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Can’t get verified?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I came in here because I wanted to dip my toes in the water of group sex, but every single couple or woman I come across says I need to be verified before we meet.

How can I get verified if I don’t meet anyone?! This is like the old job/experience paradox all over again.

Blah.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

go on cam or get to a club

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By *ustdavewiltshireMan
over a year ago

Bath

Cam will get you verified make a connection with someone on here don't go diving in with the I want I want attitude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m not, I’m just remarking on the irony of needing to get verified before I see anyone. Also I don’t have a webcam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not, I’m just remarking on the irony of needing to get verified before I see anyone. Also I don’t have a webcam "

Then you are stuffed, my friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you have a phone with built in camera

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"I’m not, I’m just remarking on the irony of needing to get verified before I see anyone. Also I don’t have a webcam

Then you are stuffed, my friend! "

And not in the way he would like

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We use our phones to cam with people. We wouldn't meet if we hadn't spoken in such a way. Maybe invest in a cam or a way to video call?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet a guy ? (It's allowed)

Or facetime one.

Or get to clubs.

Or just bide your time and make some connections here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club/social , cam verification or be patient connect with someone on here. I know we all start somewhere but a lot of people use this site as a tool.

If you really want to meet others a club is your best place in my personal opinion. Especially for someone new to the scene, that way you could get multiple verifications and some experience with others….

Then go from there, if you get verified that way others will see you are genuine and it could increase your chance of meeting off here then…

That’s how I did it anyway and it worked… good luck

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Go to a club - you'll be able to get a proper verification - and it's your best chance of getting group sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always forget a cam verfication is a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also I don’t have a webcam "

I would challenge that assumption. The fact you have taken a selfie for your profile with you clearly focused at the screen, means your phone has a front facing camera. The likelihood of that phone being unable to use the camera in the chat rooms is extremely remote.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Hi OP.

You need to be very careful.about naming and shaming, not only is it against forum rules, it's ugly.

If you can't get a meet, have a look at the common denominator.

You.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hi OP.

You need to be very careful.about naming and shaming, not only is it against forum rules, it's ugly.

If you can't get a meet, have a look at the common denominator.

You.

"

Fab rules, not just the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always forget a cam verfication is a thing."

You literally live round the corner from me, I'll verify you if you like

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By *ustdavewiltshireMan
over a year ago

Bath


"I always forget a cam verfication is a thing.

You literally live round the corner from me, I'll verify you if you like "

Now there's an offer you surely can't refuse OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always forget a cam verfication is a thing.

You literally live round the corner from me, I'll verify you if you like

Now there's an offer you surely can't refuse OP.

"

Jesus I've never seen such luck!

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

I'll veri you on cam?

But tbh I've never ever had an issue with people not meeting me without verification. I think it's often an easy excuse to avoid maybe saying something more personal

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By *ustdavewiltshireMan
over a year ago

Bath


"I always forget a cam verfication is a thing.

You literally live round the corner from me, I'll verify you if you like

Now there's an offer you surely can't refuse OP.

Jesus I've never seen such luck!"

I'm planning a poor me post right now..... Hoping kitten offers to verify me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always forget a cam verfication is a thing.

You literally live round the corner from me, I'll verify you if you like

Now there's an offer you surely can't refuse OP.

Jesus I've never seen such luck!

I'm planning a poor me post right now..... Hoping kitten offers to verify me "

It's the fact that kitten is smoking hot, what a winner haha

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