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By *ontyguy 39. OP   Man
over a year ago

Pontypridd

My neighbour house is attached to my garden, its a young pretty fit couple living there, my bedroom window looks out right into there lounge (they know this) I'm just curious as I dont want feel like a dirty old man, but few times they have had sex in the lounge and I've watched I do wonder if they know and the thought I could possible see or watch is a turn on, they leave blinds open and have a light on which makes me think it is deliberately done! She has also given him a bj right in front of the window!! Plz give me your thought on this? I must admit its a massive turn on and when it happens its amazing to watch i can lie.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

What are they watching on TV?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

They probably know. However, I’d be careful about blatantly standing in front of your window and knocking one off, do it discreetly, if you must.

They might like the thought of it when they’ve got the horn, but the reality of it in the cold light of day could be wholly different, and you don’t need the possible agro.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

How about you respect their privacy and not look?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm in two minds about this.

Firstly they're in their own home, what they do there is none of your business. Just because you think they want you to look doesn't mean they do or even realise you can see.

Secondly though they might actually know and want you to see.

Who knows? You won't unless you ask and I'd advise against that.

Just remain discreet, assume nothing and be happy that all three of you are getting pleasure.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

It's a fine line. Maybe they like to be watched and it's a turn on. Or maybe they just sometimes have sex in THEIR living room.

I wouldn't make it known you've seen them or stand there knocking one out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also I would assume that someone didn't spend an awful lot of time looking out of his bedroom window so...

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I’d say not look and respect there privacy

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Disgusting behaviour tell them to shut the blinds

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Not every person is sending hidden messages to people they don't know.

It's their house, their lounge. They probably don't realise that there's a perve in the unlit bedroom next door?

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are they watching on TV?"

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"Not every person is sending hidden messages to people they don't know.

It's their house, their lounge. They probably don't realise that there's a perve in the unlit bedroom next door?"
and not everyone wants to lookout their windows and see someone getting sucked of perhaps they should have some respect for their neighbours children look from windows just saying

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By *ontyguy 39. OP   Man
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Not every person is sending hidden messages to people they don't know.

It's their house, their lounge. They probably don't realise that there's a perve in the unlit bedroom next door?"
did i say my bedroom was unlit??? Very easy to assume isn't it.

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By *ontyguy 39. OP   Man
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Not every person is sending hidden messages to people they don't know.

It's their house, their lounge. They probably don't realise that there's a perve in the unlit bedroom next door? and not everyone wants to lookout their windows and see someone getting sucked of perhaps they should have some respect for their neighbours children look from windows just saying "
well said!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask them if you can join in

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

I think both sides need to be more respectful.

You need to respect their privacy of what they do in their own home, and as previously mentioned, they need to think about youngsters of any age being able to see

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not every person is sending hidden messages to people they don't know.

It's their house, their lounge. They probably don't realise that there's a perve in the unlit bedroom next door? and not everyone wants to lookout their windows and see someone getting sucked of perhaps they should have some respect for their neighbours children look from windows just saying well said!!!"

You'd best to round and ask them to shut their curtains then. I thought from your original post that you enjoyed it. I see now that you find it wrong

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You could mention ‘did you know you can be seen?’ type of thing and see if they shut the curtains or leave them open with the light on. Or read a book.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

If they wanted privacy then why leave blinds open and lights on knowing people houses back on to there's. I reckon they know people might be watching and it turns them on to. Keep watching, but discreetly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They probably know. However, I’d be careful about blatantly standing in front of your window and knocking one off, do it discreetly, if you must.

They might like the thought of it when they’ve got the horn, but the reality of it in the cold light of day could be wholly different, and you don’t need the possible agro."

This plus also dont forget if they can see you others possibly can as well.

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

If they are not being blatant exhibitionists then respect their privacy. Just because you can see doesn't mean you should.

Chances are that they don't realise.

Why do you make it obvious that you can see them ,like make eye contact and see if they continue ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about you respect their privacy and not look?"
To be honest, if they know he has an overlooking window, his light is on and they haven't drawn the curtains or blinds, most red blooded males would look. I would be up the end of our garden some evenings, and the lady next door would have her bedroom light on and walk about naked. I didn't make a point of staring, but got the occasional glimpse.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

If you like to watch them, continue to do so discreetly.

If they want to be watched, great, keep watching.

If they don't want to be watched, great, with you being discrete, they never need know.

If they don't want to be seen, they could close the curtains.

They can do what they want in their own living room, but choices have consequences. If you fuck in front of the window, people can see you.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not every person is sending hidden messages to people they don't know.

It's their house, their lounge. They probably don't realise that there's a perve in the unlit bedroom next door? and not everyone wants to lookout their windows and see someone getting sucked of perhaps they should have some respect for their neighbours children look from windows just saying "
Yes, I suppose it is a two way thing.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

You could also rent out chairs and sell pop corn to other voyeurs.

But I wouldn't if I were you!!!

Gbat

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By *ontyguy 39. OP   Man
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Thank you all for you insight into this its good to have the thoughts and views of others!!! However I do think some you might have double standards and do complete opposite to what you have said you just don't want to admit it!!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Honest answer, I would shut my curtains and not look, you don’t really know if they are aware of you looking so I would leave them to it.

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