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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It always makes me piss the differing levels of effort put into written veris.

Some are really articulate and some, well you've all seen them

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’d get that seen to. Doesn’t sound normal that.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

London sometimes

I hope your bladder control improves OP

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Verdi’s are a bit of a catch 22 at the best of times. You cannot get some until you’ve got some, and then it’s a bit like judges holding up score cards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verdi’s are a bit of a catch 22 at the best of times. You cannot get some until you’ve got some, and then it’s a bit like judges holding up score cards."

I never understand the catch 22 comment. How do you think we all managed to get our first verification ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verdi’s are a bit of a catch 22 at the best of times. You cannot get some until you’ve got some, and then it’s a bit like judges holding up score cards.

I never understand the catch 22 comment. How do you think we all managed to get our first verification ?"

tbf its easier in a couple but its a fair point everyone with veris had to get a first one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a fella having a go because he thought I should have bugged him up a bit more haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, if I read one more that opens with "well, what can I say about xxxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people who have verified ne have rarely put any effort in. Some people can't even be bothered to verify me at all

It's sad when I read so many very enthusiastic veris from men to women and that's all I can get.

I'm either just as rubbish in real life as people online think I am or I'm meeting the wrong people.

I would rather keep mine hidden most of the time anyway. I prefer a bit of mystery.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I love mine.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It takes effort to write a good veri and if they've fucked all the energy out of you it's just not happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people who have verified ne have rarely put any effort in. Some people can't even be bothered to verify me at all

It's sad when I read so many very enthusiastic veris from men to women and that's all I can get.

I'm either just as rubbish in real life as people online think I am or I'm meeting the wrong people.

I would rather keep mine hidden most of the time anyway. I prefer a bit of mystery. "

Maybe I should offer my services as a writer. Go for a pint and I'll write your verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love reading verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to write details in the verifications but that’s just me in general, I like being articulate.

The “great meet, does what he says on the tin” seem kinda wishy washy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m really not interested in receiving them in all honesty, it’s nice so others can see you are genuine and provides them with confidence you are you but regarding the details of the meet I’d prefer not to see or to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a fella having a go because he thought I should have bugged him up a bit more haha "

poor soul!!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I like receiving them but for me.

The ones I have from friends are enough to prove I'm real, and the other couple are for me and my memories.

I do like writing them though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people who have verified ne have rarely put any effort in. Some people can't even be bothered to verify me at all

It's sad when I read so many very enthusiastic veris from men to women and that's all I can get.

I'm either just as rubbish in real life as people online think I am or I'm meeting the wrong people.

I would rather keep mine hidden most of the time anyway. I prefer a bit of mystery.

Maybe I should offer my services as a writer. Go for a pint and I'll write your verification. "

You'll have to fill it with lies then. I'll be expecting an amazing review.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Another Time

Veris have little or no value really. Nobody gives a bad veris - this person is a complete f$$kwhit avoid. People can choose not to post them anyway. The only real measure they give is an indication of the person.

If its a bloke then most like sees them as popularity notches.

Profiles that say will not meet single guys and all veris are from single guys - shows a lack of honesty in their profile.

The measure of a person/persons is through communication and conversation not through veris, but people but a lot of stead in them.

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"I had a fella having a go because he thought I should have bugged him up a bit more haha "

What was he expecting! Phone taps and concealed cameras!! The fool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I see lots of people really leaving each other veris soon as they have met..

I tend not to as majority of the guys I meet on here dont put TS on what they are looking for , so I feel like I’m intruding …

but yeah , I love a good verification

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I miss my old ones, they were fun and reminded me of a great time with fantastic women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I insist that she leaves me a verification before we've even got down to business. So when we're having a Smirnoff Ice I fully let them understand that they need to right me a verification to a high standard, as the outcome will determine how well I shall treat their minge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like writing them and then reading mine back nice memories

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t mind social ones. Anything else I prefer to keep private.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I don’t mind social ones. Anything else I prefer to keep private. "

Wise move

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don’t mind social ones. Anything else I prefer to keep private.

Wise move "

Lol

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I'd like to get one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We should all play it safe and write our own verifications. That way, there would be no confusion, we can all let everyone know how genuine and amazing we actually are………

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I love all of mine, they're very complimentary! I did however take the Mickey writing one for a friend the other day and used all the clichés.

Don't pass him by

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I love mine. They’re all from friends and they make me chuckle. I enjoy writing them in a similar vein.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Another Time

You always get people in chat and forums asking for veris.

Does lead you to wonder how many veris are written by FAB friends for FAB friends who they have never met?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It doesn't bother me really what people write in their veris.Some people I met veried me others didn't either way to doesn't bother me. I'll veri someone I meet if they ask but I don't give explicit veris.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its a verification not a review.

If you want it to be erotica then you do you, but I do toll my eyes any time I read about how big and girthy or wet and squirty someone is.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Funniest one I ever saw was from a woman to a man, all it said was "met him" in capital letters.

Miss

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think verifications give a little clue to the type of person/people they are. Especially if there is similar recurring comments.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I love mine. They’re all from friends and they make me chuckle. I enjoy writing them in a similar vein. "

Same as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people who have verified ne have rarely put any effort in. Some people can't even be bothered to verify me at all

It's sad when I read so many very enthusiastic veris from men to women and that's all I can get.

I'm either just as rubbish in real life as people online think I am or I'm meeting the wrong people.

I would rather keep mine hidden most of the time anyway. I prefer a bit of mystery.

Maybe I should offer my services as a writer. Go for a pint and I'll write your verification.

You'll have to fill it with lies then. I'll be expecting an amazing review."

No lies, just creative writing.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

Then there are those that may be written to help offload a less than ideal match onto others.

You need to read between the lines.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I don't need a 1500 word essay on my amazingness.

Yes we met, yes I'm real.

Job done, anything more is a Brucie bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had a guy asking me to hide the verification I left him this morning as he's bombarded with men viewing his profile...

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I have two that you would split your sides laughing at they were written by quick witted, articulate males! Very amusing! The most recent one was absolutely ace but I’m buggered if I’m going to declare it

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

We all have our likes and dislikes. I'm not a fan of reading the whole chapter and verse of what happened and the details...

I show some that were from an organised social, think that's enough to show I'm real.

The ones from private meets are exactly that...private.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It takes effort to write a good veri and if they've fucked all the energy out of you it's just not happening."

Amen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its a verification not a review.

If you want it to be erotica then you do you, but I do toll my eyes any time I read about how big and girthy or wet and squirty someone is."

It was more an observation, on how different verifications can we written

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then there are those that may be written to help offload a less than ideal match onto others.

You need to read between the lines. "

That explains why I have good veris!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think verifications give a little clue to the type of person/people they are. Especially if there is similar recurring comments.

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I think veris only give clues about the people who wrote them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There must be hundreds of beds soaked in the uk

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We found it very easy to get our first veri. We put a meet up on a Wednesday for a weekend meet, a lovely woman contacted us on Thursday and on Saturday we were enjoying an FFM with her, and then she left us a veri on Sunday (Thank you Craig David).

Admittedly, that gave us a very distorted impression of how easy it was to meet lovely women on Fab for FFMs, but for a while we were living the dream!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We found it very easy to get our first veri. We put a meet up on a Wednesday for a weekend meet, a lovely woman contacted us on Thursday and on Saturday we were enjoying an FFM with her, and then she left us a veri on Sunday (Thank you Craig David).

Admittedly, that gave us a very distorted impression of how easy it was to meet lovely women on Fab for FFMs, but for a while we were living the dream! "

...and then you woke up...

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"We found it very easy to get our first veri. We put a meet up on a Wednesday for a weekend meet, a lovely woman contacted us on Thursday and on Saturday we were enjoying an FFM with her, and then she left us a veri on Sunday (Thank you Craig David).

Admittedly, that gave us a very distorted impression of how easy it was to meet lovely women on Fab for FFMs, but for a while we were living the dream!

...and then you woke up... "

Yes...but the reality has been pretty fantastic anyway!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We had some really funny ones that we lost when people left which I was gutted about, I don’t get why that happens, why can’t the veri stay under person no longer on site? I used to like reading them when I wanted a reminder of the fun and a giggle

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....


"I like writing them and then reading mine back nice memories "

Same here unless they're really ott and way too much information, those don't get shown as they make me cringe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had some really funny ones that we lost when people left which I was gutted about, I don’t get why that happens, why can’t the veri stay under person no longer on site? I used to like reading them when I wanted a reminder of the fun and a giggle "

Same here I have quite a few that have gone because they have left the site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a verification not a review.

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Exactly. The whole purpose is to confirm that the person is real and turns up.

I'm not interested in reading about what went on and how wonderful it was because everyone is different

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes Departure Lounge in NN9

I have neither received or given verifications during my time on Fab nor do I wish to.

In life outside of Fab I never give feedback for any service I have received or any items I have purchased, the whole system is alien to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do miss having any veri's and those little reminders of people. Im not very good at writing them for others but I do like reading them, they give another insight into character.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have them as it helped getting access the forums and it let's people know in "genuine". I did have a couple of amazing ones and have wrote some decent ones in the past but because they were very positive but not overtly sexual it attracted alot of the "creepy question askers" on fab. Also people were bugging those I had met to have threesomes with me without talking to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love reading verifications "

Can't beat a good veri . Read away .. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had some really funny ones that we lost when people left which I was gutted about, I don’t get why that happens, why can’t the veri stay under person no longer on site? I used to like reading them when I wanted a reminder of the fun and a giggle

Same here I have quite a few that have gone because they have left the site!"

I lost a fair few during lockdown . They will be back. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^ For anyone wondering why there are so few women in this site, it's because they're all with Mr Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^ For anyone wondering why there are so few women in this site, it's because they're all with Mr Nice "

I know!! he's making me graft like mad . I need to change my avatar to a willy or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^ For anyone wondering why there are so few women in this site, it's because they're all with Mr Nice "

Kitty . That's made me spit out my coffee..Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^ For anyone wondering why there are so few women in this site, it's because they're all with Mr Nice

Kitty . That's made me spit out my coffee..Lol "

I'm told it's rude to spit. Shocking behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^ For anyone wondering why there are so few women in this site, it's because they're all with Mr Nice "

Ahhhh Mr nice he’s a great bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^ For anyone wondering why there are so few women in this site, it's because they're all with Mr Nice

Ahhhh Mr nice he’s a great bloke "

He doesn't need more verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^ For anyone wondering why there are so few women in this site, it's because they're all with Mr Nice

Ahhhh Mr nice he’s a great bloke "

So are you matey . And yes its rude to spit ..Ha

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

nottingham

At least you’ve got them!

The few women I’ve met don’t want to veri me because it will upset their other “friends.”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least you’ve got them!

The few women I’ve met don’t want to veri me because it will upset their other “friends.” "

Gotta love a good veri . Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are a show of appreciation to the person you meet - not vital nor in some cases not needed - but a nice reminder of your time spent together, so they should be complimentary

J xx

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"It always makes me piss the differing levels of effort put into written veris.

Some are really articulate and some, well you've all seen them "

She sucks like a Dyson and squirts like a fountain and loves it in all holes... Treat her with respect.

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By *vriderMan
over a year ago

Chester

I'd honestly prefer verifications to be changed to a simple tick box style.

Is this person real?

What more do you need?

I don't like the social media popularity competition that life has turned into and verifications do feel very similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd honestly prefer verifications to be changed to a simple tick box style.

Is this person real?

What more do you need?

I don't like the social media popularity competition that life has turned into and verifications do feel very similar. "

We all use fab in our different ways.Each to their own I guess.

For me it's nice to read veris as you can get a feel for that person . I also like to read the veris people leave.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Its a verification not a review.

If you want it to be erotica then you do you, but I do toll my eyes any time I read about how big and girthy or wet and squirty someone is."

All my hidden veris talk about how big and girthy I am

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

I like the funny ones.

There's a TripAdvisor Veri on here which made me chuckle.

E

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I'd honestly prefer verifications to be changed to a simple tick box style.

Is this person real?

What more do you need?

I don't like the social media popularity competition that life has turned into and verifications do feel very similar. "

You can do that if you wish in the manage verifications part of your account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It always makes me piss the differing levels of effort put into written veris.

Some are really articulate and some, well you've all seen them "

For one of my best friends here I did a one sentence one. Don't think we fell out after that.

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

I just wish that they weren’t removed when the poster leaves fab. I think I have in the region of 15 veri’s or similar, but most are from two women, who verified me, left, rejoined, reverified, left etc!! One of these two has left about 5 times now!!

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