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I’m not sure if it’s just me being weird or if others are the same.
Life obviously has its ups and downs, but I tend to NEED toys and a play when I’m upset. I’m not even in that mood or even the slightest bit turned on but I crave that climax even more so at times where things are shit.
Do you??
Is it because at this moment it’s the only thing that someone can have control over?
Or to make ourselves feel good?
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"Do what you feel gobby x" That I will. I’m just wondering if others are like that and I’m bored | |||
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"Do you mean playing with Lego?? But yes I get where you’re coming from, I sometimes feel like having a play eases my angers and frustrations but also sometimes doesn’t necessarily satisfy me as much as enjoying that climax in the same moment as a woman? " You and Mr mystique clearly would get along. Set up a play date soon I’d say and bring your own Lego’s because I’d worry about where Mr mystique puts his
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"Its just seeking endorphins when you are upset, this is why people comfort eat as well, searching for the natural lift" That could be it as you say with needing that natural lift. We I tend to go off food which is good as I’m not needing any extra weight. | |||
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"I've never used a toy on myself. My hands have always been good enough. "Maybe you should try some | |||
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"Maybe it’s also a distraction from feeling down " No it doesn’t really distract me from what’s going on but more just need of that feeling | |||
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"Do you mean playing with Lego?? But yes I get where you’re coming from, I sometimes feel like having a play eases my angers and frustrations but also sometimes doesn’t necessarily satisfy me as much as enjoying that climax in the same moment as a woman? You and Mr mystique clearly would get along. Set up a play date soon I’d say and bring your own Lego’s because I’d worry about where Mr mystique puts his
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"Its just seeking endorphins when you are upset, this is why people comfort eat as well, searching for the natural lift" Totally agree. Having a good masterbation or sex session is know to relieve stress through the production of endorphins.  | |||
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"I've never used a toy on myself. My hands have always been good enough.
Maybe you should try some "Maybe you could show me. | |||
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"Its just seeking endorphins when you are upset, this is why people comfort eat as well, searching for the natural lift" Is it ? I’ve experienced people self harming and that was about taking control when they felt bad rather that seeking a buzz. I teach for wine and cake when low but rarely sex ! | |||
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"Its just seeking endorphins when you are upset, this is why people comfort eat as well, searching for the natural lift Is it ? I’ve experienced people self harming and that was about taking control when they felt bad rather that seeking a buzz. I teach for wine and cake when low but rarely sex ! " ah cake and fine wine. tremendous. | |||
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when I feel like shite I have no want to play at all opposite when I’m feeling good I’m currently banning myself from it ohh and I prefer hands to toys | |||
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"Nope I've found a way to take the bad times on the chin and move forward.. Don't see the point in getting pissed or anything to relive stress as it's still there anyway But no I don't pull my helmet when I don't feel good op" ... Don't not just  | |||
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"Yes especially if I'm stressed and can't sleep. It somehow helps me get to sleep, not sure if it's endorphins or just knackering myself though. " Same play a lot when tired, even though im too tired | |||
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"I've never used a toy on myself. My hands have always been good enough. "You might surprise yourself - not necessarily better, just different | |||
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"I’m the complete opposite when I feel like shite I have no want to play at all opposite when I’m feeling good I’m currently banning myself from it ohh and I prefer hands to toys "I have hands? | |||
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"I've never used a toy on myself. My hands have always been good enough.
You might surprise yourself - not necessarily better, just different "That's when i change hands. | |||
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"Yeah sorry it’s me again and I’m bored!!!
I’m not sure if it’s just me being weird or if others are the same.
Life obviously has its ups and downs, but I tend to NEED toys and a play when I’m upset. I’m not even in that mood or even the slightest bit turned on but I crave that climax even more so at times where things are shit.
Do you??
Is it because at this moment it’s the only thing that someone can have control over?
Or to make ourselves feel good?
"hmmm....I think we all have things we "go to" to find a degree of comfort when things aren't great. I can fluctuate between desperately needing a play, to wanting anything but. And yes, sometimes I'm not remotely horny, but just crave that release x | |||
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"I would much rather fuck away my frustrations - toys have there place and I enjoy them but nothing takes your mind to another place like a good fuck does, that euphoric, orgasmic haze just washing over you till you feel like you are floating on a cloud! Best stress relief ever xx" Absolutely this!! 
Pure bliss.
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"Yes especially if I'm stressed and can't sleep. It somehow helps me get to sleep, not sure if it's endorphins or just knackering myself though. " I get the stress part but I was leaning more towards feeling down. I can totally understand the want to just tire yourself out so that way you can sleep and just forget the stress. | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future "I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though | |||
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"I’m the complete opposite when I feel like shite I have no want to play at all opposite when I’m feeling good I’m currently banning myself from it ohh and I prefer hands to toys "Ban…never!! If it’s you feeling good in your mood then why stop yourself. There’s fazes where there is no want at all sometimes I guess | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future
I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though "And try explaining that in a&e when it breaks inside you. | |||
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"I would much rather fuck away my frustrations - toys have there place and I enjoy them but nothing takes your mind to another place like a good fuck does, that euphoric, orgasmic haze just washing over you till you feel like you are floating on a cloud! Best stress relief ever xx" Agree, unleashing the stress on another person is a different feeling, a better feeling | |||
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"Yeah sorry it’s me again and I’m bored!!!
I’m not sure if it’s just me being weird or if others are the same.
Life obviously has its ups and downs, but I tend to NEED toys and a play when I’m upset. I’m not even in that mood or even the slightest bit turned on but I crave that climax even more so at times where things are shit.
Do you??
Is it because at this moment it’s the only thing that someone can have control over?
Or to make ourselves feel good?
"If I'm down a play always helps. Releases endorphins and helps me feel like I can face the world. | |||
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"Nope I've found a way to take the bad times on the chin and move forward.. Don't see the point in getting pissed or anything to relive stress as it's still there anyway But no I just pull my helmet when I don't feel good op" So you completely go off it. Good to hear that you’ve found a coping mechanism to deal with those times though. | |||
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"Yeah sorry it’s me again and I’m bored!!!
I’m not sure if it’s just me being weird or if others are the same.
Life obviously has its ups and downs, but I tend to NEED toys and a play when I’m upset. I’m not even in that mood or even the slightest bit turned on but I crave that climax even more so at times where things are shit.
Do you??
Is it because at this moment it’s the only thing that someone can have control over?
Or to make ourselves feel good?
"Yeah I think you might be dead on with this. | |||
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"I do occasionally have a bully wank in an effort to cut through a mood, velvet n though I really don't need it. It can help deflate the tension and relax me, oor, at the very least distract me. Even better if it's near bedtime. Sometimes it makes me mega horny though and sleep becomes the last thing on my mind. But then I'm usually so self absorbed it brings its own benefits. Swings and roundabouts. (shruggy emoji) " Hahaha plus point if it makes you horny through right | |||
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"No, when I feel bad my libido fucks off" I do get those stages sometimes but more the opposite | |||
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"I can't do angry/upset wanking, even if I am desperate to cum, it just won't happen... Then I just get more angry/upset lol" I guess that makes sense TBF, depends just how far in the other direction you are I guess. | |||
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"I would much rather fuck away my frustrations - toys have there place and I enjoy them but nothing takes your mind to another place like a good fuck does, that euphoric, orgasmic haze just washing over you till you feel like you are floating on a cloud! Best stress relief ever xx" That obviously would work well but I tend to want to be more alone than with someone | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future
I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though
And try explaining that in a&e when it breaks inside you. "I love ‘breaking’ inside ladies | |||
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"Yeah sorry it’s me again and I’m bored!!!
I’m not sure if it’s just me being weird or if others are the same.
Life obviously has its ups and downs, but I tend to NEED toys and a play when I’m upset. I’m not even in that mood or even the slightest bit turned on but I crave that climax even more so at times where things are shit.
Do you??
Is it because at this moment it’s the only thing that someone can have control over?
Or to make ourselves feel good?
hmmm....I think we all have things we "go to" to find a degree of comfort when things aren't great. I can fluctuate between desperately needing a play, to wanting anything but. And yes, sometimes I'm not remotely horny, but just crave that release x"So you could say you’re a little like me then  | |||
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"I would much rather fuck away my frustrations - toys have there place and I enjoy them but nothing takes your mind to another place like a good fuck does, that euphoric, orgasmic haze just washing over you till you feel like you are floating on a cloud! Best stress relief ever xx Absolutely this!!
Pure bliss.
Jo.Xx "Hey beautiful Get D on the job | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future
I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though
And try explaining that in a&e when it breaks inside you.
I love ‘breaking’ inside ladies "Then 9 months later she's giving birth to little mini figures. | |||
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"Yeah sorry it’s me again and I’m bored!!!
I’m not sure if it’s just me being weird or if others are the same.
Life obviously has its ups and downs, but I tend to NEED toys and a play when I’m upset. I’m not even in that mood or even the slightest bit turned on but I crave that climax even more so at times where things are shit.
Do you??
Is it because at this moment it’s the only thing that someone can have control over?
Or to make ourselves feel good?
hmmm....I think we all have things we "go to" to find a degree of comfort when things aren't great. I can fluctuate between desperately needing a play, to wanting anything but. And yes, sometimes I'm not remotely horny, but just crave that release x
So you could say you’re a little like me then "yes. absolutely. I TOTALLY understand what you're talking about x | |||
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"I can't do angry/upset wanking, even if I am desperate to cum, it just won't happen... Then I just get more angry/upset lol" That does make sense I guess. Just shows how differently we all do things | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future
I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though
And try explaining that in a&e when it breaks inside you.
I love ‘breaking’ inside ladies
Then 9 months later she's giving birth to little mini figures. "With shit hairdo’s | |||
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"I can't do angry/upset wanking, even if I am desperate to cum, it just won't happen... Then I just get more angry/upset lol" Then please allow me. Slurp. | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future
I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though
And try explaining that in a&e when it breaks inside you.
I love ‘breaking’ inside ladies "Well you’d need to try these Lego dildos out yourself first before you put it on the market. Seems like you’ll be going to A&E soon. | |||
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"I find I do when I’m stressed or just frustrated not necessarily sexually frustrated just in general " Lol I get the stress part Paul as I’m sure a lot use a climax as a distraction. I’m not even turned on the slightest and I want it. It’s the down feelings I’m talking about | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future
I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though
And try explaining that in a&e when it breaks inside you.
I love ‘breaking’ inside ladies
Then 9 months later she's giving birth to little mini figures. "Hahaha and it could be any figurine too. | |||
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"I can't do angry/upset wanking, even if I am desperate to cum, it just won't happen... Then I just get more angry/upset lol That does make sense I guess. Just shows how differently we all do things " An angry fuck on the other hand makes me feel much better | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future
I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though
And try explaining that in a&e when it breaks inside you.
I love ‘breaking’ inside ladies
Then 9 months later she's giving birth to little mini figures.
Hahaha and it could be any figurine too.
"Definitely a Lego Batman | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future
I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though
And try explaining that in a&e when it breaks inside you.
I love ‘breaking’ inside ladies
Then 9 months later she's giving birth to little mini figures.
Hahaha and it could be any figurine too.
"Everything is awesome...... | |||
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"Yes especially if I'm stressed and can't sleep. It somehow helps me get to sleep, not sure if it's endorphins or just knackering myself though. " I do that sometimes too. It helps to clear my head and the endorphins let me relax enough to get to sleep. | |||
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"I find I do when I’m stressed or just frustrated not necessarily sexually frustrated just in general Lol I get the stress part Paul as I’m sure a lot use a climax as a distraction. I’m not even turned on the slightest and I want it. It’s the down feelings I’m talking about " Yeah if I’m not into it I just can’t do it I totally switch off | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future
I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though
And try explaining that in a&e when it breaks inside you.
I love ‘breaking’ inside ladies
Well you’d need to try these Lego dildos out yourself first before you put it on the market.
Seems like you’ll be going to A&E soon.
"Correct, I do need to try them out. Would you recommend a hole to test them? | |||
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On the upside, it is rather less messy this way and I get more done during the day | |||
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"Yes deffo and choc x" Chocolates are for all year round in my life regardless of mood | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future
I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though
And try explaining that in a&e when it breaks inside you.
I love ‘breaking’ inside ladies
Well you’d need to try these Lego dildos out yourself first before you put it on the market.
Seems like you’ll be going to A&E soon.
Correct, I do need to try them out. Would you recommend a hole to test them? "I wouldn’t put myself forward for that, even if you offered all the money in the world. I was thinking more your own hole | |||
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"I would much rather fuck away my frustrations - toys have there place and I enjoy them but nothing takes your mind to another place like a good fuck does, that euphoric, orgasmic haze just washing over you till you feel like you are floating on a cloud! Best stress relief ever xx Absolutely this!!
Pure bliss.
Jo.Xx
Hey beautiful
Get D on the job "Hello beautiful.
He is ready and waiting for the next available opportunity!!
Certain scenarios definitely have there place in therapy! 
As does the space and privacy.
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"I have felt like I needed the release in the past, and I've often used it as a way to get to sleep, but at the moment I seem to be in a near-constant state of low level depression and lethargy and as a result my libido has dwindled to pretty much zero
On the upside, it is rather less messy this way and I get more done during the day "Aww I’m sorry to hear that your at low levels of depression 
Hopefully you find something to look forward to soon | |||
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"I would much rather fuck away my frustrations - toys have there place and I enjoy them but nothing takes your mind to another place like a good fuck does, that euphoric, orgasmic haze just washing over you till you feel like you are floating on a cloud! Best stress relief ever xx Absolutely this!!
Pure bliss.
Jo.Xx
Hey beautiful
Get D on the job
Hello beautiful.
He is ready and waiting for the next available opportunity!!
Certain scenarios definitely have there place in therapy!
As does the space and privacy.
Jo.Xx "Awww you two | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future
I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though
And try explaining that in a&e when it breaks inside you.
I love ‘breaking’ inside ladies
Well you’d need to try these Lego dildos out yourself first before you put it on the market.
Seems like you’ll be going to A&E soon.
Correct, I do need to try them out. Would you recommend a hole to test them?
I wouldn’t put myself forward for that, even if you offered all the money in the world.
I was thinking more your own hole "Not even for a shot of rose tequila? | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future
I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though
And try explaining that in a&e when it breaks inside you.
I love ‘breaking’ inside ladies
Well you’d need to try these Lego dildos out yourself first before you put it on the market.
Seems like you’ll be going to A&E soon.
Correct, I do need to try them out. Would you recommend a hole to test them?
I wouldn’t put myself forward for that, even if you offered all the money in the world.
I was thinking more your own hole
Not even for a shot of rose tequila? "Hahahahaa you’re so fucked up sometimes
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"Lego dildos are the future
I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though
And try explaining that in a&e when it breaks inside you.
I love ‘breaking’ inside ladies
Well you’d need to try these Lego dildos out yourself first before you put it on the market.
Seems like you’ll be going to A&E soon.
Correct, I do need to try them out. Would you recommend a hole to test them?
I wouldn’t put myself forward for that, even if you offered all the money in the world.
I was thinking more your own hole
Not even for a shot of rose tequila?
Hahahahaa you’re so fucked up sometimes
I’m never telling you anything!!"I would miss our pillow talk then | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future
I’m not sure if the ridged bits will feel good though
And try explaining that in a&e when it breaks inside you.
I love ‘breaking’ inside ladies
Well you’d need to try these Lego dildos out yourself first before you put it on the market.
Seems like you’ll be going to A&E soon.
Correct, I do need to try them out. Would you recommend a hole to test them?
I wouldn’t put myself forward for that, even if you offered all the money in the world.
I was thinking more your own hole
Not even for a shot of rose tequila?
Hahahahaa you’re so fucked up sometimes
I’m never telling you anything!!
I would miss our pillow talk then "I’ll just have to listen to what you have to say instead then won’t I | |||
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"I do occasionally have a bully wank in an effort to cut through a mood, velvet n though I really don't need it. It can help deflate the tension and relax me, oor, at the very least distract me. Even better if it's near bedtime. Sometimes it makes me mega horny though and sleep becomes the last thing on my mind. But then I'm usually so self absorbed it brings its own benefits. Swings and roundabouts. (shruggy emoji) Hahaha plus point if it makes you horny through right" Oh aye! | |||
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"I'm the opposite. If I'm feeling quite low then I completely go off sex and masturbation." Ditto. I’m a right miserable shit if I’m sufficiently pissed off or down; I’m normally in no state to consider knocking one out and it wouldn’t even scratch the surface if I tried. | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future "They'd cost a fortune. I'll get the Wilko's version. | |||
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"Lego dildos are the future
They'd cost a fortune. I'll get the Wilko's version. "Hahahahaha there’s always a better alternative that’s for sure. | |||
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