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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve notice a lot lately that I’m getting so much kink shaming for my kink of licking and tasting pussy juice soaked underwear why be a dick to someone who enjoys their kink don’t deliberately try to hurt them has anyone else had this issue I think all kinks are perfectly acceptable as long as legal

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By *upersoaker3000Man
over a year ago

Belfast

That's not on. If you aren't hurting anyone and it's legal, like you say, then I don't get the hate. Just because you don't enjoy something, doesn't mean other people shouldn't.

I mean even if you think something is weird, you don't have to call it out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly tonight I’ve been called so many names on different forums and messages just trying to find someone who enjoys it too there is no need to make someone feel like shit for something they enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s another site which is more kink orientated than one (don’t think it lets you type the name); have you tried anywhere like that?

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By *upersoaker3000Man
over a year ago

Belfast

There are plenty of pantie sniffers on here and I'd be willing to bet that anyone who's sniffing panties, is tasting them.

It's a harmless, quite tame, kink. Don't let anybody get you down, dude.

Fuck all wrong with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly tonight I’ve been called so many names on different forums and messages just trying to find someone who enjoys it too there is no need to make someone feel like shit for something they enjoy "

Your fetish is not my thing but there is no place for abuse. Report those who you feel are abusive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do you op and don’t waste your time worrying about them!!

Report

Block

Forget

Sniff

T

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"You do you op and don’t waste your time worrying about them!!

Report

Block

Forget

Sniff

T"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do you op and don’t waste your time worrying about them!!

Report

Block

Forget

Sniff

T"

Lol

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By *ip73Man
over a year ago

Stanwell

Ignore the haters and enjoy your kink buddy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter what you post on here mate you'll always have some whingey fucker who's gotta have there say regardless if its nice or not, you do you

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

Unfortunatley op seems to be more and more judgemental people on this site now,have noticed since the first lockdown started loads more joined amd treat the site like social media than a swingers site,if you wana taste panties mate you taste em,if anyone is kink shaming you perhaps this site aint for them

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I’ve notice a lot lately that I’m getting so much kink shaming for my kink of licking and tasting pussy juice soaked underwear why be a dick to someone who enjoys their kink don’t deliberately try to hurt them has anyone else had this issue I think all kinks are perfectly acceptable as long as legal "

I looked at your posts on this forum, and can't see any kink-shaming.

So do you actually mean kink-shaming or do you mean people having a bit of a go because you don't want to pay for the underwear and postage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll never understand people kink shaming on here. We all have our thing, if you don’t understand it, theres always people who will educate others on here if that’s what you want, if it’s not for you, cool, move along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve notice a lot lately that I’m getting so much kink shaming for my kink of licking and tasting pussy juice soaked underwear why be a dick to someone who enjoys their kink don’t deliberately try to hurt them has anyone else had this issue I think all kinks are perfectly acceptable as long as legal

I looked at your posts on this forum, and can't see any kink-shaming.

So do you actually mean kink-shaming or do you mean people having a bit of a go because you don't want to pay for the underwear and postage?

"

I also green arrowed him and failed to see any kink shaming from the forums.

This then makes me wonder if he has messaged people who are not advertising that they share his kink, and how he has approached the subject with people.

Quite possibly change how you approach the subject of your kink with people, by bringing it into a conversation rather than leading with it.

Good luck

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YKMNBMKBYKIOK

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm really sorry to hear this OP. It's absolutely not fair or acceptable. I've experienced a lot of kink shaming on here myself too. Unfortunately some people on here are quite close minded and judgemental which is sad as I'm sure they wouldn't want to be judged for whatever interests bring them to the site.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Green arrow... Fishing for free knickers mate?!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Green arrow... Fishing for free knickers mate?!"

Maybe that’s the issue then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Green arrow... Fishing for free knickers mate?!"
absolutely not no i fully expect to pay but also there is many scammers who just want money be there been scammed but also you say comments if you read my above response you will see it’s not solely on here you can green arrow me and please read my comments about being scammed but if that is your main concern that you think I want them free over being told to slit my own throat because my kink is disgusting hence why I wrote this for a bit of mental reassurance then that’s fine you look at the negatives not the person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Exactly tonight I’ve been called so many names on different forums and messages just trying to find someone who enjoys it too there is no need to make someone feel like shit for something they enjoy "
just to clarify again I’ve not mentioned this site there has been some and been blocked but other forums like other sites people strait up think it’s on here other sites are available

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Exactly tonight I’ve been called so many names on different forums and messages just trying to find someone who enjoys it too there is no need to make someone feel like shit for something they enjoy just to clarify again I’ve not mentioned this site there has been some and been blocked but other forums like other sites people strait up think it’s on here other sites are available "

So why post on this site if this site isn’t the problem?

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Green arrow... Fishing for free knickers mate?! absolutely not no i fully expect to pay but also there is many scammers who just want money be there been scammed but also you say comments if you read my above response you will see it’s not solely on here you can green arrow me and please read my comments about being scammed but if that is your main concern that you think I want them free over being told to slit my own throat because my kink is disgusting hence why I wrote this for a bit of mental reassurance then that’s fine you look at the negatives not the person "

I doubt that any woman would scam you if you're paying a fair price - surely they would offer a really good service in the hope you would come back for more?

Not much point moaning about other forums on this forum - if the other forums aren't providing you with what you're looking/hoping for, leave them be - they're only forums.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

OP report them. It's against forum rules to kink shame or be nasty to people on a forum board. They can say that it's not for them but I'm sure that's not what is upsetting you. People don't like getting bans so they will moderate their posts in the future.

In the meantime you crack on. Lots of other men will share these desires.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Define kink shaming. What do they say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow... Fishing for free knickers mate?! absolutely not no i fully expect to pay but also there is many scammers who just want money be there been scammed but also you say comments if you read my above response you will see it’s not solely on here you can green arrow me and please read my comments about being scammed but if that is your main concern that you think I want them free over being told to slit my own throat because my kink is disgusting hence why I wrote this for a bit of mental reassurance then that’s fine you look at the negatives not the person "

I think you will find we all have had abusive messages online at some point. Might be a bit extreme to say cut your throat but are you really taking it to heart?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow... Fishing for free knickers mate?! absolutely not no i fully expect to pay but also there is many scammers who just want money be there been scammed but also you say comments if you read my above response you will see it’s not solely on here you can green arrow me and please read my comments about being scammed but if that is your main concern that you think I want them free over being told to slit my own throat because my kink is disgusting hence why I wrote this for a bit of mental reassurance then that’s fine you look at the negatives not the person

I think you will find we all have had abusive messages online at some point. Might be a bit extreme to say cut your throat but are you really taking it to heart? "

Yeah i'm always getting pegged to death

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow... Fishing for free knickers mate?! absolutely not no i fully expect to pay but also there is many scammers who just want money be there been scammed but also you say comments if you read my above response you will see it’s not solely on here you can green arrow me and please read my comments about being scammed but if that is your main concern that you think I want them free over being told to slit my own throat because my kink is disgusting hence why I wrote this for a bit of mental reassurance then that’s fine you look at the negatives not the person

I think you will find we all have had abusive messages online at some point. Might be a bit extreme to say cut your throat but are you really taking it to heart?

Yeah i'm always getting pegged to death "

That is because you beg for it hungry bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow... Fishing for free knickers mate?! absolutely not no i fully expect to pay but also there is many scammers who just want money be there been scammed but also you say comments if you read my above response you will see it’s not solely on here you can green arrow me and please read my comments about being scammed but if that is your main concern that you think I want them free over being told to slit my own throat because my kink is disgusting hence why I wrote this for a bit of mental reassurance then that’s fine you look at the negatives not the person

I think you will find we all have had abusive messages online at some point. Might be a bit extreme to say cut your throat but are you really taking it to heart?

Yeah i'm always getting pegged to death

That is because you beg for it hungry bum"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve notice a lot lately that I’m getting so much kink shaming for my kink of licking and tasting pussy juice soaked underwear why be a dick to someone who enjoys their kink don’t deliberately try to hurt them has anyone else had this issue I think all kinks are perfectly acceptable as long as legal "

Are you sending a first message in that format?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Kink shaming is not on.

However, calling people out on behaviours which may/will cause upset or hurt to others is more than acceptable in my book, and if that includes something within their kink then it's fair game.

As long as people are happy for you to have a face full of their undercrackers then all groovy.

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