FabSwingers.com forum: BO

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A couple came over to mine last night (not off fab)

The smell of BO was over powering I made my excuses they left

I even changed my clothes after

Am I being picky

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

How did you meet them

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Some people have more sensitive sense of smell than others. If the BO was so bad, nobody can blame you for not going ahead with the meet.

Perhaps stipulate freshly showered in future?. sometimes people go to meets after work or after a ride on public transport, which can lead to all sorts of odours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How did you meet them "

Other people use the site I meet them off so I won't say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple came over to mine last night (not off fab)

The smell of BO was over powering I made my excuses they left

I even changed my clothes after

Am I being picky

Why did you change your clothes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Urghhhh nothing worse than BO

Absolutely no need

Claire

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A couple came over to mine last night (not off fab)

The smell of BO was over powering I made my excuses they left

I even changed my clothes after

Am I being picky

Why did you change your clothes?

Because the thought of it being on my clothes was to much

I just had to

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Do you think you're being picky?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you think you're being picky? "

I don't think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How did you meet them

Other people use the site I meet them off so I won't say"

That doesn't make any sense, you've not identified the people so why would it matter.

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

Are you sure they're not off fab? I think you're allowed to say - it's not shaming to say you didn't like the smell of a person. Some people smell awful, sometimes the don't know, sometimes they don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather judgemental no, OP ?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

That’s not being picky. That’s just having standards!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Rather judgemental no, OP ?"

He hasn't judged them. He said the smell they gave off was too much for him, and he got them to leave.

OP, did you tell them why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rather judgemental no, OP ?

He hasn't judged them. He said the smell they gave off was too much for him, and he got them to leave.

OP, did you tell them why?"

And who knows the truth? Very easy to start threads aimed at shaming unnamed individuals.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"How did you meet them "

Followed his nose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two BO threads in 24 hours ..

Stinks to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two BO threads in 24 hours ..

Stinks to me

Don't sweat it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rather judgemental no, OP ?

He hasn't judged them. He said the smell they gave off was too much for him, and he got them to leave.

OP, did you tell them why?"

No that would have been offensive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rather judgemental no, OP ?

He hasn't judged them. He said the smell they gave off was too much for him, and he got them to leave.

OP, did you tell them why?

And who knows the truth? Very easy to start threads aimed at shaming unnamed individuals. "

You can only shame someone if you name them that was not my intention

As to judging I have not judged them I'm just stating fact

Some people like it some dont

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Do you think you're being picky?

I don't think so "

So why do you care what we think about the situation?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you think you're being picky?

I don't think so

So why do you care what we think about the situation? "

It nice to get others views on your thoughts

So just maybe you might walk away with a different view

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Rather judgemental no, OP ?"

Not seen any judgement at all... Just they had bo and he didn't go any further with plans. What's he supposed to do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rather judgemental no, OP ?

Not seen any judgement at all... Just they had bo and he didn't go any further with plans. What's he supposed to do? "

Thank you

I do not like being judged so I will not judge others

If you can't take judgement

Dont give judgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rather judgemental no, OP ?

Not seen any judgement at all... Just they had bo and he didn't go any further with plans. What's he supposed to do?

Thank you

I do not like being judged so I will not judge others

If you can't take judgement

Dont give judgement"

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