FabSwingers.com forum: How many messages do female and couple profile gets?

By *hocoboi84 OP Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I am curious to know how many message couples and female profile receives. One of the member mentioned 120 in a day.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I am curious to know how many message couples and female profile receives. One of the member mentioned 120 in a day. "

Anything from 0 to a tens of thousands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last few days I've hardly got any but the ones I have are from unverified accounts with no photos or people saying "I'm not what you're looking for but....."

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We have single men blocked as we're only looking for couples, we don't get v many tbh

Ours are mainly from people we already know

Some women do get loads, but there are filters available to use to stop this

Miss

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

A few hundred easily.

Some get thousands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined, I had about 50 in the first 25 minutes, before I had put up any pictures or done my profile text... If I came online, I would read one message and come back to at least 2 more. I could get at least a few huundred in a day if I posted pics or got a new verification... It was relentless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had 175 today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I’m meeting 200-300 per day or 400-500 if I’m on hot photos!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I get two

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By *rishCouple2kCouple
over a year ago

Berkshire

Maybe 1 a month.

If we post in forum. Lol

We don't tend to be what people want funnily enough.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

5 today, all actually comedic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies depending on whether I've posted a new photo. If I have, then I would estimate between 300-400 messages on that day. But if I don't post anything it's more like 50-100 in a day, which is a lot more manageable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that many if I'm not active. So I try to be less active.

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow

My question to you ladys do you read them all?

It does make me laugh thoigh the comparisons are horrendous ladys can and always will be more picky

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"My question to you ladys do you read them all?

It does make me laugh thoigh the comparisons are horrendous ladys can and always will be more picky "

And? What makes you think we wouldn't be? Would you shag someone just because they wanted to?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Loads more then men, that’s for sure!

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow

"My question to you ladys do you read them all?

It does make me laugh thoigh the comparisons are horrendous ladys can and always will be more picky

And? What makes you think we wouldn't be? Would you shag someone just because they wanted to?"

Its not a bad thing.

Women will always be more desirable.

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We actually don't get too many. Kind of like it that way too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how they have their filters set.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"My question to you ladys do you read them all?

It does make me laugh thoigh the comparisons are horrendous ladys can and always will be more picky

And? What makes you think we wouldn't be? Would you shag someone just because they wanted to?

Its not a bad thing.

Women will always be more desirable. "

What's not a bad thing? Women having preferences about who they want to get naked with?

Why accuse us of being picky then, are you saying you'd shag anything or do you have preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am curious to know how many message couples and female profile receives. One of the member mentioned 120 in a day. "

On average we get 2 messages per month

One friend request ( picture hunters ) per month

3-4 winks per month, we message back but mostly fizzle out after a conversation

9-40 views per day , depending if a new picture is uploaded.

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow

"My question to you ladys do you read them all?

It does make me laugh thoigh the comparisons are horrendous ladys can and always will be more picky

And? What makes you think we wouldn't be? Would you shag someone just because they wanted to?

Its not a bad thing.

Women will always be more desirable.

What's not a bad thing? Women having preferences about who they want to get naked with?

Why accuse us of being picky then, are you saying you'd shag anything or do you have preferences?"

Everyone has preferences.

And no you've completely blown it out of context.

Its not a bad thing to be picky if most men struggle to get 5 messages where as women get up to 1000's its pretty obvious.

Jeez louise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My question to you ladys do you read them all?

It does make me laugh thoigh the comparisons are horrendous ladys can and always will be more picky "

I'm no more picky on here than in normal circumstances... And tbf you can read most of them without even opening them

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow

"My question to you ladys do you read them all?

It does make me laugh thoigh the comparisons are horrendous ladys can and always will be more picky

I'm no more picky on here than in normal circumstances... And tbf you can read most of them without even opening them

I can only imagine.

Clearly stated im straight uet got a lot of messages from guys myself. Had to block it in the end.

Maybe my hair and make up do me no favours

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've had none today and I think about 3 over the weekend but I keep my filters really tight as I don't want a load of mail that I won't have time to read or answer for me it seems pointless and too time consuming if you try to clear them .And having a load of unread messages lighting up my inbox just gets to me.I prefer to keep it tidy.

It could be tight filters that stops them or a profile that people wouldn't message anyhow either way it works for me

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By *angerous liasonsMan
over a year ago

Outer Space

"It varies depending on whether I've posted a new photo. If I have, then I would estimate between 300-400 messages on that day. But if I don't post anything it's more like 50-100 in a day, which is a lot more manageable. "

Wow! I’ve had about 5 messages today and about 15 views, that’s a good day. Looking at your numbers I feel flattered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had none today and I think about 3 over the weekend but I keep my filters really tight as I don't want a load of mail that I won't have time to read or answer for me it seems pointless and too time consuming if you try to clear them .And having a load of unread messages lighting up my inbox just gets to me.I prefer to keep it tidy.

It could be tight filters that stops them or a profile that people wouldn't message anyhow either way it works for me

Agreed filters are a wonderful little option x

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

It varies quite a bit, we get more if we post a pic or get a verification rather than laying low and I’d say 90% are from guys, they are definitely the most chatty on this site.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

It honestly depends how many messages couples/singles want to get.

We have our filters set very tight indeed as we’re here to meet people rather than chat. So with that in mind we exclude those we’re not interested in. (Outside our age, non site supporters, newbies, no public pictures).

This massively cut down on our messages and made our account actually manageable.

If you exclude messages from people we’re already chatting to, then I’d say it varies from 0-2 new contacts a day on a regular day.

If we post a status it can be 3-5 new messages.

If we post a new photo it can be 5-20 new messages a day.

Again these numbers aren’t counting folk we’re already talking to or have met before.

If we are visiting a different area and are active we get more messages as we obviously pop up on different peoples feeds. I dread to think how many messages we’d get if we went to London, posted a status and a new Picture!

- John

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We've had six today because we put a couple of pictures uo. Otherwise we probably get three or four a week at most. Filters and being out of most age ranges helps

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Not that many at all. We don't meet single males though so that makes a massive difference.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

"Not that many at all. We don't meet single males though so that makes a massive difference."
same. Lucky if we get 2 new messages a week from people we haven't spoken to before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

458 but there’s no way I can read every single one but thank you though

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By *upidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Very few genuine people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had 12 today. It does depend how long you are online for and at what time. After 11pm they roll in if you are online.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Vastly depends on how active you are, how many friends you have, if you post new pictures....what day of the week or is, what's on the tele, what you had for dinner, the list is f endless tbh

Jo x

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

I get maybe 10 a day, 9 of those haven’t read the profile or just say hi… the other one is usually miles away or not my type physically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know as the majority end up in the sea of unreads that I can’t seem to ever manage (currently at 3180) x

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