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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

THis really winds me up ...I never lie about my age but sometimes i look at a profile of a 58 year old and he looks like my dad ! Just be who you are .... age is irrelevant really

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I have 42 but is difficult to believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only a number. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"THis really winds me up ...I never lie about my age but sometimes i look at a profile of a 58 year old and he looks like my dad ! Just be who you are .... age is irrelevant really "

Says the lady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"THis really winds me up ...I never lie about my age but sometimes i look at a profile of a 58 year old and he looks like my dad ! Just be who you are .... age is irrelevant really "

I have had a chat with a few men about this. Apparently women are to blame for setting their age range too young. They have said once they reached 51 they can't contact most females, so shave some years off!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We got invited to a party back when we first started 8 years ago where all the other guests were long terms friends and we were the fresh meat as it were. It was like arriving at a care home we would guess from the look of them not one of them was below the age of 65. We made our excuses after an hour of being sociable and left. Next morning we watched as the hosts received all the verifications and were shocked to discover according to fab we were the oldest one there. Our ages were 43 & 49 at the time.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

My age is correct. Having been on fab for many years. Noticed each year less profiles want my age range.

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

So, if I read this right, then be who you are and don't worry about your age, but if you aren't comfortable about your age and lie about it in order to feel more comfortable then it's ok for everyone to judge you by that and to say you look much older?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im just saying dont lie about your age ..if people set their parameters at say fifty its because theydont want to meet over fifties ..so you lie about your age you send someone a message she looks at your profile and thinks my god he must ahve had a hard paperround ...You wouldnt get a meet out of it so why do it ?? I just dont get it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might shave a few years off on my next profile.

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By *ex-BombsCouple
over a year ago

Flitwick


"im just saying dont lie about your age ..if people set their parameters at say fifty its because theydont want to meet over fifties ..so you lie about your age you send someone a message she looks at your profile and thinks my god he must ahve had a hard paperround ...You wouldnt get a meet out of it so why do it ?? I just dont get it ."

Absolutely agree! 100% too many do this! We have an age range as that’s our preference and nothing worse than a bunch of people lying regardless of the reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s funny how so many men’s ages have been recorded on their profiles “in error” and in actual fact, their real age fits the females age preference. They’ve contacted admin about it and everything *eye roll

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville


"im just saying dont lie about your age ..if people set their parameters at say fifty its because theydont want to meet over fifties ..so you lie about your age you send someone a message she looks at your profile and thinks my god he must ahve had a hard paperround ...You wouldnt get a meet out of it so why do it ?? I just dont get it ."

What if most people lie about their age though, shouldn't we all just set our filters to three years younger than we really want in order to compensate? Orrrrrr maybe we could just let folk do as they wish and adjust our own expectations that the entire human race should share our own values?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im just saying dont lie about your age ..if people set their parameters at say fifty its because theydont want to meet over fifties ..so you lie about your age you send someone a message she looks at your profile and thinks my god he must ahve had a hard paperround ...You wouldnt get a meet out of it so why do it ?? I just dont get it .

What if most people lie about their age though, shouldn't we all just set our filters to three years younger than we really want in order to compensate? Orrrrrr maybe we could just let folk do as they wish and adjust our own expectations that the entire human race should share our own values? "

Surely we are allowed to have an opinion I dont expect everyone to agree with me ...and the entire human race are on FAB ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people I've noticed set the limit to 45. (I'm soon going to be outside that range..)

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow

I find that some people age really well yet some others look like Alan sugars ball bag.

I've got mates my age that look 50 odd.

Some of the ladys over 50 here id marry tomorrow. Aged really well and look amazing.

I do find it strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why lie just be truthful folks grow old gracefully and be honest life’s to short.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’m happy with how I look for my age so no point in lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that some people age really well yet some others look like Alan sugars ball bag.

I've got mates my age that look 50 odd.

Some of the ladys over 50 here id marry tomorrow. Aged really well and look amazing.

I do find it strange"

I’ve noticed that when I see girls who went to my school on social media. Some look like they were the teachers, not a fellow pupil! Everyone ages differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that some people age really well yet some others look like Alan sugars ball bag.

I've got mates my age that look 50 odd.

Some of the ladys over 50 here id marry tomorrow. Aged really well and look amazing.

I do find it strange"

There's a vegan lady whose videos i find interesting on youtube that looks like she's in her late 20s, though she's actually well into her 70s. ..I think it's partly genetic, but probably / mainly clean living.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"We got invited to a party back when we first started 8 years ago where all the other guests were long terms friends and we were the fresh meat as it were. It was like arriving at a care home we would guess from the look of them not one of them was below the age of 65. We made our excuses after an hour of being sociable and left. Next morning we watched as the hosts received all the verifications and were shocked to discover according to fab we were the oldest one there. Our ages were 43 & 49 at the time."

Been there lol

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow


"I find that some people age really well yet some others look like Alan sugars ball bag.

I've got mates my age that look 50 odd.

Some of the ladys over 50 here id marry tomorrow. Aged really well and look amazing.

I do find it strange

I’ve noticed that when I see girls who went to my school on social media. Some look like they were the teachers, not a fellow pupil! Everyone ages differently."

Its really strange.

Its not just chubby or bad ir grey hair either.

Its really baggy skin wrinkles the lot. Im only 38

I'm no jason moama but I'm glad I didn't age faster than light speed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that some people age really well yet some others look like Alan sugars ball bag.

I've got mates my age that look 50 odd.

Some of the ladys over 50 here id marry tomorrow. Aged really well and look amazing.

I do find it strange

I’ve noticed that when I see girls who went to my school on social media. Some look like they were the teachers, not a fellow pupil! Everyone ages differently.

Its really strange.

Its not just chubby or bad ir grey hair either.

Its really baggy skin wrinkles the lot. Im only 38

I'm no jason moama but I'm glad I didn't age faster than light speed.

"

I guess the alternative is applying very heavy smoothing filters to all your pics.

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow


"I find that some people age really well yet some others look like Alan sugars ball bag.

I've got mates my age that look 50 odd.

Some of the ladys over 50 here id marry tomorrow. Aged really well and look amazing.

I do find it strange

There's a vegan lady whose videos i find interesting on youtube that looks like she's in her late 20s, though she's actually well into her 70s. ..I think it's partly genetic, but probably / mainly clean living."

I mean nigella lawson

My god id stick my tounge in any place I could with her.

Shes so beautiful and over 60 I think

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

This really annoys me too... Had a 23yr old this morning, his profile said 32!! My boundaries are there for a reason.

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow


"I find that some people age really well yet some others look like Alan sugars ball bag.

I've got mates my age that look 50 odd.

Some of the ladys over 50 here id marry tomorrow. Aged really well and look amazing.

I do find it strange

I’ve noticed that when I see girls who went to my school on social media. Some look like they were the teachers, not a fellow pupil! Everyone ages differently.

Its really strange.

Its not just chubby or bad ir grey hair either.

Its really baggy skin wrinkles the lot. Im only 38

I'm no jason moama but I'm glad I didn't age faster than light speed.

I guess the alternative is applying very heavy smoothing filters to all your pics."

Is that a little dig at me?

All I can say is zoom in you can see every spot I've got.

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow


"I’m happy with how I look for my age so no point in lying "

I'm not lying either when I agree x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

If I shave ma goatee off, I get asked for id when I go into pubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that some people age really well yet some others look like Alan sugars ball bag.

I've got mates my age that look 50 odd.

Some of the ladys over 50 here id marry tomorrow. Aged really well and look amazing.

I do find it strange

I’ve noticed that when I see girls who went to my school on social media. Some look like they were the teachers, not a fellow pupil! Everyone ages differently.

Its really strange.

Its not just chubby or bad ir grey hair either.

Its really baggy skin wrinkles the lot. Im only 38

I'm no jason moama but I'm glad I didn't age faster than light speed.

I guess the alternative is applying very heavy smoothing filters to all your pics.

Is that a little dig at me?

All I can say is zoom in you can see every spot I've got.

"

It was, and I apologise, but yeah...

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow

Just good lighting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get it myself. But I generally don't filter for age and love it when suprised... I've learnt I have no eye for age (or am easily trucked by ohotosho and filters)

I also have no concept of inches either apparently.

Or what straight means.

It's a fab twighlight zone thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just good lighting "

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Well given amount of users who have more than one account because of the (birthday) or just prefer a certain age group regardless of their own age becomes a fab-holic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"THis really winds me up ...I never lie about my age but sometimes i look at a profile of a 58 year old and he looks like my dad ! Just be who you are .... age is irrelevant really "

I never lie about my age, no need to. A lot of women do, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This really annoys me too... Had a 23yr old this morning, his profile said 32!! My boundaries are there for a reason. "

Was he dyslexic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes lie about my mental age so people think I'm an adult.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I do not understand why male or females do it. If then meet in person. Should be obvious to most that different age to profile. Yes some may look younger than actual age. I have been told that, but not say a lot of years. Or nor so much men. Post photos from a lot younger years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate being old now....39 but younger in the head

All downhill from here

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

During the war, we didn't have time to lie about our age, we just got on with fighting the Nazis...

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By *nigma1000Man
over a year ago

Braintree

Don’t see the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, us 70 year olds need sex too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I happy with looking how I do at 42 I'm not gonna lie about my age... ask me in 5 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I happy with looking how I do at 42 I'm not gonna lie about my age... ask me in 5 years when im 44 "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine might say I'm 40 but I dont look a day older than 35 and act like a 25 year old. Leg day has me feeling and walking around like a 95 year old that just shat his own pants though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m actually 34… I add 10 years to attract the young ones who want cougars…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I happy with looking how I do at 42 I'm not gonna lie about my age... ask me in 5 years "

Oh my days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I happy with looking how I do at 42 I'm not gonna lie about my age... ask me in 5 years when im 44

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m actually 34… I add 10 years to attract the young ones who want cougars… "

Damn. Hook, line and sinker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m actually 34… I add 10 years to attract the young ones who want cougars…

Damn. Hook, line and sinker "

And you say you’re fool hardly

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Don’t see the point in it here.. I’d rather look ok for my actual age than like I had 5 paper rounds for a younger age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m actually 34… I add 10 years to attract the young ones who want cougars…

Damn. Hook, line and sinker

And you say you’re fool hardly "

You're right, I have to change my name and identity now, thanks a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand the temptation to, particularly as a younger man who falls outside alot of age preference ranges. However, I do understand that maturity is a big thing on this site and that's something not often associated with young men and you have to draw the line somewhere.

Personally I have not and will not lie about my age because 1) that would be hypocritical of what I've said above and 2) I don't like to be disingenuous...makes for a bad meet if I feel guilty in any way

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm 60 next year and I look it

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By *lut Sara and bobCouple
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

We arranged meeting today to meet single guy aged 64. Turned out he was at least 80 .. wanted to play in single room not wife's bedroom. Of course we left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines is the right age

Probably could get away with saying I am in my mid to late 20 like 26-28 but I don’t

Only going with what I been told not shour if it’s smoke blowing or not

Can’t see why it be smoke blowing after the deeds been done but still could be

Hooked up with couple off randoms at clubs and such and afterwards

They say didn’t think a someone in they 20s would be interested in me in my 40s or 30s they shocked when I come out as say I am in my 30s well at the time 30-31 they like I thought you were about 25-26

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Very few people can get away with knocking ten years off their age but loads of people try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a guy on here that is younger now than he was when I first joined in 2011

I recommended he changed his profile name to Benjamin Button

That didn't go down well

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

We have our correct ages on our profile, but have noticed that a lot of women don’t use their real age! They do tend to tell us quite quickly tho to be fair once we’ve started chatting. We understand that a lot do it to protect their identity from what we’ve been told, and that’s absolutely fine! Miss PC

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Age range preferences are for fab ages, they've already been adjusted to take into account all of the dodgers who have shaved years off. I was once one of the youngest on fab but soon realised that some were quite a bit older than they said, so I reduced my looking for downwards, as all the 99 years old lot were getting on for 200.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im just saying dont lie about your age ..if people set their parameters at say fifty its because theydont want to meet over fifties ..so you lie about your age you send someone a message she looks at your profile and thinks my god he must ahve had a hard paperround ...You wouldnt get a meet out of it so why do it ?? I just dont get it ."

And what about those who haven't had a hard paper round, and don't look their age? If I physically look better than some a fraction of my age (and I'm being factual here not egotistical), am physically fitter, and (arguably) maturer too, am I not at a disadvantage on account of dumb chronology? I respect women's wishes in terms of the upper age limits they set, but my main observation in that regard is really why set a round number like 50? It's a bit like setting your alarm for 7.30am instead of 7.33am. We all like round numbers, but is it sensible. That said, I appreciate that it is a buyer's market and the ladies can do what they want. For the record, my stated age is accurate, and if I fall off some people's radar, so be it. There are other fish in the sea

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I avoid. I just see it as one lie that will probably be followed by others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age and location in my profile aren’t true although I’d debate a Magical Realm might be an apt description of where I live.

My age differs by a few years but that was to avoid someone I saw here. Now, I can’t change it back to my true age but it doesn’t seem to affect who and how people interact with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit I’m a couple of years out sorry

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could stand on two feet during the Queens Jubilee in 1977 then I am lying about my age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what is the point lying about your age at all.daft...or size,or anything else on that matter.

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill


"I do not understand why male or females do it."

A lot of people do it to fit the age ranges of people they are interested in meeting, simple.

The real issue though with age filters is they are hard and factual, whereas the ageing process isn’t. A line up of men and women aged 60 will show you lots of different people for whom the ageing process has yielded different results. Some will look much younger, and others much older than their actual age. It’s fuzzy! Age filters are not.

An upper age of 50 means Kylie Minogue, Liz Hurly, George Cloony and Brad Pitt are out of bounds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 42 but is difficult to believe "
. 42 and stunning xxx

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

I'm neither young nor old

Some days I feel old lol often told I look younger than my years but, only see is it as a number... I'm not age discriminate and see no point in falsifying my age here... I am what I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

39 and getting on but 21 (mature) in the head

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We go by pictures. Hands, neck and for men chest are reliable indicators of age. Knock ten years off by all means, all it does it cause a wry smile and a raised eyebrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42 and rocking it! Why lie about age you’ll only attract people who aren’t interested.

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By *LawMan
over a year ago

Bradford

That's a good way. But I'm 32 with the chest of a teenager haha

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By *ickandrimyouMan
over a year ago

Hamstead

I'm over 70 still love sex but I do get a lot of no's at lot but I've had pleasure with 23 yrs up to 73 years I love rimming a lady and eating a nice pussy mmmmm please offer me one lol

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