FabSwingers.com forum: Husband meeting alone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been on here for years on my own. My husband has finally joined, with my blessing, I helped him set his account up. We are going to have dinner and talk about it tonight, I'm excited.

How do you think we are best progressing to start with? First steps etc.

I think we have both agreed that we would like for him to have his own fun, I've been having mine for a while here, it's his turn.

Any advice appreciated from anyone in similar positions

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think he will just be another single bloke trying his luck among all the other single blokes the small advantage he can have will be you being happy to say that he has your consent to play if you are happy to do that for him which might help him a little bit with those that dont want to meet cheaters etc etc

other than that hes gonna have to stand out from the rest of the crowd on his own

the other way you can help him is if you meet as a couple then he might get to shag other birds from other couples but if he has to go solo then its him against the all the rest of us blokes haha

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

He might struggle... A lot of single ladies won't meet men who are attached, regardless of having permission or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would say also set up a couple profile as well so that if and have both single profiles mentioned in the couples profile that way he can refer people to the couples profile

Or alternatively you can change your bio to say that he’s your other hafe

And hafe it in his bio that your his other hafe that way others can always contact you or vise vers for approval and such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples profile is likely the only way he will get a shag. Men need a woman to use as sex bait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples profile is likely the only way he will get a shag. Men need a woman to use as sex bait. "

I have to go along with this.

It does seem that wsy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sex bait sounds so icky

Thanks for your advice everyone

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Just make sure he knows his worth. This site can be very demoralising for a married man. The contrast with your wife's experience is profound. He needs to be true to himself.

Other than that, write a profile which would make you take a second look and take some sexy photos. Then perfect the art of the first message and don't expect instant results!

I truly wish him the best of luck!

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

"Just make sure he knows his worth. This site can be very demoralising for a married man. The contrast with your wife's experience is profound. He needs to be true to himself.

Other than that, write a profile which would make you take a second look and take some sexy photos. Then perfect the art of the first message and don't expect instant results!

I truly wish him the best of luck! "

Hot wives definitely are a sought after thing compared to hot husband's ( well depends on who's looking

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Definitely make his profile stand out with good pics and content, probably wouldn't be a bad idea to link your profiles too so us nosy ones can have a gander

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just make sure he knows his worth. This site can be very demoralising for a married man. The contrast with your wife's experience is profound. He needs to be true to himself.

Other than that, write a profile which would make you take a second look and take some sexy photos. Then perfect the art of the first message and don't expect instant results!

I truly wish him the best of luck! "

That is really lovely advice, I will look after him, thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just make sure he knows his worth. This site can be very demoralising for a married man. The contrast with your wife's experience is profound. He needs to be true to himself.

Other than that, write a profile which would make you take a second look and take some sexy photos. Then perfect the art of the first message and don't expect instant results!

I truly wish him the best of luck!

Hot wives definitely are a sought after thing compared to hot husband's ( well depends on who's looking

)

Definitely make his profile stand out with good pics and content, probably wouldn't be a bad idea to link your profiles too so us nosy ones can have a gander "

Thanks

great advice xxx

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

My partner meets alone but doesn't really have much success on here. He does much better from going to clubs if that's an option for your husband.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Well tell him to get ready for endless disappointments

At least he has you to have fun with, he can console himself with that.

He'd probably be best going to clubs than trying to meet on here.

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