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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone

I’m curious to know, with being fairly new to fab, what are your expectations once the physical act of foreplay, or sex is over? Cuddles, chat, tickles and giggles?

None of the above?

I appreciate everyone has a different opinion - I’m just keen to see what the majority prefer! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wipe my dick on the curtains on the way out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles and chat… definately xxx

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing, cuddling and talking.

Intimacy for me doesn't start and end with sex. Never has.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Deffo some cuddles , snacks and drinks , watch some crap and go again a while later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A shower

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Someone beat you to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddle, chat, drink, kiss then more foreplay.

Or… get out Sam, I told you not to spunk in my hair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles, chats, maybe a snack.

Then kisses and hopefully another round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing, cuddling and talking.

Intimacy for me doesn't start and end with sex. Never has."

Amen to that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat, relax with each other. Never been a shoot and scoot type of chap

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cuddles, chats, maybe a snack.

Then kisses and hopefully another round. "

Is this as a couple or if you were to arrange a meet with a third, or another couple? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally depends on the circumstances and person. I don't have a set format when I meet people.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Just to get out of there as quick as possible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chat, relax with each other. Never been a shoot and scoot type of chap"

Would you keep your hands to yourself or initiate a spoon? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just to get out of there as quick as possible "

Haha fair enough!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally depends on the circumstances and person. I don't have a set format when I meet people. "

Anything that would put you off a future meet anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddles, tickles,chat and that sometimes leads to rounds 2 and 3 haha xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cuddle, chat, drink, kiss then more foreplay.

Or… get out Sam, I told you not to spunk in my hair!"

I have visions of something about Mary, now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally depends on the circumstances and person. I don't have a set format when I meet people.

Anything that would put you off a future meet anyway?"

Yeah. If they suggested going for a run after. Fuck that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A shower"

And then go again and another shower? Or one time is good and go?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally depends on the circumstances and person. I don't have a set format when I meet people.

Anything that would put you off a future meet anyway?

Yeah. If they suggested going for a run after. Fuck that. "

Hahaha completely feel you on that one

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Depends on my partner and their situation. Sometimes it's an overnight stay, so a doze and wake up for more a bit later on, or lie there talking shit and having a laugh.

Sometimes it's just lying there until we both recover then get up and dressed because he has to head off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles and chat… definately xxx"

Same here! It’s the best… like being touchy but also talking about funny things or finding out more about them and vice versa..

Also after a few rounds, it’s well nice to have some take out, maybe a pizza? After sex food is SO good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles, chats, maybe a snack.

Then kisses and hopefully another round.

Is this as a couple or if you were to arrange a meet with a third, or another couple? X"

Both.

Once we met a couple and I became really good friends with the lady. After sex we were cuddling on a sofa and quietly chatting but it totally put off my wife and her hubby. We were told to shut up and fuck or just shut up! It was funny.

We have also had meets with couples where we do the group thing, then swap, swap back, reclaim sex and then had dinner and started again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles, touches, showers, chilaxing, repeat session

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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"Hello everyone

I’m curious to know, with being fairly new to fab, what are your expectations once the physical act of foreplay, or sex is over? Cuddles, chat, tickles and giggles?

None of the above?

I appreciate everyone has a different opinion - I’m just keen to see what the majority prefer! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kissing, cuddling and talking.

Intimacy for me doesn't start and end with sex. Never has."

I have found that a few people suggest that I may be on the wrong site, if this is what I look for. I think it’s all part of the fun. It doesn’t have to mean more, other than ensuring all parties feel amazing, after a meet X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cuddles, chats, maybe a snack.

Then kisses and hopefully another round.

Is this as a couple or if you were to arrange a meet with a third, or another couple? X

Both.

Once we met a couple and I became really good friends with the lady. After sex we were cuddling on a sofa and quietly chatting but it totally put off my wife and her hubby. We were told to shut up and fuck or just shut up! It was funny.

We have also had meets with couples where we do the group thing, then swap, swap back, reclaim sex and then had dinner and started again. "

It’s good to hear you know what you want and you’ve found others who do, too! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would depend where we were. In a bed cuddles are nice. Outside or on a beach best get dressed sharpish or roll back over and sunbathe. Any other room in the house would be nice to get the kettle on and also eat something. So cuddles, food, drink, clothes, chats. Whatever

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cuddles and chat… definately xxx

Same here! It’s the best… like being touchy but also talking about funny things or finding out more about them and vice versa..

Also after a few rounds, it’s well nice to have some take out, maybe a pizza? After sex food is SO good "

Have you ever had a meet with someone who didn’t feel that way or have you always discussed what you prefer, beforehand? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would depend where we were. In a bed cuddles are nice. Outside or on a beach best get dressed sharpish or roll back over and sunbathe. Any other room in the house would be nice to get the kettle on and also eat something. So cuddles, food, drink, clothes, chats. Whatever "

I expect the sand could be a little irritating

You’re all making me hungry haha! What’s your go to snack?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing, cuddling and talking.

Intimacy for me doesn't start and end with sex. Never has.

I have found that a few people suggest that I may be on the wrong site, if this is what I look for. I think it’s all part of the fun. It doesn’t have to mean more, other than ensuring all parties feel amazing, after a meet X"

Some people don't want intimate behaviour. They just want the sex.

For us when we invite another into our bed it's almost like a date. We like to be inclusive and share the intimacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles and chat… definately xxx

Same here! It’s the best… like being touchy but also talking about funny things or finding out more about them and vice versa..

Also after a few rounds, it’s well nice to have some take out, maybe a pizza? After sex food is SO good

Have you ever had a meet with someone who didn’t feel that way or have you always discussed what you prefer, beforehand? X"

Of course! Some prefer to dash afterwards… which kinda sucks, but I get it. as some guys are EXTRA fit i don’t mind it (do it for them memoirs I say LOL) as much..

But my best meets are the ones where we can chill and enjoy our time and fuck a few times. It’s definitely not as porno like….

Ive actually had one the other night and we laughed so much, I didn’t want him to go. We spent the whole evening together and went back after midnight xx I’m still buzzing cos yes the sex was amazing, but the giggles we had in between were priceless

Ps: regarding preference, yeah I always tend to ask or I kinda gather the type . Whether it’s a fuck and go or more a let’s spend time together type thing xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cuddles and chat… definately xxx

Same here! It’s the best… like being touchy but also talking about funny things or finding out more about them and vice versa..

Also after a few rounds, it’s well nice to have some take out, maybe a pizza? After sex food is SO good

Have you ever had a meet with someone who didn’t feel that way or have you always discussed what you prefer, beforehand? X

Of course! Some prefer to dash afterwards… which kinda sucks, but I get it. as some guys are EXTRA fit i don’t mind it (do it for them memoirs I say LOL) as much..

But my best meets are the ones where we can chill and enjoy our time and fuck a few times. It’s definitely not as porno like….

Ive actually had one the other night and we laughed so much, I didn’t want him to go. We spent the whole evening together and went back after midnight xx I’m still buzzing cos yes the sex was amazing, but the giggles we had in between were priceless

Ps: regarding preference, yeah I always tend to ask or I kinda gather the type . Whether it’s a fuck and go or more a let’s spend time together type thing xx "

As long as you feel positive afterwards, and you enjoyed yourself, that’s all that matters

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By *0ladfunMan
over a year ago

Brisbane


"Wipe my dick on the curtains on the way out"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would depend where we were. In a bed cuddles are nice. Outside or on a beach best get dressed sharpish or roll back over and sunbathe. Any other room in the house would be nice to get the kettle on and also eat something. So cuddles, food, drink, clothes, chats. Whatever

I expect the sand could be a little irritating

You’re all making me hungry haha! What’s your go to snack?!"

I like if someone cooks proper food but I always have jelly babies and biscuits with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kissing, cuddling and talking.

Intimacy for me doesn't start and end with sex. Never has.

I have found that a few people suggest that I may be on the wrong site, if this is what I look for. I think it’s all part of the fun. It doesn’t have to mean more, other than ensuring all parties feel amazing, after a meet X

Some people don't want intimate behaviour. They just want the sex.

For us when we invite another into our bed it's almost like a date. We like to be inclusive and share the intimacy. "

Thank you for sharing. It’s interesting for me to hear from couples, as I haven’t been with a couple before. Just friends, when trying threesomes. I think it could be quite daunting to meet for a first time, as a single girl. I’d have to ask these questions first, definitely! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a cum n run makes the whole experience cold. For me there needs to be a sharing of the still flowing energies be it cuddles, spooning, whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddle, kissing and chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles and chat… definately xxx

Same here! It’s the best… like being touchy but also talking about funny things or finding out more about them and vice versa..

Also after a few rounds, it’s well nice to have some take out, maybe a pizza? After sex food is SO good

Have you ever had a meet with someone who didn’t feel that way or have you always discussed what you prefer, beforehand? X

Of course! Some prefer to dash afterwards… which kinda sucks, but I get it. as some guys are EXTRA fit i don’t mind it (do it for them memoirs I say LOL) as much..

But my best meets are the ones where we can chill and enjoy our time and fuck a few times. It’s definitely not as porno like….

Ive actually had one the other night and we laughed so much, I didn’t want him to go. We spent the whole evening together and went back after midnight xx I’m still buzzing cos yes the sex was amazing, but the giggles we had in between were priceless

Ps: regarding preference, yeah I always tend to ask or I kinda gather the type . Whether it’s a fuck and go or more a let’s spend time together type thing xx

As long as you feel positive afterwards, and you enjoyed yourself, that’s all that matters "

For sure! I’m in the recovery position still tho…. lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would depend where we were. In a bed cuddles are nice. Outside or on a beach best get dressed sharpish or roll back over and sunbathe. Any other room in the house would be nice to get the kettle on and also eat something. So cuddles, food, drink, clothes, chats. Whatever

I expect the sand could be a little irritating

You’re all making me hungry haha! What’s your go to snack?!

I like if someone cooks proper food but I always have jelly babies and biscuits with me "

Amazing sex & jelly babies?! What’s not to love?! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a cum n run makes the whole experience cold. For me there needs to be a sharing of the still flowing energies be it cuddles, spooning, whatever. "

Spoken like a true empath! That’s why we get on!

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Tickles cuddles if wanted and massage. Which invariably leads to round 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wipe my dick on the curtains on the way out"

I’m deceased… L M A O

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Cuddles, chats, maybe a snack.

Then kisses and hopefully another round.

Is this as a couple or if you were to arrange a meet with a third, or another couple? X

Both.

Once we met a couple and I became really good friends with the lady. After sex we were cuddling on a sofa and quietly chatting but it totally put off my wife and her hubby. We were told to shut up and fuck or just shut up! It was funny.

We have also had meets with couples where we do the group thing, then swap, swap back, reclaim sex and then had dinner and started again. "

How come you were so dismissive of their feelings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shower,drink,snacks

Then another cheeky grope and kiss

And go again........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tickles cuddles if wanted and massage. Which invariably leads to round 2 "

Massage seems to be the icing on the cake! I haven’t met many who are into it!

Massage and cake. Yes please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles, chats, maybe a snack.

Then kisses and hopefully another round.

Is this as a couple or if you were to arrange a meet with a third, or another couple? X

Both.

Once we met a couple and I became really good friends with the lady. After sex we were cuddling on a sofa and quietly chatting but it totally put off my wife and her hubby. We were told to shut up and fuck or just shut up! It was funny.

We have also had meets with couples where we do the group thing, then swap, swap back, reclaim sex and then had dinner and started again. "

Do you think it triggered a bit of jealousy from

them because you two were getting more intimate with each other?

I guess just fucking can be quite seen as animalistic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shower,drink,snacks

Then another cheeky grope and kiss

And go again........ "

Sounds hot to me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing, cuddling and talking.

Intimacy for me doesn't start and end with sex. Never has.

I have found that a few people suggest that I may be on the wrong site, if this is what I look for. I think it’s all part of the fun. It doesn’t have to mean more, other than ensuring all parties feel amazing, after a meet X

Some people don't want intimate behaviour. They just want the sex.

For us when we invite another into our bed it's almost like a date. We like to be inclusive and share the intimacy.

Thank you for sharing. It’s interesting for me to hear from couples, as I haven’t been with a couple before. Just friends, when trying threesomes. I think it could be quite daunting to meet for a first time, as a single girl. I’d have to ask these questions first, definitely! X"
I can understand that. If you find a couple who you are interested in, if I were in your shoes, I would get to know the lady involved more than the gentleman. If you click with her, then I am pretty sure you would have no problem with feeling intimated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go out for breakfast or lunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go out for breakfast or lunch "

The true best ones are the go out for breakfast

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It really depends on the person and how you both feel after. Let’s be honest , sometimes you just want to leave immediately and sometimes you want to cuddle and chat and stay forever and sometimes you just want to keep going all night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go out for breakfast or lunch "

Sounds good, is this with a partner or fb/fwbs? Do you consider yourself to be a swinger? As a single woman, I wonder if I am actually a Swinger, that’s all I can imagine some guys would see that as dating xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It really depends on the person and how you both feel after. Let’s be honest , sometimes you just want to leave immediately and sometimes you want to cuddle and chat and stay forever and sometimes you just want to keep going all night "

Good to know you like variety. I prefer the last two options x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Cuddles, some laughs, some snogs, a cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles, chats, maybe a snack.

Then kisses and hopefully another round.

Is this as a couple or if you were to arrange a meet with a third, or another couple? X

Both.

Once we met a couple and I became really good friends with the lady. After sex we were cuddling on a sofa and quietly chatting but it totally put off my wife and her hubby. We were told to shut up and fuck or just shut up! It was funny.

We have also had meets with couples where we do the group thing, then swap, swap back, reclaim sex and then had dinner and started again.

Do you think it triggered a bit of jealousy from

them because you two were getting more intimate with each other?

I guess just fucking can be quite seen as animalistic "

There was no jealousy at that moment but it was definitely there after. We could play as couples or pursue our friendship but not both. I chose friendship with his wife and he and my wife fucked a few times after.

I made the better choice. His wife is one of my best friends now. And to a degree both partners are a little jealous of that friendship

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Kisses, cuddles, just lying naked next to each other, having my hair stroked, body caressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a cum n run makes the whole experience cold. For me there needs to be a sharing of the still flowing energies be it cuddles, spooning, whatever.

Spoken like a true empath! That’s why we get on!"

Indeed x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

After being on here for 9 years, on and off, I expect the man to either leave almost immediately, or be given a cup of tea etc.

Rarely does anyone want to cuddle after sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kisses, cuddles, just lying naked next to each other, having my hair stroked, body caressed."

Love it! Is this with a long term partner or a preference with a few fwbs? Just curious x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After being on here for 9 years, on and off, I expect the man to either leave almost immediately, or be given a cup of tea etc.

Rarely does anyone want to cuddle after sex.

"

That’s interesting to hear. Do you like that, too? Or would you prefer the cuddles? I am finding it’s all or nothing, so far. X

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Depends on the person I'm meeting, some it's they get dressed and leave, some we chat and cuddle(if they're ok with it) and then they go, some we chat and cuddle(again if they're ok with it)and get worked up for round two

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I usually grip the lady for a few minutes. The relax and cuddle up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cuddles, some laughs, some snogs, a cup of tea."

Laughter makes a meet, I think

I prefer gin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the person I'm meeting, some it's they get dressed and leave, some we chat and cuddle(if they're ok with it) and then they go, some we chat and cuddle(again if they're ok with it)and get worked up for round two "

Do you find you do what they’re more comfortable with, over what you would prefer? Or you like variety too? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles and chat… definately xxx

Same here! It’s the best… like being touchy but also talking about funny things or finding out more about them and vice versa..

Also after a few rounds, it’s well nice to have some take out, maybe a pizza? After sex food is SO good "

Exactly this! I’m totally down with anyone that wants to have a pizza

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually grip the lady for a few minutes. The relax and cuddle up."

With every lady you meet or a regular fwb? X

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

When it’s just us we tend to just go about our day, or go to sleep if it’s at night.

When we’re playing with others we tend to lounge around naked and have a bit of a natter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cuddles and chat… definately xxx

Same here! It’s the best… like being touchy but also talking about funny things or finding out more about them and vice versa..

Also after a few rounds, it’s well nice to have some take out, maybe a pizza? After sex food is SO good

Exactly this! I’m totally down with anyone that wants to have a pizza "

If you’re ever up in Leeds, let’s do pizza! X

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Depends on the person I'm meeting, some it's they get dressed and leave, some we chat and cuddle(if they're ok with it) and then they go, some we chat and cuddle(again if they're ok with it)and get worked up for round two

Do you find you do what they’re more comfortable with, over what you would prefer? Or you like variety too? X"

Bit of both, not gonna lie I like cuddles after, but I kinda get a feel for what kind of meet they prefer and just roll with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles, chats, maybe a snack.

Then kisses and hopefully another round.

Is this as a couple or if you were to arrange a meet with a third, or another couple? X

Both.

Once we met a couple and I became really good friends with the lady. After sex we were cuddling on a sofa and quietly chatting but it totally put off my wife and her hubby. We were told to shut up and fuck or just shut up! It was funny.

We have also had meets with couples where we do the group thing, then swap, swap back, reclaim sex and then had dinner and started again.

Do you think it triggered a bit of jealousy from

them because you two were getting more intimate with each other?

I guess just fucking can be quite seen as animalistic

There was no jealousy at that moment but it was definitely there after. We could play as couples or pursue our friendship but not both. I chose friendship with his wife and he and my wife fucked a few times after.

I made the better choice. His wife is one of my best friends now. And to a degree both partners are a little jealous of that friendship "

Is it wise to continue that friendship given how it initially started and how both your partners feel about it?

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By *heltonianMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Bask in the afterglow with cuddles and kisses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When it’s just us we tend to just go about our day, or go to sleep if it’s at night.

When we’re playing with others we tend to lounge around naked and have a bit of a natter. "

I often find I’m wide awake after

It’s good to talk and have a giggle. I enjoy hearing about others experiences on here x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the person I'm meeting, some it's they get dressed and leave, some we chat and cuddle(if they're ok with it) and then they go, some we chat and cuddle(again if they're ok with it)and get worked up for round two

Do you find you do what they’re more comfortable with, over what you would prefer? Or you like variety too? X

Bit of both, not gonna lie I like cuddles after, but I kinda get a feel for what kind of meet they prefer and just roll with it "

I’m the same. But I’m learning it’s ok to want more cuddles, especially from reading this thread. I’m not in the wrong place after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wipe my dick on the curtains on the way out"

How’s that working out for you?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"After being on here for 9 years, on and off, I expect the man to either leave almost immediately, or be given a cup of tea etc.

Rarely does anyone want to cuddle after sex.

That’s interesting to hear. Do you like that, too? Or would you prefer the cuddles? I am finding it’s all or nothing, so far. X"

I don't really care. I'm not much of a cuddler myself and prefer it from people who think of me more than just a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After being on here for 9 years, on and off, I expect the man to either leave almost immediately, or be given a cup of tea etc.

Rarely does anyone want to cuddle after sex.

That’s interesting to hear. Do you like that, too? Or would you prefer the cuddles? I am finding it’s all or nothing, so far. X

I don't really care. I'm not much of a cuddler myself and prefer it from people who think of me more than just a fuck.

"

Yeh I can understand that, too X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on my partner and their situation. Sometimes it's an overnight stay, so a doze and wake up for more a bit later on, or lie there talking shit and having a laugh.

Sometimes it's just lying there until we both recover then get up and dressed because he has to head off."

All of the above sounds good, just not the staying over. Nobody needs to hear me snoring! I prefer repeat visits hahaha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles and a chat, maybe a drink, hopefully after a bit it will lead to Round 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing, cuddling and chatting… intimacy is a big part of me meeting and playing. I love getting to know people, and being friends with who I’m with makes it feel more fun.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Aftercare, lots of after care - especially when we have played hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A shower

And then go again and another shower? Or one time is good and go?"

You offering? Want to find out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kissing, cuddling and chatting… intimacy is a big part of me meeting and playing. I love getting to know people, and being friends with who I’m with makes it feel more fun.

"

I agree. I sometimes wonder if I ask too many questions and chat too much - but then if someone I’m meeting isn’t into that, then it’s not really that much fun for me anyway! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cuddles and a chat, maybe a drink, hopefully after a bit it will lead to Round 2 "

And 3

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A shower

And then go again and another shower? Or one time is good and go?

You offering? Want to find out?"

Ha! I’m learning that I don’t want to be disappointed and I like to know exactly where I stand, before I meet now! Once is never enough for me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aftercare, lots of after care - especially when we have played hard."

It’s surprising to me, how many have never heard of after care! And equally, how many don’t think it’s necessary, even without BDSM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rest my case

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

If it’s an over night meet then maybe a shower and food, then chatting and hopefully laughing together before more kissing and sex

If it’s just meeting for a few hours then sex with maybe a cuddle before leaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddling as you both gently fall into half sleep while also feeling the touch of each other's bodies.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It depends on the person I'm with but cuddles and chat is usually what happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends on the person I'm with but cuddles and chat is usually what happens. "

Good to know. I’m probably best meeting people off the forums by the looks of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A taxi

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Kisses, cuddles, just lying naked next to each other, having my hair stroked, body caressed.

Love it! Is this with a long term partner or a preference with a few fwbs? Just curious x"

Most recently fwb, one completely new, another an old flame. But equally as comfortable with both. That's how you know you've found a good one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles and a chat, maybe a drink, hopefully after a bit it will lead to Round 2

And 3 "

And all night long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it’s an over night meet then maybe a shower and food, then chatting and hopefully laughing together before more kissing and sex

If it’s just meeting for a few hours then sex with maybe a cuddle before leaving "

I'll agree with this. But, maybe some shower sex/foreplay too. And snacks! Gotta have snacks too. Bonus if he/she brings snacks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A taxi "

At least you’re honest!

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Ha ha ha we ordered car parts for her car......love is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it’s an over night meet then maybe a shower and food, then chatting and hopefully laughing together before more kissing and sex

If it’s just meeting for a few hours then sex with maybe a cuddle before leaving

I'll agree with this. But, maybe some shower sex/foreplay too. And snacks! Gotta have snacks too. Bonus if he/she brings snacks. "

Never has any meet brought snacks haha - this is a new one to me!! There’s definitely a common theme in the thread! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ha ha ha we ordered car parts for her car......love is."

That’s cute! Added extras

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kisses, cuddles, just lying naked next to each other, having my hair stroked, body caressed.

Love it! Is this with a long term partner or a preference with a few fwbs? Just curious x

Most recently fwb, one completely new, another an old flame. But equally as comfortable with both. That's how you know you've found a good one!"

So, I think fab should add these options to the likes section. Cuddles, snacks, hair play, and pegging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A taxi

At least you’re honest! "

You where thinking the same thing weren’t you ?

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Kissing, cuddling and chatting… intimacy is a big part of me meeting and playing. I love getting to know people, and being friends with who I’m with makes it feel more fun.

"

This for me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roll over and have a snooze.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A taxi

At least you’re honest!

You where thinking the same thing weren’t you ? "

I’d only get a taxi there and then if it was really that bad! Have you not had any really good meets?!

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Cuddles, snogs, snacks, massage, chats, and let's go again.

I'm pretty insatiable and can do hours of rolling from one pleasure to the next.. And a bit of kink play too. I usually have to go with the pace of the other.. I rarely meet my match.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kissing, cuddling and chatting… intimacy is a big part of me meeting and playing. I love getting to know people, and being friends with who I’m with makes it feel more fun.

This for me too!"

I think it definitely makes communicating what you want to try, a lot easier, too. To have open chats and to feel at ease with one another. A bit of a debrief is good haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chill .. cuddle .. sleep .. wake up .. repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A taxi

At least you’re honest!

You where thinking the same thing weren’t you ?

I’d only get a taxi there and then if it was really that bad! Have you not had any really good meets?! "

Not on here no !

Have you not read all the threads that pop up every day with men complaining that they can’t pull on here !

That’s true

Na I’m kidding I’ve talked to a good few but most of the good chats I’ve had are women from the UK !

Even are threads are boring so I just pop on here instead !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cuddles, snogs, snacks, massage, chats, and let's go again.

I'm pretty insatiable and can do hours of rolling from one pleasure to the next.. And a bit of kink play too. I usually have to go with the pace of the other.. I rarely meet my match.

"

I think this is why I started this thread, in a nutshell. Met some great people from fab - just not quite compatible or not regular enough! ha! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After sex. Order food and chill before another round lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A taxi

At least you’re honest!

You where thinking the same thing weren’t you ?

I’d only get a taxi there and then if it was really that bad! Have you not had any really good meets?!

Not on here no !

Have you not read all the threads that pop up every day with men complaining that they can’t pull on here !

That’s true

Na I’m kidding I’ve talked to a good few but most of the good chats I’ve had are women from the UK !

Even are threads are boring so I just pop on here instead ! "

You’ll have to book yourself a holiday then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Roll over and have a snooze."

At yours or theirs? Do you snore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A taxi

At least you’re honest!

You where thinking the same thing weren’t you ?

I’d only get a taxi there and then if it was really that bad! Have you not had any really good meets?!

Not on here no !

Have you not read all the threads that pop up every day with men complaining that they can’t pull on here !

That’s true

Na I’m kidding I’ve talked to a good few but most of the good chats I’ve had are women from the UK !

Even are threads are boring so I just pop on here instead !

You’ll have to book yourself a holiday then!"

Yeah so I’ve been told I’m taking that as a invitation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After sex. Order food and chill before another round lol x"

Sweet or savoury?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A taxi

At least you’re honest!

You where thinking the same thing weren’t you ?

I’d only get a taxi there and then if it was really that bad! Have you not had any really good meets?!

Not on here no !

Have you not read all the threads that pop up every day with men complaining that they can’t pull on here !

That’s true

Na I’m kidding I’ve talked to a good few but most of the good chats I’ve had are women from the UK !

Even are threads are boring so I just pop on here instead !

You’ll have to book yourself a holiday then!

Yeah so I’ve been told I’m taking that as a invitation "

I feel like I want to hold some kind of party one day, I’m no where near ready, yet! I’d find that more comfortable than the clubs I think! Who knows! We shall see x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Kisses, cuddles, just lying naked next to each other, having my hair stroked, body caressed.

Love it! Is this with a long term partner or a preference with a few fwbs? Just curious x

Most recently fwb, one completely new, another an old flame. But equally as comfortable with both. That's how you know you've found a good one!

So, I think fab should add these options to the likes section. Cuddles, snacks, hair play, and pegging "

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll over and have a snooze.

At yours or theirs? Do you snore? "

Anywhere, and yes.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Roll over and have a snooze."

Can I tickle your back whilst you snooze?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"A taxi

At least you’re honest!

You where thinking the same thing weren’t you ?

I’d only get a taxi there and then if it was really that bad! Have you not had any really good meets?!

Not on here no !

Have you not read all the threads that pop up every day with men complaining that they can’t pull on here !

That’s true

Na I’m kidding I’ve talked to a good few but most of the good chats I’ve had are women from the UK !

Even are threads are boring so I just pop on here instead ! "

You know what to do... And bring a few friends. I'm always getting messages from cute Irish guys... In Ireland... Sob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go out for breakfast or lunch

Sounds good, is this with a partner or fb/fwbs? Do you consider yourself to be a swinger? As a single woman, I wonder if I am actually a Swinger, that’s all I can imagine some guys would see that as dating xx"

You can swing and still go for food, it's only food. Swinging doesn't always have to be super secretive. If both parties are comfortable with it then why not. I'm happily married and my husband is happy that I'm having fun.

Fuck and goes are ok to, just sometimes it's nice to to have different swinging experiences to and friendly none datey one's with food happen to be my favourite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Roll over and have a snooze.

At yours or theirs? Do you snore?

Anywhere, and yes. "

Well as long as you feel comfortable I guess?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go out for breakfast or lunch

Sounds good, is this with a partner or fb/fwbs? Do you consider yourself to be a swinger? As a single woman, I wonder if I am actually a Swinger, that’s all I can imagine some guys would see that as dating xx

You can swing and still go for food, it's only food. Swinging doesn't always have to be super secretive. If both parties are comfortable with it then why not. I'm happily married and my husband is happy that I'm having fun.

Fuck and goes are ok to, just sometimes it's nice to to have different swinging experiences to and friendly none datey one's with food happen to be my favourite "

Best of both worlds! Sounds ideal! X

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By *omersetguy128Man
over a year ago

somerset

A cuddle for 5 mins and then clean up and shower here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A taxi

At least you’re honest!

You where thinking the same thing weren’t you ?

I’d only get a taxi there and then if it was really that bad! Have you not had any really good meets?!

Not on here no !

Have you not read all the threads that pop up every day with men complaining that they can’t pull on here !

That’s true

Na I’m kidding I’ve talked to a good few but most of the good chats I’ve had are women from the UK !

Even are threads are boring so I just pop on here instead !

You know what to do... And bring a few friends. I'm always getting messages from cute Irish guys... In Ireland... Sob"

Haha I’m pretty sure they wouldn’t need much convincing after I show them ur pics we’ll bang out a plan

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton


"Kissing, cuddling and talking.

Intimacy for me doesn't start and end with sex. Never has.

Amen to that!!"

Hell yeah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kissing, cuddling and talking.

Intimacy for me doesn't start and end with sex. Never has.

Amen to that!!

Hell yeah "

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

A big HIGH FIVE with the next person in line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After sex. Order food and chill before another round lol x

Sweet or savoury?"

100% whatever she fancies. Hopefully a good ol pizza.

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over a year ago


"A big HIGH FIVE with the next person in line"

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I think it depends on the person - the guy we’ve played with was a blindfold meet and C didn’t meet him until about 30 mins towards the end - the guy just went afterwards and it was perfect for the scenario.

The girls we have played with, we stayed on the bed and chatted, drank, ate, until someone was feel horny and started things again. In between it was all touchy feely, between the girls…it’s whatever feels right at the time and no steadfast rule.

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it depends on the person - the guy we’ve played with was a blindfold meet and C didn’t meet him until about 30 mins towards the end - the guy just went afterwards and it was perfect for the scenario.

The girls we have played with, we stayed on the bed and chatted, drank, ate, until someone was feel horny and started things again. In between it was all touchy feely, between the girls…it’s whatever feels right at the time and no steadfast rule.

K"

You sound like an accommodating couple! It’s good to know you can adapt to who you’re meeting, to make them feel comfortable x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Cuddles, more sex, food, more sex, snooze, more sex, cuddles, more sex

Think I’ve only done overnights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good Sandwich after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go home to Carl!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go home to Carl! "

Bless

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a good Sandwich after "

Between a couple? Or the cheese & pickle kind? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exit stage left!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cuddles, more sex, food, more sex, snooze, more sex, cuddles, more sex

Think I’ve only done overnights. "

I think we’d get on well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Exit stage left! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles, chats, maybe a snack.

Then kisses and hopefully another round.

Is this as a couple or if you were to arrange a meet with a third, or another couple? X

Both.

Once we met a couple and I became really good friends with the lady. After sex we were cuddling on a sofa and quietly chatting but it totally put off my wife and her hubby. We were told to shut up and fuck or just shut up! It was funny.

We have also had meets with couples where we do the group thing, then swap, swap back, reclaim sex and then had dinner and started again.

Do you think it triggered a bit of jealousy from

them because you two were getting more intimate with each other?

I guess just fucking can be quite seen as animalistic

There was no jealousy at that moment but it was definitely there after. We could play as couples or pursue our friendship but not both. I chose friendship with his wife and he and my wife fucked a few times after.

I made the better choice. His wife is one of my best friends now. And to a degree both partners are a little jealous of that friendship

Is it wise to continue that friendship given how it initially started and how both your partners feel about it?"

My friendship is pure. Its non sexual and any jealousy my wife has I will try to help her with but that's something she needs to work on.

If I break her trust and cheat then I deserve all that comes to me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Cuddles, more sex, food, more sex, snooze, more sex, cuddles, more sex

Think I’ve only done overnights.

I think we’d get on well "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of cuddles and spooning and kissing and just general chillin out before going again some time later

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

Cuddles and chats, hopefully going again.

I prefer all night meets, have a nap and play again in the morning. Even better if it’s a weekend meet and we grab food too and enjoy each other’s company for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone

I’m curious to know, with being fairly new to fab, what are your expectations once the physical act of foreplay, or sex is over? Cuddles, chat, tickles and giggles?

None of the above?

I appreciate everyone has a different opinion - I’m just keen to see what the majority prefer! X

"

Back strokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles and chats, hopefully going again.

I prefer all night meets, have a nap and play again in the morning. Even better if it’s a weekend meet and we grab food too and enjoy each other’s company for a while "

100% and play through the night on and off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots of cuddles and spooning and kissing and just general chillin out before going again some time later "

Tick. Tick. Tick. Tick. Boom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello everyone

I’m curious to know, with being fairly new to fab, what are your expectations once the physical act of foreplay, or sex is over? Cuddles, chat, tickles and giggles?

None of the above?

I appreciate everyone has a different opinion - I’m just keen to see what the majority prefer! X

Back strokes "

Yes! This definitely needs adding to the ‘likes’ options!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will let you know if I ever get one

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Cuddles and chats, hopefully going again.

I prefer all night meets, have a nap and play again in the morning. Even better if it’s a weekend meet and we grab food too and enjoy each other’s company for a while "

Love that. It’s the only way I’ve ever done it. Not interested in an hour then see ya. Does nothing for me.

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over a year ago


"Cuddles and chats, hopefully going again.

I prefer all night meets, have a nap and play again in the morning. Even better if it’s a weekend meet and we grab food too and enjoy each other’s company for a while "

All the positives of a healthy relationship, without the commitment? Sounds pretty perfect to me X

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over a year ago

I go and wash my cock and go to sleep.Hence the reason I’m on here to make some changes with who I choose to sleep with lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exit stage left!

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Not the response I was expecting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go and wash my cock and go to sleep.Hence the reason I’m on here to make some changes with who I choose to sleep with lol"

Keep it simple yeh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will let you know if I ever get one "

You’re in the right place! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will let you know if I ever get one

You’re in the right place! X"

I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone

I’m curious to know, with being fairly new to fab, what are your expectations once the physical act of foreplay, or sex is over? Cuddles, chat, tickles and giggles?

None of the above?

I appreciate everyone has a different opinion - I’m just keen to see what the majority prefer! X

"

Maybe show you sometime...?? haha

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over a year ago


"I go and wash my cock and go to sleep.Hence the reason I’m on here to make some changes with who I choose to sleep with lol

Keep it simple yeh? "

Well if the attraction isn’t there then it’s only going to go down hill after the climax. Sadly this is the mother of my children. Always wear a rubber guys! You don’t wanna end up in a 15 year relationship with someone you despise…

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM


"Cuddles and chats, hopefully going again.

I prefer all night meets, have a nap and play again in the morning. Even better if it’s a weekend meet and we grab food too and enjoy each other’s company for a while

Love that. It’s the only way I’ve ever done it. Not interested in an hour then see ya. Does nothing for me. "

Something about a quick meet just leaves me feeling seedy to be honest, I don’t get any pleasure from a quick shag and need some time to warm up and figure someone out. The more time taken the better results in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles and chats, hopefully going again.

I prefer all night meets, have a nap and play again in the morning. Even better if it’s a weekend meet and we grab food too and enjoy each other’s company for a while

Love that. It’s the only way I’ve ever done it. Not interested in an hour then see ya. Does nothing for me.

Something about a quick meet just leaves me feeling seedy to be honest, I don’t get any pleasure from a quick shag and need some time to warm up and figure someone out. The more time taken the better results in my opinion "

Deffo, needs to be some sort of connection even if it's small...never been a fan of fuck n go...I find it pointless and degrading tbh

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM


"Cuddles and chats, hopefully going again.

I prefer all night meets, have a nap and play again in the morning. Even better if it’s a weekend meet and we grab food too and enjoy each other’s company for a while

Love that. It’s the only way I’ve ever done it. Not interested in an hour then see ya. Does nothing for me.

Something about a quick meet just leaves me feeling seedy to be honest, I don’t get any pleasure from a quick shag and need some time to warm up and figure someone out. The more time taken the better results in my opinion

Deffo, needs to be some sort of connection even if it's small...never been a fan of fuck n go...I find it pointless and degrading tbh "

I’ve never even taken someone home from a nightclub unless I’ve seen them there multiple times and we’ve chatted several times. It’s nice to be relaxed in someone’s company

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go and wash my cock and go to sleep.Hence the reason I’m on here to make some changes with who I choose to sleep with lol

Keep it simple yeh?

Well if the attraction isn’t there then it’s only going to go down hill after the climax. Sadly this is the mother of my children. Always wear a rubber guys! You don’t wanna end up in a 15 year relationship with someone you despise…"

Crikey. I wasn’t expecting that! If there was ever an advert for contraception - this could be it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go and wash my cock and go to sleep.Hence the reason I’m on here to make some changes with who I choose to sleep with lol

Keep it simple yeh?

Well if the attraction isn’t there then it’s only going to go down hill after the climax. Sadly this is the mother of my children. Always wear a rubber guys! You don’t wanna end up in a 15 year relationship with someone you despise…

Crikey. I wasn’t expecting that! If there was ever an advert for contraception - this could be it! "

Don’t get me wrong, the kids are the best thing that’s ever happened to me. It’s just a shame they came with a Mum haha. I sound like a prick but if I were to tell the story it would be very clear! I’m not out for sympathy though, I’m out for a good time for a long time haha

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Cuddles and chats, hopefully going again.

I prefer all night meets, have a nap and play again in the morning. Even better if it’s a weekend meet and we grab food too and enjoy each other’s company for a while

Love that. It’s the only way I’ve ever done it. Not interested in an hour then see ya. Does nothing for me.

Something about a quick meet just leaves me feeling seedy to be honest, I don’t get any pleasure from a quick shag and need some time to warm up and figure someone out. The more time taken the better results in my opinion "

Same. Works for a lot of people though which is great. Just not for me x

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I like a good shower, and if the lady wants to join that's a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wipe my dick on the curtains on the way out"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a good shower, and if the lady wants to join that's a bonus"

Do you have a walk in one? X

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"I like a good shower, and if the lady wants to join that's a bonus

Do you have a walk in one? X"
yes but if I'm honest it's not the greatest

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By *ourneforfunMan
over a year ago

poole


"Hello everyone

I’m curious to know, with being fairly new to fab, what are your expectations once the physical act of foreplay, or sex is over? Cuddles, chat, tickles and giggles?

None of the above?

I appreciate everyone has a different opinion - I’m just keen to see what the majority prefer! X

"

Ive had different types of meets.

Some quick ones where you clean up and kiss goodbye, but I much prefer long meets, where you chat for ages, kiss and caress each other before good hard pounding, then cuddling, stroking and chatting again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go and wash my cock and go to sleep.Hence the reason I’m on here to make some changes with who I choose to sleep with lol

Keep it simple yeh?

Well if the attraction isn’t there then it’s only going to go down hill after the climax. Sadly this is the mother of my children. Always wear a rubber guys! You don’t wanna end up in a 15 year relationship with someone you despise…

Crikey. I wasn’t expecting that! If there was ever an advert for contraception - this could be it!

Don’t get me wrong, the kids are the best thing that’s ever happened to me. It’s just a shame they came with a Mum haha. I sound like a prick but if I were to tell the story it would be very clear! I’m not out for sympathy though, I’m out for a good time for a long time haha"

Yeh - let’s try to keep this a positive space - what would your ideal after sex look like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After sex, the lady thanks me profusely and begs me to marry her. Happens every time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a good shower, and if the lady wants to join that's a bonus

Do you have a walk in one? X yes but if I'm honest it's not the greatest "

It’s never quite like the movies, is it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles, kisses, laughter, love, marriage, divorce, reconciliation, make up sex and let's go round again...

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