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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you have a problem with me then move on

Do judge people because they are on here

Your on here to for your own reasons

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If someone sends you nasty messages, just report and block.

Fab has the same unpleasant people as everywhere else.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Because you're married? Or some other reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was frank.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice


"That was frank."

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Is it judgemental of me to say I don't think pregnant women should be participating in rough BDSM ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it judgemental of me to say I don't think pregnant women should be participating in rough BDSM ?"

Yes a little, each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have a problem with me then move on

Do judge people because they are on here

Your on here to for your own reasons"

With all due respect. You and I are the same age - wouldn't we care less. More do as we please and not give a shit about others and their comments about us!

Don't give it another moment's thought ....

This place really isn't the 'be all and end all'

Honest!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is it judgemental of me to say I don't think pregnant women should be participating in rough BDSM ?

Yes a little, each to their own"

But what if it damages the baby ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Why am I suddenly thinking about dummies and prams?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it judgemental of me to say I don't think pregnant women should be participating in rough BDSM ?"

No it isn't..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you're married? Or some other reason?"

So he's asked not to be judged and get judged immediately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it judgemental of me to say I don't think pregnant women should be participating in rough BDSM ?

Yes a little, each to their own

But what if it damages the baby ?"

If we use that logic then a pregnant woman shouldn't be allowed out of the house while pregnant, ride in cars etc etc

Obviously harming a baby is not an option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it judgemental of me to say I don't think pregnant women should be participating in rough BDSM ?

No it isn't.."

Oh course it is. It's a judgement so there for its judgmental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why the OP posted this but I think maybe he just wanted a bit of support but people have just hijacked with a completely different comment or made assumptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it judgemental of me to say I don't think pregnant women should be participating in rough BDSM ?

No it isn't..

Oh course it is. It's a judgement so there for its judgmental. "

Exactly

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

So Frank, does this mean YOU NEVER judge anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know why the OP posted this but I think maybe he just wanted a bit of support but people have just hijacked with a completely different comment or made assumptions. "

The OP was a bit vague and open to hijack. But he is correct, dont like what i/you do just bugger off and keep your comments to yourself.... but that's not the world at moment, it's easier to point fingers at others rather than yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own reason for being here and as long as they are using the site within its rules they have every right to be here.

People like to think I have a right to say who should and shouldn't use fab and how they should use it however they don't have the best thing to do is block anybody sends abusive or inappropriate messages or generally doesn't help your experience here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have a problem with me then move on

Do judge people because they are on here

Your on here to for your own reasons"

Are you judging people,because you believe they may be judging you?

Hypocrital

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know why the OP posted this but I think maybe he just wanted a bit of support but people have just hijacked with a completely different comment or made assumptions.

The OP was a bit vague and open to hijack. But he is correct, dont like what i/you do just bugger off and keep your comments to yourself.... but that's not the world at moment, it's easier to point fingers at others rather than yourself "

Just because that is of the world at the moment doesn't mean it shouldn't mean it be called out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have a problem with me then move on

Do judge people because they are on here

Your on here to for your own reasons

Are you judging people,because you believe they may be judging you?

Hypocrital "

How is that statement a judgement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it judgemental of me to say I don't think pregnant women should be participating in rough BDSM ?"

I don't think that was the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want to be judged probably best not to start a thread inviting more judging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So Frank, does this mean YOU NEVER judge anyone else?"

What right have I got to judge anyone

What they do is up to them

If it don't effect me what right have I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn’t a human that walks the earth that doesn’t judge someone in some way. It’s human nature. Even if the judgement isn’t voiced, it’s still present.

I couldn’t give a fuck what strangers that I’ll never meet think about me

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester


"If you have a problem with me then move on

Do judge people because they are on here

Your on here to for your own reasons"

I agree so just block those who bother you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP the best Think you can do is only engage with people who make your experience positive and ignore the rest.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Quite right OP.

Too many people go off on a tangent on threads instead of responding to the original post.

Don't like what you see/read etc..move along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say 'I' if you have no idea what's going on here

I

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester

I know exactly what is going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

My experience of fab and especially the forums is their seems to be a lot of judgmental people perhaps like me some don’t realise they are I made a comment when I first started using the forums regarding bareback I sharp learnt to think before posting and how some perceived my comments but I do think people now are more sensitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say 'I' if you have no idea what's going on here

I

"

I know but can't say

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

We all judge, although some may not admit to it

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

The OP's profile is not up for discussion

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Is it judgemental of me to say I don't think pregnant women should be participating in rough BDSM ?"

No Sally it isn't. If all you said was, I don't think pregnant women should be participating in rough BDSM, that is NOT a judgement.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Because you're married? Or some other reason?

So he's asked not to be judged and get judged immediately!

"

That's not a judgement. That's a question.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

I think we all have a right to judge and we all do but as long as we keep our opinions to ourselves regarding people’s profiles what’s the problem. We will all judge and be judged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have a problem with me then move on

Do judge people because they are on here

Your on here to for your own reasons

Are you judging people,because you believe they may be judging you?

Hypocrital

How is that statement a judgement? "

How is it not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know why the OP posted this but I think maybe he just wanted a bit of support but people have just hijacked with a completely different comment or made assumptions.

The OP was a bit vague and open to hijack. But he is correct, dont like what i/you do just bugger off and keep your comments to yourself.... but that's not the world at moment, it's easier to point fingers at others rather than yourself "

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