn't feel right for me to meet anyone over 20 years younger than me. "
that’s fine, I understand that, it’s easier to get along with people your age but have you ever tried out some “young meat” lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My age preference on here is under 30 but if I like someone age doesn't matter.

This ^ "
we need more people like this but local to me hahaha

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London


"Just add dick pics. I’ve seen that dick pics aren’t something girls wanna see on here lol "

Cocks the wrong type of “c” cake tell a woman you have cake both full fat and dairy free then you’ve covered your bases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are stacking the odds against yourself with zero photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just add dick pics."

Along with a lynx can, you are such an amateur

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are stacking the odds against yourself with zero photos "
the pics are being verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just add dick pics.

Along with a lynx can, you are such an amateur "

Excuse me, i've had 3 winks in the past week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are stacking the odds against yourself with zero photos the pics are being verified "

They've taken 7 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I don't want to fuck someone young enough to be my son. Keep looking OP, I'm sure there will be some out there who like them young."

Same

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You are stacking the odds against yourself with zero photos "

Yes, see what you can do to make your profile more appealing - it helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are stacking the odds against yourself with zero photos the pics are being verified

They've taken 7 months "
I’ve just uploaded them today haha today’s the only day I’ve started using fabs again properly so bare with me !! Hahah

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London


"You are stacking the odds against yourself with zero photos the pics are being verified

They've taken 7 months I’ve just uploaded them today haha today’s the only day I’ve started using fabs again properly so bare with me !! Hahah"

The green tick will do you no end of favours go for a simple social

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are stacking the odds against yourself with zero photos the pics are being verified

They've taken 7 months I’ve just uploaded them today haha today’s the only day I’ve started using fabs again properly so bare with me !! Hahah

The green tick will do you no end of favours go for a simple social"
I’m trying haha, but it’s hard out here loool

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You are stacking the odds against yourself with zero photos the pics are being verified

They've taken 7 months I’ve just uploaded them today haha today’s the only day I’ve started using fabs again properly so bare with me !! Hahah"

Dude- you’ve joined during pandemic, have an incomplete unverified profile all that time, admins to have not been using the site properly, don’t do clubs, BUT you feel entitled to come on the forums moaning how it’s impossible to find a match?

Has the penny dropped?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

You’re 4 years younger than one of my children

Over 35 for me x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

What Nora said ^ younger than my kids is a nowhere near…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are stacking the odds against yourself with zero photos the pics are being verified

They've taken 7 months I’ve just uploaded them today haha today’s the only day I’ve started using fabs again properly so bare with me !! Hahah

Dude- you’ve joined during pandemic, have an incomplete unverified profile all that time, admins to have not been using the site properly, don’t do clubs, BUT you feel entitled to come on the forums moaning how it’s impossible to find a match?

Has the penny dropped?"

The forums is a place to talk so I was asking about age. Drop the attitude..

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What Nora said ^ younger than my kids is a nowhere near… "

Add to that you are specifically looking for that elusive 99 year old. How’s that going?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What Nora said ^ younger than my kids is a nowhere near… "
yeah I see that’s the main problem here ahha, Gimme 5 years lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"What Nora said ^ younger than my kids is a nowhere near… yeah I see that’s the main problem here ahha, Gimme 5 years lol"

Lots of ladies like younger men and they’re not all as old as me on here . Give it time I’m sure you’ll find some interest x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What Nora said ^ younger than my kids is a nowhere near… yeah I see that’s the main problem here ahha, Gimme 5 years lol

Lots of ladies like younger men and they’re not all as old as me on here . Give it time I’m sure you’ll find some interest x"
yeah I know. It was mainly just a question as to what age women prefer tbh. Everyone has their own preferences

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"What Nora said ^ younger than my kids is a nowhere near…

Add to that you are specifically looking for that elusive 99 year old. How’s that going? "

Why you being mean . That’s not like you

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You are stacking the odds against yourself with zero photos the pics are being verified

They've taken 7 months I’ve just uploaded them today haha today’s the only day I’ve started using fabs again properly so bare with me !! Hahah

Dude- you’ve joined during pandemic, have an incomplete unverified profile all that time, admins to have not been using the site properly, don’t do clubs, BUT you feel entitled to come on the forums moaning how it’s impossible to find a match?

Has the penny dropped?

The forums is a place to talk so I was asking about age. Drop the attitude.."

Excuse me?! I was making valid points about this thread and your posts. And there’s nothing wrong with my attitude to drop.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What Nora said ^ younger than my kids is a nowhere near…

Add to that you are specifically looking for that elusive 99 year old. How’s that going?

Why you being mean . That’s not like you "

That was to Saffron who has her age range 99 to 99.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are stacking the odds against yourself with zero photos the pics are being verified

They've taken 7 months I’ve just uploaded them today haha today’s the only day I’ve started using fabs again properly so bare with me !! Hahah

Dude- you’ve joined during pandemic, have an incomplete unverified profile all that time, admins to have not been using the site properly, don’t do clubs, BUT you feel entitled to come on the forums moaning how it’s impossible to find a match?

Has the penny dropped?

The forums is a place to talk so I was asking about age. Drop the attitude..

Excuse me?! I was making valid points about this thread and your posts. And there’s nothing wrong with my attitude to drop. "
Your delivery with what you said wasn’t the best. Replying to people like that instead of advising can deter new fabsters.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"What Nora said ^ younger than my kids is a nowhere near…

Add to that you are specifically looking for that elusive 99 year old. How’s that going? "

Exceptionally well doesn’t matter what I write so often have to force silence here!

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

I'm 73 so all you ladies who prefer an older guy please form an orderly queue

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You are stacking the odds against yourself with zero photos the pics are being verified

They've taken 7 months I’ve just uploaded them today haha today’s the only day I’ve started using fabs again properly so bare with me !! Hahah

Dude- you’ve joined during pandemic, have an incomplete unverified profile all that time, admins to have not been using the site properly, don’t do clubs, BUT you feel entitled to come on the forums moaning how it’s impossible to find a match?

Has the penny dropped?

The forums is a place to talk so I was asking about age. Drop the attitude..

Excuse me?! I was making valid points about this thread and your posts. And there’s nothing wrong with my attitude to drop. Your delivery with what you said wasn’t the best. Replying to people like that instead of advising can deter new fabsters. "

People are advising you to do things that your either not bothered to do or been too lazy to do and yet you moan about how hard it is on here. There is nothing wrong with my delivery either but thank you for your opinion.

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

I’ve always gotten along with and had the best connection with men ten years older than me. I just don’t feel like I have much at all in common with my own age range let alone anyone younger although I have set an age preference my filters are off and if the first message is something that actually looks like a conversation and the profile isn’t empty I may well decide to have a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 73 so all you ladies who prefer an older guy please form an orderly queue "

Well I'm 63 so could almost class myself as a youngster then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are stacking the odds against yourself with zero photos the pics are being verified

They've taken 7 months I’ve just uploaded them today haha today’s the only day I’ve started using fabs again properly so bare with me !! Hahah

Dude- you’ve joined during pandemic, have an incomplete unverified profile all that time, admins to have not been using the site properly, don’t do clubs, BUT you feel entitled to come on the forums moaning how it’s impossible to find a match?

Has the penny dropped?

The forums is a place to talk so I was asking about age. Drop the attitude..

Excuse me?! I was making valid points about this thread and your posts. And there’s nothing wrong with my attitude to drop. Your delivery with what you said wasn’t the best. Replying to people like that instead of advising can deter new fabsters.

People are advising you to do things that your either not bothered to do or been too lazy to do and yet you moan about how hard it is on here. There is nothing wrong with my delivery either but thank you for your opinion. "
I’m not really moaning. I asked something, they responded in which I did what they advised me for. So instead of assuming and being slightly rude, put a smile on and be nice, but I never know, you may have had a bad day so hope you have a great rest of your day pal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on age is that one minute you are 18 with a whole life ahead of you. The next you are nearly 45 with only half a life ahead of you. If you're lucky.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

50 ish is my preferred age x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"50 ish is my preferred age x"
ma’am, you are a gilf. My bucket list..

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

My younger age limit is 35 (older than my son) and upper is 55 (a bit younger than me as I get on well with guys of a similar age to me). It’s not set in stone though if I’m attracted to a guy’s profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the whole my preference is for older men...however there are the odd and rare exceptions...largely this is down to how people interact and their profile..

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"My opinion on age is that one minute you are 18 with a whole life ahead of you. The next you are nearly 45 with only half a life ahead of you. If you're lucky. "

You’ve cheered me up no end cheers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My younger age limit is 35 (older than my son) and upper is 55 (a bit younger than me as I get on well with guys of a similar age to me). It’s not set in stone though if I’m attracted to a guy’s profile. "
to me I prefer older women but I wouldn’t just cancel out girls my age, as I never know if I’ll get along with them. I usually get along with older people tho but you never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My opinion on age is that one minute you are 18 with a whole life ahead of you. The next you are nearly 45 with only half a life ahead of you. If you're lucky.

You’ve cheered me up no end cheers "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think of my daughters ages , I wouldn’t like a couple any younger than the eldest one and she’s 41 x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always think of my daughters ages , I wouldn’t like a couple any younger than the eldest one and she’s 41 x"
but u have a nice butt

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You are stacking the odds against yourself with zero photos the pics are being verified

They've taken 7 months I’ve just uploaded them today haha today’s the only day I’ve started using fabs again properly so bare with me !! Hahah

Dude- you’ve joined during pandemic, have an incomplete unverified profile all that time, admins to have not been using the site properly, don’t do clubs, BUT you feel entitled to come on the forums moaning how it’s impossible to find a match?

Has the penny dropped?

The forums is a place to talk so I was asking about age. Drop the attitude..

Excuse me?! I was making valid points about this thread and your posts. And there’s nothing wrong with my attitude to drop. Your delivery with what you said wasn’t the best. Replying to people like that instead of advising can deter new fabsters.

People are advising you to do things that your either not bothered to do or been too lazy to do and yet you moan about how hard it is on here. There is nothing wrong with my delivery either but thank you for your opinion. I’m not really moaning. I asked something, they responded in which I did what they advised me for. So instead of assuming and being slightly rude, put a smile on and be nice, but I never know, you may have had a bad day so hope you have a great rest of your day pal. "

Oops. My bad. I fell in to the trap of pandering to a self righteous that doesn’t know what they have said and deflects. Pal.

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By *ark_KnightsMan
over a year ago

london

Works both ways

At my age it seems no one young or my age is interested

just proves it me not my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love younger men but at my age I’d guess 30 ish would be my limit…it’s been a while since I was looking but personality goes a long way, make me laugh, be cheeky but not cocky, not OTT complimentary as it sounds fake! And make solid arrangements and effort and turn up!

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always asking for younger people to message me, provided they fit my physical and personality preferences. If i don't set my upper age limit st around 40 though I mainly attract older men. I don't know why most younger men avoid me. I'm self critical of my appearance ao I would guess a confident woman older than myself is much more of a turn on.

Any legal age is fine by me as long as I'm atrracted to someone's face and personality, but being honest my dad looks younger than he is and a lot of men his age and younger seem to look older to me so I prefer around my age or younger unless very well kept.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Personally I don't want to fuck someone young enough to be my son. Keep looking OP, I'm sure there will be some out there who like them young."

True

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"50 ish is my preferred age x ma’am, you are a gilf. My bucket list.."

My grandson is a year older than u! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"50 ish is my preferred age x ma’am, you are a gilf. My bucket list..

My grandson is a year older than u! x"
lucky for you I’m not your grandson

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