FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Change of mind...

Jump to newest
 

By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

when did you last have a change of mind and what was it about? I am not talking about what you will have for dinner but more about a certain view on something.

What caused you to change your mind?

Or do you tend to stick by what you have always believed in?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Up until about a year ago I knew for sure that guys gave better blow jobs. I now hold a different view haha

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

There are some things that I'll never, ever change my mind about but others it's far more flexible. I'm constantly learning and growing so with that comes me being quite open minded and willing to listen to other view points. Experience oft leads to me changing my mind as well.

The last time? Yeah, I'm not posting that on here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A belief is just that, a personal opinion, and it should always be open to reconsideration in light of new facts and experiences. I actually think seeing things from a new perspective is really stimulating and exciting and I hope I'm always open to that possibility.

I won't derail the thread with politics but I've changed my mind on several big issues in recent years, and I'm sure I will do again !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I used to be against certain types of affirmative action until I learned more about the disadvantaged certain demographics have faced that spam across generations and still effect them now even a long time after things have changed

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to not change my mind... I think? I'm not sure?

I've decided, I mostly go with what I originally decided 50% of the time

Claire

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Up until about a year ago I knew for sure that guys gave better blow jobs. I now hold a different view haha "
Interesting

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"There are some things that I'll never, ever change my mind about but others it's far more flexible. I'm constantly learning and growing so with that comes me being quite open minded and willing to listen to other view points. Experience oft leads to me changing my mind as well.

The last time? Yeah, I'm not posting that on here. "
The mind boggles...;-)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"A belief is just that, a personal opinion, and it should always be open to reconsideration in light of new facts and experiences. I actually think seeing things from a new perspective is really stimulating and exciting and I hope I'm always open to that possibility.

I won't derail the thread with politics but I've changed my mind on several big issues in recent years, and I'm sure I will do again !

"

I would agree with you - I have changed my mind on things I never expected to, politics being amongst those things.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I used to be against certain types of affirmative action until I learned more about the disadvantaged certain demographics have faced that spam across generations and still effect them now even a long time after things have changed "

So you are saying you have moved a bit from a previously adopted mindset and became open to looking at causes. That is awesome I think because for me, it is one thing having an opinion, it is another to be open about the possibility things might actually be different.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I tend to not change my mind... I think? I'm not sure?

I've decided, I mostly go with what I originally decided 50% of the time

Claire "

I guess after a change of mind and then after a little while the originally assumed position could be back as the better option?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think changing your mind can show you’re not afraid to admit you were wrong, or that new facts have come to light, or that you changed. It can also take courage to admit you were wrong.

I don’t understand people who say they never change their mind, it seems to be a very fixed mindset.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I think changing your mind can show you’re not afraid to admit you were wrong, or that new facts have come to light, or that you changed. It can also take courage to admit you were wrong.

I don’t understand people who say they never change their mind, it seems to be a very fixed mindset.

"

I think you have a valid point over realising that you have been wrong and then admitting that and changing your mind. It takes balls, doesn't it?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"I think changing your mind can show you’re not afraid to admit you were wrong, or that new facts have come to light, or that you changed. It can also take courage to admit you were wrong.

I don’t understand people who say they never change their mind, it seems to be a very fixed mindset.

"

It’s the very definition of closed mindedness.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think changing your mind can show you’re not afraid to admit you were wrong, or that new facts have come to light, or that you changed. It can also take courage to admit you were wrong.

I don’t understand people who say they never change their mind, it seems to be a very fixed mindset.

"

When the facts change, my mid changes.

For me, it was whether I'd be okay with a gf dating other ppl.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Depends on the subject matter but always have an open mind.

The last time I changed my mind, it turned out very, very well so never say never x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there


"I think changing your mind can show you’re not afraid to admit you were wrong, or that new facts have come to light, or that you changed. It can also take courage to admit you were wrong.

I don’t understand people who say they never change their mind, it seems to be a very fixed mindset.

I think you have a valid point over realising that you have been wrong and then admitting that and changing your mind. It takes balls, doesn't it? "

Yes, if you are wrong! But changing your mind doesn't always mean you're in the wrong. You might change your mind to appease a situation if the outcome is likely to prove difficult. Or stick with your guns and see it through!

I think it all depends on the circumstance.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Sounds like the general consensus suggests changing one's mind is not a bad thing and depending on the specific situation.

I have changed my mind a fair few times in my life and have made mistakes in the process - all part of growing up I guess?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I never change my mind I’m very stubborn

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I never change my mind I’m very stubborn "
Said with a lovely Scottish accent?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"I never change my mind I’m very stubborn Said with a lovely Scottish accent? "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Could not have imagined i would be on a swingers site a few years ago. But that was more to do with not even knowing swingers really existed other than some hazy idea about car keys in a bowl.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Could not have imagined i would be on a swingers site a few years ago. But that was more to do with not even knowing swingers really existed other than some hazy idea about car keys in a bowl. "

Seriously - me neither! I remember watching a program on Hedonism with my then husband many years ago and I was quite shocked (but not disgusted!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I have changed my mind about really significant issues a few times in my life. Sometimes it has been joyful and other times extremely painful. But once you see you can’t unsee, once you know you can’t unknow.

Personal development is a process of evolving consciousness. I definitely don’t want to stop learning and growing.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top