FabSwingers.com forum: Surprise yourself

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever surprised yourself by choosing to do something sexually that you thought you'd NEVER want to try?

How did you feel after trying it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suck cock

Afterwards I felt thirsty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been exploring my dominant side a little bit lately and I'm surprised by some of the things that I'll do in that frame of mind that I wouldn't do in my usual submissive mindframe. Has anyone else found they have different limits in these two different sexual personas?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Suck cock

Afterwards I felt thirsty

Did you enjoy it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from the 3 p’s I’d give anything a try once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once sucked a cock, I loved it, something I never imagined in a million years I'd do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Apart from the 3 p’s I’d give anything a try once

No pain at all? Not even a tiny bit?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Pegging a guy.

Did absolutely zero for me.

Won't be doing it again.

Mrs M.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rimming!

Never thought I’d enjoy receiving but turns out I do!

Would love to try it whilst in a threesome with 2 lovely ladies. Being rimmed by one whilst fucking the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apart from the 3 p’s I’d give anything a try once

No pain at all? Not even a tiny bit?"

Pee , poo and puke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suck cock

Afterwards I felt thirsty

Did you enjoy it? "

It was during a mmf and yes I did. It was just part of a good flow between us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Apart from the 3 p’s I’d give anything a try once

No pain at all? Not even a tiny bit?

Pee , poo and puke "

Oooooooh puke. I didn't realise that's what the third P stood for lol. All this time I thought everyone was just a bit wimpy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pegging a guy.

Did absolutely zero for me.

Won't be doing it again.

Mrs M."

Yes I've tried it once very recently. While it didn't turn me on as such and obviously did nothing for my body, I did find the responsibility, control and power an interesting mix of feelings.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

"Apart from the 3 p’s I’d give anything a try once

No pain at all? Not even a tiny bit?

Pee , poo and puke

Oooooooh puke. I didn't realise that's what the third P stood for lol. All this time I thought everyone was just a bit wimpy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apart from the 3 p’s I’d give anything a try once

No pain at all? Not even a tiny bit?

Pee , poo and puke

Oooooooh puke. I didn't realise that's what the third P stood for lol. All this time I thought everyone was just a bit wimpy

I thought it was pain too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been exploring my dominant side a little bit lately and I'm surprised by some of the things that I'll do in that frame of mind that I wouldn't do in my usual submissive mindframe. Has anyone else found they have different limits in these two different sexual personas?"

I find I have different wants/needs/interests depending on the dynamic with a person. Different dynamics with different people.

It changes, it's fluid.

I never ever thought I would be capable of being a Domme but I have been under the right dynamic

It is fascinating what you are capable of with the right person guiding.

Never thought I could go to clubs and play in group scenarios but I do and love that.

I think if you can find a person to explore with to help push you out of a comfort zone it can be exhilarating and empowering, that is how it makes me feel anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the last 18months I’ve tried loads of things I never thought I would, fucking loved it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissed another guy.....

Exhilarating

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Never thought I’d enjoy spanking someone - found the whole BDSM scene off-putting as pain or control wasn’t something I connect sex with.

However after researching and connecting with people that enjoy it and realising that the pleasure overrides any temporary pain, that they enjoy all aspects of it then I’ve found it such a turn on.

C can cum from the anticipation of my touch - blindfolded and her mind not knowing whether the touch is going to be light or heavy, she’s completely at my mercy and wanting to be and that’s the sexiest thing

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes I have tried loads of stuff I always said I would never do and enjoyed each experience. Until you try things you have no idea if you will like them or not and I have been pleasantly surprised on many occasions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I have tried loads of stuff I always said I would never do and enjoyed each experience. Until you try things you have no idea if you will like them or not and I have been pleasantly surprised on many occasions."

Yeah I agree, I have lots left to explore, but with the right person I don't feel nervous, I feel curious.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I never thought that I would if given watersports a try, I used to find the idea quite strange and off putting.

Met a lady who was very into it so took the plunge. It didn't do much for me sexually but glad I gave it a go all the same.

There's a few things left that I would try (in the right circumstances and right person) that I would of dismissed entirely pre-Fab. It's funny how you get more open minded as you get older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New experiences are just so great though aren’t they, even if they don’t quite work as planned, there’s something about them

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Variety is the spice of life give things a whirl if you don't like it don't do it again.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never thought that I would if given watersports a try, I used to find the idea quite strange and off putting.

Met a lady who was very into it so took the plunge. It didn't do much for me sexually but glad I gave it a go all the same.

There's a few things left that I would try (in the right circumstances and right person) that I would of dismissed entirely pre-Fab. It's funny how you get more open minded as you get older"

Yeah I never thought I'd try waterspout watersports but I did a few years ago. Although I wouldn't say it was sexually stimulating, there was a certain appeal in seeing how aroused it made him, and it added a level of power play which wasn't there before, so it was interesting.

I wasn't overly keen on the smell though lol

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Letting someone take control, took a lot of trust

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Letting someone take control, took a lot of trust"

Yes I imagine it would if you're used to having it. I was the opposite, I'm used to releasing the control after I build a bit of trust, but to take on the role of being in charge was unusual for me.

How did you find it when you finally relinquished the control?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apart from the 3 p’s I’d give anything a try once

No pain at all? Not even a tiny bit?

Pee , poo and puke

Oooooooh puke. I didn't realise that's what the third P stood for lol. All this time I thought everyone was just a bit wimpy

The third might be pain to others but mines defo puke.

Makes you wonder about folks though hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suck cock

Afterwards I felt thirsty

Cocks are savoury, savoury things make you thirsty, it’s cause there’s way too much salt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Suck cock

Afterwards I felt thirsty

Cocks are savoury, savoury things make you thirsty, it’s cause there’s way too much salt."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a hot session with a really sexy TV, was an amazing experience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever surprised yourself by choosing to do something sexually that you thought you'd NEVER want to try?

How did you feel after trying it?

Xx"

My First Lady on lady fun , never looked back it’s so erotic & sensual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done a few things that I never thought I would do because I didn’t think they would do anything for me. I was right too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, watersports. I'm not even sure how that started between us both but I really enjoy it in the right moments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, watersports. I'm not even sure how that started between us both but I really enjoy it in the right moments. "

Me too. It’s something I never thought I’d even try, let alone enjoy, but I find it really intimate and intense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong

Mrs

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong

Mrs "

Well if you ever need any volunteers for those

Just saying

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

You would think after being together 27 years we couldn’t get surprised..We decided to try deep throat a few months back much to mine and my husbands surprise we found out I have no gag reflex and I quite enjoyed it ..your never to old to try something new

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong

Mrs "

I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong

Mrs

I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men

Waving profusely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong

Mrs

I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men

I'm surprised at that with the amount of men on here, thought they'd be jumping over themselves for you. The key for us is mainly with people we've met before. It helps having Mr to keep an eye on things too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong

Mrs

I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men

I'm quite particular about what I'm looking for I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the start of that journey. I previously did things simply for the thrill ... Now am open to ideas to explore the actually sensations ...

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong

Mrs

I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men

You may be experiencing paralysis by analysis due to, what I imagine, is a surfeit of choice. You might be better served by identifying the partners first and then marshalling them for an MFM. You might find that men who wouldn't put themselves forward for an MFM might be better candidates once you've established a rapport with them.

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong

Mrs

I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men

Well I’d certainly put my name on the list for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong

Mrs

I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men

"Marshalling them"

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong

Mrs

I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men

"Marshalling them"

Men can get confused and bump into stuff when the blood flow is diverted from their brains. A little cockherding can be required.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong

Mrs

I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men

"Marshalling them"

Men can get confused and bump into stuff when the blood flow is diverted from their brains. A little cockherding can be required."

Hahahaha I'll put up signs and being a whistle

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

2 women, i was unsure if i would be able to entertain 2 ladies so thought i best give it a go and after a rather good session i can confirm i bloody loved it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"2 women, i was unsure if i would be able to entertain 2 ladies so thought i best give it a go and after a rather good session i can confirm i bloody loved it

Hope you had a hearty breakfast beforehand

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"2 women, i was unsure if i would be able to entertain 2 ladies so thought i best give it a go and after a rather good session i can confirm i bloody loved it

Hope you had a hearty breakfast beforehand

I certainly needed one the next day!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wearing lingerie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sucking cock during a threesome

Loved it and will happily do again, just need to find a couple now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before joining Fab, LITERALLY EVERYTHING was something I thought I'd never try, nor had ever done ...but now, with still more I can learn and experience, I'd say it's a big yes, I've done plenty, and loved every second of it! Apart from this one time where.... (actually, no, that'd be oversharing)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Managed to tick something off today...

Have wanted to try sploshing for a while but it's not something that's easy to do.

Was great fun and have shared some pics... so very happy and will be doing it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Managed to tick something off today...

Have wanted to try sploshing for a while but it's not something that's easy to do.

Was great fun and have shared some pics... so very happy and will be doing it again"

Wow, gorgeous pics, but now I want custard!

It sounds interesting

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

"Apart from the 3 p’s I’d give anything a try once

No pain at all? Not even a tiny bit?

Pee , poo and puke

Oooooooh puke. I didn't realise that's what the third P stood for lol. All this time I thought everyone was just a bit wimpy

That could have proved awkward if someone asked for the third P and you punched him in the face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Managed to tick something off today...

Have wanted to try sploshing for a while but it's not something that's easy to do.

Was great fun and have shared some pics... so very happy and will be doing it again

Wow, gorgeous pics, but now I want custard!

It sounds interesting

Definitely one to try

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong

Mrs

I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men

A gangbang was something we tried in early 2020 - loved it and the reclaim sex was

We used a guy who organises regular gangbangs to sort it out.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, double anal, my arse was in tatters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, double anal, my arse was in tatters."

I keep telling you to use lube x

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