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Are you making the most of life?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Today I visited the cemetery where all of my family are burried. We always go to the same place and I can trace my family tree back there for a couple of hundred years. After spending some time there reading through the gravestones it made me think that I will be dead soon enough and I don't feel as if I've done anything with my life. I'm stuck in the same gear and nothing is changing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s never too late to make a change in direction

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s never too late to make a change in direction "

Hmm

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

You're only 40 OP, wait until you get to my age, and then decide x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of some adventures, put them on your bucket list and then give them a go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're 40. You're not that old honestly.

Make your health a priority and set some realistic goals you'd like to see yourself accomplish. What would you like to do?

Sending you a virtual hug.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Make some changes then, it doesn't have to be massive. Everything has to start somewhere

It could be seeing new places, fitness or volunteering for example. Some relatively small things can make a big difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to the titular question, no.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Life is like a box of chocolate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today I visited the cemetery where all of my family are burried. We always go to the same place and I can trace my family tree back there for a couple of hundred years. After spending some time there reading through the gravestones it made me think that I will be dead soon enough and I don't feel as if I've done anything with my life. I'm stuck in the same gear and nothing is changing. "

Tell someone else your life story and they will see things very differently. All we can do is life the life closest to the one we would like to be living within the constraints that we have… My life isn’t exactly where I’d like it to be but I’m getting there…what is it that you’d like to change where would you like to go?

I often think of my life having been wasted and then it’s only when I talk to others and their reaction I realise that in many ways i have had a full life filled with experiences that some others may never have…..

Sometimes we just need to stop and slow down reevaluate and start our journey again be that in the same direction or a new path.xx

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Kerry and Dublin


"Today I visited the cemetery where all of my family are burried. We always go to the same place and I can trace my family tree back there for a couple of hundred years. After spending some time there reading through the gravestones it made me think that I will be dead soon enough and I don't feel as if I've done anything with my life. I'm stuck in the same gear and nothing is changing. "

I would highly recommend taking up meditation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone it's nice to know there are so many lovely people about. I guess this is a bit deep for the forums though.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Thanks everyone it's nice to know there are so many lovely people about. I guess this is a bit deep for the forums though. "

Most of us are lovely people, and are willing to offer some decent advice no matter how deep the subject may be. x

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By *lowingMan
over a year ago

Warrington

A life of prevarication, regret & anxiety. Dont get me wrong, there have been plenty of good times, but I would do it differently next time

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I've just decided to change things and will move from where I've lived for over 2o years and spend more time. Walking on beaches from now on watching sunrises sunsets and the stars .

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I was like that and then I joined Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I often feel I'm wasting my life but don't know what direction to go in.

Think I ended up here in part because I want to feel connected to people more but I find it difficult.

It's a good question to be asking yourself but I need to get myself outside when it starts driving me crazy

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By *ragoniteMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

If you think things aren’t right for whatever reason and that they need to change, then do something now. It’s easy to say you’ll do something someday but when someday comes around it becomes the new now and things get put off over and over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not .... but it’s on the agenda

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Probably not, very few people are. However I'm happy with how my life is. I haven't achieved anything that will leave a lasting legacy or win me a damehood, I had an ordinary and unremarkable job, I don't want to climb mountains or jump out of plains. It's enough for me to live a fairly quiet life and enjoy small pleasures

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*planes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, I often feel I'm wasting my life but don't know what direction to go in.

Think I ended up here in part because I want to feel connected to people more but I find it difficult.

It's a good question to be asking yourself but I need to get myself outside when it starts driving me crazy "

I think it's good for the mind to get out and do things

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