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"Interesting article in the news today about it. Never heard about it before.. Does anybody do or have done it?" Clearing out the pipes ? | |||
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"It's pretty much that and the rarity of it that lead me to join this site so it certainly didn't help keep my marriage going, just having occasional sex because you feel it's been a while and you need to keep your partner interested is not the right reason. " Sounds very similar to what we call date night, making time in our busy lives for us and of course it always leads to sex. | |||
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"Does this have anything to do with sharks? " I guess it depends if your partner is a shark. | |||
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"It's pretty much that and the rarity of it that lead me to join this site so it certainly didn't help keep my marriage going, just having occasional sex because you feel it's been a while and you need to keep your partner interested is not the right reason. Sounds very similar to what we call date night, making time in our busy lives for us and of course it always leads to sex." It's very different from 'date night' ........ very. | |||
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"Real news or social media news!  "https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/caprice-bourret-maintenance-sex-marriage-b1897421.html | |||
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"It's pretty much that and the rarity of it that lead me to join this site so it certainly didn't help keep my marriage going, just having occasional sex because you feel it's been a while and you need to keep your partner interested is not the right reason. Sounds very similar to what we call date night, making time in our busy lives for us and of course it always leads to sex. It's very different from 'date night' ........ very." Yes I agree, if it's sex through a sense of duty I would rather sort myself out, no effort put into it, I have to be desired and wanted not just have a sexual partner lay back and think of England. A date night is a conscious effort and pre-planned. | |||
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https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/caprice-bourret-maintenance-sex-marriage-b1897421.html"Thanks Tin. Tom cannot post links. Nobody taught him. The Independant has an article about it also and it quite critical of it | |||
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"The term maintainence sex is built around the idea of women having sex when they don't feel like it in order to keep their marriage alive. It stems from the idea that men 'need' sex more often than women and places a duty on women to redress that balance so that he is happy ... Once again the onus is on the woman to offer her body passively even if she does not want sex. It holds the belief that men can't control their urges and if they don't get it at home then they will elsewhere. " Yet in the majority of my relationships I've been the one who got turned down more than the other way around. Its so annoying it's always assumed that women don't deal with wanting more sex than their partner too. | |||
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"The term maintainence sex is built around the idea of women having sex when they don't feel like it in order to keep their marriage alive. It stems from the idea that men 'need' sex more often than women and places a duty on women to redress that balance so that he is happy ... Once again the onus is on the woman to offer her body passively even if she does not want sex. It holds the belief that men can't control their urges and if they don't get it at home then they will elsewhere. " Oh is *that* what it is. I withdraw my previous answer. | |||
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