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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How vocal are you when you're 'with' someone? Does it turn you on or off if the other person is vocal?

I'll be honest I'm quiet in bed and would rather not speak. I prefer to communicate physically. I've been put on the spot to 'talk dirty' and I struggled, like really struggled. I felt very self conscious and quite stupid.

This doesn't mean I don't find a vocal partner a turn off, quite the opposite if they say the right things, but I can think of times where I've been turned off too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar to you OP. I'm quiet and prefer the non-verbal communication of how someone is or isn't reacting.

If someone is vocal it can be a turn on or off depending on what they are saying. Barking orders at me would be a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 being quiet - 10 being very loud im a 6.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh talking maybe alittle but not alot of dirty talk

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Today I would be a fat 0 ! I’ve lost my voice and feeling sorry for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love dirty talks! Both saying naughty things and hearing it from guys. I’d say I’m a happy medium tho, so maybe 5/10 .. I feel comfortable saying dirty things btw

Regarding how loud I am during sex, maybe I’m

A 6/7 x x not too loud that I scream like a banshee (I personally hate it, I’m not a fan of very loud screechy noises) but loud enough people can hear me in different rooms lol x

I like my guys to be also loud on grunts and moans etc x especially when they are about to orgasm mmm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm vocal in the sense that I moan and cry out when something feels good, but I'm not really into dirty talk. At least, I can't give it, like you I feel self conscious. I've been with a guy who was very good at it though, and it was hot!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Quiet as a mouse me

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON


"Quiet as a mouse me "
hahahahahahahhahahhahahahhahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m vocal when I cum, and I love it when men are vocal too.

I love it when a man talks dirty to me, he can tip me over the edge with his words, and I’ve started to like doing it too, it’s about confidence a lot of the time for me.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I can't do dirty talk without laughing, but I'm vocal and noisy in terms of moans and grunts and what have you.

I like a vocal man, but not to the point that it becomes performative; I just like enough feedback to reassure me that he's enjoying whatever I'm doing.

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By *entlemenpipMan
over a year ago

not far

I'm verbal as I want my partner to be verbal I want them to know what they are doing right just as I want them to tell me what I'm doing right. Or what they want me to do to them

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Oh but I'm no good at dirty talk and cannot stand it when a guy keeps asking what I'd do to him, what I'd do to a woman, wether I'd get a woman for us..... All while I'm trying to suck his cock! It's rude to talk with your mouth full!

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Who can forget the famous Inbetweeners scene..."I'm going to fuck your fucking fanny off, you twat!"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ku6L8UupkG0

I think a lot will be at that level of awkward.

I do communicate verbally/audibly when it is natural. Anything else feels staged and comes out sounding moronic

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

I've been know to be vocal and use a bit of dirty talk.

Nothing too much.. but some.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

There’s a time and a place for filthy talk, and the bedroom during an FFM is definitely both that time and that place.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I've been know to be vocal and use a bit of dirty talk.

Nothing too much.. but some. "

Sodomise me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm vocal in the sense that I moan and cry out when something feels good, but I'm not really into dirty talk. At least, I can't give it, like you I feel self conscious. I've been with a guy who was very good at it though, and it was hot!"

See I don't even moan much, it's hot when a girl does it, I just sound like a bear. Although sometimes if it's very good then yeah I can't keep 100% quiet, just no words.

As stupid as I felt that one time, I did actually do very well apparantly, still felt like a twat though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There’s a time and a place for filthy talk, and the bedroom during an FFM is definitely both that time and that place."

I can only imagine.

Bastards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very vocal

And love some naughty chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who can forget the famous Inbetweeners scene..."I'm going to fuck your fucking fanny off, you twat!"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ku6L8UupkG0

I think a lot will be at that level of awkward.

I do communicate verbally/audibly when it is natural. Anything else feels staged and comes out sounding moronic "

Fucking love that scene

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I prefer to hear grunts, moans, heavy breathing and some filthy language. I’m not overly loud.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON


"I've been know to be vocal and use a bit of dirty talk.

Nothing too much.. but some.

Sodomise me "

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Hit the right spots and I am very vocal, not in dirty talk, but you would definitely know I was in heaven

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By *ookinforfun6972Couple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

I would say a 7 out of 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hit the right spots and I am very vocal, not in dirty talk, but you would definitely know I was in heaven "

Swearing

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Hit the right spots and I am very vocal, not in dirty talk, but you would definitely know I was in heaven

Swearing "
amongst other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am vocal and I do enjoy composing orgasming songs with other people activately participating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sing songs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to hear grunts, moans, heavy breathing and some filthy language. "

And this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a talker. Move here, do this, open up, don't cum ect. Aside from that I'm a bit of a heavy breather and a loud cummer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am a talker. Move here, do this, open up, don't cum ect. Aside from that I'm a bit of a heavy breather and a loud cummer"

If want someone to move I just move them them, flip them over etc. I can see how someone might enjoy telling someone to do it though, it's a different dynamic, both achieving the same end.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I am a talker. Move here, do this, open up, don't cum ect. Aside from that I'm a bit of a heavy breather and a loud cummer

If want someone to move I just move them them, flip them over etc. I can see how someone might enjoy telling someone to do it though, it's a different dynamic, both achieving the same end. "

Yes, it’s a very different dynamic - those who enjoy giving instructions pair best with those who enjoy receiving and following them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can definitely be heard, like to talk dirty to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the audio cues that the individual I am with is enjoying it, and by how much; it's a big turn on. The deep growls from a man is quite primal and extremely arousing. Equally, the moans and groans and sighs from a woman is just as arousing.

Dirty talk at the right moment can push me over the edge, but equally knock the edge off if not. I'm not a howler but you would definitely know I was enjoying what was happening Elle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 4-6 during and a 9-10 at the end xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t enjoy dirty talk but I don’t like complete silence either. I love to hear heavily bra thing and moans and groans of pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be a heavy breather with some moans thrown in. An occasional giggle has been known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate silent sex. It doesn't have to be noisy - just a bit of heavy breathing, a few moans or a gasp to let me know I'm hitting the spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate silent sex. It doesn't have to be noisy - just a bit of heavy breathing, a few moans or a gasp to let me know I'm hitting the spot. "

Sounds like me. Quiet but not silent.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No dirty talk just very "when Harry met Sally" vocal.

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I’ve been with vocal partners of both sexes. I am usually quiet maybe the odd moan or groan but I can talk dirty when required.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Not much of a talker but definitely not quiet, I do like a man that’s growls

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't think being vocal should be confused with being loud. As long as the person I'm with is expressing their pleasure (or discomfort as the case may be) volume is immaterial.

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