FabSwingers.com forum: Adoration

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes this is a shameless and needy post but I've made it clear I find it difficult on here and don't feel desirable to many. Heck I've been blocked by half the site I imagine.

Please pander to my messiness and throw me a compliment.

Could you maybe try and find something physically attractive about me?

Not just my genitals or body?

I honestly really need it as I see a lot of women get support from men in the forums.

It is genuinely hard when you don't turn people on, especially those that are your type.

I'm delirious with exhaustion but also can't sleep so please just let me be fucking needy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d kiss you all over your tummy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love your style too xx

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I'd message you some support

Keep your head up and tomorrow is a new day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet u don't even msg back the guys who's really into u!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bet u don't even msg back the guys who's really into u!

This lad knows !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your towel and it looks it could do a good drying job.

Tony

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Really like your pictures! You have lots of sexy outfits and an enviable figure. Fab is a wierd place and not exactly where we'd suggest you go for affirmation of anything beyond the superficial. Even us, the nice ones, are looking at you with thoughts of play dancing in our heads.

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By *upersoaker3000Man
over a year ago

Belfast

You have a lovely figure. A beautiful face, with a great smile and your skin look lovely and smooth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You stunning with a wicked sens off style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gorgeous pictures,beautiful eyes and stunning body.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

You look lovely....do I look nice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very kissable face and wonderful figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't look at your pictures. I prefer to know the mind of a person so have gone off your bio.

You are clearly articulate, intelligent, witty and an honest person. I see you as incredibly strong and determined. Being beautiful inside is a wonderful thing, and your personal challenges have moulded you in to that person. X

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

If i was a judge in the Fab womens 100m kinkyfuckery final, you'd definitely be on the podium and getting a medal (by podium and medal, i'm actually thinking bent over a table and getting a spanking on that rather fine derrière...but you're still a winner

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If only i wasn't a lazy bugger who can rarely be arsed to try and arrange a meet anymore- and you annoyingly liking younger, good looking blokes....

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Nice teasing poses in lingerie. Lovely figure and pretty face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bet u don't even msg back the guys who's really into u!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes this is a shameless and needy post but I've made it clear I find it difficult on here and don't feel desirable to many. Heck I've been blocked by half the site I imagine.

Please pander to my messiness and throw me a compliment.

Could you maybe try and find something physically attractive about me?

Not just my genitals or body?

I honestly really need it as I see a lot of women get support from men in the forums.

It is genuinely hard when you don't turn people on, especially those that are your type.

I'm delirious with exhaustion but also can't sleep so please just let me be fucking needy.

You have no need to feel like your not desireable, you both sexy and gorgeous, love your eyes theyre big and beautiful, hope your having a fab day

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I really like your openness. I think it says a lot about a person when they can be honest and open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes this is a shameless and needy post but I've made it clear I find it difficult on here and don't feel desirable to many. Heck I've been blocked by half the site I imagine.

Please pander to my messiness and throw me a compliment.

Could you maybe try and find something physically attractive about me?

Not just my genitals or body?

I honestly really need it as I see a lot of women get support from men in the forums.

It is genuinely hard when you don't turn people on, especially those that are your type.

I'm delirious with exhaustion but also can't sleep so please just let me be fucking needy.

Continually baffles me how you are down on yourself. Amazing amazing body, lovely face, what more could you ask for. Said it before, top two set of boobs here IMO

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I find it very hard to believe that Fab makes you feel neglected, somehow. Just look at your photos!

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I have said this to you before, in a message and I will reiterate it for you, just because you asked nicely

You are gorgeous, you have style and you shouldn't NEED to have anyone tell you this. In saying that, it's hard to keep that in mind when you probably have a lot of bad messages coming at you (for various reasons or just trolls).

Keep your head up. As far as I can tell, any decent man would consider you quite the catch and a lucky man to have you.

Keep on smiling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry to say this.

But about a month ago the OP posted something very similar and asked for help.

I offered that help and after a couple of messages the OP completely dropped the conversation and then did not bother to reply.

I was left feeling that It had been a complete waste of time and if anything the OP was engaging in some sort of attention seeking game and had no other intention than that.

And here we are again, weeks later the same thing. So good luck anyone who reaches out to the OP like I did.

A waste of time and felt played like an idiot.

It's a game many play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it very hard to believe that Fab makes you feel neglected, somehow. Just look at your photos!"

Sometimes you can have the confidence to take the photos and still hate yourself and feel unwanted, i know thats how i spent most of my life feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen multiple threads from you and you've received endless compliments and lovely words from strangers, yet you rarely seem to acknowledge those who offer support after asking for it. And let's not forget you're also in hotpics quite often, which shows you are desirable to many on here. I've seen statuses from you where you've deleted all of your messages because it's too much. I've seen members who I know to be genuine, comment that they have reached out innocently yet been ignored.

I'm not trying to tear you down, but maybe you should think about if compliments from people on here are really going to make you feel any differently about yourself.

Maybe it's time for you to try a different approach? And stop seeking validation from strangers. You don't need it. You are enough without meaningless words from strangers.

And if you don't want people commenting on your body, remove your photos and leave your face pics up. It's a sex website after all where the focus is mainly on looks for many who are here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen multiple threads from you and you've received endless compliments and lovely words from strangers, yet you rarely seem to acknowledge those who offer support after asking for it. And let's not forget you're also in hotpics quite often, which shows you are desirable to many on here. I've seen statuses from you where you've deleted all of your messages because it's too much. I've seen members who I know to be genuine, comment that they have reached out innocently yet been ignored.

I'm not trying to tear you down, but maybe you should think about if compliments from people on here are really going to make you feel any differently about yourself.

Maybe it's time for you to try a different approach? And stop seeking validation from strangers. You don't need it. You are enough without meaningless words from strangers.

And if you don't want people commenting on your body, remove your photos and leave your face pics up. It's a sex website after all where the focus is mainly on looks for many who are here."

I think that sums it up perfectly to be honest. Even I reached out to you and you chinned me off, it is what it is. Not a drama.

I understand life isn't easy for you OP, seeking reassurance from here may make you feel better. You don't need it though, you don't need to change a thing about yourself. Be happy with you first before worrying what other people think.

I wish you all the best!!

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

After reading all these comments, I actually really feel for the OP. But as someone else who suffers from chronic low self esteem and self loathing, compliments about sexy photos from strangers on a sex site are absolutely NOT going to help your state of mind.

Wish I could suggest something that does help. The best thing I’ve found is being unequivocally loved by someone who knows you inside out. But I doubt that would be similarly effective for you.

Medication is also an absolute essential when you feel nothing else helps. I’m a Prozac girl, personally. Twenty five years and counting. Makes you stop and see the beauty in life, without insisting that your own beauty is all that matters.

Best of luck, OP. Hope you find your way.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I'm not trying to tear you down, but maybe you should think about if compliments from people on here are really going to make you feel any differently about yourself.

Maybe it's time for you to try a different approach? And stop seeking validation from strangers. You don't need it. You are enough without meaningless words from strangers.

And if you don't want people commenting on your body, remove your photos and leave your face pics up. It's a sex website after all where the focus is mainly on looks for many who are here."

This is what I was also thinking just wasn’t sure how to put it

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Lovely shoulders, good to hold and nibble

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Excellent taste in lingerie. Try not to be so down on yourself, you're fab.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I seriously cannot see how you would not turn anyone on. You are beautiful. I'd kill to look like you x

Be kind to yourself lovely x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I bet u don't even msg back the guys who's really into u!

This lad knows !

Would you message me back if I messaged you?! Or am I not your type?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What type of compliment would you find works ? What's the first thing that pops into your head when you read the sentence "rather than commenting on my boobs, why doesn't someone mention my ...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not trying to tear you down, but maybe you should think about if compliments from people on here are really going to make you feel any differently about yourself.

Maybe it's time for you to try a different approach? And stop seeking validation from strangers. You don't need it. You are enough without meaningless words from strangers.

And if you don't want people commenting on your body, remove your photos and leave your face pics up. It's a sex website after all where the focus is mainly on looks for many who are here.

This is what I was also thinking just wasn’t sure how to put it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP with 17.5k fabs on your face pic, you cannot be short of admirers and compliments...

So what is it that is missing that you think the forum can help to provide ?

How can we help you to feel better about yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand how you feel OP. But the problem is, you're asking for more of what you're already getting. You already have lots of fabs, you already have lots of messages offering compliments. And yet still you feel low, for which I empathize. I don't think seeking more of the same will help you, and perhaps you need to find a way to validate yourself, rather than going the validation of strangers will fill the hole.

Best of luck with it, I know it's hard xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand how you feel OP. But the problem is, you're asking for more of what you're already getting. You already have lots of fabs, you already have lots of messages offering compliments. And yet still you feel low, for which I empathize. I don't think seeking more of the same will help you, and perhaps you need to find a way to validate yourself, rather than going the validation of strangers will fill the hole.

Best of luck with it, I know it's hard xxx"

*Hoping

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

OP I've generally found that it's from the females of the forum you'll get genuine help about body confidence issues.

Sure you get countless messages complimenting your physical attributes with being on top of hot pics so often. But your OP suggests this isn't helpful. So I'm unsure what there is to be gained by this thread. As I'm unsure if you want compliments about your figure or on something else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not trying to tear you down, but maybe you should think about if compliments from people on here are really going to make you feel any differently about yourself.

Maybe it's time for you to try a different approach? And stop seeking validation from strangers. You don't need it. You are enough without meaningless words from strangers.

And if you don't want people commenting on your body, remove your photos and leave your face pics up. It's a sex website after all where the focus is mainly on looks for many who are here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like your new profile name.

Barbarella is a great film and it immediately turns my mind to Jane Fonda in those outfits and then viewing your profile and pictures my mind is looking for similarities and finding them in your body lines.

Probably not the kind of compliment you were looking for but it’s genuine, I have no interest in having sex with you as it’s not something I seek currently so have no other motivation than to just say what I think and see.

Have a good day and try to laugh more, a real deep belly laugh is worth more to me than all the compliments in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be kind to yourself.

We all have confidence issues and at times they are harder to overcome than others.

Reminds me of a meet where the woman slips into a pvc skirt and said ...' oh what am I to do..look at how much room I have in this ...and it's a size 8... ffs i couldn't have fitted the skirt round one of my thighs let alone waist.

We are all different and there is always someone who will be drawn to the package that make you who you are.

I've had to re learn to love myself as I'm heavily scarred, think Sally from nightmare before Christmas. I may be scarred but I'm a warrior and a strong person.

Im more confident now than I've ever been before and do get the occasional compliment and I take them on board.

You have to be happy with who you are and that will radiate from you, your profile , posts , and your being.

Good luck , and remember be kind to yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a beautiful young woman who loves a chat, which is perfect for me as I like to get to know someone first.

I know it’s not all about the body but yours is perfect and you have the most gorgeous smile. It would be lovely to chat to you as a friend first and see if anything else materialises. If not that’s fine at least I have made a friend.

You are a beautiful lady and don’t forget that xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you're in the right head space to get anything positive from this site. What you are looking for will only come from within you, others can not give it, only help you find it. You really need professional guidance not compliments from strangers. Start by finding the right help, the Manchester institute for psychotherapy is a good place to begin. I would also suggest learning something new, anything you've wanted to learn but not got around to yet. Turn your focus on yourself and away from seeking affirmations from complete strangers who can only offer hollow praise, because they don't know you from Adam. I can not make this any clearer, you are the source of your happiness and only you can let it surface. Please, please, please seek the right help from the right people and they're not here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think you're in the right head space to get anything positive from this site. What you are looking for will only come from within you, others can not give it, only help you find it. You really need professional guidance not compliments from strangers. Start by finding the right help, the Manchester institute for psychotherapy is a good place to begin. I would also suggest learning something new, anything you've wanted to learn but not got around to yet. Turn your focus on yourself and away from seeking affirmations from complete strangers who can only offer hollow praise, because they don't know you from Adam. I can not make this any clearer, you are the source of your happiness and only you can let it surface. Please, please, please seek the right help from the right people and they're not here."

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow

"Yes this is a shameless and needy post but I've made it clear I find it difficult on here and don't feel desirable to many. Heck I've been blocked by half the site I imagine.

Please pander to my messiness and throw me a compliment.

Could you maybe try and find something physically attractive about me?

Not just my genitals or body?

I honestly really need it as I see a lot of women get support from men in the forums.

It is genuinely hard when you don't turn people on, especially those that are your type.

I'm delirious with exhaustion but also can't sleep so please just let me be fucking needy.

You're absolutely stunning and absolutely sure you don't struggle.

Crazy all I hear about is women getting swamped.

Does make me giggle when the new gals say how many creepy messages they get.

Has to be 85% blokes on this site.

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