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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

When your fwb/fuck buddy calls you by your first name? We've been having amazing sex for over a year and a half now but the last 2 times he's called me by my name instead of the usual cute names he gives me. It throws me a bit lol am I just being weird?

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes! I did with my last fb.. it was normally babes, or curly. But when he called me by my name it was a bit wierd x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it more weird that anyone would think it weird that someone would call them by their name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I prefer when people use my real name.

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I'm just more used to babygirl or princess. When he says my name I feel like I'm being told off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just more used to babygirl or princess. When he says my name I feel like I'm being told off lol"

Ah. Terms of endearment are fine too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just more used to babygirl or princess. When he says my name I feel like I'm being told off lol"

I totally get this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's weird the other way around to, we went to a concert and I sneakily found us better seats (naughty I know but no stewards checked) so I had to shout "JOHN" I didn't know what was funnier shouting a name I've never shouted or seeing his confused look when he went back to where we were sitting with drinks and I wasn't there

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm just more used to babygirl or princess. When he says my name I feel like I'm being told off lol"

Yep, I get this. As soon as I get my full name I'm in trouble and not in the sexy, playful sort of trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it more weird that anyone would think it weird that someone would call them by their name "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally don't find it weird although mine usually calls me lady

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I don't think I've ever called him by his first name I know what it is, I've just never said it. I think that I would find that a bit weird too...or worry about calling out the wrong name

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

Maybe he only just realised what it was?

I think it’s good and you’re only in trouble if hey use your full name in my experience! Takes you right back to childhood

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think their is a thin line between being called one or the other,and one brings it out of the zone of your preferred sexual side, into family side,but what was agreed at the beginning if anything that broken any rules that you continued to let it continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it simply because the husband doesn't know!

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm just more used to babygirl or princess. When he says my name I feel like I'm being told off lol"

Yep totally this

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Is it simply because the husband doesn't know!"

I'm lucky mine knows everything and loves it.. lucky lady me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had the odd pet name but it is usually just my name

Are pet names more for a dom/sub type thing?

I feel like I'm missing out now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When your fwb/fuck buddy calls you by your first name? We've been having amazing sex for over a year and a half now but the last 2 times he's called me by my name instead of the usual cute names he gives me. It throws me a bit lol am I just being weird?"

I just find it weird when someone uses my name because I'm so used to being called mum 1000 times a day for the past 24 years.

So an adult using my name is weird.

And I agree with the above that when someone does use it I usually think... oh crap what have I done?

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough


"I have had the odd pet name but it is usually just my name

Are pet names more for a dom/sub type thing?

I feel like I'm missing out now "

I wouldn't have thought so. I slept with a very vanilla guy once who kept calling me darling. Not my personal choice of name but he was adorable lol

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m not into nicknames.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it simply because the husband doesn't know!

I'm lucky mine knows everything and loves it.. lucky lady me! "

I'm so pleased for you but cheating on here isn't a sole male perserve!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckin it beats calling out someone else's name!

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I find it weird to use his real name. Ever since I've known him I've used his fab name.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've always used his real name and he has used mine. Think people would give us strange looks when out and about if we used our fab names x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I usually get oy twat or dickhead

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Personally don't find it weird although mine usually calls me lady "

I find the word lady weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a pet name.. I think he has said my real name 3 times... Not actually 'to' me, but a third party conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had the odd pet name but it is usually just my name

Are pet names more for a dom/sub type thing?

I feel like I'm missing out now "

You should totally demand one

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

If I get my real name specially in full I cringe makes me think I'm in trouble with the folks haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When your fwb/fuck buddy calls you by your first name? We've been having amazing sex for over a year and a half now but the last 2 times he's called me by my name instead of the usual cute names he gives me. It throws me a bit lol am I just being weird?"

My girlfriend and I both HATE being called by our respective names during sex, both in our relationship and with other people. It's really jarring.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'd find it weird if my FWB called me anything other than my real name, to be honest. We play basketball together, so him calling me anytime mushy would sound a bit...... Odd

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Once had a regular FB who liked me to say his real name during sex, problem was that it was a really unsexy name so I found it quite off putting.

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough


"Once had a regular FB who liked me to say his real name during sex, problem was that it was a really unsexy name so I found it quite off putting. "

Ooooo that's interesting. So what would you class as an unsexy name? Even better, what are sexy names to call out in bed?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've a good friend I meet and we use each others real names .

I had a FB for a good while before and we didn't even know each others real names for over 6 months but we never used them it was always our fab names and with everyone else I met it's been just our fab names we have used or a shortened version of time .

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I don't think it's weird. Sounds quite natural to me.

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