FabSwingers.com forum: Friends request

By *ibi_curious OP Couple
over a year ago

Shepperton

How many of you get a friend request from people who you haven't chatted with? I guess they are hoping to see your friends only pics!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It's very common.

I just ignore them, as it stops them sending another, at least for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh I get a few….. I just leave them there xxxx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford

Yes. It has been known.

I presume it's so they can see my naked sausage.

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

that’s kinda weird …. maybe I’m old school but after a few messages backwards and forwards, I always ask permission before sending a friend request

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

I have no friends only pictures and still get them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get friend requests at all. Is that strange?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few, I don’t delete so they can’t keep sending after deleting

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By *eave Her WildWoman
over a year ago

Surrey

Many and I don't have any "friends only" pics

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By *ont you just loveCouple
over a year ago

Banbury

We keep getting random friend requests even though I keep putting it on our status and in our profile that we like to message or chat first, we ignore then they can't ask again .

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yeah we get em too, just leave em there to block any more

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Ledbury

Its happened in the past, slightly weird innit?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Multiple times a day. They all get deleted. I'm only friends with possible friends irl

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have 4 currently including one this morning that I haven't responded to.

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

"that’s kinda weird …. maybe I’m old school but after a few messages backwards and forwards, I always ask permission before sending a friend request "

I do that to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of you get a friend request from people who you haven't chatted with? I guess they are hoping to see your friends only pics! "

We get lots, I wait until there offline, look at the pics and unfriend

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite a few. I usually just wait until they are offline and have a nose myself, then remove them

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

My friends only profiles with people i have met and few more iti know they are 100% genuine some with who i have plans arranged with them ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few, I don’t delete so they can’t keep sending after deleting

This. Best way

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I honestly don’t want friend requests from people I’m never likely to meet. What’s the point. They are fishing for more of your pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many of them. Usually just block so they can’t do it again. There be some weirdo’s out there in the dark.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I used to get loads but seems like I've either blocked most of the site

or pay attention

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Ledbury

I accept when they are offline, perv all their friends pics and then unfriend them again.....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

Fairly standard here. If you chat and ask them what's going on, they almost never have a good chat with me.

I sometimes wink them and hear nothing.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I get a few but rarely accept as mostly from men

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Not as much as I do when I have a more risqué main photo, or photo of my feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I accept when they are offline, perv all their friends pics and then unfriend them again....."

Who doesn't do this??

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We don't get as many on this profile, but still delete them if there's been no previous contact.

On my single one I get a few a day and just delete or look at their private pics and delete.

Miss

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I accept when they are offline, perv all their friends pics and then unfriend them again.....

Who doesn't do this??"

I don't. If they can't read and I'm not interested, I've no interest in pics either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably think it's like Facebook and they need to be on the Friends list to be able to message. Due to never receiving a reply to their messages....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get them all the time, sometimes if I’m curious I’ll wait until they’re offline, accept, have a look at their pictures and then remove them. I generally delete in bulk though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we get a fair few daily, but when we delete them, if they persist we just use the block button.

Not so bad if it accompanies a message, but just out of the blue with not so much as a hello is a little strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I accept when they are offline, perv all their friends pics and then unfriend them again....."

Same

I tell people hotlist works the same as friends list. That usually causes people to mention not being able to see hidden pictures. Then i know its just about perving. Sorry i cant help you with that.

I will add people if theres been a previous meet or good rapport during messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually couples for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 and I usually post in those “add a friend” threads

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

brum

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume they want to see your friends pics.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"How many of you get a friend request from people who you haven't chatted with? I guess they are hoping to see your friends only pics! "

All the time.

We sincerely hope some of them read this.

They are simply ignorant pricks.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Numerous on a daily basis, we would never dream of sending a friends request without chatting to somebody for a while first, obviously they are just looking for some frisky pics but we don’t have any on there, think our profile says so, it’s only a place for our face pics

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

brum

I prefer to

Chat to people first exchange numerous messages before asking if it’s ok to send a request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 3 per day.

When they go offline, if they look interesting I accept and have a quick look at their pictures then delete again.

Otherwise I just ignore.

It’s very easy to ignore.

I don’t see why people get all bent outta shape about it.

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

I get a fair few each day, half I've never spoken to,

I'll have a nosy if they look interesting when they're offline and delete if they turn out not to be

Otherwise they generally sit there and not looked at unless they've messaged me and asked if its ok to request

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

I'm surprised that there aren't threads full of disgruntled entitlement complaining about friends requests being ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very very often..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm surprised that there aren't threads full of disgruntled entitlement complaining about friends requests being ignored

Don't tempt 'em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm surprised that there aren't threads full of disgruntled entitlement complaining about friends requests being ignored

Or just complaining about everything and anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads I just leave them sitting can’t send one if it’s pending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's even happened to me

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