FabSwingers.com forum: Question...re: disability.

By *ouisa42 OP Woman
over a year ago

Nr Ely

If someone you were talking to disclosed they had a disability, which involved them having a colostomy bag.... What's would be you're thoughts, reactions, etc?

Even the private ones you wouldn't necessarily share with said person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone having a bag or any disability wouldn't stop me meeting them if I'm physically attracted to them and like their personality.

Why should they feel ashamed of who they are. An old school friend had a colostomy bag at the age of 26 and she showed it proudly.

She went through a hell of a lot with her health and felt so much better and was able to live a more fulfilling life agter having the bag fitted.

Why should anyone feel ashamed of who they are. If you decide not to meet someone because they have a bag or any other disability i think you're a very sad person in my opinion

I have severe visual impairment and something called diabetic autonomic neuropathy. The latter has caused me to have some very embarassing health problems but I deseve sex as much as anyone else.

Be proud of who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone you were talking to disclosed they had a disability, which involved them having a colostomy bag.... What's would be you're thoughts, reactions, etc?

Even the private ones you wouldn't necessarily share with said person"

I would respect that in a person and would make sure she was absolutely made to feel special

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"If someone you were talking to disclosed they had a disability, which involved them having a colostomy bag.... What's would be you're thoughts, reactions, etc?

Even the private ones you wouldn't necessarily share with said person"

Would not bother me as I am a healthcare worker and have alot of knowledge on colostomy bags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone having a bag or any disability wouldn't stop me meeting them if I'm physically attracted to them and like their personality.

Why should they feel ashamed of who they are. An old school friend had a colostomy bag at the age of 26 and she showed it proudly.

She went through a hell of a lot with her health and felt so much better and was able to live a more fulfilling life agter having the bag fitted.

Why should anyone feel ashamed of who they are. If you decide not to meet someone because they have a bag or any other disability i think you're a very sad person in my opinion

I have severe visual impairment and something called diabetic autonomic neuropathy. The latter has caused me to have some very embarassing health problems but I deseve sex as much as anyone else.

Be proud of who you are.

By you I mean anyone, not the OP.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

"If someone you were talking to disclosed they had a disability, which involved them having a colostomy bag.... What's would be you're thoughts, reactions, etc?

Even the private ones you wouldn't necessarily share with said person"

If the conversation had got to that point...it wouldn't be an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone having a bag or any disability wouldn't stop me meeting them if I'm physically attracted to them and like their personality.

Why should they feel ashamed of who they are. An old school friend had a colostomy bag at the age of 26 and she showed it proudly.

She went through a hell of a lot with her health and felt so much better and was able to live a more fulfilling life agter having the bag fitted.

Why should anyone feel ashamed of who they are. If you decide not to meet someone because they have a bag or any other disability i think you're a very sad person in my opinion

I have severe visual impairment and something called diabetic autonomic neuropathy. The latter has caused me to have some very embarassing health problems but I deseve sex as much as anyone else.

Be proud of who you are.

Why would they be a sad person for not wanting to meet someone with a disability? So I should meet someone I'm not attracted to? Give them a sympathy shag against my wishes?

Wtf

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Someone having a bag or any disability wouldn't stop me meeting them if I'm physically attracted to them and like their personality.

Why should they feel ashamed of who they are. An old school friend had a colostomy bag at the age of 26 and she showed it proudly.

She went through a hell of a lot with her health and felt so much better and was able to live a more fulfilling life agter having the bag fitted.

Why should anyone feel ashamed of who they are. If you decide not to meet someone because they have a bag or any other disability i think you're a very sad person in my opinion

I have severe visual impairment and something called diabetic autonomic neuropathy. The latter has caused me to have some very embarassing health problems but I deseve sex as much as anyone else.

Be proud of who you are.

Why would they be a sad person for not wanting to meet someone with a disability? So I should meet someone I'm not attracted to? Give them a sympathy shag against my wishes?

Wtf"

It was the word ‘deserve’ that made me

sex is a privilege not an entitlement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a search of previous threads on this subject op. I can't remember exactly what was said on them, but I remember it to be an interesting insight into people's thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone having a bag or any disability wouldn't stop me meeting them if I'm physically attracted to them and like their personality.

Why should they feel ashamed of who they are. An old school friend had a colostomy bag at the age of 26 and she showed it proudly.

She went through a hell of a lot with her health and felt so much better and was able to live a more fulfilling life agter having the bag fitted.

Why should anyone feel ashamed of who they are. If you decide not to meet someone because they have a bag or any other disability i think you're a very sad person in my opinion

I have severe visual impairment and something called diabetic autonomic neuropathy. The latter has caused me to have some very embarassing health problems but I deseve sex as much as anyone else.

Be proud of who you are.

Why would they be a sad person for not wanting to meet someone with a disability? So I should meet someone I'm not attracted to? Give them a sympathy shag against my wishes?

Wtf"

No, I meant if they liked the look and sound of someone but said person disclosed the disability and they decided they wouldn't meet them.

There is obviously no point in meeting someone you don't like

I wouldn't want someone to play the disability card or as has happened to me race card because I'm not attracted to them. I would always base whether I want to meet someone on liking them as a person and finding their face attractive. Disability or colour wouldn't come into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never said anyone was entitled. Please don't twist my words.

I meant that people shouldn't be overlooked simply because of a disability.

If you like the look of someone and you click in messahes then that should be enough.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"I never said anyone was entitled. Please don't twist my words.

I meant that people shouldn't be overlooked simply because of a disability.

If you like the look of someone and you click in messahes then that should be enough.

I get what ur saying u are a kind hearted woman and op u should never be ashamed if they make u then they aren’t worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a no from me

Stuff like missing limbs etc wouldn't phase me, but a bag would

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

My partner has mobility issues and a number of neurodiverse conditions (autism etc). When we met it didn’t phase me, and we have amazing sex. I’d like to think it would be the same if I had a meet with someone who had a bag.

The only thing really to do when meeting someone with a disability is ask them what, if anything, you need to do to make sure it doesn’t cause them a problem while you’re with them.

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