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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

He may have been dropped on his head as a kid

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I think it's because they perceive there to be a connection. Like I'm sure they'd rather see pics of their neighbour than a stranger.

Gbat

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

95% of the messages I get I just think why?!. So I have no answer! X

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By *.luke7Man
over a year ago

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Because we’re simple, horny creatures that only think with our dicks. Predominately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"95% of the messages I get I just think why?!. So I have no answer! X"

Abd I’m still waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even stranger, why do they open with “meet now”?

You don’t even know what I look like, we’ve never spoken, sure, let’s fuck! And these are from silhouette heads! So no one knows what the other looks like!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Probably just wanted to add some stuff to his wank bank xx

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

The idea that someone is doing it specifically for them is a bigger turn on. Helps with the ego too if someone did it and possible a bit of a control turn on to boot.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Must be typing messages with their dicks instead of their brains

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"95% of the messages I get I just think why?!. So I have no answer! X"

Very true, although I do get sent a lot of jokes, I like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The idea that someone is doing it specifically for them is a bigger turn on. Helps with the ego too if someone did it and possible a bit of a control turn on to boot. "

Hmm, you may be onto something there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because he wants to?

Because he can?

Because perhaps someone will oblige him?

I guess the only way to know is to ask him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

My bad

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"The idea that someone is doing it specifically for them is a bigger turn on. Helps with the ego too if someone did it and possible a bit of a control turn on to boot. "

Think this is the nail on the head reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because he wants to?

Because he can?

Because perhaps someone will oblige him?

I guess the only way to know is to ask him"

Oops, I was too busy being irritated, because I got two in a row

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

My bad "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even stranger, why do they open with “meet now”?

You don’t even know what I look like, we’ve never spoken, sure, let’s fuck! And these are from silhouette heads! So no one knows what the other looks like! "

Exactly or saying "you're the most beautiful woman on here" when they've not seen my face. I could look like a troll for all they know.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm a little guilty of this, but only when i think i know someone well enough to ask.

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To me - it's a personal touch. A photo done for me alone or for me to see first.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

Dunno but if you send me some pics and videos it will help me understand

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a little guilty of this, but only when i think i know someone well enough to ask.

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To me - it's a personal touch. A photo done for me alone or for me to see first.

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I think it depends on the dynamic you’re in, and the individual people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He might think you’re the hottest women he’s ever seen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Dunno but if you send me some pics and videos it will help me understand "

Where is a proper tongue sticky outy face when you need it, this one , just doesn’t cut it

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By *i4twoMan
over a year ago

Taunton


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

I've wondered that before, like you say, there is so many on here anyway or just online in general.

I obviously enjoy looking at profiles and the pics that everyone uploads, but I'll only ask for pics if there's a mutual interest in meeting.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Even stranger, why do they open with “meet now”?

You don’t even know what I look like, we’ve never spoken, sure, let’s fuck! And these are from silhouette heads! So no one knows what the other looks like! "

Because they don't care what you look like and it wouldn't factor into their decision to have sex with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even stranger, why do they open with “meet now”?

You don’t even know what I look like, we’ve never spoken, sure, let’s fuck! And these are from silhouette heads! So no one knows what the other looks like!

Exactly or saying "you're the most beautiful woman on here" when they've not seen my face. I could look like a troll for all they know. "

So this!!! Although ill admit i do look like a troll when i get out of bed!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Dunno but if you send me some pics and videos it will help me understand

Where is a proper tongue sticky outy face when you need it, this one , just doesn’t cut it "

Boooo spoilt sport

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm a little guilty of this, but only when i think i know someone well enough to ask.

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To me - it's a personal touch. A photo done for me alone or for me to see first.

I think it depends on the dynamic you’re in, and the individual people? "

Of course. I'd not ask a total stranger - apart from 'Face Pic Friday'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even stranger, why do they open with “meet now”?

You don’t even know what I look like, we’ve never spoken, sure, let’s fuck! And these are from silhouette heads! So no one knows what the other looks like!

Because they don't care what you look like and it wouldn't factor into their decision to have sex with you. "

I honestly don't understand this thought process though. Why wouldn't they care? Why sleep with someone you don't find attractive? How is that fun??

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

Looking at you I can understand wanting vids but fuck me get to know the person first then ask if you get along don’t just assume because your on here u want to show the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even stranger, why do they open with “meet now”?

You don’t even know what I look like, we’ve never spoken, sure, let’s fuck! And these are from silhouette heads! So no one knows what the other looks like!

Because they don't care what you look like and it wouldn't factor into their decision to have sex with you.

I honestly don't understand this thought process though. Why wouldn't they care? Why sleep with someone you don't find attractive? How is that fun??"

It just screams of “I’ll literally fuck anyone”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even stranger, why do they open with “meet now”?

You don’t even know what I look like, we’ve never spoken, sure, let’s fuck! And these are from silhouette heads! So no one knows what the other looks like!

Because they don't care what you look like and it wouldn't factor into their decision to have sex with you.

I honestly don't understand this thought process though. Why wouldn't they care? Why sleep with someone you don't find attractive? How is that fun??"

I don’t get it either.

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

Each person will probably have their own reason/motivation for doing that. It could simply mean that they've looked at your profile pics, is attracted, and wants to see more. Not condoning the behaviour if they've never even said a hi or how are you beforehand

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Looking at you I can understand wanting vids but fuck me get to know the person first then ask if you get along don’t just assume because your on here u want to show the world"

Exactly, although honestly I post enough pics anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

Maybe he just wants to look at your boobs? Oh hang on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Maybe he just wants to look at your boobs? Oh hang on "

EVERYONE has seen my boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly think it’s a control or power thing. It’s an achievement of you doing what he’s asked you to do. I guess it’s a slightly different thrill to just logging into google and typing ‘boobs’

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"95% of the messages I get I just think why?!. So I have no answer! X

Abd I’m still waiting "

You should be more polite in your messages

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Looking at you I can understand wanting vids but fuck me get to know the person first then ask if you get along don’t just assume because your on here u want to show the world

Exactly, although honestly I post enough pics anyway "

I have loooked lol and yes if it’s not good enough then it’s tuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I just had a sneaky look and I actually don’t blame him !

He’s still an idiot and it’s not my approach but you do look very attractive in fairness!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I honestly think it’s a control or power thing. It’s an achievement of you doing what he’s asked you to do. I guess it’s a slightly different thrill to just logging into google and typing ‘boobs’ "

I think you’re probably right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it's a mindset of you have pictures up for thousands to see anyway, what's the difference if you send some to me. To be clear that's not how I think but I imagine many do.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Quite agree on the "Why" bit after they are talking to or rather attempting to talk to a stranger ?? and would they make the same approach in a bar/club ?? and nearly 90% odd of all our messages end up with a straight delete and in some caes a block !! and they seem to genuinley think Mrs4 is some kind of unpaid sex worker to boot ...

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Even stranger, why do they open with “meet now”?

You don’t even know what I look like, we’ve never spoken, sure, let’s fuck! And these are from silhouette heads! So no one knows what the other looks like!

Because they don't care what you look like and it wouldn't factor into their decision to have sex with you.

I honestly don't understand this thought process though. Why wouldn't they care? Why sleep with someone you don't find attractive? How is that fun??"

Sexual attraction isn't needed for an orgasm, which is ultimately what the end goal is. One can use their imagination while having sex with someone they don't find attractive, or turn off the lights. The fun part of sex can be the physicsl act (rough, certain position etc) and then the orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Quite agree on the "Why" bit after they are talking to or rather attempting to talk to a stranger ?? and would they make the same approach in a bar/club ?? and nearly 90% odd of all our messages end up with a straight delete and in some caes a block !! and they seem to genuinley think Mrs4 is some kind of unpaid sex worker to boot ..."

That’s how I feel too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say it's a mindset of you have pictures up for thousands to see anyway, what's the difference if you send some to me. To be clear that's not how I think but I imagine many do."

Also, a good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even stranger, why do they open with “meet now”?

You don’t even know what I look like, we’ve never spoken, sure, let’s fuck! And these are from silhouette heads! So no one knows what the other looks like!

Because they don't care what you look like and it wouldn't factor into their decision to have sex with you.

I honestly don't understand this thought process though. Why wouldn't they care? Why sleep with someone you don't find attractive? How is that fun??

Sexual attraction isn't needed for an orgasm, which is ultimately what the end goal is. One can use their imagination while having sex with someone they don't find attractive, or turn off the lights. The fun part of sex can be the physicsl act (rough, certain position etc) and then the orgasm.

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I understand liking sex. But surely it's better to do this with someone you also find hot? Why settle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The idea that someone is doing it specifically for them is a bigger turn on. Helps with the ego too if someone did it and possible a bit of a control turn on to boot. "

Sounds about right.

It is annoying though from a complete stranger on here or someone you dont have that type of connection with. I often tell folk there are plenty of freely available images on hot pics, i have nothing different, new or special to offer them.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It's probably a fetish for a fair few of them

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Even stranger, why do they open with “meet now”?

You don’t even know what I look like, we’ve never spoken, sure, let’s fuck! And these are from silhouette heads! So no one knows what the other looks like!

Because they don't care what you look like and it wouldn't factor into their decision to have sex with you.

I honestly don't understand this thought process though. Why wouldn't they care? Why sleep with someone you don't find attractive? How is that fun??

Sexual attraction isn't needed for an orgasm, which is ultimately what the end goal is. One can use their imagination while having sex with someone they don't find attractive, or turn off the lights. The fun part of sex can be the physicsl act (rough, certain position etc) and then the orgasm.

I understand liking sex. But surely it's better to do this with someone you also find hot? Why settle?"

Because I'm adorable.

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By *ussex-steveMan
over a year ago

brighton


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

because a lot of us think with our cocks when we get in here. Others like to play the smoothy and say all the "right " things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

because a lot of us think with our cocks when we get in here. Others like to play the smoothy and say all the "right " things."

How’s that working out for you ?

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

Most do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Maybe he just wants to look at your boobs? Oh hang on

EVERYONE has seen my boobs "

Some of us keep looking too

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Even stranger, why do they open with “meet now”?

You don’t even know what I look like, we’ve never spoken, sure, let’s fuck! And these are from silhouette heads! So no one knows what the other looks like!

Because they don't care what you look like and it wouldn't factor into their decision to have sex with you.

I honestly don't understand this thought process though. Why wouldn't they care? Why sleep with someone you don't find attractive? How is that fun??

Sexual attraction isn't needed for an orgasm, which is ultimately what the end goal is. One can use their imagination while having sex with someone they don't find attractive, or turn off the lights. The fun part of sex can be the physicsl act (rough, certain position etc) and then the orgasm.

I understand liking sex. But surely it's better to do this with someone you also find hot? Why settle?"

It is better. But if the alternative is no sex or sex with someone you aren't attracted to then it becomes a different proposition.

Finding someone you find hot can be time consuming and normally takes a bit of time and effort. So if you want Sex quickly you have to accept that only chatting to people you find hot is unlikely to be successful.

In saying that, I doubt the meet me now messages ever actually work but most guys who send those meaaages just aren't capable of properly thinking it through logically.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Most do!"

I’ve not really had it, but I’ve had multiple today!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

because a lot of us think with our cocks when we get in here. Others like to play the smoothy and say all the "right " things."

Neither sound particularly genuine though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Maybe he just wants to look at your boobs? Oh hang on

EVERYONE has seen my boobs

Some of us keep looking too "

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I've spoken to you loads, so fill my box

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've spoken to you loads, so fill my box "

Still not doing it

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I've spoken to you loads, so fill my box

Still not doing it "

Damn it, what if it's my dying wish though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've spoken to you loads, so fill my box

Still not doing it

Damn it, what if it's my dying wish though "

Ooh, thats a toughie

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I prefer photos and videos sent to me, rather than browsing.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I've spoken to you loads, so fill my box "

Just asking to be pegged.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer photos and videos sent to me, rather than browsing."

What if it’s the other way round?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

I’m actually going to give a serious answer this time

When you send a photo to someone that you have specifically taken just for them it can make someone feel very special.

You are very active on the forums so this person might feel that they know you well enough to ask without ever thinking that you don’t know them at all. Guys can be like that sometimes, ahead of ourselves and the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing ventured, nothing gained

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

I’m actually going to give a serious answer this time

When you send a photo to someone that you have specifically taken just for them it can make someone feel very special.

You are very active on the forums so this person might feel that they know you well enough to ask without ever thinking that you don’t know them at all. Guys can be like that sometimes, ahead of ourselves and the situation"

I don’t think they are on the forum, I didn’t recognise them anyway.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I've spoken to you loads, so fill my box

Still not doing it

Damn it, what if it's my dying wish though

Ooh, thats a toughie "

I'll give you a little bit of time to think about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing ventured, nothing gained "

I’ll send you one

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I've spoken to you loads, so fill my box

Just asking to be pegged."

Not a chance, wrong box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels, however misguided, that the lady he's messaging might be more accessible via this site as opposed to an actress on a porn site? Who knows. The ones that send those kind of messages off the bat and other kinds of messages (meet now, etc), generally fall into the hard of thinking category anyway imho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Feels, however misguided, that the lady he's messaging might be more accessible via this site as opposed to an actress on a porn site? Who knows. The ones that send those kind of messages off the bat and other kinds of messages (meet now, etc), generally fall into the hard of thinking category anyway imho. "

Hard of thinking

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Perhaps the person admires you, there may be thousands of pics and videos on here but he/she could see something attractive in your profile he/she doesn’t in others. That said I don’t think as an opening message he has any right to ask for private videos/pics - surely that is something you would perhaps engage in after chatting for a while/meeting- I think some people, not only men just like to chance there luck -

The classic ‘send me a pic just for me’ Is probably a copy and paste sent to the masses! That line infuriates me no end x

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps the person admires you, there may be thousands of pics and videos on here but he/she could see something attractive in your profile he/she doesn’t in others. That said I don’t think as an opening message he has any right to ask for private videos/pics - surely that is something you would perhaps engage in after chatting for a while/meeting- I think some people, not only men just like to chance there luck -

The classic ‘send me a pic just for me’ Is probably a copy and paste sent to the masses! That line infuriates me no end x

Xx"

I’ll be honest, I’m very rarely in the infuriated zone, but I’m quite close to it today!

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling


"Perhaps the person admires you, there may be thousands of pics and videos on here but he/she could see something attractive in your profile he/she doesn’t in others. That said I don’t think as an opening message he has any right to ask for private videos/pics - surely that is something you would perhaps engage in after chatting for a while/meeting- I think some people, not only men just like to chance there luck -

The classic ‘send me a pic just for me’ Is probably a copy and paste sent to the masses! That line infuriates me no end x

Xx

I’ll be honest, I’m very rarely in the infuriated zone, but I’m quite close to it today!"

I was there yesterday! Deep breaths lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps the person admires you, there may be thousands of pics and videos on here but he/she could see something attractive in your profile he/she doesn’t in others. That said I don’t think as an opening message he has any right to ask for private videos/pics - surely that is something you would perhaps engage in after chatting for a while/meeting- I think some people, not only men just like to chance there luck -

The classic ‘send me a pic just for me’ Is probably a copy and paste sent to the masses! That line infuriates me no end x

Xx

I’ll be honest, I’m very rarely in the infuriated zone, but I’m quite close to it today!

I was there yesterday! Deep breaths lovely "

Thank you, lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

I’m actually going to give a serious answer this time

When you send a photo to someone that you have specifically taken just for them it can make someone feel very special.

You are very active on the forums so this person might feel that they know you well enough to ask without ever thinking that you don’t know them at all. Guys can be like that sometimes, ahead of ourselves and the situation

I don’t think they are on the forum, I didn’t recognise them anyway."

Maybe a lurker. There are a few

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Because he can see that you're hot from your pictures and he is trying his luck.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

I’m actually going to give a serious answer this time

When you send a photo to someone that you have specifically taken just for them it can make someone feel very special.

You are very active on the forums so this person might feel that they know you well enough to ask without ever thinking that you don’t know them at all. Guys can be like that sometimes, ahead of ourselves and the situation

I don’t think they are on the forum, I didn’t recognise them anyway.

Maybe a lurker. There are a few "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because he can see that you're hot from your pictures and he is trying his luck.

Jo.Xx "

Cheeky wotsits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't one of those I'm having a bad day and I need validation from the forum type threads is it?

Just checking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because its a sex site...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This isn't one of those I'm having a bad day and I need validation from the forum type threads is it?

Just checking

"

How would it be? I genuinely don’t understand how this could be perceived as such?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because its a sex site... "

No excuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This isn't one of those I'm having a bad day and I need validation from the forum type threads is it?

Just checking

How would it be? I genuinely don’t understand how this could be perceived as such?"

Also, I never NEED validation, I like getting fabs, but that should not be confused with needing validation.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

You can't blame then Fallen, you are rather hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even stranger, why do they open with “meet now”?

You don’t even know what I look like, we’ve never spoken, sure, let’s fuck! And these are from silhouette heads! So no one knows what the other looks like!

"

It's not that uncommon for guys to hook up like that. Ya know 'hey what are looking for?'..... Maybe a few pics 'yeah I'm down, where are you?'

I imagine a fair few women like that kinda NSA immediacy. Not for everyone and not all the time but I understand it. Be great if there was an I'm gagging for it right now option for everyone no matter your predilection.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can't blame then Fallen, you are rather hot "

Thank you, gorgeous

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

At a guess the little brain is driving currently coupled with the phenomena of keyboard warriors/anonymity giving him free reign to say what he wants without recompense. On a somewhat related note, FAF?

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"This isn't one of those I'm having a bad day and I need validation from the forum type threads is it?

Just checking

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This isn't one of those I'm having a bad day and I need validation from the forum type threads is it?

Just checking

"

As I’ve already said, no it isn’t!

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Newport (just for today/tonight)

I think it's a turn on for them as it's like a one on o e situation. We just take it as a compliment.

What we don't understand is the ones without pictures that ask to meet with their first message?? What planet are they from!!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

There is a certain thrill about getting content from someone you have interacted with (even if its them calling you a creep) over someone you haven’t.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

God loves a trier!

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

It’s called

Risk it for a biscuit

Gotta be in it to win it

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Maybe he is chancing his “luck”

Sorry…… I couldn’t resist.

Okay that’s enough forums for today.

OP in answer to your question. Quite simply, the man is horny, he likes the look of you, he wants to see more. And he has asked to see more. Take it as a compliment, take it as creepy, take it as rude. That choice is yours (or just delete or send back his message with “C- must try harder”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s called

Risk it for a biscuit

Gotta be in it to win it "

Send them a video of a group of guys playing Soggy Biscuit, they'll soon change their tune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah yes the good ole "pic collectors". A couple are never enough and they don't even really want to chat. It's all "have you got more, any vids?" I gave up trying to figure that out a long time ago but I think at the end of the day they just want to perv x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah yes the good ole "pic collectors". A couple are never enough and they don't even really want to chat. It's all "have you got more, any vids?" I gave up trying to figure that out a long time ago but I think at the end of the day they just want to perv x"

It’s a weird one isn’t it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah yes the good ole "pic collectors". A couple are never enough and they don't even really want to chat. It's all "have you got more, any vids?" I gave up trying to figure that out a long time ago but I think at the end of the day they just want to perv x

It’s a weird one isn’t it!"

It is indeed! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

After checking your profile I don't understand either!

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Any sort of neuronal activity is ceased when they’re horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say there's something psychological about them being able to see stuff that others can't. As though you're sending them something private and the fact it's previously been for your eyes only means that them now seeing it is dead naughty or it heightens their arousal.

Alternatively they could be terrible communicators and sending the same message to oodles of people in the hope that someone will oblige and they can get their rocks off.

In short, it may be fetish related or they may just be massive perverts who are incredibly disrespectful.

Either way, I think we all agree it's not the best approach and, OP, should only be sending me pictures and videos

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Any sort of neuronal activity is ceased when they’re horny. "

(Blows raspberry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say there's something psychological about them being able to see stuff that others can't. As though you're sending them something private and the fact it's previously been for your eyes only means that them now seeing it is dead naughty or it heightens their arousal.

Alternatively they could be terrible communicators and sending the same message to oodles of people in the hope that someone will oblige and they can get their rocks off.

In short, it may be fetish related or they may just be massive perverts who are incredibly disrespectful.

Either way, I think we all agree it's not the best approach and, OP, should only be sending me pictures and videos "

This is a good answer, could be either, you’re right.

Thank you

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

Are they pictures of you ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"He might think you’re the hottest women he’s ever seen. "

Or he might have a huge lob on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Are they pictures of you ?"

Yes Granny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He might think you’re the hottest women he’s ever seen.

Or he might have a huge lob on "

I think this is more likely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

It’s called ice breaker

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

It’s called ice breaker "

More like, forms huge stalactites, an ice cave, with some extra icy bits, oh and it’s very cold, freezing in fact

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"Any sort of neuronal activity is ceased when they’re horny.

(Blows raspberry) "

Hahahaha

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Are they pictures of you ?

Yes Granny"

I meant the THOUSANDS of free pics and vieos.........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Are they pictures of you ?

Yes Granny

I meant the THOUSANDS of free pics and vieos......... "

Ohhh, well I know I post a lot granny, but not that many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say there's something psychological about them being able to see stuff that others can't. As though you're sending them something private and the fact it's previously been for your eyes only means that them now seeing it is dead naughty or it heightens their arousal.

Alternatively they could be terrible communicators and sending the same message to oodles of people in the hope that someone will oblige and they can get their rocks off.

In short, it may be fetish related or they may just be massive perverts who are incredibly disrespectful.

Either way, I think we all agree it's not the best approach and, OP, should only be sending me pictures and videos "

Agreed with the exclusivity, special treatment but also checking if you are not fake or maybe they will use your pics to create a fake account

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Are they pictures of you ?

Yes Granny

I meant the THOUSANDS of free pics and vieos.........

Ohhh, well I know I post a lot granny, but not that many "

Well do you think he might have wanted pics and videos of you ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's the thrill of personally recieving them. It's not the same otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Are they pictures of you ?

Yes Granny

I meant the THOUSANDS of free pics and vieos.........

Ohhh, well I know I post a lot granny, but not that many

Well do you think he might have wanted pics and videos of you ????"

I understand that, but I just find it so cheeky, to assume I’m going to send them personal pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Are they pictures of you ?

Yes Granny

I meant the THOUSANDS of free pics and vieos.........

Ohhh, well I know I post a lot granny, but not that many

Well do you think he might have wanted pics and videos of you ????

I understand that, but I just find it so cheeky, to assume I’m going to send them personal pics. "

And it’s not because they want pics of me, personally, it’s that they want personal pics from someone, if you know what I mean?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

OP send boobs please

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By *lueberrysWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

They think they're shopping at Argos, click and collect, these men are desperate,

I'll never understand majority of them tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

Clearly thinks God's gift and isn't willing to put effort in

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

Because if you send them a picture they can put it on their profile and a reverse photo lookup will not give an origin and thus they are safe from the forum police unlike photos from the internet - simples

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Are they pictures of you ?

Yes Granny

I meant the THOUSANDS of free pics and vieos.........

Ohhh, well I know I post a lot granny, but not that many

Well do you think he might have wanted pics and videos of you ????

I understand that, but I just find it so cheeky, to assume I’m going to send them personal pics.

And it’s not because they want pics of me, personally, it’s that they want personal pics from someone, if you know what I mean?"

Okay. I'll send him a few of me to take the heat off ........ okay ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Clearly thinks God's gift and isn't willing to put effort in"

How much more difficult is it to see free pics than it is to ask someone to send you some that you then look at ?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Because he's a cheeky chancing bugger.....by the way any spare vids or pics gratefully received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

Everyone hasa type, maybe you're exactly the kind of woman he fantasises about. Looking at your photos that wouldn't be too hard to believe.

And also the connection, messaging combined with photos/videos is better than any porn site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Because if you send them a picture they can put it on their profile and a reverse photo lookup will not give an origin and thus they are safe from the forum police unlike photos from the internet - simples"

A what? I’m confused

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Are they pictures of you ?

Yes Granny

I meant the THOUSANDS of free pics and vieos.........

Ohhh, well I know I post a lot granny, but not that many

Well do you think he might have wanted pics and videos of you ????

I understand that, but I just find it so cheeky, to assume I’m going to send them personal pics.

And it’s not because they want pics of me, personally, it’s that they want personal pics from someone, if you know what I mean?

Okay. I'll send him a few of me to take the heat off ........ okay ? "

Awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because he’s been creeping your profile a while and in his head, you already have a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because he’s been creeping your profile a while and in his head, you already have a relationship."

That’s a bit weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because he’s been creeping your profile a while and in his head, you already have a relationship.

That’s a bit weird "

That’s happened haha

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Because he’s been creeping your profile a while and in his head, you already have a relationship.

That’s a bit weird "

Are we not then?

Guess I'll return all those gifts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because he’s been creeping your profile a while and in his head, you already have a relationship.

That’s a bit weird

Are we not then?

Guess I'll return all those gifts "

Oh

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

He may have been dropped on his head as a kid"

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Because he’s been creeping your profile a while and in his head, you already have a relationship.

That’s a bit weird

Are we not then?

Guess I'll return all those gifts

Oh "

Too late, I'll take myself on holiday instead

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Because if you send them a picture they can put it on their profile and a reverse photo lookup will not give an origin and thus they are safe from the forum police unlike photos from the internet - simples

A what? I’m confused "

Google Reverse Image Search, you can find out if photo on a profile has been downloaded from the internet - guys are caught by the Forum police. If you send them one the Forum police can't Reverse Image Search it

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Because if you send them a picture they can put it on their profile and a reverse photo lookup will not give an origin and thus they are safe from the forum police unlike photos from the internet - simples

A what? I’m confused

Google Reverse Image Search, you can find out if photo on a profile has been downloaded from the internet - guys are caught by the Forum police. If you send them one the Forum police can't Reverse Image Search it"

If this was the intent for a profile here, then the dunce will be clocked almost immediately as Fallen is probably one of the more “recognisable and viewed” members on the site.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"The idea that someone is doing it specifically for them is a bigger turn on. Helps with the ego too if someone did it and possible a bit of a control turn on to boot. "

Yep

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Because if you send them a picture they can put it on their profile and a reverse photo lookup will not give an origin and thus they are safe from the forum police unlike photos from the internet - simples

A what? I’m confused

Google Reverse Image Search, you can find out if photo on a profile has been downloaded from the internet - guys are caught by the Forum police. If you send them one the Forum police can't Reverse Image Search it

If this was the intent for a profile here, then the dunce will be clocked almost immediately as Fallen is probably one of the more “recognisable and viewed” members on the site. "

Sometimes people don't always make the smartest moves. It was simply a possible scenario based on the OP "Why Would a Man"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even stranger, why do they open with “meet now”?

You don’t even know what I look like, we’ve never spoken, sure, let’s fuck! And these are from silhouette heads! So no one knows what the other looks like! "

Absolutely it’s bizarre to me “meet now, U free?” If you reply no you’re not or you ignore it you get called a time waster

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone?

Because if you send them a picture they can put it on their profile and a reverse photo lookup will not give an origin and thus they are safe from the forum police unlike photos from the internet - simples

A what? I’m confused

Google Reverse Image Search, you can find out if photo on a profile has been downloaded from the internet - guys are caught by the Forum police. If you send them one the Forum police can't Reverse Image Search it"

Ahh ok, forgive me. I’m tired and slow today

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even stranger, why do they open with “meet now”?

You don’t even know what I look like, we’ve never spoken, sure, let’s fuck! And these are from silhouette heads! So no one knows what the other looks like!

Absolutely it’s bizarre to me “meet now, U free?” If you reply no you’re not or you ignore it you get called a time waster "

Some people are weird!

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

Trying it on. Cut and paste and send the message to many. Makes it feels personal

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Message someone he’s never or hardly spoken to, to ask them to send pictures or videos?

Help me understand this, when there are thousands of free pics and videos on here alone? "

Desperation

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

from the message we get ..we can see why so many are single

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