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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

Does discussing it or virtuous traits or topics and what they mean to you personally make you a more virtuous human. Or does it mean you don't know what true virtue is? Do you ever discuss or express an opinion on such matters in order to appear more virtuous, or are you simply on a quest of discovery during such conversations. Are they indeed conversations or just the dreaded one way virtue signalling? Do you listen to others and learn, or is your virtue already a perfected artform?

Please discuss, or don't, and tell me the third or fourth option? Or tell me how many people you've fucked and your favourite sexual position if you'd prefer?

Cheers

...Bob

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Virtue is it's own reward apparently. Or so my mother keeps telling me.

I tried to offer my virtue in Aldi to pay for my groceries. It didn't work

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville


"Virtue is it's own reward apparently. Or so my mother keeps telling me.

I tried to offer my virtue in Aldi to pay for my groceries. It didn't work "

Try Waitrose daaarrrrling

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I discuss what I think.

My value, my worth, my morality are my own and are not tied to my discussion or whatever anyone thinks of it.

I think "virtue signalling" is a silly notion designed to shame people for talking in a certain way. I also think people who use it should perhaps be more mindful of their own vice signalling.

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville


"I discuss what I think.

My value, my worth, my morality are my own and are not tied to my discussion or whatever anyone thinks of it.

I think "virtue signalling" is a silly notion designed to shame people for talking in a certain way. I also think people who use it should perhaps be more mindful of their own vice signalling."

Favourite sexual position?

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

Would you ever say for example that if a person had a disagreeable opinion or used a certain phrase, then they would probably be less virtuous or have vices? Maybe this tactic could be used in order to shut down an uncomfortable debate or discussion that you'd rather not see? Or do you just let other folks have a view, not stress about it, and be tolerant of individuality and disorder?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I thought virtue was about virginity or chastity. One is long gone and the other isn't going to happen anytime soon.

So I actually had to look up its proper definition "behaviour showing high moral standards". And to me it just sounds a bit vague to what it means. Because my moral standards differ to others. And shouldn't we all try and not be cunts to each other.

I guess I don't actually know what high moral standards are.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think virtue is a bit like modesty. Loads of people want you to be virtuous and modest except with them.

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville


"I thought virtue was about virginity or chastity. One is long gone and the other isn't going to happen anytime soon.

So I actually had to look up its proper definition "behaviour showing high moral standards". And to me it just sounds a bit vague to what it means. Because my moral standards differ to others. And shouldn't we all try and not be cunts to each other.

I guess I don't actually know what high moral standards are. "

I agree. Who sets these standards?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I thought virtue was about virginity or chastity. One is long gone and the other isn't going to happen anytime soon.

So I actually had to look up its proper definition "behaviour showing high moral standards". And to me it just sounds a bit vague to what it means. Because my moral standards differ to others. And shouldn't we all try and not be cunts to each other.

I guess I don't actually know what high moral standards are. "

To me a high moral standard is sticking to your principles.

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville


"I think virtue is a bit like modesty. Loads of people want you to be virtuous and modest except with them.

"

I think it's like a kind of "self value" we all get far too caught up with. We all fall short, well I definitely do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discussing different topics is interesting though, not sure where virtue comes into it

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

Anyone on the sexual position?

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville


"Discussing different topics is interesting though, not sure where virtue comes into it "

Aye it is, this one included, right? x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Anyone on the sexual position? "

I'm too virtuous to say

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I thought virtue was about virginity or chastity. One is long gone and the other isn't going to happen anytime soon.

So I actually had to look up its proper definition "behaviour showing high moral standards". And to me it just sounds a bit vague to what it means. Because my moral standards differ to others. And shouldn't we all try and not be cunts to each other.

I guess I don't actually know what high moral standards are.

To me a high moral standard is sticking to your principles. "

To me like virtue and modesty are things other people think of you. And I think these are a bit old fashioned ways of thinking these days.

I stick to my principles but I'm not sure others would necessarily think they are good ones.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think virtue is a bit like modesty. Loads of people want you to be virtuous and modest except with them.

I think it's like a kind of "self value" we all get far too caught up with. We all fall short, well I definitely do!"

I genuinely don't know.

I often hear the word virtuous used in a slightly derogatory way.

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville


"Anyone on the sexual position?

I'm too virtuous to say "

What's it called when he's on top of her but she's face down, like flattened doggy? Is that lion?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I thought virtue was about virginity or chastity. One is long gone and the other isn't going to happen anytime soon.

So I actually had to look up its proper definition "behaviour showing high moral standards". And to me it just sounds a bit vague to what it means. Because my moral standards differ to others. And shouldn't we all try and not be cunts to each other.

I guess I don't actually know what high moral standards are.

To me a high moral standard is sticking to your principles.

To me like virtue and modesty are things other people think of you. And I think these are a bit old fashioned ways of thinking these days.

I stick to my principles but I'm not sure others would necessarily think they are good ones."

I agree. Not that your principles aren't good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discussing different topics is interesting though, not sure where virtue comes into it

Aye it is, this one included, right? x"

Absolutely. People’s thoughts and processes on different subjects are fascinating, and we can all learn from each other.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Anyone on the sexual position?

I'm too virtuous to say

What's it called when he's on top of her but she's face down, like flattened doggy? Is that lion?"

I think it's "flounder"

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Anyone on the sexual position? "

Keeping it simple, all of them

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Virtue is it's own reward apparently. Or so my mother keeps telling me.

I tried to offer my virtue in Aldi to pay for my groceries. It didn't work

Try Waitrose daaarrrrling"

Mother Terrasa would not have enough virtue to buy a single grape in Waitrose! Where I used to live they called it "Fittpoi" It stands for 'Fuck! Is that the price if it?'

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville


"Discussing different topics is interesting though, not sure where virtue comes into it

Aye it is, this one included, right? x

Absolutely. People’s thoughts and processes on different subjects are fascinating, and we can all learn from each other. "

I love people and watching them and trying to learn why people do things, motivation and improvement. I don't think that's a very virtuous trait of mine though - looking externally rather than internally, idk?

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville


"Virtue is it's own reward apparently. Or so my mother keeps telling me.

I tried to offer my virtue in Aldi to pay for my groceries. It didn't work

Try Waitrose daaarrrrling

Mother Terrasa would not have enough virtue to buy a single grape in Waitrose! Where I used to live they called it "Fittpoi" It stands for 'Fuck! Is that the price if it?' "

Fair trade, ethically sourced though, right?

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville


"Anyone on the sexual position?

Keeping it simple, all of them "

Do you know all of them?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't have a Waitrose nearby but I know my mum likes it. When she was able to go out they were very kind to her. They would pack her shopping without being asked and when she was no longer able to walk someone went round with her helping her get things off the shelf. Once when she hadn't been in for a while due to illness the manager spotted her and gave her a bunch of flowers.

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville


"We don't have a Waitrose nearby but I know my mum likes it. When she was able to go out they were very kind to her. They would pack her shopping without being asked and when she was no longer able to walk someone went round with her helping her get things off the shelf. Once when she hadn't been in for a while due to illness the manager spotted her and gave her a bunch of flowers.

"

That's actually quite lovely! There's not enough of that around now, we all seem too obsessed with counting costs and profit margins, myself included. Often the profit comes from doing good though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discussing different topics is interesting though, not sure where virtue comes into it

Aye it is, this one included, right? x

Absolutely. People’s thoughts and processes on different subjects are fascinating, and we can all learn from each other.

I love people and watching them and trying to learn why people do things, motivation and improvement. I don't think that's a very virtuous trait of mine though - looking externally rather than internally, idk?"

It depends what you take from it. I picked up some self development needs for me, from the judgement thread.

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville


"Discussing different topics is interesting though, not sure where virtue comes into it

Aye it is, this one included, right? x

Absolutely. People’s thoughts and processes on different subjects are fascinating, and we can all learn from each other.

I love people and watching them and trying to learn why people do things, motivation and improvement. I don't think that's a very virtuous trait of mine though - looking externally rather than internally, idk?

It depends what you take from it. I picked up some self development needs for me, from the judgement thread. "

Oh, always pick stuff up, but I don't know if I give much back, in a fair virtuous trade so the speak x

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Virtue is it's own reward apparently. Or so my mother keeps telling me.

I tried to offer my virtue in Aldi to pay for my groceries. It didn't work

Try Waitrose daaarrrrling

Mother Terrasa would not have enough virtue to buy a single grape in Waitrose! Where I used to live they called it "Fittpoi" It stands for 'Fuck! Is that the price if it?'

Fair trade, ethically sourced though, right? "

Yeah, they buy a pair of flip flops for the child wirkers at Xmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discussing different topics is interesting though, not sure where virtue comes into it

Aye it is, this one included, right? x

Absolutely. People’s thoughts and processes on different subjects are fascinating, and we can all learn from each other.

I love people and watching them and trying to learn why people do things, motivation and improvement. I don't think that's a very virtuous trait of mine though - looking externally rather than internally, idk?

It depends what you take from it. I picked up some self development needs for me, from the judgement thread.

Oh, always pick stuff up, but I don't know if I give much back, in a fair virtuous trade so the speak x"

You can do both

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I have certain push points that tend to annoy me enough to post. I don't do this to virtue signal but because i rant hate prejudice and see a lot of it here. I am cis gender White female so it's not that i am part of any minority but i have relatives that are so maybe I'm more sensitive to it?

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville


"I have certain push points that tend to annoy me enough to post. I don't do this to virtue signal but because i rant hate prejudice and see a lot of it here. I am cis gender White female so it's not that i am part of any minority but i have relatives that are so maybe I'm more sensitive to it? "

I think that s a fair point of view. Especially if it's heartfelt.

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By *ilent...Bob OP   Man
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville


"Discussing different topics is interesting though, not sure where virtue comes into it

Aye it is, this one included, right? x

Absolutely. People’s thoughts and processes on different subjects are fascinating, and we can all learn from each other.

I love people and watching them and trying to learn why people do things, motivation and improvement. I don't think that's a very virtuous trait of mine though - looking externally rather than internally, idk?

It depends what you take from it. I picked up some self development needs for me, from the judgement thread.

Oh, always pick stuff up, but I don't know if I give much back, in a fair virtuous trade so the speak x

You can do both "

I don't think I can, I'm one person, Vs 100's on a thread, but I guess we try our best to give as much as possible when we can?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We don't have a Waitrose nearby but I know my mum likes it. When she was able to go out they were very kind to her. They would pack her shopping without being asked and when she was no longer able to walk someone went round with her helping her get things off the shelf. Once when she hadn't been in for a while due to illness the manager spotted her and gave her a bunch of flowers.

That's actually quite lovely! There's not enough of that around now, we all seem too obsessed with counting costs and profit margins, myself included. Often the profit comes from doing good though "

I think it's nice too. Of course they want people to come back but every business has its own USP Aldi is price and Waitrose isn't

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