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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Name one strength and one weakness of yours without overthinking it.

What first springs to mind?

Strength- calm in others' crisis.

Weakness- not very forgiving.

Go!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Strength - so chilled out I’m nearly dead

Weakness - when I blow I really do…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength : my mind. I'm smart and good at what I do.

Weakness: my mind. It can paralyse me and over think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength - so chilled out I’m nearly dead

Weakness - when I blow I really do… "

What is the meaning of blow in here ?

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By *onin27381Man
over a year ago

outer space

I know I will sound like psycho but...

Strength empathy

Weakness cold blooded

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength : my mind. I'm smart and good at what I do.

Weakness: my mind. It can paralyse me and over think "

Constant battle then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength- I’m deceptively tough

Weakness-I can be insecure (work in progress)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know I will sound like psycho but...

Strength empathy

Weakness cold blooded"

Why like a "psycho"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength ~ reaching high shelves

Weakness ~ ironing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength- I’m deceptively tough

Weakness-I can be insecure (work in progress)"

It's interesting how sometimes those things tend to be opposing each other. All our strength and weakness. Like fragile ornaments we keep shifting about in our heads...

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By *onin27381Man
over a year ago

outer space

"I know I will sound like psycho but...

Strength empathy

Weakness cold blooded

Why like a "psycho"?"

Because these are two extreme sides of me and sometimes one overtake the other and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength ~ reaching high shelves

Weakness ~ ironing "

Did you burn your cock?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Strength - so chilled out I’m nearly dead

Weakness - when I blow I really do…

What is the meaning of blow in here ?

dirty bird!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength- can be there to pull Someone through their bad times and sort their problems.

Weakness- I care and trust too much for the wrong people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know I will sound like psycho but...

Strength empathy

Weakness cold blooded

Why like a "psycho"?

Because these are two extreme sides of me and sometimes one overtake the other and vice versa"

I'm looking for more evidence to this theory

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength - so chilled out I’m nearly dead

Weakness - when I blow I really do…

What is the meaning of blow in here ?

dirty bird!!! "

I'm neither a bird, nor a lady.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength- can be there to pull Someone through their bad times and sort their problems.

Weakness- I care and trust too much for the wrong people.

Yet again they both evolve around same thing. Getting close to people.. thanks for sharing. I'm liking the pattern of replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength, empathy for others

Weakness, loss of focus (eyes not on the prize)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strength ~ reaching high shelves

Weakness ~ ironing

Did you burn your cock? "

It’s always burning… I think it’s the washing powder

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Strength - so chilled out I’m nearly dead

Weakness - when I blow I really do…

What is the meaning of blow in here ?

dirty bird!!!

I'm neither a bird, nor a lady.

Oooop north you’re most definately a bird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strength : my mind. I'm smart and good at what I do.

Weakness: my mind. It can paralyse me and over think

Constant battle then?"
yup.

I'm my own worst critic and I have been told by everyone that I need to just chill out.

But by being my own worst critic I have pushed myself to be better and at this point I'm terrified that if I stop trying to be better then what am I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strength- I’m deceptively tough

Weakness-I can be insecure (work in progress)

It's interesting how sometimes those things tend to be opposing each other. All our strength and weakness. Like fragile ornaments we keep shifting about in our heads..."

Yes, it is. I’m deceptively strong physically, but also mentally in many ways, but that’s tempered by the slightly insecure side.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Strength : Humour

Weakness : Tempestuous of mood

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength, empathy for others

Weakness, loss of focus (eyes not on the prize)"

I definitely agree with strength

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Strength: persuasiveness. I find it easy to sell my vision in work and get buy in on business cases.

Weakness: low boredom threshold. I never want to finish what I start because I'd rather move on to the next fascinating thing.

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

Strengths: empathy and ability to talk without breathing.

Weaknesses: empathy and not shutting up.

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By *onin27381Man
over a year ago

outer space

"I know I will sound like psycho but...

Strength empathy

Weakness cold blooded

Why like a "psycho"?

Because these are two extreme sides of me and sometimes one overtake the other and vice versa

I'm looking for more evidence to this theory

When you try to get close to understand someone's feeling but your rational side triggers cooling (or freezing) the atmosphere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength: I’ve got a lot of passion for the things/people I care about

Weakeness: I’m WAY too much of an over thinker

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength ~ reaching high shelves

Weakness ~ ironing

Did you burn your cock?

It’s always burning… I think it’s the washing powder"

There might be fungal cream on the top shelf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength- good people person I can calm situations

Weakness - I care too much….

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Strength - decisive

Weakness - enjoys only extremes of high and low

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength - so chilled out I’m nearly dead

Weakness - when I blow I really do…

What is the meaning of blow in here ?

dirty bird!!!

I'm neither a bird, nor a lady.

Oooop north you’re most definately a bird

I'm looking fwd to it in December.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength : my mind. I'm smart and good at what I do.

Weakness: my mind. It can paralyse me and over think

Constant battle then?yup.

I'm my own worst critic and I have been told by everyone that I need to just chill out.

But by being my own worst critic I have pushed myself to be better and at this point I'm terrified that if I stop trying to be better then what am I? "

A snake eating its own tail

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength- I’m deceptively tough

Weakness-I can be insecure (work in progress)

It's interesting how sometimes those things tend to be opposing each other. All our strength and weakness. Like fragile ornaments we keep shifting about in our heads...

Yes, it is. I’m deceptively strong physically, but also mentally in many ways, but that’s tempered by the slightly insecure side."

And yes your comment was another example of that.

that's why I urged not to overthink. Most likely given time we would have shifted our answers somewhat. Maybe they would be less intuitive. Or maybe our mind jumps to the nearest opposite thing..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strength, empathy for others

Weakness, loss of focus (eyes not on the prize)

I definitely agree with strength

Thank you, that means a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength : Humour

Weakness : Tempestuous of mood"

Motion for strength nomination strongly supported.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength: persuasiveness. I find it easy to sell my vision in work and get buy in on business cases.

Weakness: low boredom threshold. I never want to finish what I start because I'd rather move on to the next fascinating thing."

Those two resonate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strengths: empathy and ability to talk without breathing.

Weaknesses: empathy and not shutting up.

Each coin has two sides and all that. Probably depends who is holding it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength- good people person I can calm situations

Weakness - I care too much…."

I don't think you can care too much. But you can not give enough fucks about people who do care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strength- I’m deceptively tough

Weakness-I can be insecure (work in progress)

It's interesting how sometimes those things tend to be opposing each other. All our strength and weakness. Like fragile ornaments we keep shifting about in our heads...

Yes, it is. I’m deceptively strong physically, but also mentally in many ways, but that’s tempered by the slightly insecure side.

And yes your comment was another example of that.

that's why I urged not to overthink. Most likely given time we would have shifted our answers somewhat. Maybe they would be less intuitive. Or maybe our mind jumps to the nearest opposite thing..?"

That’s an interesting thought, but I think quite often the first thought is the true one.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Strength - empathy

Weakness - can over think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength - decisive

Weakness - enjoys only extremes of high and low "

What about all the grey in between high and low?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength, empathy for others

Weakness, loss of focus (eyes not on the prize)

I definitely agree with strength

Thank you, that means a lot.

Anytime.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength - empathy

Weakness - can over think"

On that note. Is empathy "over feeling"? Beyond self centred feelings?

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Strength. Resilience

Weekness. Self doubt

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strength: persuasiveness. I find it easy to sell my vision in work and get buy in on business cases.

Weakness: low boredom threshold. I never want to finish what I start because I'd rather move on to the next fascinating thing."

That sounds like me too

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Strength - decisive

Weakness - enjoys only extremes of high and low

What about all the grey in between high and low? "

The boring normal stuff ? Meh.

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

Strength - being a good dad

Weakness - being a good dad

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Strength - good in a crisis, supporting others

Weakness - Quick temper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strength - so chilled out I’m nearly dead

Weakness - when I blow I really do… "

This is me too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength - good in a crisis, supporting others

Weakness - Quick temper"

Thats so like me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength. Resilience

Weekness. Self doubt

Jo.Xx "

Believe in your strength. If only it was so easy. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength - being a good dad

Weakness - being a good dad

Are they being spoilt?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Strength - keep own counsel

Weakness - stubbornness

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Strength - good in a crisis, supporting others

Weakness - Quick temper

Thats so like me.

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Strength - building others up by believing in them so strongly.

Weakness - Self deprecating as a form of defence (slowly learning not to do this as much)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength - building others up by believing in them so strongly.

Weakness - Self deprecating as a form of defence (slowly learning not to do this as much)"

Funny how we can build up others but we can't sometimes apply same kindness to ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength...humor

Weakness...needy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength - so chilled out I’m nearly dead

Weakness - when I blow I really do…

This is me too."

You both do come across really laid back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strengh - adaptable / resiliant

Weakness - can be impatient

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength - keep own counsel

Weakness - stubbornness "

Who can you trust more than yourself? Though sometimes I think others know better what I need. And it's not always what I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength, a good listener. Weakness, not good at setting boundaries and saying no.

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

"Strength - being a good dad

Weakness - being a good dad

Are they being spoilt?

One has horses the other does motorsport...... I'll let you make your own conclusions

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength...humor

Weakness...needy"

I wonder if there is a way to use that particular strength to combat the weakness or just taking some control of it. Not just in your case. Generally speaking. Maybe we don't connect our own dots enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strengh - adaptable / resiliant

Weakness - can be impatient"

Adaptability is such a great quality to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength - my compassion and integrity

Weakness - took me ages to think of a strength, I'm too self critical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strengh - adaptable / resiliant

Weakness - can be impatient

Adaptability is such a great quality to have. "

You would be a great manager and motivator x

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Strength - Empath.

Weakness - Too quiet sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength : resillience / pragmatic

Weakness: i want to save the world,and get consumed sometimes and totally empty myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength: Sense of perspective

Weakness: Being passive

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Strength : I don’t need anybody

Weakness : Acting like I don’t need anybody

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Strength kindness

Weakness slapdash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength - strong and can handle some major shit

Weakness - a beautiful man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength : I don’t need anybody

Weakness : Acting like I don’t need anybody

I got you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength - strong and can handle some major shit

Weakness - a beautiful man

Come on LBC. They show their ugly side eventually.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Strength - I have a big heart and will help others if I can.

Weakness -I have a big heart which some take advantage of.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Strength kind to others

Weakness very impatient

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If we could take all those strong hearts together..I'm liking how often they get a mention.. and make it a temporary sanctuary for the the bruised ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strength - strong and can handle some major shit

Weakness - a beautiful man

Come on LBC. They show their ugly side eventually.

Don't say that!

I hope not.

but I guess that's when my strength comes in handy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strength - I have a big heart and will help others if I can.

Weakness -I have a big heart which some take advantage of. "

I relate to this!

At least our weakness isn't that we take advantage of good people. We are the best kind of people Chunky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength - strong and can handle some major shit

Weakness - a beautiful man

Come on LBC. They show their ugly side eventually.

Don't say that!

I hope not.

but I guess that's when my strength comes in handy.

I've noticed it always is a remedy if one knows how to use their strength

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

Strength: creativity

Weakness: procrastination.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I can't distinguish between the strength and weaknesses. My greatest strengths are also my greatest weaknesses. It very much depends on the situation and people involved which one it is.

For me my greatest strength/weakness is my openess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't distinguish between the strength and weaknesses. My greatest strengths are also my greatest weaknesses. It very much depends on the situation and people involved which one it is.

For me my greatest strength/weakness is my openess. "

Or ability to think logically

nice wrap up Frida. X

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