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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know it won't happen but it would be so much better if there wouldn't so much generalisation... We are not apples... Just because one person is moldy that doesn't mean the next one will be as well...

Even do I understand why it is happening. I don't understand why is it so spread in here? ...Defeats the point of being sociable and open minded...

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Generalisation isn't in itself a bad thing.

It's very useful to sometimes be able to categorise different types of people, activities and... anything really.

When it becomes a problem is when someone focuses more on a generalisation rather than a person's individuality, or they treat them poorly based on that generalisation.

Treat everyone with equal respect, and their isn't really an issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Generalisation isn't in itself a bad thing.

It's very useful to sometimes be able to categorise different types of people, activities and... anything really.

When it becomes a problem is when someone focuses more on a generalisation rather than a person's individuality, or they treat them poorly based on that generalisation.

Treat everyone with equal respect, and their isn't really an issue. "

I get the part where... It's not about the tool but who is using it and how is being used...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just the apprehension that is in all of us. We are constantly having to subconsciously convince ourselves that a bad experience wont happen again. Most generalisations happen from bad experiences, even though it's not exactly the way to go about life. As long as it's not racially, or hatefully motivated. It's the way of all of us sometimes.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Unfortunately people just get lumped together based on some attributes. Gonna be years until people aren't...if ever!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Do you have an example of what you mean op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pet hate generalisation is that CDs are sissies and like being addressed like some girlie sex toy. Nothing further from the truth, in some cases.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Just remove the verb “to be”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it won't happen but it would be so much better if there wouldn't so much generalisation... We are not apples... Just because one person is moldy that doesn't mean the next one will be as well...

Even do I understand why it is happening. I don't understand why is it so spread in here? ...Defeats the point of being sociable and open minded... "

That’s the problem with people who generalise, they’re all the bloody same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or why it always has to be either "Apples or Oranges". Why they can't go along together.

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"Or why it always has to be either "Apples or Oranges". Why they can't go along together."

Exactly! I like all fruit

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I think it's just the apprehension that is in all of us. We are constantly having to subconsciously convince ourselves that a bad experience wont happen again. Most generalisations happen from bad experiences, even though it's not exactly the way to go about life. As long as it's not racially, or hatefully motivated. It's the way of all of us sometimes. "

I have to disagree with this.

Hey, each to their own.

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