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By *ovelaughlive OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oldham

Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X"

That’s why now we borrow a husband with partner’s permission, this works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s terrible, especially amongst the men I find..

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By *ovelaughlive OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oldham

Very rare we go to them, but the 2 occasions we have been let down! And they moan how hard it is for single guys on here, no wonder the few dickheads spoil it for the genuine guys! X

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By *ovelaughlive OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oldham


"Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X

That’s why now we borrow a husband with partner’s permission, this works for us "

Good idea!! X

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

All part of fabs! but for the few time wasters there is many more genuine x

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By *ovelaughlive OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oldham

You've been very lucky then! X

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By *elfastpantyguyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

This site is full of time wasters that then gives genuine guys such a bad name. But then occasionally a great meet restores your faith in fab x

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By *ovelaughlive OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oldham


"This site is full of time wasters that then gives genuine guys such a bad name. But then occasionally a great meet restores your faith in fab x"

Agreed!! Just wanted to point out not just single guys who get messed about but also genuine couples too!! X

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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

TBH, it’s not just the men who do this. I’ve been let down by single ladies and couples, usually followed by ghosting or blocking.

That said, this has been rare and I will agree that there are plenty of knobhead fellas on here.

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By *ovelaughlive OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oldham

I know there are many of every sort who mess people about, I just don't understand it!?? Why message and arrange a meet and keep messaging up to the minute then don't answer your message!! So frustrating! X

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By *ingdangTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

It happened to me a lot too. Total unnecessary, but I guess they do it because they can. I decided to meet nobody, I gave up. Just use this account to meet people I already know.

I reported the time waster but guess nothing will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is full of time wasters that then gives genuine guys such a bad name. But then occasionally a great meet restores your faith in fab x"

no bad guys ruin it for themselves nobody else ... stop using them as a excuse for getting nowhere we are allresponible for ourselves no one else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the longer your on fab the easier it will become at spotting them we find the fix is blocking as they dont get another chance at messing....

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By *ovelaughlive OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oldham


"the longer your on fab the easier it will become at spotting them we find the fix is blocking as they dont get another chance at messing...."

Weve been on for 3 years now! Hence why we much prefer the club setting x

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

We find if we invite someone to ours and they don’t turn up we see it as their loss and we still have an enjoyable evening

happy days

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By *ovelaughlive OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oldham


"We find if we invite someone to ours and they don’t turn up we see it as their loss and we still have an enjoyable evening

happy days"

Definitely doesn't bother us too much but when we've drove 20 mins for a meet then no show! X

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Happens alot.

We tend to chat to the person a few times before we meet them and can tend to spot the fakes...block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too many time wasters on this quite. I’ve come across quite a few fake accounts also. Oh and I got for a meet and the photos don’t match real life!

Spoils it for everyone.

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Happened to us, so sooo many times, its frustrating, especially when (like most) spare time is precious and is wasted. Fakers need to bug off and anyone who changes their minds, needs to let the counters parts know so we can get on with our day/business.

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By *adForGood69Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

Got let down after a 30 mile round trip yesterday.

Went to meet a guy for my wife's first BBC experience.he didn't show.not a nice way to treat people.

Not happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been quite lucky really.

A couple of times we have been let down at the last hour, but they've let us know.

One admitted he simply didn't have the nerve, another said something had come up.

We did manage to meet another on one of the occasions.

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By *ed_Panda13Woman
over a year ago

Walsall

Could it be for some nerves get the better of them? Not saying it's right but maybe that's a reason for some.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Got blown out for tomoz! That's fab! X

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I’ve been lucky they have all turned up

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By *orneytwoCouple
over a year ago

Not far from lichfield

Let down.we get so many sad fuckers NOT READ profile and send us shit messages.

We would not meet them just block.clubs are open again so do not need all the sad fuckers.good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X"

Sadly goes both ways, supposed to have had a meet with a couple yesterday, got rearranged to this morning, shuffled things around and cleared what I did have planned to do. Supposed to have been sent the address this morning. No contact to say " we can't or won't meet now " wasted morning.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X

Sadly goes both ways, supposed to have had a meet with a couple yesterday, got rearranged to this morning, shuffled things around and cleared what I did have planned to do. Supposed to have been sent the address this morning. No contact to say " we can't or won't meet now " wasted morning. "

For this reason I dont rearrange if first meet dont happen there wont b one! It may b a genuine reason but that's what I do nowadaysx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been let down a few times by men in the past, don't get why they do it or what they get out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a definite time waster. I've just started a thread about parking cars ffs, how much of everyone's time is THAT going to waste?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a definite time waster. I've just started a thread about parking cars ffs, how much of everyone's time is THAT going to waste? "

I started a thread on potatoes Kitty . Time waster central here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a definite time waster. I've just started a thread about parking cars ffs, how much of everyone's time is THAT going to waste?

I started a thread on potatoes Kitty . Time waster central here "

Oh I didn't see that one. Sounds right up my street

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Fortunate i've never been let down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find if we invite someone to ours and they don’t turn up we see it as their loss and we still have an enjoyable evening

happy days"

Great attitude.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Touch wood I've never had it happen...yet. Sorry to hear its happened to you OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's touching wood. ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

80% seems to be fake profiles seeing how far they can get before being rumbled. But we have met some real people on here and it's been great.

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By *hitewisperMan
over a year ago

dudley cosley

It's not only the guys on here that's the problem, there's a lot of ladies on here to that waste your time, I've been let down by a few, I know you ladies have a big choice of guys on here but don't mess us genuine ones about

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"It's not only the guys on here that's the problem, there's a lot of ladies on here to that waste your time, I've been let down by a few, I know you ladies have a big choice of guys on here but don't mess us genuine ones about"

Yes I'm sure works both ways! I've had 2 cancel today! I wasent meeting 2 lol! The first cancelled yesterday and the second I arranged last night has cancelled or tried to move meet till this eve which I cant do it's all part of fabs! Used to b very disappointed but take it in stride now but when do get the meets must say it's worth it not met a disappointment as yet x

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London


"Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X"

If it makes you feel any better, I once drove an hour to an arranged (for 2 weeks) meeting at a couples house for them to ignore me knocking on the door (presuming it was their house, then say the meet was cancelled.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X

If it makes you feel any better, I once drove an hour to an arranged (for 2 weeks) meeting at a couples house for them to ignore me knocking on the door (presuming it was their house, then say the meet was cancelled. "

How rude! X

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X"

I don’t get any further than sending a message

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London


"Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X

If it makes you feel any better, I once drove an hour to an arranged (for 2 weeks) meeting at a couples house for them to ignore me knocking on the door (presuming it was their house, then say the meet was cancelled.

How rude! X"

Awh at the time I was fuming was 3 hours of an evening wasted

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"We find if we invite someone to ours and they don’t turn up we see it as their loss and we still have an enjoyable evening

happy days

Definitely doesn't bother us too much but when we've drove 20 mins for a meet then no show! X"

I would come to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once drove from Birmingham to Leicester to meet a couple and the female half was nowhere to be seen also drove to Beaconsfield for another couple I was told to meet them at the services and follow them to theirs got there they had blocked me on here and blocked my number

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London


"She's touching wood. ^"

so childish must have been an early morning reply from her

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

We once drove to Leeds to meet a lady who we’d been chatting to for some time, we face timed several times too so we’re convinced she wasn’t a time waster. Even chatted before we left home and all was good! No show and although disappointing, we had a great night out in Leeds instead! Also another more recent no show in Shrewsbury by a lady! It’s not just the men who no show with no contact! Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We once drove to Leeds to meet a lady who we’d been chatting to for some time, we face timed several times too so we’re convinced she wasn’t a time waster. Even chatted before we left home and all was good! No show and although disappointing, we had a great night out in Leeds instead! Also another more recent no show in Shrewsbury by a lady! It’s not just the men who no show with no contact! Miss pc "

Truly awful that it just shows it can happen even when you think it’s all good after building a rapport.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before lockdown I rode on a bus for 2 hours to a meet, they never showed up it was a depressing journey home. I’m not as willing to repeat again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X"

I got stood up/ghosted 9 times in a week a while back. I'm so thankful the clubs have reopened. Pretty much everyone I was talking to about meeting over the summer has vanished without a trace. Luckily I found a job at a late night bar that has come in handy for making fwbs. I really do not understand the mentally of people who want to string others along. My background is in BDSM so I'm used to the "cold feet crew". I didn't think it would happen when I'm offering stress free no strings sex lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet is always strictly social and we always make them come to us!

If we click and it is agreed that the relationship can progress to the next level, we always insist that we meet at their place before introducing them to ours.

This seems to out 99% of the timewasters!

We currently have someone who says that he wanted to meet, now not responding to messages and has created another profile and sent us a message asking to meet.

How sad some people are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I agree to meet I always show up unless something major occurs. The only time I missed is when my mum had died the previous day. I informed them before that I wasn’t attending and the reason why. They obviously understood and will meet hopefully when it can be rearranged.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X"

Nope join the queue! Ours haven’t just been single guys, it’s couples too. We’ve booked and paid for 5 hotels too and been let down for all of them!

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By *arkhorse12345Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *UNTIMEJAMESMan
over a year ago

cheshunt

They talk the talk but can’t walk the walk.

time wasters should be band indefinitely iv had plenty of them more so ones iv traveled to .

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

And a thousand single men sigh…..

Learning to spot the genuine from the dreamers is a skill one must learn on fab.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Since joining fab 4years ago I have been stood up twice and probably had about 15 meets cancelled at short notice. Puts me off meeting anyone new to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X

Nope join the queue! Ours haven’t just been single guys, it’s couples too. We’ve booked and paid for 5 hotels too and been let down for all of them!

"

Maybe next time choose a book now, pay on check-in option

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

For the record, in ten years I have never had a cancellation or a no-show. Nor have I cancelled or not shown.

I think it’s a judgement call when picking play partners on fab but I am afraid I don’t know how to articulate how I make choices, nor do I feel it appropriate to advise on how to make those choices, for me it’s just a “knowing” of what will be and what will not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like time wasters. If we can them all out I might be in with a chance of a meet.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I got messed around on here once. Luckily only a 5mile drive away from me.

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By *jkuk72Man
over a year ago

London & Herts

A couple of times I got chatting to the man of a couple's profile. They started sharing intimate likes, including photos et . Everything seemed to indicate that a meet could be arranged and then, out of nowhere, they disappear. Most likely just husbands fantasising but with no intention of making it real. Very annoying. I have now learned how to spot these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X"

Single guys are the worst as usually married, but a lot of tgirls let us down at last minute too.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"For the record, in ten years I have never had a cancellation or a no-show. Nor have I cancelled or not shown.

I think it’s a judgement call when picking play partners on fab but I am afraid I don’t know how to articulate how I make choices, nor do I feel it appropriate to advise on how to make those choices, for me it’s just a “knowing” of what will be and what will not. "

Think this is true! But I choose to ignore it sometimes when deep down know things dont feel right x

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By *hitewisperMan
over a year ago

dudley cosley

I also find your chatting to a couple where the guy is straight but where you come to arranging a meeting it turns out he wants to suck you off, if you're bi say so in the first place

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

IT makes it hard for the rest of us I can’t even to a reply to messages

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

One person's time waster is another person's person who's just changed their mind or who you've put off in some way. We waste our own time but I guess blaming it on others might make us feel better like so many other things about ourselves we don't like to accept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been talking to a couple from Bridgwater for three months exchange phone number and pics,she said she was desperate not been online phone dead.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Got messaged by 2 mm profile asking to meet us.

Gave us a whole load of days next month within exchanging 2 messages, told him we will need to check as we both work shifts and have kids then get a message saying we were timewasters and got blocked.

If you are reading this message you are both knobs and this site can do without pushy ppl like you. Glad we didnt meet you.

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

This is one of the reasons we prefer group meets. I put a good deal of effort into arranging locations and guys etc and my wife puts massive effort into preparing for the meet ensuring she will wow those who attend. We also have only very occasional opportunities for free time so inviting several guys has always resulted in more than one turning up. There are loads of genuine guys here. Unfortunately things happen and plans can change often with little notice. We just have to accept it. But invite 8, if 4 turn up its still a great night! Everyone is happy.

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By *wguy81Man
over a year ago

darwen

I’ve had so many couples let me down at the last minute .. so I know exactly what you mean !

It’s really frustrating!

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By *sandssCouple
over a year ago

Reading

This has happened to us so many times it's getting annoying. Once we'd booked a hotel room for a couple who had pleaded to meet for weeks, then went radio silent on the day of the meet. Then a year later, they resurface on a new profile telling us how hot we are and how they'd love to meet "new people", clearly not remembering letting us down. Omg!

We've learnt to do socials if possible first, as this does seem to filter out the dreamers, but that's not always possible. If anything it's got worse recently now fabs seems to be 98% fantasists/dreamers that joined during lockdown...

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By *adyJane86Woman
over a year ago

South of Lincoln

Unfortunately it's been a issue on here for years.. just seems to be worse now than ever

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waste of time. ^

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Unfortunately it's been a issue on here for years.. just seems to be worse now than ever "

It is nothing new on these sites, not exclusive to FAB. There are many reasons why you get let down, could write a book on it. The only way to reduce the occupants is through experience, no the tell tale signs in "conversation".

Has been noted in other posts and threads many times it is not just solo guys - but again it is numbers game. The disparity of numbers of sole guys and other groups is quite large and possibly why it seems more prevalent. relatively speaking.

Though Solo guys were not what we were looking for - with couples and Solo Fems we tended to plan trips and meet in with out trips - so if we did get let down it was no great loss - enjoy the time anyway.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"And a thousand single men sigh…..

Learning to spot the genuine from the dreamers is a skill one must learn on fab. "

I agree, it’s a skill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of pen pallers these days

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X"

I've had a fair few to be fair and it has put me on high alert for everyone now! Which is a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of pen pallers these days "

100% this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been let down by single ladies and couples, both as a single guy or a couple. It's very common, unfortunately. That's why when I play as couple we go to clubs and if it happens with another couple or couples then it's great, but if not at least we get to play together.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

In lockdown people had the perfect excuse not to actually meet, so online gratification was the norm, now people are ploughing through their online connections to find out who actually wants to physically meet and it can be very disappointing when lots fess up or worse don't show up

I've not met anyone new for a long time but if I do arrange something, I always have a back up shopping/visitor attraction so there is no wasted journey on my part

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By *igtatsMan
over a year ago

gravesend

Already had a few myself I just plan a meet near other stuff in case lol

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By *ingdangTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

i actually laughed reading people’s comment on this post, and it definitely eased the pain a lot. This website is the Wild West and anything can happen. I guess we should just adopt the no high hope attitude.

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

I don't bother with meets to many let downs. Some people are sweet talkers but with no substance.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"Is it just us who are very unlucky or have others been let down when a meet has been arranged!!?

Twice we have drove to 'meet a single guy' and been let down!

Hate time wasters! X"

sorry to hear that

we don't always make it to meets for various unavoidable reasons, but we always cancel as soon as we have to and hope to be able to make it the next time.

No excuse for rudeness of just no shows.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It takes a few minutes to set up an account. Over a few days or weeks to improve on it, maybe a cam verification or two. Then you have something that can look genuine.

That person’s motivations however you’ll never know, in the end it’s a lottery on here, they could be a time waster or not.

Rather than look for the fakes, spend your time looking for the genuine people. The ones who have recent verifications, active on the scene and forums.

Admittedly it’s no guarantee but the odds are better

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Having travelled couple years back two hours to meet a female. Was given runaround , change meeting place. Was a social , then if ok go to hers for evening and night. Now very very cautious . Have had couples and females block me, due to this. From reading thread. Couples , females and males all can be time wasters. ?

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By *erena JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Warblington

Yes. I get this all the time. I guess it's the problem with it being a free site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya happens all the time got let down last Thursday an Friday very frustrating lol

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By *adForGood69Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

Depressing to have to ride the bus home with a boner!

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