FabSwingers.com forum: Not to be disrespectful

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's this time and time again on the forum. Trans asking for straight men.

Iv been trying to get my head around that statement.

Surely the bloke would be bi and not straight.

Don't get me wrong I find quite a lot of trans women attractive never had the experience to be with one. So I class myself as more bi-curious.

So if you would like to shed a insight why trans ask for straight men that would be great.

Note be respectful and don't answer with immature corkish answer. No pun intended ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This. Again??!

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By *heHungStudentMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Cant say ive ever been with one or am really educated enough to speak on the matter but for a m to f trans they see themselves as a female as thats what they are mentally so wouldnt really see it as an issue for them to want to be with a straight guy any different from a normal women wanting to be with a straight guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah yesterday I saw a straight profile looking for other straight men for sex

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

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"Cant say ive ever been with one or am really educated enough to speak on the matter but for a m to f trans they see themselves as a female as thats what they are mentally so wouldnt really see it as an issue for them to want to be with a straight guy any different from a normal women wanting to be with a straight guy"

What they said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This. Again??!

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I do apologise if the question has been asked numerous times.

I must not of seen that post other wise I wouldnt of asked the question again because I would of known the answer.

The replys get a better understanding that trans portray themselves as the gender they identify as.

But I also see crossdressers asking for the same thing.

It's better to have discussions about it then assume because it will make a ass out of you and me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This. Again??!

I do apologise if the question has been asked numerous times.

I must not of seen that post other wise I wouldnt of asked the question again because I would of known the answer.

The replys get a better understanding that trans portray themselves as the gender they identify as.

But I also see crossdressers asking for the same thing.

It's better to have discussions about it then assume because it will make a ass out of you and me."

I mean, us trans girl are just aligning how we are inside (call it soul or brain, if you do some research there are studies about trans people “brains”) with what we have been, unfortunately, given body wise.

And yes, majority of the guys I meet see themselves as straight, some are first timers, some have been with 2-3-4 trans girls but mainly still see cisgender girls. So I’m just reporting my demographic.

If they like to call themselves bisexual, bi curious, that’s cool with me. If I like someone , I like someone end of the story. You do you, and only you can tell us what you like sexually.

Personally speaking, I do find it offensive when people say to a guy I like, “you slept with Kylie, you must be gay”.. because they are implying that I’m

a man. (And it creates stigma for the guys who then will feel ashamed)

And yes I was born a biological male, but hell I’d say I am far away from that

Hope this explains better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This. Again??!

I do apologise if the question has been asked numerous times.

I must not of seen that post other wise I wouldnt of asked the question again because I would of known the answer.

The replys get a better understanding that trans portray themselves as the gender they identify as.

But I also see crossdressers asking for the same thing.

It's better to have discussions about it then assume because it will make a ass out of you and me.

If they like to call themselves bisexual, bi curious, that’s cool with me. If I like someone , I like someone end of the story. You do you, and only you can tell us what you like sexually.

Personally speaking, I do find it offensive when people say to a guy I like, “you slept with Kylie, you must be gay”.. because they are implying that I’m

a man. (And it creates stigma for the guys who then will feel ashamed)

And yes I was born a biological male, but hell I’d say I am far away from that

Hope this explains better "

I would always address people by there identity as I'm not disrespectful. And I can completely understand that people born in the wrong body it's just trying to understand the terminology is used and why and that has been explained.

I hope you don't think I'm coming across as a ass, as the question wasn't intentionally for that. Nor was it to get a reaction just a better understanding.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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OP why do you care what sexual orientation any other person chooses for themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if the trans woman is post op and the guy isn't interested in cock then they wouldn't be bi or bi-curious.

Trans women are women.

I would tend to go with the view that it a guy is interested in a transgender woman's cock then their must be some bi curiosity there regardless of that individual veing a woman.

I'm sorry if I've worded this wrong and insulted anyone. Spme people don't want to be boxed in by sexual preference anyway. There are only four categories you can choose from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if the trans woman is post op and the guy isn't interested in cock then they wouldn't be bi or bi-curious.

Trans women are women.

I would tend to go with the view that it a guy is interested in a transgender woman's cock then their must be some bi curiosity there regardless of that individual veing a woman.

I'm sorry if I've worded this wrong and insulted anyone. Spme people don't want to be boxed in by sexual preference anyway. There are only four categories you can choose from."

Ignore all the typos when I say "worded it wrong"!

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Basically what Kylie said

gender identification and sexual preference are two completely different things

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP why do you care what sexual orientation any other person chooses for themselves? "

That is a good question but whatever answer I come up with the sounds really ignorant or offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think maybe the OP is confused in that a lot of the people he's referring to still have a penis and many don't want surgery to to have a neo vagina.

Naturally he's thinking that a guy must be bi to play with another dick.

If said individual had surgery then looking for a so called straight guy wouldn't be seen as any different. I think his question is very valid but the majority of T girls are into women and have no desire for surgery as they see themselves as unique.

The whole wanting a straight fella us in part for many, just a fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if the trans woman is post op and the guy isn't interested in cock then they wouldn't be bi or bi-curious.

Trans women are women.

I would tend to go with the view that it a guy is interested in a transgender woman's cock then their must be some bi curiosity there regardless of that individual veing a woman.

I'm sorry if I've worded this wrong and insulted anyone. Spme people don't want to be boxed in by sexual preference anyway. There are only four categories you can choose from.

Ignore all the typos when I say "worded it wrong"!"

I also meant on fab there are only 4 sexual preferences to list yourself as, and I think there are only 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's this time and time again on the forum. Trans asking for straight men.

Iv been trying to get my head around that statement.

Surely the bloke would be bi and not straight.

Don't get me wrong I find quite a lot of trans women attractive never had the experience to be with one. So I class myself as more bi-curious.

So if you would like to shed a insight why trans ask for straight men that would be great.

Note be respectful and don't answer with immature corkish answer. No pun intended ffs."

1st timers straight to bi after a first meet....

Just a wild guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all (maybe) sexual probably a conquest to be a straight guys 1st....

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By *oncupiscent_dreamMan
over a year ago

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I'm straight, and confident enought o admit some of them are so hot they make my dick bounce so hard I have to grab my laptop to stop it bouncing in the air.

So if I want to pin them to a bed, and spend the next hour having my passionate way with them, they see themselves as female, I see them as female, then what has it got to do with you?

It's not like finding a trans attractive means you will end up on a romantic walk with a man, with a beard, before he shoves his dick down your throat and then you think "liking that trans turned me bi". It don't work like that, and if you think it does then you just need to accept your view of the world is small.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexuality is a spectrum and only having a few choices makes it difficult.

If I'm in a certain mood I get turned on by cock or if an oppurtunity arose to suck cock or be sucked by a person with a cock (pun?) then I wouldn't turn it down.

For Fab's purposes I would use bi-curious but I don't seek out cock nor find men attractive and I don't identify as bi. But I would say my sexuality fluctuates.

If a trans person (transitioned or not) or t-girl or CD turned me on and I was in the mood then why not? It's all experiences.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Because she's a woman, many call their anus a vagina, and just because some have a penis doesn't mean they want to stick in a man, let alone someone else touch it. There are many many many different layers for a trans woman and lots of views on them which are stereotypes unfortunately, hope this helps

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Gynosexuality, sometimes spelled gynesexuality, describes someone who's attracted to femininity. That means a person of any gender can be attracted to someone who identifies as female or who expresses feminine characteristics.

This is something I discovered recently and think it sums up some of the guys who messages the TV/TS people on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This. Again??!

I do apologise if the question has been asked numerous times.

I must not of seen that post other wise I wouldnt of asked the question again because I would of known the answer.

The replys get a better understanding that trans portray themselves as the gender they identify as.

But I also see crossdressers asking for the same thing.

It's better to have discussions about it then assume because it will make a ass out of you and me.

If they like to call themselves bisexual, bi curious, that’s cool with me. If I like someone , I like someone end of the story. You do you, and only you can tell us what you like sexually.

Personally speaking, I do find it offensive when people say to a guy I like, “you slept with Kylie, you must be gay”.. because they are implying that I’m

a man. (And it creates stigma for the guys who then will feel ashamed)

And yes I was born a biological male, but hell I’d say I am far away from that

Hope this explains better

I hope you don't think I'm coming across as a ass, as the question wasn't intentionally for that. Nor was it to get a reaction just a better understanding."

It wasn’t U in particular, just the topic lol

It’s like this hydra monster, we cut one head and two grow back and it’s never ending lol x

But hope you understood a bit better my explanation x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm straight, and confident enought o admit some of them are so hot they make my dick bounce so hard I have to grab my laptop to stop it bouncing in the air.

So if I want to pin them to a bed, and spend the next hour having my passionate way with them, they see themselves as female, I see them as female, then what has it got to do with you?

Exactly this!

Obviously trans women come in different forms like cisgender women.. surely we all seen some biological straight women who have very masculine features. Some like them, some dont.

Same with trans women. I will get my surgery done for me because I never connected with what I was given and it’s always hidden. But that doesn’t mean I’m less of a woman now, and that if guys find me attractive then they should ask themselves to rethink their sexuality..it’s ridiculous.

To finish off, I know some people can’t go past the barrier of thinking of how I was born and don’t expect to appeal every guy that walks on earth, and I respect that.

But can I have a little satisfaction here in saying that the guys that LIKE me , like me because I’m a woman? (That happens to be trans)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you know what?

I love you all (love you not in love with you all).

It's great to get an in-depth conversations going finding out more and more. And everyone has been respectful.

It's easy to judge without knowing people's interpretations and insights.

I think me going to a club would help see where I stand, as this part of me is very new.

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead

"What's this time and time again on the forum. Trans asking for straight men.

Iv been trying to get my head around that statement.

Surely the bloke would be bi and not straight.

Don't get me wrong I find quite a lot of trans women attractive never had the experience to be with one. So I class myself as more bi-curious.

So if you would like to shed a insight why trans ask for straight men that would be great.

Note be respectful and don't answer with immature corkish answer. No pun intended ffs."

What about all the 'straight' guys jumping into other guys inboxes, telling them how hot they are and how much they want to shag them?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's this time and time again on the forum. Trans asking for straight men.

Iv been trying to get my head around that statement.

Surely the bloke would be bi and not straight.

Don't get me wrong I find quite a lot of trans women attractive never had the experience to be with one. So I class myself as more bi-curious.

So if you would like to shed a insight why trans ask for straight men that would be great.

Note be respectful and don't answer with immature corkish answer. No pun intended ffs.

What about all the 'straight' guys jumping into other guys inboxes, telling them how hot they are and how much they want to shag them?.."

Cisgender Guys who are into cisgender guys clearly are in the side of the spectrum of bisexual/curious or gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's this time and time again on the forum. Trans asking for straight men.

Iv been trying to get my head around that statement.

Surely the bloke would be bi and not straight.

Don't get me wrong I find quite a lot of trans women attractive never had the experience to be with one. So I class myself as more bi-curious.

So if you would like to shed a insight why trans ask for straight men that would be great.

Note be respectful and don't answer with immature corkish answer. No pun intended ffs.

What about all the 'straight' guys jumping into other guys inboxes, telling them how hot they are and how much they want to shag them?..

Cisgender Guys who are into cisgender guys clearly are in the side of the spectrum of bisexual/curious or gay. "

*on the

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead

"What's this time and time again on the forum. Trans asking for straight men.

Iv been trying to get my head around that statement.

Surely the bloke would be bi and not straight.

Don't get me wrong I find quite a lot of trans women attractive never had the experience to be with one. So I class myself as more bi-curious.

So if you would like to shed a insight why trans ask for straight men that would be great.

Note be respectful and don't answer with immature corkish answer. No pun intended ffs.

What about all the 'straight' guys jumping into other guys inboxes, telling them how hot they are and how much they want to shag them?..

Cisgender Guys who are into cisgender guys clearly are in the side of the spectrum of bisexual/curious or gay. "

I just don't understand the whole hiding your sensuality, particularly in a site such as this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's this time and time again on the forum. Trans asking for straight men.

Iv been trying to get my head around that statement.

Surely the bloke would be bi and not straight.

Don't get me wrong I find quite a lot of trans women attractive never had the experience to be with one. So I class myself as more bi-curious.

So if you would like to shed a insight why trans ask for straight men that would be great.

Note be respectful and don't answer with immature corkish answer. No pun intended ffs.

What about all the 'straight' guys jumping into other guys inboxes, telling them how hot they are and how much they want to shag them?..

Cisgender Guys who are into cisgender guys clearly are in the side of the spectrum of bisexual/curious or gay.

I just don't understand the whole hiding your sensuality, particularly in a site such as this..."

Social stigma? Years and years of it! Sadly but true..

I met a guy last week who told me somehow, he was open to his mates, and admitted to having sex with a couple of trans women, and enjoyed it. Apparently they were inquisitive about it and wanted to know what’s it like

But u know, some might not be as open minded , and be judgemental instead.. (or more like joke about it in a nasty way)

I’ve slept with guys who’d refuse to say it to mates because they are afraid they might judge them for it.

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead

Very true I suppose...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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