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Does this put you off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Say someone messages you but they have a lot of photos showing where they've been?

Such as cock in pussy and ass etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes especially when there pics are BB

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Yes especially when there pics are BB "
that could be a long term partner, but as a rule, yes it does put me off

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Defo not my favourite pics personaly live seeing a woman in nice underwear

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By *mandajane01TV/TS
over a year ago

Ballymena

We all know where they’ve been and what they’ve do but we don’t like to have it put right in front of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like action shots in public, do what you want in friends only...but I would skip someone if action pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes especially when there pics are BB that could be a long term partner, but as a rule, yes it does put me off"
but if there claiming to be single though the pics shouldn’t be used in my view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say someone messages you but they have a lot of photos showing where they've been?

Such as cock in pussy and ass etc...

"

If it's obviously different people and they are bareback then no.

However if it's a cute guy and he has photos of safe play with older BBWs then it makes me more likely to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah puts me off

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Sure does.

I'm in no way stimulated by what or who people have done previously, although... I can appreciate an artistic or thought out photo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say someone messages you but they have a lot of photos showing where they've been?

Such as cock in pussy and ass etc...

If it's obviously different people and they are bareback then no.

However if it's a cute guy and he has photos of safe play with older BBWs then it makes me more likely to meet. "

By no, I mean it's a no go lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it puts me off but each to their own with what pics they want to put up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think me in a action pic would put people off anyways

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yup. Don’t want to see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes instantly put off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it puts me off completely.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Given we are not a sex meet only couple, lots of action shots wouldn’t put us off as we would be unlikely to meet anyway.

We much prefer photos that show activities that we enjoy, or that show off their bodies in such a way as to elicit our imagination.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not at all. This is a sex site not facebook ot a lingerie magazine

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Only because I will compare myself to her. Not because of what they're doing.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yep, on my single profile it does, especially if I can see more of other women than the man who has messaged

Miss

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Don't need lots of pictures - just one is enough to put people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all. This is a sex site not facebook ot a lingerie magazine "

I love your photos and so do many others as you always make the hot pics.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Not at all. This is a sex site not facebook ot a lingerie magazine

I love your photos and so do many others as you always make the hot pics. "

Thank you.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Not at all. This is a sex site not facebook ot a lingerie magazine

I love your photos and so do many others as you always make the hot pics.

Thank you."

Just shows you that many like the action shots. My photos are here to make you smile and hopefully brighten up your day during these tough times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm looking for a sofa I'd not want one torn open so I can see what's inside, same on here. I know what can be done with genitals I don't need to see it in technicolour, definitely puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a man yes it does tbh

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s a no from me. I mean I should be the first who penetrates their hole and no one else

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'm not the biggest fan of them no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it would put me off

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Yes, it would put me off.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Not at all. This is a sex site not facebook ot a lingerie magazine "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So glad I'm not the only one who finds it off putting! I have those kind of photos myself but they are kept private. Each to their own though, whatever floats you're boat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your* ffs lol

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

*Lots* of photos would be off-putting but a few in the act doesn't really deter me.

I have a particular fondness for tastefully posed bellend-in-mouth photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes especially when there pics are BB "

Bed and breakfast?

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes specially sperm on body ones.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No I'd rather know where they have been and getting up to what, then finding out about something I dislike later on, then I can make a valued decision on whether I want to meet them this is also why I like reading veris

Plus it's also helps with suggesting something new to try

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I find them off putting because I am always concerned whether half the "other parties" on action pix on single profiles even know their photos are out there in public.

Photos are meant to be up with consent but how do you even prove/verify that?

It doesn't sit well with me.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes. Totally

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Yes it puts us off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It puts me off yes it does, mainly if most of the photo is of another female. But it makes me a hypocrite because I have previously had a photo of me sucking my ex fwbs cock as my profile picture.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally puts me off, unless it’s a couples profile

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Not at all. This is a sex site not facebook ot a lingerie magazine "

I agree. If you listen to what is the tiny minority of fab members who frequent the forums (quite a lot often without any verifications at all) then you would be posting a photo with your top off and that’s it!!! Cock pics offend, Pussy pics offend, Action pics offend!!! Be yourself and present yourself how you want

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"I find them off putting because I am always concerned whether half the "other parties" on action pix on single profiles even know their photos are out there in public.

Photos are meant to be up with consent but how do you even prove/verify that?

It doesn't sit well with me.

"

Yes, I feel the same. It would definitely put me off meeting that profile, especially as I wonder if some of the people are even aware that the pictures were taken, let alone that they are posted on here. I wouldn't consent to pictures of me being taken on a meet or used on someone else's profile.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Only when it’s all action shots and there are multiple men and women, we can never tell who we are talking to, is it the man on the left? The leg to right?

Lily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a put off for me

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I find it irritating if all you can see of the guy is an inch of his cock hanging out of someone - they are meant to be photos of him, after all.

If there are a range of photos where I can get a better idea of him then some attractive action shots in the mix aren't my favourite but they wouldn't stop me chatting to someone, I don't find them a huge turn off or an absolute no-no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always does, I don't need to see them inside other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, completely does put me off someone. I see nothing wrong with lots of sex with multiple partners but I just think it's a bit grim seeing pic after pic of intimate moments all a different woman. It's like each woman is a trophy. I dunno, think it's a bit tacky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say someone messages you but they have a lot of photos showing where they've been?

Such as cock in pussy and ass etc...

"

No!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I find them off putting because I am always concerned whether half the "other parties" on action pix on single profiles even know their photos are out there in public.

Photos are meant to be up with consent but how do you even prove/verify that?

It doesn't sit well with me.

Yes, I feel the same. It would definitely put me off meeting that profile, especially as I wonder if some of the people are even aware that the pictures were taken, let alone that they are posted on here. I wouldn't consent to pictures of me being taken on a meet or used on someone else's profile.

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We suspect that many Women are ex-girlfriends or escorts who have no idea they're on Fab, some seem to use hidden cameras too. We recently opened up our filters and only replied to one single guy. He had the best written profile we've seen from a guy, and just 2 public pics, torso front and back. Each to their own of course, but looking on this thread certainly most (not all) Women are put off by graphic profile pics and text.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Say someone messages you but they have a lot of photos showing where they've been?

Such as cock in pussy and ass etc...

No! "

And may I say what a splendid profile picture that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find them off putting because I am always concerned whether half the "other parties" on action pix on single profiles even know their photos are out there in public.

Photos are meant to be up with consent but how do you even prove/verify that?

It doesn't sit well with me.

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Everyone I've ever asked who the other person is in the pics, they've said oh it's my ex. So clearly no consent given.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find them off putting because I am always concerned whether half the "other parties" on action pix on single profiles even know their photos are out there in public.

Photos are meant to be up with consent but how do you even prove/verify that?

It doesn't sit well with me.

Everyone I've ever asked who the other person is in the pics, they've said oh it's my ex. So clearly no consent given. "

That's awful.

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