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By *ensuallover1000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Do you make a conscious effort in day to day interactions with others to maintain it?

Does it ever intimidate you if a persons eyes never leave yours whilst you converse with them?

Finally, if you do find it intimidating, where do you end up looking?

Discuss all your eyeballing views and stories here folks

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

In my job I have too so used to it x

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I have to for my job, personal life I'm terrible for it though, I'm actually quite shy and will avoid it at times

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Totally. Eye contact is a total ‘thing’ for me. The eyes say a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes says a lot... love a good eye contact.some people are staring and that can make you feel a bit uncomfortable and even awkward.

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By *ereforthefun1Couple
over a year ago

derby

I always make eye contact with people

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

You know that feeling when you make eye contact with someone and it means something special. I like that

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
over a year ago

Scarborough

Oh I love eye contact, it’s the greatest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys, you know, boobs don't have eyes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much makes me feel awkward, so I look down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t look at women in the eye, I have to look at their left ear, with men I can’t look at their left ear I have to look at their right eyebrow, it’s just my thing and everyone who I work with has got used to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love eye contact it’s very telling at times

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Guys, you know, boobs don't have eyes? "

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I like to look into people's eyes and maintain that eye contact. Sometimes when concentrating on something, remembering something etc I may break eye contact though but by and large, the eyes are the most expressive part of a human, in addition to their (unconscious) body language)

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"Guys, you know, boobs don't have eyes? "
ahhh I was looking at your heartbeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys, you know, boobs don't have eyes? ahhh I was looking at your heartbeat "

I am an ice queen

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By *ensuallover1000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I do struggle with it a bit myself as I find it a bit too intense/intimate.

However, I will force myself to do so, so as not to appear rude or else to come across as disinterested in what the person is saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you make a conscious effort in day to day interactions with others to maintain it?

Does it ever intimidate you if a persons eyes never leave yours whilst you converse with them?

Finally, if you do find it intimidating, where do you end up looking?

Discuss all your eyeballing views and stories here folks "

It can be intimidating or it can be very sensual. There is a big difference between eye contact and staring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys, you know, boobs don't have eyes? "

No that’s staring and I just can’t help myself

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Totally. Eye contact is a total ‘thing’ for me. The eyes say a lot."
I love eye contact. It reveals so much about a person.

It works the same in reverse of course but I see that as a positive things because someone maintaining eye contact with me will hopefully know that I'm sincere.

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By *ensuallover1000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I can’t look at women in the eye, I have to look at their left ear, with men I can’t look at their left ear I have to look at their right eyebrow, it’s just my thing and everyone who I work with has got used to it. "

Marty Feldman….is that you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use them, creates some intensity & intimacy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In daily life I find eye contact a struggle it doesn’t come naturally and I have to force myself not sexually but socially!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear a rucksack everywhere I go.

Everytime someone engages me in conversation (on the street to pick up some milk, a work meeting on Teams, at my parents to discuss the weather) I stop, reach into my rucksack and pull out and banana.

I nod and make that agreeing sound while I peal the banana and then I lock eyes with them, eating it nibble by nibble, very slowly; never leaving eye contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like eye contact when engaging with someone on any level...though I also accept that some people are uncomfortable with this and if they appear to be uncomfortable will make conscious effort to not have as much...more fleeting.

For me it gives a good read on what’s going on..

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By *ereforthefun1Couple
over a year ago

derby


"I always make eye contact with people "

Especially when I give Mr C a blow job

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Depends on the eyes I'm looking at... You can tell a lot with a single gaze ...

Some people look away , some eyes are shy , and some eyes are so bloody powerful they are an actual weapon that render you utterly helpless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I may be strange ha ha

Day to day I can struggle to keep eye contact as I'm quite shy.

In work, stick me in a conference room with 100 people and I can maintain eye contact with no issue.

On a sexual/intimate level I maintain eye contact throughout and love to tease people using them to get things I want and flirt with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When waiting to cross the road, I never make eye contact with motorists. It annoys the ones who would allow me to cross in front of them and pleases those who wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the eyes I'm looking at... You can tell a lot with a single gaze ...

Some people look away , some eyes are shy , and some eyes are so bloody powerful they are an actual weapon that render you utterly helpless "

Is that similiar to when mine broke you down completely and left you handcuffed on the bed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear a rucksack everywhere I go.

Everytime someone engages me in conversation (on the street to pick up some milk, a work meeting on Teams, at my parents to discuss the weather) I stop, reach into my rucksack and pull out and banana.

I nod and make that agreeing sound while I peal the banana and then I lock eyes with them, eating it nibble by nibble, very slowly; never leaving eye contact.

"
Fuck*n' hilarious, that's a 1980s sketch show character right there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a professional sumo wrestler, I find keeping eye contact to be essential in order to track my opponents every move.... probably

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Depends on the eyes I'm looking at... You can tell a lot with a single gaze ...

Some people look away , some eyes are shy , and some eyes are so bloody powerful they are an actual weapon that render you utterly helpless

Is that similiar to when mine broke you down completely and left you handcuffed on the bed? "

Oh erm ... Oh christ you I don't know what to say haha ...

Yes it is

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Direct eye contact is a big part of my daily life, some can find it intimidating but once they actually see my eyes change colour shades their curiosity takes over any awkwardness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the eyes I'm looking at... You can tell a lot with a single gaze ...

Some people look away , some eyes are shy , and some eyes are so bloody powerful they are an actual weapon that render you utterly helpless

Is that similiar to when mine broke you down completely and left you handcuffed on the bed?

Oh erm ... Oh christ you I don't know what to say haha ...

Yes it is "

Gets you back for your comment yesterday on here you wench

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a professional sumo wrestler, I find keeping eye contact to be essential in order to track my opponents every move.... probably"

Are there many Sumo Wrestlers in MK, not seen any so far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you make a conscious effort in day to day interactions with others to maintain it?

Does it ever intimidate you if a persons eyes never leave yours whilst you converse with them?

Finally, if you do find it intimidating, where do you end up looking?

Discuss all your eyeballing views and stories here folks "

I like talking and seeing people in the eyes. HATE and I mean HATE when people can’t look in your face when they talk and they constantly look away. Like what??

I find it shifty also

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Depends on the eyes I'm looking at... You can tell a lot with a single gaze ...

Some people look away , some eyes are shy , and some eyes are so bloody powerful they are an actual weapon that render you utterly helpless

Is that similiar to when mine broke you down completely and left you handcuffed on the bed?

Oh erm ... Oh christ you I don't know what to say haha ...

Yes it is

Gets you back for your comment yesterday on here you wench "

Fair play I guess... I'll get ya back again

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By *ensuallover1000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

On a side note, has anyone here experienced those individuals who really bore into you with their eyes when they speak to you and never even seem to blink, Robert Powell in Jesus Of Nazareth style?

It’s really disconcerting

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

It depends on the context. I always love staring at a partner, but only after they have become comfortable with it. I've always been told by partners I've a very intense stare so am always very concious of it with other people and try to avoid significant eye contact as much as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact makes me very uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wear sunglasses

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't ever feel intimidated by another but I do find it difficult to maintain eye contact sometimes - it's one of those easy things for neurotypical folk so they don't really think about it being any other reason than a person being... *cue negative trait*.

At work it's easy because I prep myself and I've been doing it for years. I try and do it in social settings but sometimes it's tough. Poor me

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By *ensuallover1000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I always wear sunglasses "

Even in bed wifey. It especially freaked me out when you wore those mirrored aviator shades the other night. I subsequently ended up looking in my own eyes when we were…..

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