FabSwingers.com forum: The bits we don't love

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This thread started by NotSoPosh deserves to carry on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As promised to Posh last night. Me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done op. Absolutely beautiful

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Aww Sensual! Brilliant! And thank you xxx

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Darn right, chaps, anyone got a flatter chest than me?

Taken something I dislike and basically trying to tell it to naff off out of my brain using the only defence mechanism I know

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Darn right, chaps, anyone got a flatter chest than me?

Taken something I dislike and basically trying to tell it to naff off out of my brain using the only defence mechanism I know

Me when I've not got a bra on!!

Flat chest.... full knees

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Darn right, chaps, anyone got a flatter chest than me?

Taken something I dislike and basically trying to tell it to naff off out of my brain using the only defence mechanism I know

Me when I've not got a bra on!!

Flat chest.... full knees

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"As promised to Posh last night. Me x"

Beautiful xx

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By *ussylick84Woman
over a year ago

great barr

"As promised to Posh last night. Me x"

You look absoletuly gorgeous hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like lots I’ve always found it hard to shift my gut… but I will keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're all 10's!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aww Sensual! Brilliant! And thank you xxx"

Everyone deserves to be admired xx

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Big love ladies!!

I never used to show my jelly belly but I now give less fucks and I'm happy that my body is keeping me alive.

You rock!!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great original post and very liberating

I tend to look at myself as a whole and don't focus on one area. In tha past I found when I did get caught up in self critical analysis it magnified the issue out of proportion, plus it then highlighted it to others when they didn't see it in the first place.

I have found that I have a much healthier relationship with myself this way, the inner critic is now mute ipso facto I have a much healthier relationship with those around me. Win win

Elle x

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Great post!

The part of my body I've always loved least is my bum.

I usually try hiding it, so to try getting over that I had posted a few pics before, but I've just uploaded a new one

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Great post!

The part of my body I've always loved least is my bum.

I usually try hiding it, so to try getting over that I had posted a few pics before, but I've just uploaded a new one

Actually, tbh totally honest, the bit of me I love least is a part that isn't visible in photos, but I believe does show itself in person.

That part is my brain. I'm a shy, anxious, overthinking introvert... and I hate it as it holds me back in so many ways and I feel often displays its self as disinterest, when it's usually the exact opposite.

I'm fighting it though, pushing myself into situations I wouldn't have been able to cope with before and I'm getting there.

I'm starting to feel good about myself, body and mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Great post!

The part of my body I've always loved least is my bum.

I usually try hiding it, so to try getting over that I had posted a few pics before, but I've just uploaded a new one

That is one seriously cute arse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I used to keep a picture like this hidden. If it looked like I might be getting physical with anyone,I would show them this picture to avoid the embarrassment of their reaction.

My bum is vile,I won't be showing that anytime soon

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

My newest pics are brave for me, can't hold in the mum tum and stuff when doing yoga poses, I'm learning to live with all my lumps and bumps, some people seem to like them so why shouldn't I x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My newest pics are brave for me, can't hold in the mum tum and stuff when doing yoga poses, I'm learning to live with all my lumps and bumps, some people seem to like them so why shouldn't I x"

Very edible looking

it's a crime to keep yourself covered up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good on your all for having the strength to show yourselves off

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Aww Sensual! Brilliant! And thank you xxx"

Thank you for the lovely words in reply to my post in the previous thread. And no, I wasn't hurt in any way by your original post, how could I be with words from the heart about the truths of our humanity, showing love and support for all those who feel put down by the impossible demands of a culture that polices appearance.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"I used to keep a picture like this hidden. If it looked like I might be getting physical with anyone,I would show them this picture to avoid the embarrassment of their reaction.

My bum is vile,I won't be showing that anytime soon

Embrace it Hun! Be proud of who you are, it's taken me a long while to accept who I am and that goes for anyone you let meet you!

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I used to keep a picture like this hidden. If it looked like I might be getting physical with anyone,I would show them this picture to avoid the embarrassment of their reaction.

My bum is vile,I won't be showing that anytime soon

Embrace it Hun! Be proud of who you are, it's taken me a long while to accept who I am and that goes for anyone you let meet you!"

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Great post!

The part of my body I've always loved least is my bum.

I usually try hiding it, so to try getting over that I had posted a few pics before, but I've just uploaded a new one

That is one seriously cute arse

Thank you

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"My newest pics are brave for me, can't hold in the mum tum and stuff when doing yoga poses, I'm learning to live with all my lumps and bumps, some people seem to like them so why shouldn't I x"

Yes! Go woman!

You know I love your body xx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Big love ladies!!

I never used to show my jelly belly but I now give less fucks and I'm happy that my body is keeping me alive.

You rock!!

Jo.Xx "

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Aww Sensual! Brilliant! And thank you xxx

I'm so glad. Thank you for getting it and being so open x

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Everyone looks so good

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Hi ladies (and chap with the bum pic). I’ve happily fabbed you all - good on you!

As most of you know I used to be a regular photo tart - but after putting a couple of stones on thanks to the menopause I’m not nearly so body confident these days. I practically apologise to people if I get nekid in front of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to keep my legs hidden, there a bit skinny and a bit bow legged at the knees, was always teased about being John Wayne for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like my bum or my tum

Arse pic it is then

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Hi ladies (and chap with the bum pic). I’ve happily fabbed you all - good on you!

Just uploading a pic now. I think it’ll take a long time to love my new body - but I’m trying!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Hi ladies (and chap with the bum pic). I’ve happily fabbed you all - good on you!

Just uploading a pic now. I think it’ll take a long time to love my new body - but I’m trying!

You look amazing x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Can’t believe I’m making this public. Hate my tum. But for you posh and sensual. Limited time only! xx

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Hi ladies (and chap with the bum pic). I’ve happily fabbed you all - good on you!

Just uploading a pic now. I think it’ll take a long time to love my new body - but I’m trying!

You look amazing x"

I disagree - but thanks. I’m trying not to scowl at my reflection. Hopefully I’ll get there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am only full of admiration for all of you.

I hate my cock more than anything or anyone in the world.

I don't have the strength to post a pic of it however.

You guys are inspirational and it says a lot that I actually thought of it

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I am only full of admiration for all of you.

I hate my cock more than anything or anyone in the world.

I don't have the strength to post a pic of it however.

You guys are inspirational and it says a lot that I actually thought of it"

Personally speaking, I don't think others view us with as much criticism as we do ourselves - good on you for considering it tho!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted to comment yesterday but I got a forum ban

NSP your gorgeous and beautiful and so brave!

I wish I loved my body

I try to remember everyday that this tummy carried five beautiful babies into the world

So yes it’s going to be a roly poly of stretch marks!

One day I’ll learn to love myself naked!!

Your beautiful inside and out ! Never forget it!

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I have nothing but admiration for all who have shared pics, you are brave and beautiful.

I'm currently battling with my own body confidence which just makes me admire you all even more.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Can’t believe I’m making this public. Hate my tum. But for you posh and sensual. Limited time only! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This has been hinted at. Those that don't like us,don't matter. Those that matter,don't mind,or even love it xx

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"This has been hinted at. Those that don't like us,don't matter. Those that matter,don't mind,or even love it xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi ladies (and chap with the bum pic). I’ve happily fabbed you all - good on you!

You looked amazing when I saw you last week

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Can’t believe I’m making this public. Hate my tum. But for you posh and sensual. Limited time only! xx

Nice one Nora!

Strength in numbers ladies!

Jo.Xx

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Lovely picture OP

There is no such thing as a perfect body. I mean the body many of us hold up as the ideal in years past would not have been. We forget that trends etc change. When we try to strive for perfection your best feels like a failure and we miss out on how amazing we are.

And this counts for everyone of every gender x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"Can’t believe I’m making this public. Hate my tum. But for you posh and sensual. Limited time only! xx

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Nora, you are beautiful xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

We had a few messages about her pics - some folks just don't have decency.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"This thread started by NotSoPosh deserves to carry on

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absolutely amazing pic OP, well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great pics ladies, you all look great x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

People always say how lucky I am to be slim. What they do not realise is that food has been my biggest enemy since age 17 and although I am not overweight or underweight it is sometimes no joy being me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This thread started by NotSoPosh deserves to carry on

absolutely amazing pic OP, well done"

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By *ereforthefun1Couple
over a year ago

derby

I hate my stomach and double chin to name a few the other things I don’t want to say. Trying to loose weight but unfortunately goes off my best asset first ….. my boobs

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By *ereforthefun1Couple
over a year ago

derby

"I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

We had a few messages about her pics - some folks just don't have decency."

We experienced this recently

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"People always say how lucky I am to be slim. What they do not realise is that food has been my biggest enemy since age 17 and although I am not overweight or underweight it is sometimes no joy being me."

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

We had a few messages about her pics - some folks just don't have decency.

We experienced this recently

In short, fuck em.

Not actually fuck...you know what I mean.

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By *ereforthefun1Couple
over a year ago

derby

"I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

We had a few messages about her pics - some folks just don't have decency.

We experienced this recently

In short, fuck em.

Not actually fuck...you know what I mean.

I know what you mean but it still knocks your confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

We had a few messages about her pics - some folks just don't have decency.

We experienced this recently

From the Tesco delivery driver?

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

We had a few messages about her pics - some folks just don't have decency.

We experienced this recently

In short, fuck em.

Not actually fuck...you know what I mean.

I know what you mean but it still knocks your confidence "

It does, as it does mine when folk comment on my size but at the end of it all I don't wanna fuck em anyway - so their options is moot

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

We had a few messages about her pics - some folks just don't have decency.

We experienced this recently

From the Tesco delivery driver?"

His best day at work for ages I'll bet

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By *ereforthefun1Couple
over a year ago

derby

"I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

We had a few messages about her pics - some folks just don't have decency.

We experienced this recently

From the Tesco delivery driver?"

No he was quite happy

it was a couple on here

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By *ereforthefun1Couple
over a year ago

derby

"I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

We had a few messages about her pics - some folks just don't have decency.

We experienced this recently

From the Tesco delivery driver?

His best day at work for ages I'll bet"

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

We had a few messages about her pics - some folks just don't have decency.

We experienced this recently

From the Tesco delivery driver?

No he was quite happy

it was a couple on here"

Never understood that - if you don't like something move the chuff on.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

We had a few messages about her pics - some folks just don't have decency.

We experienced this recently

From the Tesco delivery driver?

His best day at work for ages I'll bet

I work with some drivers (not Tesco) and that'll be a break room story that the other won't believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

We had a few messages about her pics - some folks just don't have decency.

We experienced this recently

From the Tesco delivery driver?

No he was quite happy

it was a couple on here

Never understood that - if you don't like something move the chuff on."

What if the delivery driver hadn't liked it?

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

We had a few messages about her pics - some folks just don't have decency.

We experienced this recently

From the Tesco delivery driver?

No he was quite happy

it was a couple on here

Never understood that - if you don't like something move the chuff on.

What if the delivery driver hadn't liked it?"

Well he had to move on they're on a schedule

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By *ussylick84Woman
over a year ago

great barr

Dont matter what your size , i struggled after having my daughter. But its with age you no longer give a damn. We all the same , men and women . . We all sexy .

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Dont matter what your size , i struggled after having my daughter. But its with age you no longer give a damn. We all the same , men and women . . We all sexy ."

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Hi ladies (and chap with the bum pic). I’ve happily fabbed you all - good on you!

You looked amazing when I saw you last week

Aw thank you. I thought you looked really pretty - And you were really kind to my friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww admire you all and agree definitely need to embrace our bodies bumps too only one we have, stunning you all are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uploading one…… eek

Hate my stomach and my hips are mega wide, but trying to embrace it more.

You are all beautiful

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Least loved part of me is my belly and moobs have tried to lose weight before but never seem to keep it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uploaded. No pushing tits out or sucking tum in

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By *ereforthefun1Couple
over a year ago

derby

"I have kind of joined in for solidarity.

It isnt easy being bigger on here, for all the lovers there are a lot of haters. Fab isnt always a confidence booster and can do the opposite.

We had a few messages about her pics - some folks just don't have decency.

We experienced this recently

From the Tesco delivery driver?

His best day at work for ages I'll bet

I work with some drivers (not Tesco) and that'll be a break room story that the other won't believe

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

"Uploaded. No pushing tits out or sucking tum in "

All I see is stunning

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