FabSwingers.com forum: Double Standards Or Just Hypocrisy?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which do you think Fabsters?

1) A thread poster said avatar pictures should be compulsory but theirs had their faces covered with filter masks

2) A women thread poster complained and said she'd block men with cock pics yet had numerous boob and pussy pics

3) A women's profile states that she'd automatically delete messages from men with silhouette avatars and block them yet hers just shows her boobs

Have you come across this sort of thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less what other people do tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their profile, their choice.

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

If I don't like a profile I tend not to want to interact with it or worry about it fella

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I couldn't care less what other people do tbh."

Same same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Double Standards Or Just Hypocrisy?

Neither. Next

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"I couldn't care less what other people do tbh."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it. "

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less what other people do tbh.

Same same."
Liar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I couldn't care less what other people do tbh.

Same same. Liar!"

Hello darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you think Fabsters?

1) A thread poster said avatar pictures should be compulsory but theirs had their faces covered with filter masks

2) A women thread poster complained and said she'd block men with cock pics yet had numerous boob and pussy pics

3) A women's profile states that she'd automatically delete messages from men with silhouette avatars and block them yet hers just shows her boobs

Have you come across this sort of thing?"

Never noticed any cock pics on here. Seen the occasional boob though. Might have to pay a bit more attention.

Avatar was a great movie. Bet those blue buggers had massive cocks too!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different. "

Now I've got that bloody song in my head!

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I make my own rules then I break them for those that tease my curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less what other people do tbh.

Same same. Liar!

Hello darling

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Hello darling, just testing your theory!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

You're not wrong - but that's up to them. I certainly wouldn't want to interact with them so by extension I couldn't give a monkey's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of it mate but thats fab we have to like it or leave it but theres no harm in pointing it out haha

its like when they say men dont have lots of dick pix then have 60 tit pics of them in their pix yeah right then whatever haha

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on."

Yes. This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but like him above city jeans says they are in box seat so we suck it up haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it. "

Yep

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By *.luke7Man
over a year ago

This all comes down to numbers. Woman don’t go around thinking they could bed every man with a simple boob pic in a blunt message. (Probably could)

The number of men that think that, and so implement that theory causes woman to get their backs up, as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on."

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on."
There are no box seats on fab...just musical chairs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you think Fabsters?

1) A thread poster said avatar pictures should be compulsory but theirs had their faces covered with filter masks

2) A women thread poster complained and said she'd block men with cock pics yet had numerous boob and pussy pics

3) A women's profile states that she'd automatically delete messages from men with silhouette avatars and block them yet hers just shows her boobs

Have you come across this sort of thing?"

Has all of this been observed n the fora though? Or is it theoretical?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you think Fabsters?

1) A thread poster said avatar pictures should be compulsory but theirs had their faces covered with filter masks

2) A women thread poster complained and said she'd block men with cock pics yet had numerous boob and pussy pics

3) A women's profile states that she'd automatically delete messages from men with silhouette avatars and block them yet hers just shows her boobs

Have you come across this sort of thing?

Never noticed any cock pics on here. Seen the occasional boob though. Might have to pay a bit more attention.

Avatar was a great movie. Bet those blue buggers had massive cocks too! "

Those massive Blue Buggers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different.

Now I've got that bloody song in my head!

Oh, that was unintentional, Which song

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different. "

Okay, and I don't want to be confrontational with you, but really!

that's really is the height of hypocrisy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So If I say I only want men who wear purple underwear to message me, but here I am wearing red underwear. Am I being a hypocrite for preferring something else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just typical Internet bullshit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

You're not wrong - but that's up to them. I certainly wouldn't want to interact with them so by extension I couldn't give a monkey's."

Fair point

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different.

Okay, and I don't want to be confrontational with you, but really!

that's really is the height of hypocrisy!"

How I prefer men that are athletic and I'm clearly not, it doesn't make me a hypocrite because I don't go to gym.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just ignore those profiles that you believe are hypocritical? There are tonnes more to choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different.

Okay, and I don't want to be confrontational with you, but really!

that's really is the height of hypocrisy!"

It’s their choice? Life is easier if you do you, and let them live their lives as they wish.

If it’s not for you, move on and look elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on."

Don't I know that, my Fabster brother, the Ratio!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So If I say I only want men who wear purple underwear to message me, but here I am wearing red underwear. Am I being a hypocrite for preferring something else? "

But if you let them fk you then all is forgiven. It is the frustrations that causes the concern about these double standards. Otherwise nobody would care if they were getting laid.

Two things only the people anxiously desire — bread and circuses

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it. "

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue."

What does this mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

Yes. This.

delusional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different.

Okay, and I don't want to be confrontational with you, but really!

that's really is the height of hypocrisy!

How I prefer men that are athletic and I'm clearly not, it doesn't make me a hypocrite because I don't go to gym. "

the way fab works though if a not athletic man prefers a athletic woman he will get mocked or accused of fat shaming or whatever its just how social media works these days haha men are the evil ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue."

It’s not a question of having a spine, its about having respect for yourself, I wouldn’t entertain those type of profiles he’s talking about, but I know the vast majority of men will jump through hoops, that’s why women can do what they like, I mean you can either moan about it, or move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So If I say I only want men who wear purple underwear to message me, but here I am wearing red underwear. Am I being a hypocrite for preferring something else? "

This is where it gets confusing though because you are seeing him in pants that he wore at that point in time. What if he has all colours of pants would you dismiss him because of the one pair of purple people eaters?

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By *erms and conditionsCouple
over a year ago

Alton

"Which do you think Fabsters?

1) A thread poster said avatar pictures should be compulsory but theirs had their faces covered with filter masks

2) A women thread poster complained and said she'd block men with cock pics yet had numerous boob and pussy pics

3) A women's profile states that she'd automatically delete messages from men with silhouette avatars and block them yet hers just shows her boobs

Have you come across this sort of thing?"

People read profiles before messaging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

Yes. This.

Please, I'm genuinely not being condescending or sarcastic in anyway but thank you for saying what have been a women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

^ 100% that. It's the desperate men that jump through hoops. There really is no need for it.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"I couldn't care less what other people do tbh.

Same same."

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?"

A man will be along shortly to explain

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So If I say I only want men who wear purple underwear to message me, but here I am wearing red underwear. Am I being a hypocrite for preferring something else? "

Of course not, but with all due respect you're being obtuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you think Fabsters?

1) A thread poster said avatar pictures should be compulsory but theirs had their faces covered with filter masks

2) A women thread poster complained and said she'd block men with cock pics yet had numerous boob and pussy pics

3) A women's profile states that she'd automatically delete messages from men with silhouette avatars and block them yet hers just shows her boobs

Have you come across this sort of thing?"

All the time - it’s no big deal, I just move on…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See, there are three kinds of people: dicks, pussies and assholes. Pussies think everyone can get along and dicks just want to fuck all the time without thinking it through. But then you got your assholes. And all the assholes want is to shit all over everything. So pussies may get mad at dicks once in a while because, pussies get fucked by dicks. But dicks also fuck assholes! And if they didn't fuck the assholes, you know what you'd get? You'd get your dick and your pussy all covered in sh&@!"

?D*unk in Bar

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different.

Now I've got that bloody song in my head!

What song?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

^ 100% that. It's the desperate men that jump through hoops. There really is no need for it."

I don't want him jumping through hoops, I just want the cake

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

Yes. This.

delusional"

I’m delusional?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

We're on the same track here but I guess we view it different ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?

A man will be along shortly to explain

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different.

Okay, and I don't want to be confrontational with you, but really!

that's really is the height of hypocrisy!

How I prefer men that are athletic and I'm clearly not, it doesn't make me a hypocrite because I don't go to gym.

the way fab works though if a not athletic man prefers a athletic woman he will get mocked or accused of fat shaming or whatever its just how social media works these days haha men are the evil ones "

Nobody can be accused of fat shaming unless they say something derogatory against fat people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue."

And look where it's got me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

And look where it's got me!"

With all respect - complaining about it doesn't communicate that.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Which do you think Fabsters?

1) A thread poster said avatar pictures should be compulsory but theirs had their faces covered with filter masks

2) A women thread poster complained and said she'd block men with cock pics yet had numerous boob and pussy pics

3) A women's profile states that she'd automatically delete messages from men with silhouette avatars and block them yet hers just shows her boobs

Have you come across this sort of thing?

People read profiles before messaging?

Brilliant

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Which do you think Fabsters?

1) A thread poster said avatar pictures should be compulsory but theirs had their faces covered with filter masks

2) A women thread poster complained and said she'd block men with cock pics yet had numerous boob and pussy pics

3) A women's profile states that she'd automatically delete messages from men with silhouette avatars and block them yet hers just shows her boobs

Have you come across this sort of thing?"

Have I come across people having preferences and articulating them? Yes, yes I have.

Mrs TMN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different.

Okay, and I don't want to be confrontational with you, but really!

that's really is the height of hypocrisy!

How I prefer men that are athletic and I'm clearly not, it doesn't make me a hypocrite because I don't go to gym.

the way fab works though if a not athletic man prefers a athletic woman he will get mocked or accused of fat shaming or whatever its just how social media works these days haha men are the evil ones

Nobody can be accused of fat shaming unless they say something derogatory against fat people.

some people put 2 and 2 together and make 5 trust me these days social media is a middle aged straight white guy witch hunt haha not be flippant just the way it is these days haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

^ 100% that. It's the desperate men that jump through hoops. There really is no need for it.

I don't want him jumping through hoops, I just want the cake

There's cake??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you think Fabsters?

1) A thread poster said avatar pictures should be compulsory but theirs had their faces covered with filter masks

2) A women thread poster complained and said she'd block men with cock pics yet had numerous boob and pussy pics

3) A women's profile states that she'd automatically delete messages from men with silhouette avatars and block them yet hers just shows her boobs

Have you come across this sort of thing?

Have I come across people having preferences and articulating them? Yes, yes I have.

Mrs TMN "

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different.

Okay, and I don't want to be confrontational with you, but really!

that's really is the height of hypocrisy!

How I prefer men that are athletic and I'm clearly not, it doesn't make me a hypocrite because I don't go to gym.

the way fab works though if a not athletic man prefers a athletic woman he will get mocked or accused of fat shaming or whatever its just how social media works these days haha men are the evil ones

Nobody can be accused of fat shaming unless they say something derogatory against fat people.

Did you mean accused or guilty? They're very different things and folk accuse others without any base, understanding or truth frequently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

^ 100% that. It's the desperate men that jump through hoops. There really is no need for it.

I don't want him jumping through hoops, I just want the cake

There's cake??

I have caterpillar cake

you are welcome to share

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different.

Okay, and I don't want to be confrontational with you, but really!

that's really is the height of hypocrisy!

How I prefer men that are athletic and I'm clearly not, it doesn't make me a hypocrite because I don't go to gym.

the way fab works though if a not athletic man prefers a athletic woman he will get mocked or accused of fat shaming or whatever its just how social media works these days haha men are the evil ones

Nobody can be accused of fat shaming unless they say something derogatory against fat people.

some people put 2 and 2 together and make 5 trust me these days social media is a middle aged straight white guy witch hunt haha not be flippant just the way it is these days haha"

I whole heartedly agree with people putting 2 and 2 together to make 5

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"So If I say I only want men who wear purple underwear to message me, but here I am wearing red underwear. Am I being a hypocrite for preferring something else?

Of course not, but with all due respect you're being obtuse."

I don't think I am. I used an example that would be obvious to my point. Your preferences doesn't automatically reflect on yourself and how you should look/behave/prefer.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

Yes. This.

Please, I'm genuinely not being condescending or sarcastic in anyway but thank you for saying what have been a women.

It is true, the only person I have to answer to is myself. I said earlier I make rules on here but I also break my own rules. If you think what someone says they want is contradictory to what you think they show then I would just say you aren’t matched and move on. Simple. Why antagonise yourself over these questions when you could just enjoy life somewhere else instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

^ 100% that. It's the desperate men that jump through hoops. There really is no need for it.

I don't want him jumping through hoops, I just want the cake

There's cake??

I have caterpillar cake

you are welcome to share "

How very kind! My favourite

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?"

Simply speaking I think it means that if men ignored the ratio and actually posted their true feelings rather than their "I hope this gets me Forum credits with any women or possibly even a shag feelings" then women would realise men won't shag anything going, but I might be wrong!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different.

Okay, and I don't want to be confrontational with you, but really!

that's really is the height of hypocrisy!

How I prefer men that are athletic and I'm clearly not, it doesn't make me a hypocrite because I don't go to gym.

the way fab works though if a not athletic man prefers a athletic woman he will get mocked or accused of fat shaming or whatever its just how social media works these days haha men are the evil ones

Nobody can be accused of fat shaming unless they say something derogatory against fat people.

Did you mean accused or guilty? They're very different things and folk accuse others without any base, understanding or truth frequently

There are many accusations that are based on hearsay rather than actual facts I would agree. I meant accused as that is what was being discussed by the previous poster.

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

"Which do you think Fabsters?

1) A thread poster said avatar pictures should be compulsory but theirs had their faces covered with filter masks

2) A women thread poster complained and said she'd block men with cock pics yet had numerous boob and pussy pics

3) A women's profile states that she'd automatically delete messages from men with silhouette avatars and block them yet hers just shows her boobs

Have you come across this sort of thing?"

Forget the single females you will be wasting your time and energy trying to make sense of it and the competition is something fierce, hit the clubs running and do yourself a favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And with all due respect, with your points 1 and 3 the woman is still showing more of herself than a generic silhouette picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read profiles....

For the love of God....Why...

Stick a pin in a thread and send a FAF message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?

I would like to understand as the dynamics on this site are a little..opaque tbh. Perhaps I haven't been here long enough. Could Lib explain as he said it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do some people feel the need to launch into attack mode when posting? I’m a Forum lurker and I’ve noticed some regular posters who do this throughout many threads. This is a prime example here.

The OP asked for opinions and gave his and what he got from some regular posters is attack for his opinion and accusations about how people aren’t answerable to him for posting the profile they choose to.

Was that even relevant to his question? He made no mention at all about people needing to post a profile according to his preference. He merely asked for opinions about hypocrisy and double standards.

There is a difference between stating your opinion that is relevant to the thread and attacking someone for theirs by simply asking a question.

Being a regular poster here does not make anyone’s opinion more valid or give them the right to pass judgement through attack.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different.

Okay, and I don't want to be confrontational with you, but really!

that's really is the height of hypocrisy!

How I prefer men that are athletic and I'm clearly not, it doesn't make me a hypocrite because I don't go to gym. "

Of course it doesn't but you haven't posted that all people should be athletic even though I'm a couch potato which is what this thread was about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you think Fabsters?

1) A thread poster said avatar pictures should be compulsory but theirs had their faces covered with filter masks

2) A women thread poster complained and said she'd block men with cock pics yet had numerous boob and pussy pics

3) A women's profile states that she'd automatically delete messages from men with silhouette avatars and block them yet hers just shows her boobs

Have you come across this sort of thing?"

Quick answer: each to their own.

Longer answer: I'm not even sure if any of these are that hypocritical. There's a difference between shadow head and any other pic. At least a pic shows you've down something. Uo to individuals what they show, but no pic does feel creepy.

(Fab upgrade: hide profiles from anyone without pics)

Middle one is osest (did it say any cock pics or just coxk pics). But still, is a person's choice. Maybe they like the excitement of finding out what a cock looks like irl? The penis length lottery ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

^ 100% that. It's the desperate men that jump through hoops. There really is no need for it.

I don't want him jumping through hoops, I just want the cake

I only joined for the cake

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

People can be hypocrites. It's best not to waste too much energy being annoyed by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

^ 100% that. It's the desperate men that jump through hoops. There really is no need for it.

I don't want him jumping through hoops, I just want the cake

I only joined for the cake"

There might be a bit of cake left. Just a bit though sorry

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Double Standards Or Just Hypocrisy?

Neither. Next"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

^ 100% that. It's the desperate men that jump through hoops. There really is no need for it.

I don't want him jumping through hoops, I just want the cake

I only joined for the cake

There might be a bit of cake left. Just a bit though sorry"

What sort of cake? Does it have chocolate frosting?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different.

Okay, and I don't want to be confrontational with you, but really!

that's really is the height of hypocrisy!

How I prefer men that are athletic and I'm clearly not, it doesn't make me a hypocrite because I don't go to gym.

Of course it doesn't but you haven't posted that all people should be athletic even though I'm a couch potato which is what this thread was about

My response was to Fallen's "They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different." And you saying that was the height of hypocrisy.

People are allowed their own preferences even if they make no sense to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

^ 100% that. It's the desperate men that jump through hoops. There really is no need for it.

I don't want him jumping through hoops, I just want the cake

I only joined for the cake

There might be a bit of cake left. Just a bit though sorry

What sort of cake? Does it have chocolate frosting?

It's a caterpillar cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?

I would like to understand as the dynamics on this site are a little..opaque tbh. Perhaps I haven't been here long enough. Could Lib explain as he said it?

Simply that if more men had a bit more self respect and didn't attempt to jump through the more ridiculous (hypocritical) demands on some profiles in a vain attempt to get laid, the more power they would have themselves.

I'm not saying it's a battle of the sexes, or preferences, it just seems absurd to me that people would attempt to do so in order to try and get some attention.

Each to their own though.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So If I say I only want men who wear purple underwear to message me, but here I am wearing red underwear. Am I being a hypocrite for preferring something else?

Of course not, but with all due respect you're being obtuse.

I don't think I am. I used an example that would be obvious to my point. Your preferences doesn't automatically reflect on yourself and how you should look/behave/prefer. "

No I'm not, my thread title and initial message clearly, clearly, meant that it was either double standards or hypocritical if you said one thing but your was the other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

^ 100% that. It's the desperate men that jump through hoops. There really is no need for it.

I don't want him jumping through hoops, I just want the cake

I only joined for the cake

There might be a bit of cake left. Just a bit though sorry

What sort of cake? Does it have chocolate frosting?

It's a caterpillar cake

Colin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boo.

Hoo.

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

I have found when searching, man looking for couples then when viewing the profile it states not looking for single men I find that frustrating they have it set they are looking for single men in there what are you looking for else they would not show in search. Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Boo.

Hoo."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So If I say I only want men who wear purple underwear to message me, but here I am wearing red underwear. Am I being a hypocrite for preferring something else?

Of course not, but with all due respect you're being obtuse.

I don't think I am. I used an example that would be obvious to my point. Your preferences doesn't automatically reflect on yourself and how you should look/behave/prefer.

No I'm not, my thread title and initial message clearly, clearly, meant that it was either double standards or hypocritical if you said one thing but your was the other!

Yes and I'm clearly saying it's neither...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And with all due respect, with your points 1 and 3 the woman is still showing more of herself than a generic silhouette picture.

Do you know want, block me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?

I would like to understand as the dynamics on this site are a little..opaque tbh. Perhaps I haven't been here long enough. Could Lib explain as he said it?

I'm not saying it's a battle of the sexes, or preferences, it just seems absurd to me that people would attempt to do so in order to try and get some attention.

Each to their own though."

Thank you, Lib. I'd agree it's not a battle of the sexes but certainly I would describe it as a battle of perspectives. Men may see the requests women put in their profiles/statuses as ridiculous demands (hypocritical even from this OP). Women may see that they have no choice to add requests or state what they will block/delete. Because they're responding to the number of messages they get from men. Which are at times rude, entitled or abusive. Or just plain monotonous or lazy. Eg "How's you" x35.

It's tricky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?

I would like to understand as the dynamics on this site are a little..opaque tbh. Perhaps I haven't been here long enough. Could Lib explain as he said it?

I'm not saying it's a battle of the sexes, or preferences, it just seems absurd to me that people would attempt to do so in order to try and get some attention.

Each to their own though.

It's tricky. "

And that's great for them. I'm not complaining. I just wouldn't participate personally.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?

I would like to understand as the dynamics on this site are a little..opaque tbh. Perhaps I haven't been here long enough. Could Lib explain as he said it?

I'm not saying it's a battle of the sexes, or preferences, it just seems absurd to me that people would attempt to do so in order to try and get some attention.

Each to their own though.

It's tricky. "

Urgh the How’s you opener…it’s great to start with but follow it up with something interesting that lets me know you actually read my profile and let’s not get started on the ones that message 20 more times because you didn’t answer their first message 5 minutes ago…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ooer"

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

Was I? I didn’t notice at all. We’ve had no interaction do I have no idea.

Wow. I’m honoured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is great, I’ve never been the subject of a thread before, especially as I only use this for the forums and I’ve never received messages from the OP but I must say, I’m very flattered

FYI, I can run my profile exactly as I please, but thanks for the thread.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

OP that kind of behaviour is really not on.

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

This has properly blown up since I last looked at it. I would get popcorn but I saw mention of cake??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is great, I’ve never been the subject of a thread before, especially as I only use this for the forums and I’ve never received messages from the OP but I must say, I’m very flattered

FYI, I can run my profile exactly as I please, but thanks for the thread.

Congratulations on your first dedicated thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

OP that kind of behaviour is really not on. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

Actually, having thought about it for a few seconds. How fucking dare you. We have never even spoken and what I choose to write on my profile is absolutely none of your business. Now you’ve pointed out to the whole forum that this is partly about me? You’re out of order.

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over a year ago

"This is great, I’ve never been the subject of a thread before, especially as I only use this for the forums and I’ve never received messages from the OP but I must say, I’m very flattered

FYI, I can run my profile exactly as I please, but thanks for the thread.

Can i get your autograph?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

OP that kind of behaviour is really not on. "

Thankyou. He’s just a bit of a bully obviously.

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over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

Was I? I didn’t notice at all. We’ve had no interaction do I have no idea.

Wow. I’m honoured

So it was "don't send me dick pics" rather than "no dick pics at all". That feels okay to me.

Bigger things to worry about.

Like if buzz light-year doesn't know he's a toy, why does he stop moving when people are about.

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over a year ago

"This is great, I’ve never been the subject of a thread before, especially as I only use this for the forums and I’ve never received messages from the OP but I must say, I’m very flattered

FYI, I can run my profile exactly as I please, but thanks for the thread.

Can i get your autograph?

Of course honey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?

I would like to understand as the dynamics on this site are a little..opaque tbh. Perhaps I haven't been here long enough. Could Lib explain as he said it?

I'm not saying it's a battle of the sexes, or preferences, it just seems absurd to me that people would attempt to do so in order to try and get some attention.

Each to their own though.

It's tricky.

And that's great for them. I'm not complaining. I just wouldn't participate personally."

Of course. Although I do find the topic of requests to "messagers" quite an interesting one. I can't say I enjoy constantly rewriting my profile to head off more messages or being quite so negative. And where would you draw the line? Is being asked to "be polite" off-putting if you consider yourself a polite man? It's like being punished for others' bad behaviour.

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over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

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over a year ago

"This is great, I’ve never been the subject of a thread before, especially as I only use this for the forums and I’ve never received messages from the OP but I must say, I’m very flattered

FYI, I can run my profile exactly as I please, but thanks for the thread.

Can i get your autograph?

Of course honey

I'm screen shotting this for proof

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over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

Was I? I didn’t notice at all. We’ve had no interaction do I have no idea.

Wow. I’m honoured

So it was "don't send me dick pics" rather than "no dick pics at all". That feels okay to me.

Bigger things to worry about.

Like if buzz light-year doesn't know he's a toy, why does he stop moving when people are about. "

Yeah, I just don’t want dick pics flooding my inbox (I still get them). OP is obviously just a bitter bully, no idea why, we’ve never even spoken!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

He certainly is!

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

"I think people should probably be able to run their profile as they wish, without being criticised for it.

Okay, I respect your fine point, but don't you think it's a bit of "do as I say but not as I do" and that's my point if this thread really

And that’s their prerogative. They can set their preferences, and still put pics or desires up that are different.

Okay, and I don't want to be confrontational with you, but really!

that's really is the height of hypocrisy!

How I prefer men that are athletic and I'm clearly not, it doesn't make me a hypocrite because I don't go to gym.

the way fab works though if a not athletic man prefers a athletic woman he will get mocked or accused of fat shaming or whatever its just how social media works these days haha men are the evil ones

Nobody can be accused of fat shaming unless they say something derogatory against fat people.

Did you mean accused or guilty? They're very different things and folk accuse others without any base, understanding or truth frequently

There are many accusations that are based on hearsay rather than actual facts I would agree. I meant accused as that is what was being discussed by the previous poster. "

But anyone can accuse anyone of anything. Whether it's true or not is another matter, innit x

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over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

Oh Christ. Just when I thought this couldn't get worse.

And there was someone defending you, as they think we're attacking you for having a difference in opinion.

And actually YOU were the one attacking someone else!

Oooo um is this hypocrisy or double standards OP??? I'll let you have an opinion on that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

Oh Christ. Just when I thought this couldn't get worse.

And there was someone defending you, as they think we're attacking you for having a difference in opinion.

And actually YOU were the one attacking someone else!

Oooo um is this hypocrisy or double standards OP??? I'll let you have an opinion on that one. "

I’ve never even spoken to OP!! No idea why he’s attacking me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?

I would like to understand as the dynamics on this site are a little..opaque tbh. Perhaps I haven't been here long enough. Could Lib explain as he said it?

I'm not saying it's a battle of the sexes, or preferences, it just seems absurd to me that people would attempt to do so in order to try and get some attention.

Each to their own though.

It's tricky.

And that's great for them. I'm not complaining. I just wouldn't participate personally.

I don't know the answers to you questions I'm afraid and I think it's veering off from the original point such as a woman with no avatar complaining about men with no avatar - which is the kind of thing I was referring too.

Like my original statement- I honestly couldn't care less what people do with their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

Wow.. Just wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?

I would like to understand as the dynamics on this site are a little..opaque tbh. Perhaps I haven't been here long enough. Could Lib explain as he said it?

I'm not saying it's a battle of the sexes, or preferences, it just seems absurd to me that people would attempt to do so in order to try and get some attention.

Each to their own though.

It's tricky.

And that's great for them. I'm not complaining. I just wouldn't participate personally.

Like my original statement- I honestly couldn't care less what people do with their profiles.

I think the woman does have an avatar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?

I would like to understand as the dynamics on this site are a little..opaque tbh. Perhaps I haven't been here long enough. Could Lib explain as he said it?

I'm not saying it's a battle of the sexes, or preferences, it just seems absurd to me that people would attempt to do so in order to try and get some attention.

Each to their own though.

It's tricky.

And that's great for them. I'm not complaining. I just wouldn't participate personally.

Like my original statement- I honestly couldn't care less what people do with their profiles.

Sure. This thread brought up interesting things I thought but no worries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?

I would like to understand as the dynamics on this site are a little..opaque tbh. Perhaps I haven't been here long enough. Could Lib explain as he said it?

I'm not saying it's a battle of the sexes, or preferences, it just seems absurd to me that people would attempt to do so in order to try and get some attention.

Each to their own though.

It's tricky.

And that's great for them. I'm not complaining. I just wouldn't participate personally.

Like my original statement- I honestly couldn't care less what people do with their profiles.

I think the woman does have an avatar!"

I do!!! You can clearly see it!!!! But even if I didn’t, it’s none of OP’s business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These posts are great to know who to block on Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These posts are great to know who to block on Fab!"

Aren’t they just!

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?

I would like to understand as the dynamics on this site are a little..opaque tbh. Perhaps I haven't been here long enough. Could Lib explain as he said it?

I'm not saying it's a battle of the sexes, or preferences, it just seems absurd to me that people would attempt to do so in order to try and get some attention.

Each to their own though.

It's tricky.

And that's great for them. I'm not complaining. I just wouldn't participate personally.

Like my original statement- I honestly couldn't care less what people do with their profiles.

I think the woman does have an avatar!

I do!!! You can clearly see it!!!! But even if I didn’t, it’s none of OP’s business! "

Just thought the original question was pretty simple...guess I was wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?

I would like to understand as the dynamics on this site are a little..opaque tbh. Perhaps I haven't been here long enough. Could Lib explain as he said it?

I'm not saying it's a battle of the sexes, or preferences, it just seems absurd to me that people would attempt to do so in order to try and get some attention.

Each to their own though.

It's tricky.

And that's great for them. I'm not complaining. I just wouldn't participate personally.

Like my original statement- I honestly couldn't care less what people do with their profiles.

I think the woman does have an avatar!

I do!!! You can clearly see it!!!! But even if I didn’t, it’s none of OP’s business! "

Like I had any idea he was complaining about you!

Thought he was just having a general whinge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is OP, women can do whatever the fuck they like, they don’t need to answer to you or any man on here, they’re in the box seats, suck it up and move on.

I don't accept that - If more men had spines this would be less of an issue.

What does this mean?

I would like to understand as the dynamics on this site are a little..opaque tbh. Perhaps I haven't been here long enough. Could Lib explain as he said it?

I'm not saying it's a battle of the sexes, or preferences, it just seems absurd to me that people would attempt to do so in order to try and get some attention.

Each to their own though.

It's tricky.

And that's great for them. I'm not complaining. I just wouldn't participate personally.

Like my original statement- I honestly couldn't care less what people do with their profiles.

I think the woman does have an avatar!

I do!!! You can clearly see it!!!! But even if I didn’t, it’s none of OP’s business!

Like I had any idea he was complaining about you!

Thought he was just having a general whinge."

Same! I’m genuinely shocked! I’ve never even spoken to the guy and now he’s whinging about my profile like it’s any of his business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

Oh Christ. Just when I thought this couldn't get worse.

And there was someone defending you, as they think we're attacking you for having a difference in opinion.

And actually YOU were the one attacking someone else!

Oooo um is this hypocrisy or double standards OP??? I'll let you have an opinion on that one.

I’ve never even spoken to OP!! No idea why he’s attacking me! "

Because he's annoyed he couldn't message you, as his profile is going against what you want. So that's your problem and not his.

I could tell straight away this wasn't a light hearted debate like he was making out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

Oh Christ. Just when I thought this couldn't get worse.

And there was someone defending you, as they think we're attacking you for having a difference in opinion.

And actually YOU were the one attacking someone else!

Oooo um is this hypocrisy or double standards OP??? I'll let you have an opinion on that one.

I’ve never even spoken to OP!! No idea why he’s attacking me!

Because he's annoyed he couldn't message you, as his profile is going against what you want. So that's your problem and not his.

I could tell straight away this wasn't a light hearted debate like he was making out. "

Calling you obtuse as well, such a gent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

Oh Christ. Just when I thought this couldn't get worse.

And there was someone defending you, as they think we're attacking you for having a difference in opinion.

And actually YOU were the one attacking someone else!

Oooo um is this hypocrisy or double standards OP??? I'll let you have an opinion on that one.

I’ve never even spoken to OP!! No idea why he’s attacking me!

Because he's annoyed he couldn't message you, as his profile is going against what you want. So that's your problem and not his.

I could tell straight away this wasn't a light hearted debate like he was making out. "

I knew he was bitter about something but I just thought someone had declined his offer of a meet and this was a revenge/whinge post, never considered it was about me. We’ve never even interacted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These posts are great to know who to block on Fab!

Aren’t they just!"

You look nice though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*slowly walks backwards out of the room*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*slowly walks backwards out of the room*"

Picturing the homer meme walking backwards into a bush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP mind your own business and profile.

People can do what they like, how is it hurting you or anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

Oh Christ. Just when I thought this couldn't get worse.

And there was someone defending you, as they think we're attacking you for having a difference in opinion.

And actually YOU were the one attacking someone else!

Oooo um is this hypocrisy or double standards OP??? I'll let you have an opinion on that one.

I’ve never even spoken to OP!! No idea why he’s attacking me!

Because he's annoyed he couldn't message you, as his profile is going against what you want. So that's your problem and not his.

I could tell straight away this wasn't a light hearted debate like he was making out.

I knew he was bitter about something but I just thought someone had declined his offer of a meet and this was a revenge/whinge post, never considered it was about me. We’ve never even interacted."

Out of curiosity. Is this thread worse than being asked if you have a specific job?

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

Oh wow, I’ve just caught up…

Not cool, OP. Not cool at all. What were you expecting to happen by pointing the finger at someone in the thread? Were you expecting her to apologise publicly for daring to set her own profile up in a way you don’t like and throw herself upon the mercy of the forum? Were you expecting the rest of us to pile on? I just don’t get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got my autograph, i'm out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now back to the cake. Have you saved me a piece MissDreavus?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

Oh Christ. Just when I thought this couldn't get worse.

And there was someone defending you, as they think we're attacking you for having a difference in opinion.

And actually YOU were the one attacking someone else!

Oooo um is this hypocrisy or double standards OP??? I'll let you have an opinion on that one.

I’ve never even spoken to OP!! No idea why he’s attacking me!

Because he's annoyed he couldn't message you, as his profile is going against what you want. So that's your problem and not his.

I could tell straight away this wasn't a light hearted debate like he was making out.

I knew he was bitter about something but I just thought someone had declined his offer of a meet and this was a revenge/whinge post, never considered it was about me. We’ve never even interacted.

Out of curiosity. Is this thread worse than being asked if you have a specific job?

Oh yeah!!! I’m not sure what’s going on here but I’m starting to get a complex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

This is the bit where he really fucked up, let’s see that again in slow motion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

Oh Christ. Just when I thought this couldn't get worse.

And there was someone defending you, as they think we're attacking you for having a difference in opinion.

And actually YOU were the one attacking someone else!

Oooo um is this hypocrisy or double standards OP??? I'll let you have an opinion on that one.

I’ve never even spoken to OP!! No idea why he’s attacking me!

Because he's annoyed he couldn't message you, as his profile is going against what you want. So that's your problem and not his.

I could tell straight away this wasn't a light hearted debate like he was making out.

Calling you obtuse as well, such a gent "

I really hate that word too

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Life’s way to short... relax, enjoy and don’t let the muppets grind ya down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooer

I guess you realise you was part of the reason for this thread?

This is the bit where he really fucked up, let’s see that again in slow motion! "

Hahaha that did make me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*slowly walks backwards out of the room*

Picturing the homer meme walking backwards into a bush "

I really wish we could post gifs here but it eould be an even bigger shitshow than it is now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*slowly walks backwards out of the room*

Picturing the homer meme walking backwards into a bush

I really wish we could post gifs here but it eould be an even bigger shitshow than it is now."

I've got too many Will Ferrell ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*slowly walks backwards out of the room*

Picturing the homer meme walking backwards into a bush

I really wish we could post gifs here but it eould be an even bigger shitshow than it is now."

It would be SO good to have GIFs. I have a good one for this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder how many have blocked the OP now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonder how many have blocked the OP now

Or sending cock pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the plot thickens do we DARE imagine what the other part of the reasoning behind the thread was? A stubbed toe or a bad dose of the shits maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonder how many have blocked the OP now

*raises hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonder how many have blocked the OP now

*raises hand "

Never saw that coming! Im down a pony. Had just bet the mrs you were on the m62 on route to the Yorkshire coast intent on giving a blowjob! This place is so fickle!

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

I wonder who will have the last word on this thread 175 posts is the cut off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonder how many have blocked the OP now

*raises hand

Never saw that coming! Im down a pony. Had just bet the mrs you were on the m62 on route to the Yorkshire coast intent on giving a blowjob! This place is so fickle!

Just kidding aren’t I, I didn’t even have time to get clean knickers on before I jumped in the car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonder how many have blocked the OP now

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Wonder how many have blocked the OP now

*raises hand

Never saw that coming! Im down a pony. Had just bet the mrs you were on the m62 on route to the Yorkshire coast intent on giving a blowjob! This place is so fickle!

Just kidding aren’t I, I didn’t even have time to get clean knickers on before I jumped in the car

Of all the profiles that could have actually pissed on the OPs chips for false advertising I have no idea why he’s singled out yours… the only thing that springs to mind is unattainable. Great profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonder how many have blocked the OP now

*raises hand

Never saw that coming! Im down a pony. Had just bet the mrs you were on the m62 on route to the Yorkshire coast intent on giving a blowjob! This place is so fickle!

Just kidding aren’t I, I didn’t even have time to get clean knickers on before I jumped in the car

Thankyou, that’s very kind

I have no idea either, I’m shocked

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Am I allowed to ask for intelligent men only?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Wonder how many have blocked the OP now

*raises hand

Never saw that coming! Im down a pony. Had just bet the mrs you were on the m62 on route to the Yorkshire coast intent on giving a blowjob! This place is so fickle!

Just kidding aren’t I, I didn’t even have time to get clean knickers on before I jumped in the car

Thankyou, that’s very kind

I have no idea either, I’m shocked

Think it’s safe to say he’s on his own with his views and green arrow will always assist in other ‘thoughts’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I allowed to ask for intelligent men only?"
oxymoron.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you think Fabsters?

1) A thread poster said avatar pictures should be compulsory but theirs had their faces covered with filter masks

2) A women thread poster complained and said she'd block men with cock pics yet had numerous boob and pussy pics

3) A women's profile states that she'd automatically delete messages from men with silhouette avatars and block them yet hers just shows her boobs

Have you come across this sort of thing?"

Everyone is absolutely definitely free to do what they want, providing I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do some people feel the need to launch into attack mode when posting? I’m a Forum lurker and I’ve noticed some regular posters who do this throughout many threads. This is a prime example here.

There is a difference between stating your opinion that is relevant to the thread and attacking someone for theirs by simply asking a question.

Being a regular poster here does not make anyone’s opinion more valid or give them the right to pass judgement through attack."

Welcome to the forums.

You make a valid point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is great, I’ve never been the subject of a thread before, especially as I only use this for the forums and I’ve never received messages from the OP but I must say, I’m very flattered

FYI, I can run my profile exactly as I please, but thanks for the thread.

But obviously you block!

And? So do lots of people so not sure why you’ve singled me out but I think it’s a really shitty move.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wonder how many have blocked the OP now

*raises hand "

Doesn't the ratio help so much!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Am I allowed to ask for intelligent men only?oxymoron. "

Is that like a moron in gravy?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"This is great, I’ve never been the subject of a thread before, especially as I only use this for the forums and I’ve never received messages from the OP but I must say, I’m very flattered

FYI, I can run my profile exactly as I please, but thanks for the thread.

But obviously you block!

And you can’t use the forum to get round that block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm reminiscing about yesterday's, what's your favourite dinosaur thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is great, I’ve never been the subject of a thread before, especially as I only use this for the forums and I’ve never received messages from the OP but I must say, I’m very flattered

FYI, I can run my profile exactly as I please, but thanks for the thread.

But obviously you block!

And you can’t use the forum to get round that block. "

I must certainly don't use the forum to get round anything, if you don't mind saying, a typical female response!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm reminiscing about yesterday's, what's your favourite dinosaur thread."

Ahhh the good old days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is great, I’ve never been the subject of a thread before, especially as I only use this for the forums and I’ve never received messages from the OP but I must say, I’m very flattered

FYI, I can run my profile exactly as I please, but thanks for the thread.

But obviously you block!

OP, it's against Forum rules to make personal attacks and to get round blocks in threads. You'd do yourself a favour by asking Admin to delete this thread.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"This is great, I’ve never been the subject of a thread before, especially as I only use this for the forums and I’ve never received messages from the OP but I must say, I’m very flattered

FYI, I can run my profile exactly as I please, but thanks for the thread.

But obviously you block!

You seem peeved about something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is great, I’ve never been the subject of a thread before, especially as I only use this for the forums and I’ve never received messages from the OP but I must say, I’m very flattered

FYI, I can run my profile exactly as I please, but thanks for the thread.

But obviously you block!

And you can’t use the forum to get round that block.

I must certainly don't use the forum to get round anything, if you don't mind saying, a typical female response!"

Why wouldn’t she block you after this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is great, I’ve never been the subject of a thread before, especially as I only use this for the forums and I’ve never received messages from the OP but I must say, I’m very flattered

FYI, I can run my profile exactly as I please, but thanks for the thread.

But obviously you block!

And you can’t use the forum to get round that block.

I must certainly don't use the forum to get round anything, if you don't mind saying, a typical female response!"

You're the typical angry old man baby but hey ho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh ffs,FFS, please read the thread title and first post.,..it disappoints me so much that the snowballs on here don't!!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, shame on you for disguising a personal attack under the guise of asking for opinions on a perfectly valid point.

That’ll teach me for coming out of lurking.

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