FabSwingers.com forum: Why, I'm So Confused About The Desire!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For the pre-pubescent look, by that I mean being completely shaven down below.

I've just watched a brilliant programme on Lucian Freud and his paintings of "normal people" are sublime and beautiful, just like natural men and women so why do you shave down below?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cleanliness and he can lick my pussy without getting pubes in his mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Purely a vanity thing. Makes my cock look bigger.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I much prefer how it feels, both on me & others

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Why does having shaven genitals have to be equated to that look?

If someone shaves their head, is that the same? What about Armpits and legs?

Why can’t people choose to do with their body what they want without being judged?

To answer your question I (Mr) shave to help with hygiene and to avoid the peanut lost in a birds nest look!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Cleanliness and he can lick my pussy without getting pubes in his mouth "

What she says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I don’t know about the shaven cocks ... ballbags all looking like a turkeys neck and all that ..

Something I’m going erase from my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I don’t know about the shaven cocks ... ballbags all looking like a turkeys neck and all that ..

Something I’m going erase from my mind

Christmas lunch will never be the same again!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I just don’t like hair on my body. Doesn’t bother me on a man though. Personal choice I guess x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cleanliness and he can lick my pussy without getting pubes in his mouth "

Erm, most people own a shower and wash daily and as far as I'm aware humans don't moult!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I don’t know about the shaven cocks ... ballbags all looking like a turkeys neck and all that ..

Something I’m going erase from my mind

Is that where the term 'choke the chicken' came from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I don’t know about the shaven cocks ... ballbags all looking like a turkeys neck and all that ..

Something I’m going erase from my mind

Christmas lunch will never be the same again! "

Just close your eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I don’t know about the shaven cocks ... ballbags all looking like a turkeys neck and all that ..

Something I’m going erase from my mind

Is that where the term 'choke the chicken' came from?

we have a clever one in the house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cleanliness and he can lick my pussy without getting pubes in his mouth

Erm, most people own a shower and wash daily and as far as I'm aware humans don't moult!"

But it feels cleaner and yes! You obviously haven't seen the plughole after I have showered

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I much prefer how it feels, both on me & others "

Have others told you that?

I'm seriously nonplussed in this and am looking for enlightenment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I don’t know about the shaven cocks ... ballbags all looking like a turkeys neck and all that ..

Something I’m going erase from my mind

Is that where the term 'choke the chicken' came from?

we have a clever one in the house

Ain't just a pretty face

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"Cleanliness and he can lick my pussy without getting pubes in his mouth

Erm, most people own a shower and wash daily and as far as I'm aware humans don't moult!

But it feels cleaner and yes! You obviously haven't seen the plughole after I have showered

My hairbrush is evidence that humans do indeed moult to some extent

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Purely a vanity thing. Makes my cock look bigger. "

Really, does it?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Yeah I don’t know about the shaven cocks ... ballbags all looking like a turkeys neck and all that ..

Something I’m going erase from my mind

Christmas lunch will never be the same again! "

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I've yet to meet a woman with a fetish for organic dental floss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Purely a vanity thing. Makes my cock look bigger.

Really, does it?"

Not really. A magnifying glass does though

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"I much prefer how it feels, both on me & others

Have others told you that?

I'm seriously nonplussed in this and am looking for enlightenment.

I prefer how it feels & looks , that is my preference. What others think is entirely up to them and has no bearing on what I choose to do with my body hair.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why does having shaven genitals have to be equated to that look?

If someone shaves their head, is that the same? What about Armpits and legs?

Why can’t people choose to do with their body what they want without being judged?

To answer your question I (Mr) shave to help with hygiene and to avoid the peanut lost in a birds nest look!

With all due respect, do you have a shaved head for the same so called hygiene concerns? Also, what is the "peanut lost in a birds nest look?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just don’t like hair on my body. Doesn’t bother me on a man though. Personal choice I guess x"

Wow, so you've got a shaved head?

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

It’s getting a bit silly now. If someone doesn’t want hair on their body, surely that’s their business, comparing them to pre-pubescent’s and asking if women shave their heads is just winding people up!

You don’t like it, fair enough, how about respecting difference?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cleanliness and he can lick my pussy without getting pubes in his mouth

Erm, most people own a shower and wash daily and as far as I'm aware humans don't moult!

But it feels cleaner and yes! You obviously haven't seen the plughole after I have showered

Happy for you to let me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cleanliness and he can lick my pussy without getting pubes in his mouth

Erm, most people own a shower and wash daily and as far as I'm aware humans don't moult!

But it feels cleaner and yes! You obviously haven't seen the plughole after I have showered

Happy for you to let me."

You can clean it out if you like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've yet to meet a woman with a fetish for organic dental floss. "

Please explain

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I notice you have facial hair op, presumably that is your choice & you keep it groomed to a length that you are happy with ? Do you also cut the hair on your head?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Why does having shaven genitals have to be equated to that look?

If someone shaves their head, is that the same? What about Armpits and legs?

Why can’t people choose to do with their body what they want without being judged?

To answer your question I (Mr) shave to help with hygiene and to avoid the peanut lost in a birds nest look!

With all due respect, do you have a shaved head for the same so called hygiene concerns? Also, what is the "peanut lost in a birds nest look?""

And what about legs and armpits?

With all due respect you seem to have avoided those questions.

If someone shaves those areas are they attempting to achieve that look?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cleanliness and he can lick my pussy without getting pubes in his mouth

Erm, most people own a shower and wash daily and as far as I'm aware humans don't moult!

But it feels cleaner and yes! You obviously haven't seen the plughole after I have showered

Invite me over then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I much prefer how it feels, both on me & others

Have others told you that?

I'm seriously nonplussed in this and am looking for enlightenment.

I prefer how it feels & looks , that is my preference. What others think is entirely up to them and has no bearing on what I choose to do with my body hair. "

You are so right, it's your choice, I'm just trying to get a feeling what others think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s getting a bit silly now. If someone doesn’t want hair on their body, surely that’s their business, comparing them to pre-pubescent’s and asking if women shave their heads is just winding people up!

You don’t like it, fair enough, how about respecting difference? "

I'm just wondering why, that's all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cleanliness and he can lick my pussy without getting pubes in his mouth

Erm, most people own a shower and wash daily and as far as I'm aware humans don't moult!

But it feels cleaner and yes! You obviously haven't seen the plughole after I have showered

Happy for you to let me.

You can clean it out if you like

More than happy to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I notice you have facial hair op, presumably that is your choice & you keep it groomed to a length that you are happy with ? Do you also cut the hair on your head?"

I don't have facial hair!

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

You don’t like it, fair enough, how about respecting difference?

I'm just wondering why, that's all

We both know that’s not true!

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"I notice you have facial hair op, presumably that is your choice & you keep it groomed to a length that you are happy with ? Do you also cut the hair on your head?

I don't have facial hair!

Your pics suggest you do

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I just don’t like hair on my body. Doesn’t bother me on a man though. Personal choice I guess x

Wow, so you've got a shaved head?

Nope

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"I notice you have facial hair op, presumably that is your choice & you keep it groomed to a length that you are happy with ? Do you also cut the hair on your head?

I don't have facial hair!

Your pics suggest you do"

But you don't have a full bushy beard, so I guess you choose to shave your face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree with _etcpl. Why are people judged for it?

Personally I like being hair free on my body. I like how it feels. It adds to sensations down there in my opinion. I'd rather feel something on my skin than through body hair.

OP do you like your women with hair under arms and on their legs?

Why is it associated with a pre adolescent look? I'd like to know the answer to that too. We don't look the same down there as we did as we develop and age so where is the likeness?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It seems entirely sensible to me that since we keep a lot of our body hair in check (head, face armpit, legs etc.) that we'd do it down there too. Neat and tidy hair is generally considered better than growing wild and free.

It has the added benefit of avoiding pubes in the mouth, which is pretty unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why does having shaven genitals have to be equated to that look?

If someone shaves their head, is that the same? What about Armpits and legs?

Why can’t people choose to do with their body what they want without being judged?

To answer your question I (Mr) shave to help with hygiene and to avoid the peanut lost in a birds nest look!

With all due respect, do you have a shaved head for the same so called hygiene concerns? Also, what is the "peanut lost in a birds nest look?"

And what about legs and armpits?

With all due respect you seem to have avoided those questions.

If someone shaves those areas are they attempting to achieve that look?

I may have but I'm trying to say is "be your age"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I notice you have facial hair op, presumably that is your choice & you keep it groomed to a length that you are happy with ? Do you also cut the hair on your head?

I don't have facial hair!

Your pics suggest you do"

Do you always wear black?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"I notice you have facial hair op, presumably that is your choice & you keep it groomed to a length that you are happy with ? Do you also cut the hair on your head?

I don't have facial hair!

Your pics suggest you do

Do you always wear black?"

No, very rarely actually, but I do like black & white photos

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just don’t like hair on my body. Doesn’t bother me on a man though. Personal choice I guess x

Wow, so you've got a shaved head?

Nope "

Did wonder since you don't like the hairiness

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I spend a lot of money on beautiful knickers in sumptuous fabrics. Shaved, I get to feel those fabrics caress my skin every day. When I grow out a bush it holds the fabric away from my skin, denying me that pleasure.

I don't really care what anyone else thinks of the look or feel of it - I do it for my own pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for me it’s a generation thing it was just the normal thing to do as a teenager and I’ve just kept it up since. Porn has a big influence on pubic hair styles over the years too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it feels cleaner.

I have endometriosis, I bleed heavily and frequently. The blood and clots get matted into the pubic hair, it's gross and painful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me, it feels cleaner.

I have endometriosis, I bleed heavily and frequently. The blood and clots get matted into the pubic hair, it's gross and painful. "

Oh I can relate!

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

I don't shave..

I like the look of a full bush - especially on a man.

I find hirsuteness attractive. I also love to teabag... never had a problem.

As for the cleanliness issue - regular showers are the solution.

I hate the term 'clean shaven'; pubic hair isn't dirty.

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

"For me, it feels cleaner.

I have endometriosis, I bleed heavily and frequently. The blood and clots get matted into the pubic hair, it's gross and painful. "

I was coming here to point out that it’s a cleanliness thing, I don’t get on with tampons and having to deal with blood in my pubic hair when using pads was just a step I didn’t want to deal with so I started shaving. I felt fresher and cleaner and I’ve just continued to do so even though I no longer have periods. I prefer a man trimmed close or shaved as I enjoy giving oral. I won’t meet a very hairy man as is my preference just as the OP doesn’t need to meet with a shaved woman if that’s not his thing.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

I prefer the feel of clean shaven on myself but I'm too lazy to keep it that way, so there's often a little bit of hair there.

On a man, I really dislike a shaved pubic area. I think it just looks odd.

Katie.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I'm not currently shaved because I'm lazy and also not naturally very hairy but when I have been it has resulted in my pussy being more sensitive to the touch.

I get the perceived cleanliness aspect but don't imply those with pubes are unclean. Pubes are the bodies self cleaning defense for your private area. Plus us unshaven people also shower lol

OP I've seen you query the stray public hair in the mouth a couple of times on this thread? Has this really never happen to you? A little tickle as your down there and pull out a wirey little hair?!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"For the pre-pubescent look, by that I mean being completely shaven down below.

I've just watched a brilliant programme on Lucian Freud and his paintings of "normal people" are sublime and beautiful, just like natural men and women so why do you shave down below?"

Realistically, the modern trend for shaving is likely to be a side effect of the porn industry. Clearer and more "intimate" shots are easier to achieve without hair getting in the way, and from a cinematic point of view, wet matted hair is probably less appealing too.

Thankfully in the real world, people are not naturally devoid of all body hair and can choose to have theirs to their own liking.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Landing strip or neatly trimmed bush, best of all worlds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don’t like hair on my body. Doesn’t bother me on a man though. Personal choice I guess x"

Same here. I’ve literally lasered every inch of my skin (and I wasn’t that hairy to begin with) but i just can’t stand hair on me. It feels better also being so smooth

And I agree, hair in all the right places on men can be very sexy (unless they have a little carpet growing in the back, in that case trim a little lol)

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