FabSwingers.com forum: Decisions... decisions...

By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

and just HOW do you make yours? Slowly and sensuously or fast and furiously?

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By *ighclassfunMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

"and just HOW do you make yours? Slowly and sensuously or fast and furiously?

Gut instinct is seldom wrong

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"and just HOW do you make yours? Slowly and sensuously or fast and furiously?

Gut instinct is seldom wrong "
Very true - but what kind of a decision maker are you - do you think about all the consequences, plan the next steps like in a game of chess with all ifs and buts... or do you just go for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im pretty impulsive and do tend to go with my gut.

I've been wrong and have kicked myself for not taking a step back but do not overly beat myself up over it as at the time i truly felt it was the right thing to do

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By *ighclassfunMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

"and just HOW do you make yours? Slowly and sensuously or fast and furiously?

Gut instinct is seldom wrong Very true - but what kind of a decision maker are you - do you think about all the consequences, plan the next steps like in a game of chess with all ifs and buts... or do you just go for it? "

If it feels right then do it - never look back and wish you had - life is too short for regrets!

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Im pretty impulsive and do tend to go with my gut.

I've been wrong and have kicked myself for not taking a step back but do not overly beat myself up over it as at the time i truly felt it was the right thing to do"
I can be very impulsive even with bigger decisions like buying a car, some of the time I reflect back and think that perhaps I should have taken more time for my decision but mostyly I am happy with them. Anyway, once they are done.. they are done and no point beating myself up about them.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I follow my instinct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Painfully slowly! but then when I do decide... BAM! it's done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take time to deliberate over important decisions but deep down I know what I want to do and go with that. In relation to my careers I am quite ambitious and I like to do and achieve different things, but I won't do this impulsively, ill think deeply about it. I like learning and have studied in order to achieve a whole new career path.

In other things, namely purchasing items, I'm impulsive, which is why ive ended up with the amount of clothes and shoes I have.

In relation to swinging I took my time and a considered approach to decide on whether I could do this. I looked at various clubs, joined a site to gain knowledge before we decided to join chams. I took my time before deciding to indulge in sexual activity with strangers to ensure I was mature enough to deal with it.

In relation to house hunting and the kids schools again I studied and looked at all the options, gained information and came to an informed choice.

So for me I guess in non important things I'm frivolous and impulsive but for the important things in life I'm quite serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess without try to sound abstract….!.

In life I’ve made a lot of decisions retrospectively of my actions!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to make quick, impulsive decisions and sometimes pay for it down the road. Which explains why I drive an Alfa Romeo!

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

So for me I guess in non important things I'm frivolous and impulsive but for the important things in life I'm quite serious

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I subscribe to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fast and furious...... Shop bought is frothy cos the milk is foamed but home made 'instant' capuchine has to be vigerously agitated......

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

im very decisive cant stand ditherers

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Life too short too second guess

Get info make choice get on with life

Tempus fugit

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Fast and furious...... Shop bought is frothy cos the milk is foamed but home made 'instant' capuchine has to be vigerously agitated......"

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"im very decisive cant stand ditherers "
I am struggling with ditherers when they dither on small issues...I can understand dithering on the largeer issues.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Life too short too second guess

Get info make choice get on with life

Tempus fugit

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That is kind of my motto in life...

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"Life too short too second guess

Get info make choice get on with life

Tempus fugit

That is kind of my motto in life...

Was once told to grab life by the neck and shake what you need out of it

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

"im very decisive cant stand ditherers I am struggling with ditherers when they dither on small issues...I can understand dithering on the largeer issues."
even for major decisions i tend to just make a decision,must say though iv been wrong a few times,but i usually find a wrong decision has never caused major problems just a different rd to walk down

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