FabSwingers.com forum: Tips for going down on a girl!

By *g17 OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Any tips?! I love going down on a girl, like absolutely love it! But I wanna make sure I do the right things, I know as them etc but what if they’re to shy to say…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore anyone who tells you to trace the alphabet down there with your tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lightly and gentle is key!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just watch and listen for the cues. Tune in with body language and facial expressions as your guide.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Ignore anyone who tells you to trace the alphabet down there with your tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretend you're operating an old school phone with your tongue. One of those you have to put your finger in the hole and rotate it round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretend you're operating an old school phone with your tongue. One of those you have to put your finger in the hole and rotate it round

Yeh that! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretend you're operating an old school phone with your tongue. One of those you have to put your finger in the hole and rotate it round

Yeh that! Lol"

Do the noise too though.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Take snacks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conversely, be gentle and take your time. Not every woman's the same. Listen for changes in her breathing and feel for changes in body language. When you start doing the right thing(s) you'll know about it and MY GOD DON'T STOP/CHANGE WHAT YOU'RE DOING WHEN SHE STARTS SOUNDING LIKE SHE'S GOING TO CUM!!

Think I've covered everything there but if you need anything else make a forum post about it. I'll be watching you

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By *uff the Boner!Man
over a year ago

SWANSEA

Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just watch and listen for the cues. Tune in with body language and facial expressions as your guide. "

What, facial expressions!? are you physiologically different to other women or have I been doing it wrong all my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do the suck and tug on all the fleshy bits please

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Practice your slow breathing and holding your breath, be sure to trace every inch of flesh and take note of where hits the spot by listening to the feedback from breathing and if you're lucky more vocal signs, if the hands go on the back of your head you have hit the spot for sure, when the thighs tighten onto the side of your face brace yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't start immediately with hard clitoral stimulation.. its so uncomfortable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Practice your slow breathing and holding your breath, be sure to trace every inch of flesh and take note of where hits the spot by listening to the feedback from breathing and if you're lucky more vocal signs, if the hands go on the back of your head you have hit the spot for sure, when the thighs tighten onto the side of your face brace yourself."

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trace the alphabet

Never heard if that !!!!

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

"Do the suck and tug on all the fleshy bits please

God yes! Hate that

And don’t dart your tongue in and out like it’s a game of hungry hippos, soft, long licks with the flat of the tongue, almost snog the clit gently, tease it…listen to her breathing changing, that quiver of the thighs, the tightening of them, brace yourself for the thighs closing around your ears, her back arching a little, I also love to hear a man enjoying it so don’t be afraid to show her that through your own breathing/moans

Enjoy it xx

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Probably best you ask her.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Ignore anyone who tells you to trace the alphabet down there with your tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breathe through your ears and do it for hours. That's what all the great pussy lickers on here reckon hits the spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her if you can lick her ass as well, there’s nothing better than licking ass holes.

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

Start slowly with the tip of your tongue lightly over her. Let it explore her and tease her. Don’t just go straight for her clit, tease it and build up to that, and always make sure to keep your tongue moist. Vary the shape of your tongue and the speed and pattern, and if she’s comfortable with you doing it then using fingers or a toy at the same time can get an interesting response.

The most important thing is listen to what her body is telling you. Not just the sounds she is making, but the movements. Is she gripping the bed or you with her hands? How is she breathing? Is she grinding against you? Listen to the signals and remember what you are doing to get the good ones.

Lastly, as has already been said, if you feel / hear that she is about to cum, for god’s sake keep doing what you are doing, haha!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Ignore anyone who tells you to trace the alphabet down there with your tongue

Unless you can do the Greek alphabet. Theta will have her moaning with pleasure and Xi (lower case, obvs) will have you wishing you’d put 2 towels down

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Ignore anyone who tells you to trace the alphabet down there with your tongue

I was just going to say. Try tracing the alphabet with your tongue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't start immediately with hard clitoral stimulation.. its so uncomfortable!

Absolute killer that is! Kills the moment for

Me completely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Conversely, be gentle and take your time. Not every woman's the same. Listen for changes in her breathing and feel for changes in body language. When you start doing the right thing(s) you'll know about it and MY GOD DON'T STOP/CHANGE WHAT YOU'RE DOING WHEN SHE STARTS SOUNDING LIKE SHE'S GOING TO CUM!!

Think I've covered everything there but if you need anything else make a forum post about it. I'll be watching you

This is excellent advice. Don't stop what you're doing when we start getting close!!

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By *ockgit64Man
over a year ago

Poulton le Fylde, Lancs.

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By *ockgit64Man
over a year ago

Poulton le Fylde, Lancs.

"Ignore anyone who tells you to trace the alphabet down there with your tongue

Unless you can do the Greek alphabet. Theta will have her moaning with pleasure and Xi (lower case, obvs) will have you wishing you’d put 2 towels down

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going down on a beautiful woman is very much like making a cup of coffee, It's got to be hot. You've got to take your time. You've got to stir gently and firmly. You've got to grind your beans until they squeak. And then you put in the milk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't start immediately with hard clitoral stimulation.. its so uncomfortable!

Absolute killer that is! Kills the moment for

Me completely. "

That sharp, burning sensation

nothing worse!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Figure of eight

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Breathe through your ears is always handy.

Stay away from spicy foods; wasabi, mustard, chilli and firecy curries beforehand.

Also get the timing right: over too quick and she'll feel short changed. Take too long and she'll get bored/dry/cramped and distracted by the cobwebs on the ceiling and wonder what to have for tea.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Take a map with you haha

X marks the spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't start immediately with hard clitoral stimulation.. its so uncomfortable!

Absolute killer that is! Kills the moment for

Me completely.

That sharp, burning sensation

nothing worse! "

Absolutely!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going down on a beautiful woman is very much like making a cup of coffee, It's got to be hot. You've got to take your time. You've got to stir gently and firmly. You've got to grind your beans until they squeak. And then you put in the milk. "

This reminded me of the car salesman on The Fast Show from years ago who used to say ‘selling a car is like making love to a beautiful women....’ haha

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Figure of eight

Should that be in an italic font? Bold?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always found blowing a raspberry on it break the tension.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take my time, enjoy myself, be gentle and keep a constant rhythm. Long slow soft licks to start, later some harder licking or clit flick licks. Use your hands on her body and pay attension to her breath, moans and movent, when you hit the right spot, you will know. Keep it constant and enjoy her arrowsel and climax. Maybe a finger on their gspot, some don't like that, so be gentle. Same for gentle clit sucking, great after they have warmed up, some don't like it so start gentle and build up slowly. There's no rush, relay, take time and make noise so she knows how much your enjoying her.

Damn, I love cunnilingus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start slow and pay attention to the lucky ladies breathing and body movements, always check what they enjoy the most before going down, some enjoy a little or lot of finger stimulation, as well as tongue on clit, some enjoy clit sucking more than licking, use your other hand to play with breasts, nipples or hold on for dear life.

You'll know when you're doing it just right and once you do, DO NOT STOP whatever you're doing right and enjoy the results

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Breathe through your ears is always handy.

Stay away from spicy foods; wasabi, mustard, chilli and firecy curries beforehand.

Also get the timing right: over too quick and she'll feel short changed. Take too long and she'll get bored/dry/cramped and distracted by the cobwebs on the ceiling and wonder what to have for tea."

I'm writing a shopping list in my head after 5 mins lol, and if he needs to be down there long enough that he needs to breathe through his ears then he's not doing it right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Breathe through your ears and do it for hours. That's what all the great pussy lickers on here reckon hits the spot

Exactly Suffocate happy ? If you know what your at you never come up for air

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Take a comfy pillow amd mug of hot chocolate if you’re staying down there the night

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By *g17 OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Some great advice! Can’t wait to try it out, thanks everyone

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Look and feel for her subtle changes and remember everyone is different, what pleases one won't necessarily please another, be prepared to change your skills to suit her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take a comfy pillow amd mug of hot chocolate if you’re staying down there the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do the suck and tug on all the fleshy bits please

O ooffttt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat oral like a long sensual kissing session, use your tongue slowly and explore her cunt like you would her mouth. Tease her clit with firm long licks. Feel her enjoyment, her breathing, her body tightening all signs you’re doing it right for her. And let her know you’re enjoying it to. Squeeze her bum and grip her hips… it’s not a chore enjoy it! It’s the sweetest honey pot you’ll ever have. Tease her I love playing with her swollen clit gently between my tongue and teeth. And I love to give a cheeky love bite on the fleshy part of the inside of her thighs

And the feeling of hearing her compliment you afterwards is a reward in itself. But the long snog do she can taste herself on you afterwards is even better

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

"Treat oral like a long sensual kissing session, use your tongue slowly and explore her cunt like you would her mouth. Tease her clit with firm long licks. Feel her enjoyment, her breathing, her body tightening all signs you’re doing it right for her. And let her know you’re enjoying it to. Squeeze her bum and grip her hips… it’s not a chore enjoy it! It’s the sweetest honey pot you’ll ever have. Tease her I love playing with her swollen clit gently between my tongue and teeth. And I love to give a cheeky love bite on the fleshy part of the inside of her thighs

And the feeling of hearing her compliment you afterwards is a reward in itself. But the long snog do she can taste herself on you afterwards is even better"

Ooooft!

This week is all about the pussy eating grrrrrr

Be still my throbbing cunt

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Bend your knees

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

And the feeling of hearing her compliment you afterwards is a reward in itself. But the long snog do she can taste herself on you afterwards is even better"

Damn!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breathe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like that you've asked OP. So many guys post threads saying how amazing they are in bed and how their dick is the best ever etc etc. But you've actually asked how to get even better in bed, and you're taking the feedback and advice. That's awesome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lastly, as has already been said, if you feel / hear that she is about to cum, for god’s sake keep doing what you are doing, haha!"

unless you are edging the lady in question, then just before the lovely lady cums, move and change what you are doing, but close to where you were, so there is the hint of what could have been...

Donthis two or three times, and then when you do grant the release, keep going as she bucks and writhes and your princess is likely to cum again and again multiple times

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By *wing-a-LingCouple
over a year ago

London

Assuming you already know where the clit is and not to be too rough on it (especially in the beginning), my tip would be:

Throw out all the tips. Focusing on too many different instructions would only turn the whole thing into some kind of video game. "Ok, now I'll lick the clit in concentric circles." "Right, time to do the up and down move."

Just devour the woman. Let your animal instincts take over. Go down on her like she's the last meal you'll ever have and enjoy every damn second of it. Grab her bum and squeeze hard. Pin her arms down. When she starts thrusting against your mouth, grab her hips and pull her closer. There is nothing quite as beautiful as a woman letting herself go in a fit of lust. Enjoy it. Savour it.

Make out with her pussy until your entire mouth is soaked, then when she's done cumming, grab her face and kiss her. Let her taste herself on your lips.

Sometimes, raw enthusiasm is the best technique

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

"Lastly, as has already been said, if you feel / hear that she is about to cum, for god’s sake keep doing what you are doing, haha!

unless you are edging the lady in question, then just before the lovely lady cums, move and change what you are doing, but close to where you were, so there is the hint of what could have been...

Donthis two or three times, and then when you do grant the release, keep going as she bucks and writhes and your princess is likely to cum again and again multiple times"

Thanks, I’ve noted this to try at some point soon

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Find a trusting partner that’s confident to show you what to do.

My oral game went from bad (her words) to the best in not very long because I had a girl that was willing to show me.

Now I’d say I’m better with my tongue than anything else, and I’ve absolutely seen that displayed in the reactions I get.

And weirdly enough, people enjoy doing stuff their good at. It wasn’t that oral was a chore before, I enjoyed it, but nothing like I do now, because I know I’m gonna do great, I know she’s gonna get off, and in turn that turns me on

Basically find a partner and be open to learning. No shame or embarrassment

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

"Assuming you already know where the clit is and not to be too rough on it (especially in the beginning), my tip would be:

Make out with her pussy until your entire mouth is soaked, then when she's done cumming, grab her face and kiss her. Let her taste herself on your lips.

Sometimes, raw enthusiasm is the best technique

And raw enthusiasm can be taught a better technique

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Listen out 4 the echo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the feeling of hearing her compliment you afterwards is a reward in itself. But the long snog do she can taste herself on you afterwards is even better"

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Everyone is so wildly different but for me, eat it like it's your last supper!

and say every thought that's going through your mind in between feasting!

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Assuming you already know where the clit is and not to be too rough on it (especially in the beginning), my tip would be:

Make out with her pussy until your entire mouth is soaked, then when she's done cumming, grab her face and kiss her. Let her taste herself on your lips.

Sometimes, raw enthusiasm is the best technique

YES!! This one wins!

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge

Stay in the shallow end unless she starts pushing on top of your head.

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By *aramel.desiresMan
over a year ago

London

I’m 49 and still learning but here are a few things I have picked up along the way.

Google a picture of a clit! Not on your work laptop. Lol. There is a lot more to it than what is poking out. It’s practically 30 times bigger and well hidden. Once you know the shape you can touch those hidden and sensitive areas first from the outside. Google yoni massage too so to understand how to massage her lady bits.

Slow it down and start with the inner thighs, leave the underwater on for now too and just let your ear brush over her clit and resist diving straight in. Lick kiss rub suck every part but the clit to build tension and anticipation. Use the back of your tongue, as far back as you can. It has more texture and ridges than the front and will blow here away. I start shallow and after each orgasm my finger goes in a little deeper. If she starts rubbing or touching the top of your head you are doing it right. Lol

Now you have all these tips you have to apply the right tip to the right women at the right time

not impossible but have fun trying and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you’ve got some helpful advice here

Going down on a woman or man for that matter is so intimate and sensual.

Allowing a man to explore between your thighs can make some women feel vulnerable and exposed. But that feeling disappears quickly when you know someone is enjoying it as much as you are. I love being brought to the point orgasm and denied that final release. Then when I am allowed to cum it feels incredible knowing my juices are flowing over his tongue and he’s tasting me. Well…. He doesn’t have an option as his head is clamped firmly between my thighs at that point!

For me there are so many things that make oral amazing. I love a confident man who knows how to explore a woman with their tongue and one who isn’t shy to try things like exploring further afield with fingers or toys and not just concentrating on the clit.

Well….. that’s well and truly distracted me this morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretend you're operating an old school phone with your tongue. One of those you have to put your finger in the hole and rotate it round

Yeh that! Lol

Do the noise too though. "

This really made me laugh

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Read what her body is telling you.

It's not all about flicking the clit.

Plenty of other sensitive areas in and on a pussy.

Find what pleases her and wait for her to beg you to stop.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

And the feeling of hearing her compliment you afterwards is a reward in itself. But the long snog do she can taste herself on you afterwards is even better"

Dammit!! Did I have to read that at work

I’m going to re-read that slowly once I get home

I feel you deserve a pat on the back or summat for that

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Eat, drink and be merry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the feeling of hearing her compliment you afterwards is a reward in itself. But the long snog do she can taste herself on you afterwards is even better

Dammit!! Did I have to read that at work

I’m going to re-read that slowly once I get home

I feel you deserve a pat on the back or summat for that

Pat on the top of the head

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Definitely do the suck and gentle nibble the clit. Hold it gently between your teeth while flicking your tongue over it.

Even better if they are sitting on your face as they can control the amount of pressure.

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Listen to her she let you know when touching right spots

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If all else fails - rub it with Velcro.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Pinch it. Really hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Figure of eight

Should that be in an italic font? Bold?

It's an 8 written by a calligrapher, bit thicker on the up stroke (depending on how you write your 8's of course)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips?! I love going down on a girl, like absolutely love it! But I wanna make sure I do the right things, I know as them etc but what if they’re to shy to say…"

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1181455

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If all else fails - rub it with Velcro.

Was reading every comment and getting quite turned on, then this!!! Lol

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"If all else fails - rub it with Velcro.

Was reading every comment and getting quite turned on, then this!!! Lol"

I don't like being 'the norm'

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By *eyondhornyMan
over a year ago

Edwardsville

This thread is getting me quite hot under the collar also.(not the velcro bit, ouch)

I don't understand men who don't enjoy doing it because it is so exhilarating to make a woman come.

That moment where you can feel her orgasm start to build. That slight arch of her back, the pushback against your tongue and lips, her hand stroking to the back of your head then pressing you harder against her.

Knowing at that moment, that you are inexorably taking her towards that precipice of no return and then taking her over the edge.

It's like roller coasters, firework displays and xmas morning all in one.

Halfway through reading everyone's comments I also got Bryan Adams, Have you ever really loved a Woman running through my head so gonna go listen to that in a cool shower for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If all else fails - rub it with Velcro.

Do you use the fluffh side or wire side?

asking for a friend

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Ask and listen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask, listen, explore, respond and above all enjoy that shit because it’s bloody majestic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her if it's OK if you eat her pussy

Put on gloves and also a face mask but make a little hole for your tongue

Grab a sponge and gently clean her vagina with bleach

Rinse vagina with cold water and ice cubes

Ask consent once again

She will probably say no now

Go home and look at yourself in the mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretend you're operating an old school phone with your tongue. One of those you have to put your finger in the hole and rotate it round

Yeh that! Lol

Do the noise too though. "

What number do you dial though? That could make all the difference

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"If all else fails - rub it with Velcro.

Do you use the fluffh side or wire side?

asking for a friend

Depends how kinky I'm feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I've covered everything there but if you need anything else make a forum post about it. I'll be watching you

"
perfect advice definitely don't stop .....slot of men do at the wrong moment very frustrating lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips?! I love going down on a girl, like absolutely love it! But I wanna make sure I do the right things, I know as them etc but what if they’re to shy to say…"

Watch Mr Pussy Licking on a certain popular porn site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask her if it's OK if you eat her pussy

Put on gloves and also a face mask but make a little hole for your tongue

Grab a sponge and gently clean her vagina with bleach

Rinse vagina with cold water and ice cubes

Ask consent once again

She will probably say no now

Go home and look at yourself in the mirror "

This mad me laugh out loud

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By *ustfuck999Man
over a year ago

Ashton-under-Lyne

My friends sister said her ex boyfriend should be tins of beans because he is world's best bean flicker

I couldn't believe that she blurted out with that in front of the hole party

I'll ask for us all next time I see my baked beans champion

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Tips? Yep, make sure you can get back up again, after going down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is simple…

Get your Mrs to do it!

Somewhat sexiest but sooo much hotter to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretend you're operating an old school phone with your tongue. One of those you have to put your finger in the hole and rotate it round

Yeh that! Lol

Do the noise too though.

What number do you dial though? That could make all the difference "

80085

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snorkel

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Learn to breath through your ears

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Don’t wear a bib and ask for mayonnaise.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

1. Don't do it to 'make' a woman (not girl) cum. Some will fake it because it's easier than saying stop.

2. Search the forums to find out just how important it is to women (most say it's not).

3. Listen to the woman you are doing it with.

4. Nothing in sex is reciprocal; don't expect a BJ just because you did oral on her.

5. Every single woman out there is different. You can tell that just by the answers here.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Kiss her somewhere else first…

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

..if you need any practice and guidance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I've covered everything there but if you need anything else make a forum post about it. I'll be watching you

This is excellent advice. Don't stop what you're doing when we start getting close!!"

Dittoo

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"MY GOD DON'T STOP/CHANGE WHAT YOU'RE DOING WHEN SHE STARTS SOUNDING LIKE SHE'S GOING TO CUM!!

This!!!! Too many men change technique when it starts to feel good.

When we say, don’t stop doing that…..don’t bloody stop!!!!

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Who's available so I can get some practice in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be in any rush and definitely dont give up lol. Some girls take a little time to get there.x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"MY GOD DON'T STOP/CHANGE WHAT YOU'RE DOING WHEN SHE STARTS SOUNDING LIKE SHE'S GOING TO CUM!!

This!!!! Too many men change technique when it starts to feel good.

When we say, don’t stop doing that…..don’t bloody stop!!!!"

Definitely this!

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Communication, and this doesn't always mean asking her what works (although go for this by all means). Her body, breath and voice should communicate to you when you're doing it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"MY GOD DON'T STOP/CHANGE WHAT YOU'RE DOING WHEN SHE STARTS SOUNDING LIKE SHE'S GOING TO CUM!!

This!!!! Too many men change technique when it starts to feel good.

When we say, don’t stop doing that…..don’t bloody stop!!!!

Definitely this!

And the same advice to the ladies.

You don’t necessarily have to speed up or do it harder.

If it’s working just carry on like that.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Right I've read & digested all these tips.

Now i need a willing victim to try them out on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just watch and listen for the cues. Tune in with body language and facial expressions as your guide. "

This. There is no one size fits all. I've met women who hate it full stop and others that literally want me to nibble and bite.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Don't do it, it's dangerous and you could lose a hand or worse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"MY GOD DON'T STOP/CHANGE WHAT YOU'RE DOING WHEN SHE STARTS SOUNDING LIKE SHE'S GOING TO CUM!!

This!!!! Too many men change technique when it starts to feel good.

When we say, don’t stop doing that…..don’t bloody stop!!!!"

Women are just as guilty of this, getting a hand job off one lady, announced I was about to cum, she increased the speed and as a result the force she was using and nearly ripped my fucking cock off

no orgasm occurred

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

" if the hands go on the back of your head you have hit the spot ."

^ this. Don’t change a damn thing you were doing at that moment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" if the hands go on the back of your head you have hit the spot .

^ this. Don’t change a damn thing you were doing at that moment! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" if the hands go on the back of your head you have hit the spot .

^ this. Don’t change a damn thing you were doing at that moment! "

I like that bit

normally end up with a squashed nose though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" if the hands go on the back of your head you have hit the spot .

^ this. Don’t change a damn thing you were doing at that moment!

I like that bit

normally end up with a squashed nose though

Apparently I have thighs that could squash a watermelon at that precise moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have always found blowing a raspberry on it break the tension."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you're down there go *Nom nom nom* to really take her to the edge

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

" if the hands go on the back of your head you have hit the spot .

^ this. Don’t change a damn thing you were doing at that moment!

I like that bit

normally end up with a squashed nose though

try not to harm, but sometimes it is uncontrollable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the feeling of hearing her compliment you afterwards is a reward in itself. But the long snog do she can taste herself on you afterwards is even better

Dammit!! Did I have to read that at work

I’m going to re-read that slowly once I get home

I feel you deserve a pat on the back or summat for that

Pat on the top of the head

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"When you're down there go *Nom nom nom* to really take her to the edge

….. of giggles and lose the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you're down there go *Nom nom nom* to really take her to the edge

….. of giggles and lose the moment

Better than her laughing at something else

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"MY GOD DON'T STOP/CHANGE WHAT YOU'RE DOING WHEN SHE STARTS SOUNDING LIKE SHE'S GOING TO CUM!!

This!!!! Too many men change technique when it starts to feel good.

When we say, don’t stop doing that…..don’t bloody stop!!!!"

Exactly this! Only stop when she throws you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow her reactions, her body will tell you if she is enjoying what you do and if not then adapt and change what you are doing until you can feel and hear her enjoying it.

Every woman is different in how they like it, there’s not one answer for all OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn to breathe through your ears.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her what she likes.

Do it.

Listen to her body.

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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

Thame area

I ADORE giving oral to a Woman

So sexy tasting smelling and hearing her mmmmm

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"Ask her what she likes.

Do it.

Listen to her body."

…unless she farts

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

This is a funny read.

Showing D the comments in full caps made me giggle.

He said that us women do it too. (change rhythm even though they say don't)

We are all as guilty as each other.

I find that a good grip on his head and his neck in a vice lock usually does the trick.

Jo.Xx

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"Learn to breathe through your ears.....

And how to tap out when she clenches his head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass her the wand and let her do it herself.

Satisfaction guaranteed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Learn to breathe through your ears.....

And how to tap out when she clenches his head

Tap out....... what's that.....squash them in harder?

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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

So much advice here.

Snorkel, goggles, possibly even a full on wetsuit need to be bought and worn before starting this glorious task.

If you find the right woman and magically hit those right spots, you'll be thankful of those purchases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have fun

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"When you're down there go *Nom nom nom* to really take her to the edge

….. of giggles and lose the moment

Better than her laughing at something else

They that do that, get given their clothes and shown the door

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Wear a cycling helmet so you don't get crushed to death when she orgasms

LvM

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By *irate102Man
over a year ago

Halifax

Better still, if you play the didgery doo you have to learn how to circular breath. I never realized just how much use this would be in other aspects of life lol

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Honestly (I expect its been said somewhere above already) ask her to guide you and reassure her that it's okay to point out they would rather you do X than do Y.

Not step by step instructions, or anything so detailed it breaks the mood but just to help guide towards what it is she likes and is enjoying, eventually you will know this (for her at least) and will be able to use her body as an indication of what you should be doing. There are some basic rules that apply to all, but so many advanced tips that you won't ever know if they are the correct thing on an individual person.

Two different women and I've never had such a different experience of giving oral, what worked so well for one had little to no impact on the other and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow and steady wins the race.. don't come at me like a hungry camel.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Time. Take time, take direction and if the lady uses her hands on your head, go with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tip for going down on a grill is wet your hair and eyebrows first

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Don't eat raw chillies first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My tip for going down on a grill is wet your hair and eyebrows first "

Also, check for any meat thats been forgotten about.

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over a year ago

" if the hands go on the back of your head you have hit the spot .

^ this. Don’t change a damn thing you were doing at that moment!

I like that bit

normally end up with a squashed nose though

Apparently I have thighs that could squash a watermelon at that precise moment

My ears are always cold, warm thighs always required to warm them up

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By *ayskiMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Put on some music first. i would have to recomemnd

Another Level - Freak Me

Next tune : Enrique Iglesias - Hero

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow and soft start with a flat tounge, some gentle sucking, kiss it passionately.

Pointy tounge straight away is a huge turn off for me.

Mrs

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Treat it like one of those balloons that wont inflate, just keep blowing … hard.

Nibble on their clit like a dog with a chew toy.

Lick all around the outside and get it all wet and sticky.

Stick your face in and motorboat between the lips.

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

"Any tips?! I love going down on a girl, like absolutely love it! But I wanna make sure I do the right things, I know as them etc but what if they’re to shy to say…"

Practice of a peach lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone likes something different. Is talk to your partner too sensible an answer.

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By *imbob85Man
over a year ago

inverness

Think I’ll be taking some notes

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Do the suck and tug on all the fleshy bits please

Care to demonstrate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone likes something different. Is talk to your partner too sensible an answer."

You're not supposed to talk with your mouth full though....get back to munching big fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spit on it to get it wet and then pop your balls in. Works every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carlos recommends setting about it like an old tramp into a hot pie.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Ask when she’d last ate a curry or sprouts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone likes something different. Is talk to your partner too sensible an answer.

You're not supposed to talk with your mouth full though....get back to munching big fella

I just came up for air

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By *ibsonsgCouple
over a year ago

New Milton

Get her to open her legs, that's a good starting point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her what she likes, everyone is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont wear your glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask her what she likes, everyone is different "

Great minds think alike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't bury your nose in too deep or you won't be able to breath very well

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