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By *ecadent_Devon OP   Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

So my surname is recorded less than 2,500 times worldwide and I am the last of my line (with no family to follow).

Are you the last of your line? Is your surname quite common in the general population? Should I feel guilty that when I pass this mortal coil my families achievements will be consigned to history? Or is that an archaic way of looking at legacy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else wondering what Recorded's first name is?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It's going to be a shame if your name disappears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard the last Gary was born in 1992, thus making Gary’s extinct by 2050, sad really.

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By *ecadent_Devon OP   Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My sons are the last of their family name, although one of my DIL’s is expecting a boy later in the year so the name will go on for one more generation at least

#summattolookforwardto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 12/08/21 17:38:41]"

I saw that.

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By *ecadent_Devon OP   Man
over a year ago

Okehampton


"It's going to be a shame if your name disappears "

Not really I mean it doesn’t really bother me. Apparently 3 people in Sweden have my surname, I shall trust in them to fight the good fight

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By *ecadent_Devon OP   Man
over a year ago

Okehampton


"[Removed by poster at 12/08/21 17:38:41]

I saw that."

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Av’ a bambino, you’d be a great papa.

She says as if it’s simple to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by Deed Poll at 12/08/21 17:38:41]"

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By *ecadent_Devon OP   Man
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Av’ a bambino, you’d be a great papa.

She says as if it’s simple to do. "

Had one. Didn’t work out. Some things are not meant to be.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Anyone else wondering what Recorded's first name is?"

Thurston Clas?

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY


"So my surname is recorded less than 2,500 times worldwide and I am the last of my line (with no family to follow).

Are you the last of your line? Is your surname quite common in the general population? Should I feel guilty that when I pass this mortal coil my families achievements will be consigned to history? Or is that an archaic way of looking at legacy? "

Get out there and continue the name you don't have to marry just get your name on the birth certificate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By last of the line I guess you mean a direct line of descent ? But like any family yours will have many branches so the history and DNA lives on. Surnames coming to an end has always been quiet common with most married women losing their in the past.

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By *ecadent_Devon OP   Man
over a year ago

Okehampton


"By last of the line I guess you mean a direct line of descent ? But like any family yours will have many branches so the history and DNA lives on. Surnames coming to an end has always been quiet common with most married women losing their in the past."

No I am the last living male of the branch as far back as can be traced. I am sure however that there are bits of my DNA everywhere (mainly curtains I think).

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By *rotic desiresWoman
over a year ago

Here and there


"So my surname is recorded less than 2,500 times worldwide and I am the last of my line (with no family to follow).

Are you the last of your line? Is your surname quite common in the general population? Should I feel guilty that when I pass this mortal coil my families achievements will be consigned to history? Or is that an archaic way of looking at legacy? "

Unfortunately my maiden name is likely to die out very soon. Only one cousin with a son to carry on the legacy of a double barrel name which has been passed through several generations and had very uncommonly been acquired by permission granted through royalty.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I don't think guilt for the legacy is the way to look at it. Sadness for yourself if you feel it but no one should feel guilty about a family name.

If your ancestors cared that much they should have had more boys.

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By *ecadent_Devon OP   Man
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I don't think guilt for the legacy is the way to look at it. Sadness for yourself if you feel it but no one should feel guilty about a family name.

If your ancestors cared that much they should have had more boys."

From the “boy shop”?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I was the last in my family to keep the name going until i produced a son. My dad isn’t arsed about me now he’s got a surname legacy out of me

K

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I am the last male of my family line, with no son to carry my name forward

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I am the last male of my family line, with no son to carry my name forward "
I see your caper me laddo

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I would of thought that there would be more than 2500 people with the surname Devon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else wondering what Recorded's first name is?"

I bet its Rumplestiltskin!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

There's just under 670 people in the world with my maiden name.

In my grandfather's lineage there's only two men to carry on the name, and one of them is almost 60 and has no children. The other isn't 30 yet, so maybe he'll keep our branch going.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I don't think guilt for the legacy is the way to look at it. Sadness for yourself if you feel it but no one should feel guilty about a family name.

If your ancestors cared that much they should have had more boys.

From the “boy shop”? "

Nah..... just had loads more sprogs!

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

I probably can’t walk 200 metres without someone having the same surname as me

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

My surname is fairly uncommon. I have one brother, who has no kids, and I have 2 daughters, so that's the end of the name for our family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there only 2,500 Calvin Kleins in the world?

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"My surname is fairly uncommon. I have one brother, who has no kids, and I have 2 daughters, so that's the end of the name for our family."

I've just checked online and in 2014 there were 975 occurrences of my surname worldwide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the last of my bloodline (and family name down that part of the tree). When I knew I didn't want kids I had a conversation with my dad about it and he said he didn't care as it's completely my choice what ai want to do eith my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably can’t walk 200 metres without someone having the same surname as me "

Not the only one in the village then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common surname here, but I’m the last of the line (have a daughter).

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I heard the last Gary was born in 1992, thus making Gary’s extinct by 2050, sad really."

We were only having this conversation the other day.

My name is common, no danger of us dying out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My surname is rare and unusual, an ancient place name with within British Isles. Probably gonna die off more with me not being straight with kids to pass on to

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

868th most common surname in the world, 6th most common in Wales, around 850k people with the same surname.

Mine is in no danger of dying out.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"So my surname is recorded less than 2,500 times worldwide and I am the last of my line (with no family to follow).

Are you the last of your line? Is your surname quite common in the general population? Should I feel guilty that when I pass this mortal coil my families achievements will be consigned to history? Or is that an archaic way of looking at legacy? "

Ours is recorded barely 1,000 times worldwide. My first name is so unusual that I believe I'm the only person with my name in the whole world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always wanted rid of my family name. Never have though. I could change it but deed poll but haven't done so.... Yet.

I have a son but thankfully he has his dad's surname.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 94 with my family name (trivia we even have a coat of arm), which I don’t think are related to me… or if they are, they are very distant lol

I can only speak of people in my closest family tree and it’s just me and my cousin, and her two daughters.

I ain’t carrying the family line and I admit my dad was annoyed about it but … tough x lol

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Dunno how many of us Chromatic's there are. Probably a few at the far end of the rainbow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s still 2,499 to go so not the last

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Should I feel guilty that when I pass this mortal coil my families achievements will be consigned to history? Or is that an archaic way of looking at legacy? "

I don’t think that wanting your name to carry on is a strong enough reason to bring a child into the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one to think… it’s just a fucking name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one to think… it’s just a fucking name? "

I find names fascinating. Also stands for which is family, your clan symbolising belonging and when your family have used that name for generations prior it is a big thing

Names tell a story, all names have meaning. Some are ancient and related to places like mine and others relating to the professions of your relatives.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"I probably can’t walk 200 metres without someone having the same surname as me

Not the only one in the village then? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one to think… it’s just a fucking name?

I find names fascinating. Also stands for which is family, your clan symbolising belonging and when your family have used that name for generations prior it is a big thing

Names tell a story, all names have meaning. Some are ancient and related to places like mine and others relating to the professions of your relatives.

"

Yeah I totally get it but I never understood why my dad really wanted me to have kids to make our family name go on… like I could really tell he cared about it. My cousin also “failed” as he never had boys so it’s not gonna carry after his daughters.

As mentioned mine is quite “ancient” and was apparently from nobility (in the continent tho) x lol “we “have the ugliest family crest I’ve ever seen with a bear holding a lamb leg (with blood dripping off) and 3 red stars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one to think… it’s just a fucking name?

I find names fascinating. Also stands for which is family, your clan symbolising belonging and when your family have used that name for generations prior it is a big thing

Names tell a story, all names have meaning. Some are ancient and related to places like mine and others relating to the professions of your relatives.

Yeah I totally get it but I never understood why my dad really wanted me to have kids to make our family name go on… like I could really tell he cared about it. My cousin also “failed” as he never had boys so it’s not gonna carry after his daughters.

As mentioned mine is quite “ancient” and was apparently from nobility (in the continent tho) x lol “we “have the ugliest family crest I’ve ever seen with a bear holding a lamb leg (with blood dripping off) and 3 red stars "

That sounds cool! Mine has a knights head wearing a crown, 3 red stars and 3 what looks like Wolfs heads or could be dragons heads I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one to think… it’s just a fucking name?

I find names fascinating. Also stands for which is family, your clan symbolising belonging and when your family have used that name for generations prior it is a big thing

Names tell a story, all names have meaning. Some are ancient and related to places like mine and others relating to the professions of your relatives.

Yeah I totally get it but I never understood why my dad really wanted me to have kids to make our family name go on… like I could really tell he cared about it. My cousin also “failed” as he never had boys so it’s not gonna carry after his daughters.

As mentioned mine is quite “ancient” and was apparently from nobility (in the continent tho) x lol “we “have the ugliest family crest I’ve ever seen with a bear holding a lamb leg (with blood dripping off) and 3 red stars

That sounds cool! Mine has a knights head wearing a crown, 3 red stars and 3 what looks like Wolfs heads or could be dragons heads I guess "

Sounds wayyyyy better and cooler!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is recorded under 1000 times globally but I have a large family.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Quite a rare surname but I do keep seeing it pop up in odd places, Australian rugby player and a Solent radio jock being just a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one to think… it’s just a fucking name?

I find names fascinating. Also stands for which is family, your clan symbolising belonging and when your family have used that name for generations prior it is a big thing

Names tell a story, all names have meaning. Some are ancient and related to places like mine and others relating to the professions of your relatives.

Yeah I totally get it but I never understood why my dad really wanted me to have kids to make our family name go on… like I could really tell he cared about it. My cousin also “failed” as he never had boys so it’s not gonna carry after his daughters.

As mentioned mine is quite “ancient” and was apparently from nobility (in the continent tho) x lol “we “have the ugliest family crest I’ve ever seen with a bear holding a lamb leg (with blood dripping off) and 3 red stars

That sounds cool! Mine has a knights head wearing a crown, 3 red stars and 3 what looks like Wolfs heads or could be dragons heads I guess

Sounds wayyyyy better and cooler!!!! "

Alls I know is that the 3 stars have noble meaning which means me and you are real life proper princesses

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

A select few know my name and to say its common would be a mild understatement haha

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Go forth and multiply. Immediately.

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By *ecadent_Devon OP   Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

So some of you have coats of arms? I have one as well as my name dates back to a place recorded in the Doomsday Book and some Lord or other, it has both a star and a crescent moon on it and a really big helmet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So some of you have coats of arms? I have one as well as my name dates back to a place recorded in the Doomsday Book and some Lord or other, it has both a star and a crescent moon on it and a really big helmet "

I don’t know if you are joking or

But I’m telling the truth

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall


"Av’ a bambino, you’d be a great papa.

She says as if it’s simple to do.

Had one. Didn’t work out. Some things are not meant to be. "

You have me confused. You said you were the last of the line with no family to follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So some of you have coats of arms? I have one as well as my name dates back to a place recorded in the Doomsday Book and some Lord or other, it has both a star and a crescent moon on it and a really big helmet "

That sounds a bit fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh come off it op; they named a county after you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So some of you have coats of arms? I have one as well as my name dates back to a place recorded in the Doomsday Book and some Lord or other, it has both a star and a crescent moon on it and a really big helmet

That sounds a bit fancy"

It is fancy! I googled and the star and crescent moon is a prominent symbol of the Ottoman Empire

I thought an ottoman was a fancy box for blankets.

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By *ecadent_Devon OP   Man
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Av’ a bambino, you’d be a great papa.

She says as if it’s simple to do.

Had one. Didn’t work out. Some things are not meant to be.

You have me confused. You said you were the last of the line with no family to follow"

My daughter passed away shortly after being born.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else wondering what Recorded's first name is?

Thurston Clas?

Del Ivor

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By *ecadent_Devon OP   Man
over a year ago

Okehampton


"So some of you have coats of arms? I have one as well as my name dates back to a place recorded in the Doomsday Book and some Lord or other, it has both a star and a crescent moon on it and a really big helmet

I don’t know if you are joking or

But I’m telling the truth "

Truth. The star and the crescent were adopted by the kings that went on crusades, so it means the family took part in them (apologies to the people of the Middle East)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Av’ a bambino, you’d be a great papa.

She says as if it’s simple to do.

Had one. Didn’t work out. Some things are not meant to be.

You have me confused. You said you were the last of the line with no family to follow

My daughter passed away shortly after being born. "

so sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So some of you have coats of arms? I have one as well as my name dates back to a place recorded in the Doomsday Book and some Lord or other, it has both a star and a crescent moon on it and a really big helmet

I don’t know if you are joking or

But I’m telling the truth

Truth. The star and the crescent were adopted by the kings that went on crusades, so it means the family took part in them (apologies to the people of the Middle East) "

Amazing!! X your family crest sound so cool x

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By *ecadent_Devon OP   Man
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Av’ a bambino, you’d be a great papa.

She says as if it’s simple to do.

Had one. Didn’t work out. Some things are not meant to be.

You have me confused. You said you were the last of the line with no family to follow

My daughter passed away shortly after being born.

so sorry to hear that "

It was a long time ago but thank you. Life is a series of volcanoes and valleys for us all, of that I am sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Av’ a bambino, you’d be a great papa.

She says as if it’s simple to do.

Had one. Didn’t work out. Some things are not meant to be.

You have me confused. You said you were the last of the line with no family to follow

My daughter passed away shortly after being born.

so sorry to hear that

It was a long time ago but thank you. Life is a series of volcanoes and valleys for us all, of that I am sure. "

Awww I’m so sorry too, I want to give u a hug xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Av’ a bambino, you’d be a great papa.

She says as if it’s simple to do.

Had one. Didn’t work out. Some things are not meant to be.

You have me confused. You said you were the last of the line with no family to follow

My daughter passed away shortly after being born.

so sorry to hear that

It was a long time ago but thank you. Life is a series of volcanoes and valleys for us all, of that I am sure. "

Of course, we all have our own paths some have trickier paths than others with lots of obstacles but we are all still here which is what counts x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Av’ a bambino, you’d be a great papa.

She says as if it’s simple to do.

Had one. Didn’t work out. Some things are not meant to be.

You have me confused. You said you were the last of the line with no family to follow

My daughter passed away shortly after being born. "

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By *osforthMan
over a year ago

newcastle on tyne

I'm the last of my line too. Not really all that bothered, my relatives were a bunch of assholes so happy to not pass on that gene.

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