FabSwingers.com forum: What is kinky

By *adboybikerxx OP Man
over a year ago

town near me

You often see a person with the word kinky in their name .

But what does this really mean these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything other than regular vanilla (kissing, oral, hand job and missionary) could be classed as kinky to someone.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Anything other than regular vanilla (kissing, oral, hand job and missionary) could be classed as kinky to someone."

I agree with that

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By *adboybikerxx OP Man
over a year ago

town near me

So anything other than whats the norm .but whats the norm really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kink is something sexual outside of normative sexual practices. In this definition what is or isn't a kink can change over time ie 50 years ago anal could've been seen as 'kinky' whereas now it isn't (although some people may still see it as a kink).

In relation to fetish a kink is something which is preferred to happen or be present during sex but is not essential to arousal.

The word kink could be losing some of it's meaning though and has a risk of becoming a banal word which shows to indicate someone thinks they are being edgy/daring.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I think kinky and vanilla are too subjective to define.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We have kinky in the title. We're really into BDSM and we enjoy group stuff, both of which I'm sure could be classed as "not vanilla".

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

It’s down to the individual, what is one persons kinky could be another persons vanilla

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"It’s down to the individual, what is one persons kinky could be another persons vanilla"

This

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By *adboybikerxx OP Man
over a year ago

town near me

Totally agree with you Nora

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By *adboybikerxx OP Man
over a year ago

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Why are kinky boots kinky

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By *adboybikerxx OP Man
over a year ago

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Now there's the invitation to a witty reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's classed as kinky to one person is just Tuesday afternoon to another

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By *adboybikerxx OP Man
over a year ago

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There still is a place for the unusual in our lives which could be called kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s down to the individual, what is one persons kinky could be another persons vanilla"

This is so true, everyone has a different definition of kink. A lot of things in Bdsm can be like that, it's always best to discuss in depth what something means to you both and what you expect from it, so you both know what your getting into and get what you expect.

It's all meant to be fum and pleasure, your way.

Spank you very much.

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By *adboybikerxx OP Man
over a year ago

town near me

Thankyou for that

Sir spank u lots of Bedford .

The maidens are safe with you

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

"You often see a person with the word kinky in their name .

But what does this really mean these days "

Kinky, when you make love you use a feather.

Perverted, when you make love you use the whole chicken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One persons kinky is anther persons norm. I suspect having sex with lights on may have been considered kinky by our great grandparents. It is all relative.

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