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By *ustyLeRoux OP   Woman
over a year ago

Brecon

So I asked someone out at my new job which was risky - and with anxiety too makes it worse. They said no of course because of working together. I did say hypothetically. I need a hug now

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Sending all the hugs.

Fair play to you, sometimes you just have to shoot your shot or you'll never know.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Don't worry about it.

I feel stupid all of the time without asking women out.

At least you tried.

Big hugs. X

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Hug x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sending all the hugs.

Fair play to you, sometimes you just have to shoot your shot or you'll never know.

"

Totally agree. You miss 100% of the shots you never take.

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By *ustyLeRoux OP   Woman
over a year ago

Brecon

I know. Just sucks!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I know. Just sucks!"

Well, no sucking this time, but maybe next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I asked someone out at my new job which was risky - and with anxiety too makes it worse. They said no of course because of working together. I did say hypothetically. I need a hug now "

Sounds like you took it like a champ if they didn’t see the funny side maybe your lucky

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

Good on you for asking...nothing ventured nothing gained!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I asked someone out at my new job which was risky - and with anxiety too makes it worse. They said no of course because of working together. I did say hypothetically. I need a hug now "

Look on the bright side, they said no because of working together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs and a kiss from me.

I've never asked anyone out in real life, and often hide myself away from the world. I always have done and at almost 30 I've never dated anyone.

You're much more fearless than I am!

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
over a year ago

Scarborough

Well done, it’s not easy but at least you did.

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By *ustyLeRoux OP   Woman
over a year ago

Brecon

Thank you all. Usually don't do it for the usual fear of rejection. Anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it, put yourself out there...don't take it personally well done for.foing it though, everyone's scared these days of the old fashioned way...*hugs*

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Thank you all. Usually don't do it for the usual fear of rejection. Anyway "

Be proud of yourself! You did a brave thing.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm stupid too ...ask me out instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm stupid too ...ask me out instead "

Wanna hit nando’s ? Or a day of fishing ?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It'll have to be nandos... all we need is a mild and a gilf to come too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you tried, you would potentially have regretted it otherwise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'll have to be nandos... all we need is a mild and a gilf to come too "

I think you need to hit the morgue !

Look I’m good company I like only fools and horses why do you need a gilf?

Seriously Fair play mate your out there having a go I’m joking obviously but you took it well respect that

Best of luck

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Carpe Diem....faint heart never won a bloke to go out with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carpe Diem....faint heart never won a bloke to go out with "

Absolute legend ! Good stuff I’m not even going to try top that

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"It'll have to be nandos... all we need is a mild and a gilf to come too

I think you need to hit the morgue !

Look I’m good company I like only fools and horses why do you need a gilf?

Seriously Fair play mate your out there having a go I’m joking obviously but you took it well respect that

Best of luck "

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Almost done this a few times and backed off.

Nothing worse than getting turned down and working with the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well good on you for stepping out of ur comfort zone and trying!! Rather than wondering.

Big hugs xxx

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"So I asked someone out at my new job which was risky - and with anxiety too makes it worse. They said no of course because of working together. I did say hypothetically. I need a hug now "

HUG.

You did a brave thing, you ventured out of your comfort zone, you grew as a human being.

You may not have got the outcome you wanted, but what you found out about yourself and what you can do is fantastic.

Take away the positives, wishing you a happier outcome next time.

E

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"So I asked someone out at my new job which was risky - and with anxiety too makes it worse. They said no of course because of working together. I did say hypothetically. I need a hug now "

She must have been nice!

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I remember doing likewise in a job I had to also get rejected.

Well done for putting yourself out there!

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